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>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

>Is it too late to start dating?

>Why is there no new thread?
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Why would an 18 year old (female) be talking to me (24 year old guy) on tinder? Does she just want to fuck? I don't know what the mentality of this girl is or how to guide the conversation

sounds like one of the "I'm mature for my age" types that don't understand what maturity is.

she just like attention of an older guy

barber vs hair stylist, which should i use and why? am a guy

like I'll fuck her if thats what she's after but she can't expect anything serious with that age gap

I asked a few threads ago how to approach a shy woman and I finally faced my fear and made myself go talk to her.
she said yes to letting me take her out.
thanks Jow Forums

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what was the setting?

she was watering her lawn. I walked down the street to talk to her. messed it all up stuttering and said she looks familiar. lmao



good learning experience for her then

Now I just need to continue on my quest to actually get to know my long-time shy friend who acts like she's mute.
I say get to know because she doesn't talk enough for me to know if I want to date her or not, and we're in an environment where randomly starting to date is a bad idea.

Girls, have you ever got a crush someone you met online without even seeing their face?

I seem to get attention from girls more often than other guys, but most of the time I really don't want it. Both sexes will treat me like I'm crazy, call me lazy, afraid, or whatever. Is there something I'm missing? I don't reallyget why I should be so happy about the attention outside of the ego boost.

When you ask a girl to hang out at the last minute and she says she already has plans but also says "Next time though for sure!" does that mean she's being genuine?

If there isn't a follow up to make plans then forget about it, she's just letting you off easy

No, but I got a crush on a guy after learning more about him and establishing emotional connection. Before then I never cared bout his looks, after I was obsessed with them, kek

I wouldn't call it as anything, last-minute planning usually goes that way.

(Male) I'm currently in a triangle with a bi chick, she's dating a girl right now, though I don't know if they are exclusive or not. We've been getting close, spending a lot of time together, she was my date to a major work event, it was like there was no one around but us. Next night I meet up with her and her friends, and the girl she is dating is there. Really bothers me tbqh. The girl in question has vocally told me she likes me, and is waiting for the chick to exit stage left, saying she's already got one foot out the door. Feelings are only getting stronger. Am I being an idiot or should I just take it easy and see how it plays out?

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Should she be the one making the next plan? Will she think I'm being desperate if I invite her for something else in the future after being rejected once?

This might be a strange request, but how can I be more attractive to black girls? I used to match with a decent amount of black girls on my tinder/bumble as I have a sexual preference towards them, but since I moved to a new city I've hardly matched with any. I'm mid 20s, college grad, young professional type

You can try again but if she says no again or comes up with an excuse then let it go. Don't chase people who don't want you.

Be ghetto, tell then you have money, be loud and ratched

This you can try one more time, I wouldn't do it last minute, I'd give enough time for a plan to get settled, and try something specific. If it's a no go after that, then bail

Ladies, would you let your boyfriend inspect your pussy and asshole with a speculum?


Thanks anons. She's initiated plans to hangout before and we've done so, I feel like my timing was way off when I asked her since she was going out of town.

lmfao no
awe cute. good luck

If you're white, grow your hair out, especially if it's curly, and lift

Depends on what kind of haircut you're looking for. If it's a simple job with clippers then go with a barber to save money. If it's a more complex style that you're going to bring along a few photos to help guide her toward, stylist. Also if you're lonely and handsome, I recommend going to a stylist so you can enjoy her tits in your face while she washes your hair.

damn, I like my short hair and I've been in the process of getting fit this year. 5'10 started at 210, down to 175 with a little noticeable muscle now.

I feel bad for gaining ten pounds this year, 6 even 155. I've been drinking like it's going out of style, I can see myself putting on five more, but when I look in the mirror I'm revolted by the way I look.

I've been thinking of telling my gf of 6 months that I was a virgin and she was my first. She thinks I've been with a lot of girls before her, but I had only received handjobs and blowjobs from a couple girls before. Should I tell her the truth?

>these threads

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Yeah. It was a long time ago, when fb and shit weren't a thing. We've known each other online for years before we met. Turns out he was fucking hot. We ended up being irl fwb for a short while.
It hasn't really happened since, but also the www is different these days.

It will likely cause her to lose attraction towards you, but it’s better to be honest

If the subject comes up naturally, you can. I wouldn't just bring it out out of nowhere.

no, just let it go, she probably could already tell you were inexperienced, no need to vocalize it, you're fucking her now, that's all that matters


You trannies aren't fooling anyone.

>calling out these threads as the cesspit of normalniggers means you're a trannyfaggot

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>"she" can't post balls because "she" already went through with the sex change surgery

Color me surprised.

Why do girls care about personality so much? I fucking hate it when I see a hot girl with an ugly guy

Too hairy to be a faggot, noguns
Neck yourself asap

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Because looks don't last forever my nigga


Why might you never initiate a conversation with a guy who you're sleeping with.

Text or verbal, if I go quiet, she does too.

I told a girl she was my first kiss when I was 20 and she didn't believe me.
Can't say it was a positive or a negative, we still made out after and I don't think she particularly cared that she was my first kiss.
Which was kinda sad because it held a lot of significance for me but whatever, I'm still a virgin but I think I want to lose that to someone I have that mental connection with.


Doesn't exist. You will always be lonely.

There’s a girl at my uni who I do not want to date because I am completely broke and not wanting anything of the sort at the moment, but we get along well, message each other memes, and have a similar sense of humour

How do I ask her how she would feel about having sex occasionally?

because you're a cuck

As in, she likes/uses someone else for emotional connection but gets sex from me?

Eyo bitch, want some of my pee pee sauce ?
Should work.

Do not. Just tell her that you'd like to go out with her but you're broke. Show intent for something serious and you might get some action without having to spend or get too serious.

No, because she is waiting for you to text. Women are more passive so they expect men to be more active. She possibly doesn't want to come off as clingy or needy.


I've been texting my coworker and most of the conversations are initiated by me, she sends the first text like 1/5 times. But when I text her, she's eager to talk. Are you all waiting for the guy to text first? Is that accepted and not seen as trying too hard?

Dear women in the 21-30s range,
How hard would it be for you to ask a nigga out once in a while. Shit give us lazy lonely niggas a chance for a change.

the super outgoing ones do, that's about it

Not that hard if I liked him, but I would probably do it in a very spergy and awkward fashion

What things do girls like to do?

where to find 25+ single women?
hopefully with less than 5 sexual partners...


Get into ecology/environmental protection stuff. There were a decent number of girls in those sorts of majors at my uni who tended not to act like thots. They would have one long term boyfriend at most, or just prefer being single and spending their time with friends or on schoolwork.

I'm pursuing a girl. We are both musicians, and play in a group together (though not too often).
There is some chemistry, I am planning on asking her out.

The question is... do I ask her if she wants to do something, or go right for the gold and just ask if she wants to get dinner? This would be happening over text.
Ladies, please help me. I've been stressing for days over this.

Ask her to join you for something fun, and/or dinner. Don't be so vague. It's supposed to be an invitation to spend time with you.

I got a girl I liked Snapchat on Saturday night. I started messaging her during the day Sunday, she was a bit dry but still talking, at one point replying almost instantly. It was going fairly well. Although a few hours ago I sent her a message and she has stopped replying, just before 10pm. Is it safe to assume she has ghosted me?. Should I maybe wait a few days and try again?

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Okay, thanks.
I hate how much this shit stresses me out lol

So my gf of 5 years broke up with me. It was at least in person but I'm still baffled by her reason, she said (paraphrasing here) that when she met me in college I was this mopey, depressed beta nerd and now that I have a job, more friends, hobbies (still nerd stuff I just got into 40k) and started going out more like the gym and stuff she just felt like I wasn't the person she knew and fell in love with. I said I was a toxic person who dragged everyone who wanted to listen down into my pity party hole and she just said yeah but that's when I met you and started liking you.

I just feel so fucking bad but more confused than anything.

How's the modern high school experience for women?

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women, how often do you masterbate and how do you like to do it (toys, just fingers, humping a pillow, etc)?

sounds more like her lost than anything else.

I asked my spergy crush to play minecraft with me and she hasn't responded. I totally over extended. I;m going to dig straight down i swear to heck i hate girls.

edit: she responded lol thanks for letting me vent Jow Forums


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I use fingers usually. I dont have a thundercunt so thats all it takes

It's different for everybody. A couple times a week with no help personally.

How would you feel if you found out your appearance reminded your boyfriend of the woman who molested him?

For me...almost impossible desu. Been rejected/randomly dumped too many times it ain't worth it anymore.

I'm always at coffee shops. So try there.

For me, it's clitoral stimulation with fingers. Some weeks I'll do it every day, some weeks I'm too depressed and won't do it at all. Just depends.

Guys, why would you text a girl every day?

I get free coffee at work so never frequent those places.
Have you used dating apps?

because I like her

Is it a double whammy that that's how I find out he was molested, or did I already have time to process that?

Some people have busy days, don't get paranoid yet.

Are there any reasons you would text a girl every day that you didn't have feelings for or weren't attracted to?

Let's say I tried to hide it until I couldn't, so double whammy

I've been waiting two days in between texting this girl I like. Am I fucking up? I feel like I'm eventually going to blow it big, and I only care because I haven't liked someone this much in five years (and that liked me back on top of it). I wanna die

Man I can't tell if a coworker girl is just being extra shy around me or fucking terrified. Recently it seems everytime I talk to her she's looking straight at the ground and often mumbles her responses.

I don't know what the fuck I did to be so scary. I'm relatively short and well groomed (Clean shaven, always wear deodorant and light cologne). I have
a bunch of other coworkers both male and female who interact with me no problem. Our eyes have met several times before so maybe she thinks I'm staring at her from afar?

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I certainly wouldn't initiate convos all the time if I wasn't interested somehow.

what's your predicament?


What the flying fuck is "emotional cheating"? Why would someone date behind someone's back cuz that's all I could think it would be? That just seems exhausting and stupid. I don't get it.
Is she just being psycho with me? I don't feel like getting into details, but why might someone accuse me of this?

I used to bantz with a trans girl on the daily. Sometimes we flirted and I got some lewds.

I was attracted to her but only on a sexual level since transgirls cant make babies.

I suppose, hypothetically, if a girl I am not interested in is really good at giving insight i might talk to her frequently. But in that hypothetical I would be attracted to their big brain... which could then lead to physical attraction.

So they probably like you

Is it worth sending a message to her again in about a day or so or would that be creepy?

I mean. I don't think I "emotionally cheated" on her?
She won't talk to me and I think it's probably over.

Well, do you like dick or vagina because unless you're equally talking small buisness and not commercial, they're the same thing.
Yeah, before the internet hit puberty in 2000's. Never again though.
Lay low and see what happens.
Or we're simply not interested in you as much as others.
That's what bumble is for.

How do I get past the idea that fapping to other women is hurtful to me, would you feel like you arent enough if your gf had their favorite porn stars?

I should add that I'm bisexual and this has to do with another man who's just a friend.

I would be unnerved. I would ask if he liked that about me.

are you trying to say how not to feel bad if you boyfriend jerks off to other women?

You should be able talk to him about it and let him know that he can come to you whenever he has sexual needs.

If your partner made a decision to enter in a relationship with someone else while you were still dating, would you consider that cheating?

Women, in a one-night-stand situations, is ok to go for kissing and eating pussy?
I have always been under the impression that ONS are mostly for straight penetrative sex and less passionate acts..

>Lay low and see what happens.
Thank you, I've been sweating it for days, but I've backed off (just a little) and will touch base next week and just see how it goes, I guess.

Hmm I'd say you should try to match her pace of response. Personally I kind of hate texting so I wouldn't take it to mean a guy didn't like me if he took a while to text back, as long as he texted back eventually and seemed interested/kept the convo going.

But every girl is different. If she tends to reply to you relatively quickly, she might be low key offended if you take days to text her back.

Not really, I'd be happy for them. But I certainly say that I want to at least be in the loop before I spontaneously have a metamour.

The answer would be yes. When stuff reminds me of all that,it's like a switch flips in my head and makes me far more aroused than otherwise.