Crazy boyfriend

We've been together for 3 years...When I met him, I was a complete mess: depressed, social anxiety, and soo many complexes. I use to feel like he was the only one who understood me, but as time went on, I was the only one who grew.

Now I dealt with my social anxiety, have a lot of friends, many people pursuing me, and I am a lot happier. I don't value the same connection anymore...Plus today, a very well off guy asked me out...

I don't know if I should leave him...because I do love him and I'm the most comfortable around him. I'm just bored though, plus I want someone who has potential. This guy who asked me out is up there on the social rank, and he's been helping me with my social skills, bouncing off ideas. Plus he is caring and ambitious...and I want someone who I can have a good future with. I told him about an open relationship...then he got mad, I ignored him, and then he sent me 2000 dollars to get my attention...so yeah

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idk about whatever this new guy may be like and i'm also not gonna bother judging you for what you choose to do but if you're not happy in a relationship and you feel that you've grown apart from the person and want something new then there's no point putting off the inevitable. Yeah it sucks to be the big baddie who breaks a heart but whatever, do what you want O.P, that's really all there is to it. If you're not happy, change until you are.

If you're not involved in the relationship why be with your current boyfriend at all? I'm not telling you to break up with him just food for thought.

To be honest though OP from what you've told me this new guy doesn't seem all they great?

>I told him about an open relationship...then he got mad, I ignored him, and then he sent me 2000 dollars to get my attention...so yeah

The whole 'got mad' thing just strikes me right off the bat. How mad? And to just throw money at you? How long have you known him?

My suggestion OP is if you like this new guy then break up with your BF, then start doing some digging on your prospective's past relationships, and do it in that order. Let your BF at least have some dignity in the matter and don't keep him around if you aren't going to commit to him.

Also you're kind of a piece of shit but that's par for the course, my advice is mostly devoid of the moral angle

>I told him about an open relationship

So you're a whore, number one. Your bf is an idiot for letting you be an emotional leech. Hypergamy is real.

Ok let's see here,

>crazy boyfriend
Ok, what is crazy about him?

>you are depressed, social anxiety "so many complexes"
Are you the crazy one?

>open relationship
dang, if you want to sleep around with lots of guys,
Just say, you're a slutty whore girl out loud
It's a least better then not admitting it.

>there's another guy interested in me,
Ok, what's less crazy about him?
>he has money
ok.....
>he gave me lots of his money to be with him
wow....

And your thinking of going with that guy?
So your ok being property?
wow, who was crazy here again?
I'll offer you 3,000 in cash, after you meet me in person. (and earn it in other ways)

OP, what are you getting out of your current relationship.

I like to look at relationships from a practical perspective.

If the costs outweigh the benefits, then I'm out.

If the girl offers me great sex then that's awesome, but if she tells me to cut all my relationships, is disruptive to my business and is emotionally unstable, then the cost outweighs the benefits and she has to go.

That's my approach anyway.

>New guy comes along
>He has money
>Time to leave my bf who put up with my horseshit for years
Typical roastie for ya, folks

Pretty much

if you truly love your current boyfriend then try to spice things up if it's boring.
try something new, make plans to do things and go places.
as a fellow girl idk if I'd trust a man with social status and money, surely he'd have other girls at his beck and call. just sounds like a lot of trouble and risk.