> be me > be swedish, brainwashed leftist since my early 20's > have sjw live-in girlfriend who had my abortion > things between us fell apart after that, dumped because she needed to "find herself" > depression.jpg > meet new girl, qt3.14 > she is into psychedelics, meditation, science fiction and Carl Jung > Many interests in common - our first date was an LSD trip, we fall in love almost instantly > she was red pilled before we even met, but she didn't reveal her power level > we became a couple almost immediately > current gf slowly waned me off all sjw bullshit > kept encouraging me when I stood up for myself and told me to "stop treating victimhood as a moral good" > when I complained about the world she just told me "Instead of complaining, learn to succeed and grow a spine" > "the world may suck but you don't have to" > "it is not the world, user, it is you. Rise to the occasion and all will work out" > "you can't have competing collectives on the same land. There is no melting pot, only a petri dish" > "can we move out of the suburbs, I can't stand being surrounded by aliens, user. They litter and scream and even their body language looks violent" > "being surrounded by foreigners make me depressed and mentally ill, user, I don't want to live in little Mogadishu..." > she slowly straightens me out, encourages me to stand up and act as a man > my career takes turns for the better, because I grow into a better person > we get a dog (to practice parenting) and a better apartment in a white, gentrified neighbourhood > "oh it is so nice here, user - almost everyone's white here and it is close to nature - I feel at home here now" > Seven years of wonderful relationship so far - will soon get married and start a family
She single handedly detoxed me from SJW bullshit, helped me grow into a man, and helped bootstrap me into a good career. She saw potential in me. Never underestimate a good woman. If you find one, she is worth gold. Pic related, practically her
She's smart enough to stay away from enrichment, user. She also says she "does not understand race mixing", because "what exactly do you have in common if you don't even have an ancestral culture in common" She's like a proper nazi without all the edge. It seems to just come... naturally for her to unapologetically take her own side.
Eli Johnson
Yeah, I feel like I won the lottery or something. She's great.
>> Seven years of wonderful relationship so far - will soon get married and start a family Stop fornicating
Jackson Russell
A relative of a friend. She's not exactly the type that usually makes herself available at the usual 'watering holes' or whatever. I met her through professional circumstances.
Charles Bailey
We will tie the knot before we start our family. In my eyes, that's what's important. American prudishness does not really apply in nordic countries. It's a cultural thing, you wouldn't understand.
Kayden Mitchell
>American prudishness does not really apply in nordic countrie And you wonder why your countries are in such a shitty state
I am really not in the mood for having a shitty contest about who among us have the worst country, user. But I hope you win, if you feel the need to play. You're doing well so far.
Take a lesson from Goebbles-chan, senpai. You need it.
Matthew 7 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye"
We all sin user, you think our country is in a great spot rn? moral bankruptcy everywhere.
I love my gf like OP loves his. Reverse role in my circumstances redpilling my gf, i do agree we shouldn't have sex until we marry, but nobody is perfect.
Matthew Myers
Tell me user, where did you meet her?
If it was through online dating, what should I look for for someone like her?
Eli Hill
You’ve been together for seven years and no marriage or kids?
This is considered red-pilled in Sweden? I hope you’re not still degenerate drug addicts.
>i do agree we shouldn't have sex until we marry Then stop until you marry her
Zachary Kelly
Chaste and basepilled
Gabriel Morgan
Hopefully both y'all stopped tripping acid. That shitll rot ur brain
William Davis
Sadly girls (or men) like these are non existant in latinamerica.
Jayden Price
sage
Wyatt Phillips
It still doesn't undo that you were so beta that a woman aborted your child
Tyler Foster
Because they confuse a pious life with the formality of marriage, user. I see that this is an important institution, and we will marry before we have kids.
Until only a year ago, we practically lived in a no-go zone. We recently could afford to move out of there. Me and my girlfriend agreed that it was important to get into a better area before we start a family. Families are expensive, and we didn't want our family to get stuck in such an area. I agree in principle, but in our case, kids would have been a very bad idea until just recently. If you were surrounded by african gangs you'd think the same.
As I said before, she is the relative of a friend, and I met her in a professional setting. She's not the type to do online dating, or the type to visit clubs or whatever. I was very lucky. She's rare.
Carson White
The only reason people avoid marriage is they want a way out
Carter Morales
This desu
Evan Phillips
Yeah... That sucked and I was kind of pathetic. However, it led to me growing as a person, and finding a much better woman, that I get along with better. Today, I am just happy I was dumped. I don't even want to think about being stuck with my ex and having a kid with her. Everything turned out a lot better than that would have done. I can't really be successfully shamed about that part. I'm glad I ended up where I did, senpai.
Jordan Evans
Comments like this - always by burgers. See: > Because they confuse a pious life with the formality of marriage, user. > I see that this is an important institution, and we will marry before we have kids.
Henry Brooks
What is the purpose of putting off marriage?
Jeremiah Taylor
It's good to hear things are going well for you. Good luck on your journey, fren.
Yes Give me one good reason why people need to wait to get married that is not looking for a way out
Adam White
We have mutually agreed to tie the knot as celebration when we're completely debt-free, in about a year's time.
Thanks frens, I appreciate it, and I wish you luck and success!
Brody Nelson
Make your choices wisely anons. You cant change them. >Have normie-tier generic liberal girlfriend >coddled by mom and dad despite being in her 20's >still shows redpill potential "user, I didn't realize how much I pay in taxes" >date for 4 years >graduate school and start real careers >talk about marriage often >going to buy a dog and a cat (she likes cats. Fuck cats. But she likes cats.) >looking at houses together >ONE weekend she goes out of town for friends birthday celebration in Key West >comes home >we look at a house together we both love >I mention we should make an offer >she breaks down >"user this weekend was the first time in a long time I feel like I really had fun" >"everything is just going so fast and I just want things to be fun again" >"I dont know why things are getting so serious with us but I don't want this" >she literally got a tattoo on her ass that said "Stay Wild" while she was out of town >Kaput
Brody Collins
Why do you need to wait until you are debt free?
Levi Russell
It is clear that you lack basic reading comprehension. Let me spell it out for you. >Until only a year ago, we practically lived in a no-go zone. We recently could afford to move out of there. >Me and my girlfriend agreed that it was important to get into a better area before we start a family. >I agree in principle, but in our case, kids would have been a very bad idea until just recently. If you were surrounded by african gangs you'd think the same. You're welcome.
Eli Garcia
Here you see the psychopathic nature of the swede. Hes glad his girlfriend murdered his child.
Liam Ortiz
Yeah, you have to choose from religious fanatic girls to progressive/marxist/alt-left girls and the later is growing fast
Jacob Watson
We are talking about marriage not kids Why do you need to wait to get married?
Gavin Cook
Because hes a nord, most pozzed people out there.
Benjamin King
saged
Chase Lee
You dont want a jungian psycho woman fren, trust me
Jason Brown
Good luck friend, this is a very encouraging story. I wish you two the best
Luis Morales
Okay druggie.
David Thomas
Maybe because proper wedding costs money and they would like to move out of the hellhole they lived in sooner rather than later? Not everyone wants to get married in some drive-in chapel in Vegas.
Gavin Wood
Fun angle, user. Have not thought about it that way. But yeah, my ancestors routinely fed defective babies to the wolves, and I think there is absolutely nothing wrong about this. There are too many unnecessary humans anyhow. Life is cheap as fuck. I'd absolutely prefer to have high-quality children with my current gf than to be permanently tied down and connected to my ex. That relationship wasn't as good, and the kid wouldn't have been as good either. Quality is what's important, user.
Michael Reed
You don't need a "proper wedding" to be married
William Morris
I had to detox my wife. It's not complete yet but she is now racist and want to burn the city.
>We have mutually agreed to tie the knot as celebration when we're completely debt-free, Ho, vey! How is this even legal?
Jason Gray
How autistic do you have to be to save that image
Connor Gomez
Why do you need to waste money on a "proper wedding" especially if you are poor
Ryan Evans
Like I said, complete indifference towards his offspring. Lower than a dog. You don't decide the value of life degenerate. But please, tell me how you and your girlfriend talk about each others dreams and what they might mean. Quasi-spirituality is cancer.
Liam Sanchez
Maybe I'd prefer to not have a half-assed wedding? I mean, I plan on only having one.
Jordan Sullivan
very on-topic quality post OP i just subscribed can't wait for your next story
Isaiah Smith
Saving money for a wedding is retarded Just spend what you can now
Sebastian Diaz
She wants to find her self and “travel” the world before she’s ready to settle down
Kayden Moore
Anons, is it okay if a female has a piercing? What does it say about her personality?
Ayden Cook
Wow the girl you were fornicating fornicated with someone else What a great revelation
Xavier Rivera
Yeah, and expressing your mutual loving feelings through a wedding is a good way to reinforce your relationship even further and bring all the people you care about properly up to date on the situation. It is a ritual that exists across cultures for a reason and it should not be neglected.
Isaiah Smith
> boo hoo all life has value Cry me a river. I was sad back then, but now I can see how that situation led me to a better place. I'll create a good family with this woman who I love instead, and who is both healthy, clever, beautiful and impressive.
Jason Russell
It’s pretty normal for men to sort their shit out when they are with a woman they care about and who cares about them. Instead of living your life for yourself and doing whatever feels good at the time you now have another person to consider. That can dramatically change the decisions you make in life. Your ex-girlfriend who needed to find herself and who had an abortion was not ready to put you or a child before her own selfish desires. You are ready for that and this is why you changed.
Jaxson Long
>>ONE weekend she goes out of town for friends birthday celebration in Key West.
Stop right there. Whore. Sucked three miles of dicks. Get yourself tested user. And next time your girl even suggests going out of town without you, even if it's to visit her ailing grandmother in Des Moines Iowa, take all her shit and throw it out on the sidewalk right then, throw her ass out and change the locks. You should have known better.
Nicholas Anderson
My experience is that's a red flag. Especially a septum piercing, which is in my experience practically a guarantee of insanity.
My gf have no tattoos or piercings, and she finds them disgusting. She says she has never even had her ears pierced, because she "does not want to despoil her body".
Aiden Diaz
>Stop right there. Whore. Why did you even need to go that far?
Jeremiah Bailey
>What doesnt kill you makes you stronger Why are swedes so women-like >What I did might have been wrong, but it made me into who I am today? Did you get this from Eat, Pray and Love?
Nolan Butler
Details, details, it's 2019 man
Xavier Hughes
>She wants to find her self and “travel” the world
She wants to find Jamal's dick and travel up and down on it.
Logan Hall
impregnate and marry her already - what took you so long?
Landon Adams
Lesson learned.
Gabriel Carter
Bullshit, Pol told me every swedish girl loves niggers, arabs and Turks and fucks them 24/7, even the recent attack a white girl filmed it. You have the biggest unloyal women out of every race
Ayden Rivera
>She wants to remain an immature brat with no responsibility Why the everloving fuck would you date her?
Mason Gonzalez
Would you prefer brooding forever about the past? If so, feel free. You can brood about my past too if you feel like that would make anything better. I actually, honestly don't give a shit. I want a good future and a good family, and I'm on my way to getting one.
As explained above, we practically lived in a no-go zone until recently, when we could afford to get out of there. Just read up a bit above - I've made my reasoning clear.
Le'ts burn the witch and throw both her and lap dog, OP, into the holy file of purification. Deus Vult!
Julian King
Based!
Aaron Torres
Wait much longer, and you'll get nothing but autism babies.
Benjamin Torres
OP, listen to me. There is no shame in cohabitation. If she is as redpilled as you say she is, im sure she believes in commitment over ceremony. If you do want to tie the noose to your neck though, atleast draft a prenup with a lawyer
Liam Rogers
I said I don't want to brood on it. I just told my story, user. A lot of people in this thread put focus on those parts of my story - but for me it's just backstory, and I included it for the narrative. I really don't care anymore, and I think I am honestly a lot happier the way it turned out.
Wyatt Nguyen
Of course, senpai. I will still, in marriage, be the sole owner of my company, and I'll keep some reserves there if something, against all odds, goes wrong. I am not stupid, but I want to tie a formal knot sooner or later, and I'm gonna make sure my life can't be fucked up by a bad breakup.
Jason King
Don't listen to hatters and good luck making a corner of this hell a livable place for your close ones.
Julian Lewis
Im not a hatter im an engineer frenchie.
John Perry
No OP, you dont understand. >Breakup, both of you are sad, drink a bit, go to therapy if necessary, life goes back to normal >Divorce, only you are sad, drinking alone in some shitty motel without a coin in your wallet while the next door neighbor is getting railed by BBC against the thin wall You're a swede. You know the system.is engineered to emasculate you. You know that the life youre living right now wont change in any drastic way after youre married. So why do it and put yourself in such terrible risk?
David Anderson
This sounds like a bum winning the lottery and then rubbing it in to all the other bums. Fuck you OP. None of us will win the lottery and no one want to hear how happy you are. FUCK YOU.