Advice thread

Women are basically children user.
Even redpilled ones.
Treat them as such.

I always fail at nofap about a week into it. Do you have any tips to keep from faltering? I'd try pretty much anything at this point.

I think I'd also regret marrying someone I'm not attracted to.

Breed with her, marry her, love her, care for her, do it for all those who can’t desu.

Yeah I fail no fap about once a week as well, but just fap to her instead.

Attraction grows over time and in the end if you only marry someone because they look great they will nose dive after ~45. Buckle up, treat her the way she should be treated, and stop busting a nut to everything you see on the internet. Testosterone in the blood decreases when you nut so often, the less you nut, the more you will like her. Ease her into the things you like to do, be it gaming or hunting, it doesn't matter. If she likes you she will attempt to have fun with you, and she will most likely pick up on your humor.

You are looking at a unicorn and I fucking swear if you mess that up you have done a disservice to all of humanity and I will be very angery at you.

Also how could you not be attracted to her, I bet she’s really cute user.

When you fuck her just close your eyes and pretend she's some pornstar user, that way you can have a good waifu even if you aren't attracted

If you want to fap, go do something. Do some housework, make something out of wood, make yourself useful. The urge to nut comes out of boredom+need to feel fulfilled. Go do something you will be happy looking at after it is done.

no one gives a shit about you or your religion, chirstcuck

you won't find a better deal user, don't let jews fuck with your brain user. A good wife that will be a good mother to your kids is all you need

Go away, Jew.

What's she look like? Rate out of 10? If she's even mildly attractive, you're a fucking idiot for having second thoughts.

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get a sense of pride. take pride in what you are doing, understand that you are one out of a million who actually gets this.

Understand how wrong porn in its foundation really is. what is it was your sister or mother on the picture or video?

also notice how your senses expand as you progress. Notice how women in general like you better.

But really the best part is that your girlfriend will turn you on even if she is ugly or boring. Because you have no other outlet. from there on your relationship is basicly cemented, you want to bang her all the time, and she will feel like the luckiest girl for this.

i lasted 2 months i know what i am talking about. A depressive flatline won against me. But since you actually have a girl and dont have to do monkmode there is no excuse to watch porn any longer.

Yeah I really can't complain. She looks a lot like the image in the OP. Pretty but not stunning. Brown hair, blue eyes like mine.
I don't know what's wrong with me. Also I've known her since we were kids, so that might be a part of it too.

Makes sense. I've noticed that I have better luck when I'm more active at the gym. I'll try to find more things to do like that.

>known her since you were kids
Oh lord, this is good. Pls, don’t let her go, she’s to pure.

How old are you and at what stage in life are you? If you’re both teenagers, there’s no point in overthinking it. College or career is priority.

If you’re mid twenties and done with school, stop being a faggot and size this girl for a ring. You can spice up a Christian girl that’s loyal and loving. You can’t make a whore into a housewife. And put that greener pastures shit out of your head. People always want what they don’t have. If this girl is cool and wants the same shit out of life as you, don’t fuck it up.

My wife wasn’t my “type” either. Typical I liked more buxom/ curvy look but relationships need more that just sexual attraction. I did no fap and after a few weeks just the thought of sex with her is more than porn could ever do. Making love is different from jerking off / random hook ups.

Gosh I really wish I was in you position honestly. But i’m Glad at least someone on earth can live that.

We're both in our early 20's. I've got an engineering degree, and she's working towards becoming a nurse.
I still have plenty of time to figure things out, but she's in her prime child-bearing years. So I guess, you're right. There's no sense in waiting.

Blessed be.

>t. Roastie
Sage.

Stop being a cuck user, realise that tradchans do exist, I'm working to ask one out, the hard part is finding them

As kind of a part two to this thread, my pastor (we're both Lutheran) recently shared this video in Bible class.
I have no desire to redpill her on anything. She's too simple/pure for that. But I don't want her to get bluepilled either. She's gone to the same church for her whole life, so it's not like I can ask her to change churches. What should I do? How do I even broach the subject? Should I confront my pastor instead?
youtube.com/watch?v=aL1oE61heUU

Good luck, user. She's out there. You will find her at church.

It might be harder for you since you are in Germany, but in the US I managed to find one by 20. I'm a Protestant and my soon to be wife is a Catholic who is as close to innocent/cutechan as you can get. They are out there, just a little more shy than the rest, a discerning eye can find them once you start looking at the less obvious girls.

I can discern them, but I figure they have boyfriends already, any way I can get over this fear?

I meant I found one, she's American tho not that it's a negative thing, but in regards to it being harder in Germany you're probably right. Just need to make my move

Actually you do. That is why there are constant christcuck threads. You're scared and can't admit it

I can give you the facts, it is up to you to present them nicely to her. I've taken anthropological courses on this so I'm not just bullshitting.

We all come from Africa about 65 thousand years ago, we made our ways into different continents about 35 thousand years ago and since then we have been evolving differently. Look at dog breeds, we created the pug within 2 years of selective breeding, no dog looked like pugs before we started doing this. This shows that there can be new traits that emerge from gradual change, even some that do not mesh well with others such as a large dog impregnating a small dog which causes death.

Mixed race people are higher in aggressiveness and genetic disease. That might seem contrary to popular knowledge, that is because popular knowledge isn't very specific. Small but appreciable differences between mates yield strong offspring that are healthy, this is mostly based around blood type and immune system difference. Large amounts of variability yield lots of problems, we see this in the mental instability of mixed race (white-black,asian-black) offspring.

We can indeed still breed with all other humans, we are however, at the point in evolution where mixing races of disparate types actually leads to many genetic problems. We, as a species, are at the cusp of being unable to make fertile offspring, therefore creating two new species.

Humans can all be good Christians, some more intelligent than others, but that does not mean we should all breed with each other. Accepting that some people are very different from you and saying "despite the fact that we are very different, we are still good Christians, you stay with your family, and I mine" is something essential to the faith.

We, as the genus Homo, do not need to perpetually be able to breed with each other to be human. The one-race one-blood theory isn't founded in study of the healthiness of offspring and is therefore not correct.

If you see one of them, walk up and politely introduce yourself, say that you think they are attractive and that you wish to get to know them. If they scoff and reject you flat out, they aren't what you were looking for anyway, if they say they are already with someone, then now you know. You have three results from this: Unpleasant rejection by the unwanted, pleasant rejection by the wanted, score. You just have to get over your social anxiety by doing the things that unnerve you.

pug within 200*

don't ask her. just explain to her in a fatherly manner that you'll be going to a different church from now on :)

what fear? just do it faggot

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The longer you wait the more chance of them being taken exists.