ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything


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>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

>Is it too late to start dating?

>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros:

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what does a 6.5 incher feel like for a girl?

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Painful at first but then better than a smaller dick

>sitting near a cute girl at school
>just work for 15 minutes then she leaves
How do I stop being so autistic


Any gender: is there a way to tell if a guy has a big dick without actually seeing it? Like is there a general vibe they give off? Or is it really impossible to tell?

big dick energy

But what isssss it? What’s the undefinable quality ;(

>try hitting on 4/5's
>Never goes anywhere, always rejected, always left on read
>try hitting on 6/7's
>Actually talk to me, reply at good times, even went on several dates with one

this is just a guess but you might put in more effort for the people you find more attractive
women tend to get a lot of attention when it comes to online dating so the 4/5's most likely receive messages from other people that are more interested in them


Is it possible for me to have a relationship with an attractive woman who’s in her late 30s or early 40s? I’m 28 btw

Older women are so much more attractive than younger

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I give equal amount of effort to anyone I want to message and/or match with

Possibly, yes.


I’m Jow Forums and successful. Just, I’m a bit intimidated by older women. They seem really smart

There isn't. The difference between a big dick and a small one is few inches, you are not gonna notice it if you are not actually seeing it.

If you really are, it shouldn't be any harder than meeting women around your age. Can't say for 40's, but if she's in her laye 30's and available the age gap won't be an issue at all. At least if she's not a mom.

Take them rock climbing trust me

Why is this an indicator?

You think it’s that simple? I think it sounds tricky. How do I meet them

The harness basically makes it "pop" as if he were wearing yoga pants essentially if hes wearing gym shorts
T. Rock climber

*especially if

I'm not a mind reader. I don't know what you like to do and where. Go out and do shit you enjoy that older women like doing, too. Again, can't say for 40+, but gyms, restaurant bars, trail tours, casinos, and just normal shit are all places you can meet them. If they're available and there with the intention of meeting people (guys) then you'll know it.

Damn hell yeah

Is it true that hot girls dont get hit on often because guys are afraid of them?

You're a dumbass

My dick is like 2 inches soft and it grows to 6.5, this wouldn't show a thing

>climbing mother earth's peaks doesn't get him fully erect
Gay or never went climbing. Not sure which.

>imagine being so poor you have to climb hills for fun

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So both?

Neither, kayaking is superior and actually costs money so it filters out all the poor people

>imagine coexisting with poor people in your immediate vicinity

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rock climbing definitely costs more than kayaking unless you're going crackhead-tier

>t. kayaker

Well you might have a point there friend

At least kayaks make girls wet

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Girls, how often do you notice guys staring at your boobs, and how do you feel about it? My stupid libido takes control of my eyes frequently even if it's just friends or family, and I feel terrible about it.

Been on 2 dates with a girl. Afterwards I mentioned "oh hey if you have time we should get together next week" in a text, two separate times, and neither time she responded directly. We've been texting about other stuff, and it hasn't even been a full week since the last date.

Am I being paranoid about the fact that she hasn't directly responded to the fact that I wanted to see her again? Both dates went pretty well and she seems to have taken to me I think.

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how do I get over the fact that I might have lost a chance with a total qt because I was too much of a pussy to ask for her number?

You carry that pain with you and remember it next time you think about chickening out

but also remember it's completely reasonable not to ask for literally every attractive girl's number.

doesn’t matter faggot. you’re in school. do school

if broads aren’t dropping their pencil and asking you to pick it up, it’s sexual harassment. lift enough weights to where it’s clear when girls want you. get attractive enough so you don’t need to question it

shame most advice like this gets overlooked because it’s buried in shit advice

you’ll eventually learn when you can recall this feeling. it’s better to find out than to always wonder what could have been

Is it weird that I whine like a dog when I am masturbating. Would that weird out any girls here?

Not often. Same reaction whenever anyone stares anywhere at me, I assume I'm wearing something ugly or I have a stain or whatever.

Some people like their partners loud, it's all a preference. I'm sure some girls are into that.

How do girls feel about a guy best friend wanting to hug them/asking them for a hug? Even if it’s a guy who’s expressed their feelings toward her and she’s told them she’s not interesting. I’m not sure myself if i’m thinking in a sexual way or not. I just really want to hug my best friend, I feel like it’d solve all my problems.

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Yeah, it's genuinely how I've started being forward and asking people out. Literally never dated up until I was 25 because I was terrified of rejection. Now, out of the last 3 people who I asked out, 2 said yes, and the one who said no is currently my best friend, so genuinely a win win situation that I never thought could happen, because I was so scared of a no

>do school
But I want to do girls

If I believed they understood the boundaries of the friendship then sure, a hug is fine. It'd be weird to be asked out of nowhere though. It would have to be a situation that felt natural to,not be weird.

Hugging your friends isn't something super weird, I hug my friends of both genders all the time. However, she might say no as she knows you have interest in her and that can be really awkward for her to let you be physical with her like that.

is it weird to have the impression that women don't think about me sexually

They probably don't.

it is how i picked up girls for the 3 years leading up to when i met my now wife. the worst feeling is knowing you pussied out, not rejection

How the fuck do you ask someone out

>8 months ago
>Saw a woman for 3 dates
>Wasn't really attracted physically, and she did a few off-putting things too.
>But she genuinely liked me, put in the effort, and we meshed a bit
>I broke it off saying I didn't feel a spark and she was great and I was sorry, she said she felt the opposite, asked why and when I decided, and said thanks for showing her there were still good men out there.
I still have her #. I think sometimes about contacting her again, but more because I've not had any dates since. And maybe because I'm just tired of being alone.
Should I contact her? Why/why not? Thanks

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Im in a bit of a pickle. Ive seeing this girl the past 2-3 weeks who is going home to Germany to live in 3 months (she doesnt want to stay here long term and I dont think shes going to get another contract to come back to work here)

I like her but I am only looking for a LTR (I have absolutely zero interest in short term or a fling) Her not even entertaining the idea of coming back has made me less attracted to her in a way. I dont blame her either since shes only known me for a few weeks.

What should I do here because I dont want to sleep with her and get attached to her knowing its only going to last 3 months.

Its the choice of doing what feels good now or sacrificing that and finding what will make me happy long term.

if at a bar or public setting, just introduce yourself and talk about whatever comes to mind. don’t always feel the need to fill the silence. women are usually more socially awkward than you anyway. pick up lines are ok but i never used them. you usually need to reach bro status for those

if you already know her, ask her if she wants to X with you this weekend. X can be anything you’re good at or any activity. Take a ride in your car. Grab coffee. Go see a movie. Go get ice cream. it can also just be a joke. if you have a shitty car, use that and say wanna take a ride with me to X in my ford tempo this weekend? some shit that would make you and your friends laugh

Genuinely it's easy. You just walk up to them and say "hey I think you're cool and I'd like to get to know you more, want to grab dinner?"

The key to this is that there isn't going to be a good time to do it. There's never gonna be the perfect time where she's just by herself and not busy or leaving or with a group of people. Sometimes you gotta go for it. Preferably you find her in a decent situation, but like I said sometimes you just gotta do it. A few weeks ago when I asked this girl out, I had to awkwardly follow behind her for a bit, then I had to ask her out while her friend was just standing there staring at me. But despite the awkwardness she said yes. Sometimes they might say no, and you just gotta be prepared for that and handle it gracefully.


girls, do you genuinely believe friendships between men and women are possible?

almost all women believe this.....

>just walk up to them and talk
Really? Just cold open?

It sucks kinda, but it works my man.

My therapist helps me get through this stuff by breaking it down into discrete steps. Next time you want to ask a girl out or ask for her number, make that your goal. Your goal is NOT necessarily to get a yes, your goal is to get yourself to ask the question. That way, no matter what she answers, you've achieved your goal and you can be proud of yourself. If she says yes great, if she says no, then you just come up with a new goal for next time, until you feel comfortable.

so this girl has bf problems and breaks up with him and suddenly starts really talking to me at work. out of nowhere. She suggests hanging out and everything. I already had a thing for her at this point so im like "wtf is happening but okay". we chill a couple twice, she came over, smoke a couple bowls, and talked. we didn't do shit other than that. After that she's convinced the guy changed and goes back to him. meanwhile shes still friendly n shit with me at work. hugging me, and talking to me at any chance she gets even if I pretend not to see her; because mostly she just vents to me about her bs with her boyfriend.
then comes up to me and tells me her boyfriend is a trash and its over with him for good.

I literally did not ask for any of this. I had a thing for her and thought maybe something would happen. I never wanted for me to be a trash can for her problems. how do I back out of this with out coming off like a douche. I don't want to see anyone sad and crying but godamn. if she comes in crying to work and she sees me, she instantly runs straight to me.

It depends with the person, but yeah in my experience, the opportunity to be slick and work it into a conversation never really pops up for me, so I just have to approach them with the intent of asking them out. If you're able to work it into a smooth conversation then that is definitely a plus, but don't let that limit you.

I've only ever asked out girls that I've had at least a few conversations with so I have no real advice for asking people out that you just met, but yeah the cold open has worked for me recently

Hello does anyone have any good advice for this?

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aren't they aware than most of their male friends want to fuck them?

that's how I started the convo with the girl I miss the chance with...
I literally dropped all my spaghetti and she just smiled and kept the conversation going.
I'm an idiot.

she's using you as a rebound.
I'd say, enjoy your time but don't get too attached.

No, lots of men don't see their sexual value because women don't catcall or stare as much as men.

Women also rarely give compliments. It's not because they don't have nice things to say, it's just how society has shaped the man-woman dynamic

My unsolicited advice for women, is that you should vocalize to your man the nice things you like about him. We play it cool but it means the world to us

Girls don't like complimenting guys

Compliments are for the benefit of the person receiving them, not the person giving them. You compliment someone so that they understand that they are valued.

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Doesn't have anything to do with what I said

Yeah, I have several guy friends with whom I feel there’s no sexual tension at all. I also got friendzoned by a guy friend and there’s no indication that I’m getting out anytime soon’s definitely possible for a guy not to want to fuck one of his female friends!

>it’s definitely possible for a guy not to want to fuck one of his female friends!
Only if you're ugly

If girls don't compliment guys because they don't enjoy it, then they need to reevaluate themselves and the way they view relationships. Men want compliments as much as women do, we just are discouraged from openly seeking them

You're a bad person FYI. There's a difference between having a friend that you objectively find attractive, and pretending to be someone's friend because you think they might fuck you

What's your point?

wtf are you talking about; that doesn't have anything to do with what I said. Guys don't pretend to be friends with girls just to fuck them (at least) not all. What happens is they try to pursue and fail, or they date and break up, or they're attracted but dating someone else

Idk if I’m ugly honestly. I’m skinny with no deformities and I dress well. He’s very attractive and all his other friends are also very attractive and in shape so idk what that says about me, if anything.

>Guys don't pretend to be friends with girls just to fuck them


Oh man that's a good one my dude

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I said not all of them
Then maybe he liked you at one point but something else stopped him.

I think I need to break up with my not fwb but not boyfriend of 10 months. How do I do it? In person? Via text?

The thing that makes it complicated is it's more than a fwb, but less than a relationship. I also am not sure I completely want to end it but at the very least I think we need a break, as he has not been treating me well lately (and I want him to know that is why)

It's true.

So if I hit on a hot girl I'll be unique?

I really want to believe this. I never get hit on.

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Fuggin god dammit someone reply to my post I contribute to this thread

Whether you are hot or not can easily be calculated based on a few stereotypes.
Men want a young, skinny and happy girl with no children.
Just rate yourself on these criteria and you should know.

Then either you're hot or you're ugly

I’m 25 but people have told me I look anywhere between 14 and 20.
I’m definitely skinny.
I’m not happy though. Maybe that is obvious to onlookers. Maybe I unconsciously give off the unhappy vibe.

Oh, and i don’t have any children lol.

Im a 25 year old KV, its not too late for me is it? I am interested in women in her early 20s and since school began we have been texting often and hanging out most days that we have classes. We havent done much together outside of school, unless you count walking around campus most of the time, except text and some im not 100% sure if she is interested. Moving forward im not sure what to do. Should i ask her out soon or wait a awhile. And as a 25 year old how do i ask out a women? I have only had marginal success with women before getting cold feet.

I can confirm this guy is correct. The harness basically has a gap in the front for your dick and balls to hang out so they don't get crushed by the strap. It basically pushes everything else back clothing wise so only your package bulges out


What are things people in relationships do

Girls how do I find a girl who will be a comfy NEET with me and read touhou together?

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End it sis. Don't let him pretend to fix it for two weeks and then revert back to being shitty.
Do it via text. I tried breaking up with my cuck asshole ex In person and he dragged it out and he begged, cried, made false promises to get me to stay for way too fucking long. I wasted so much time. Don't make my mistake. You deserve a guy who will adore you and fuck your brains out

>finally have sex and lose my virginity
>later on girls flips out because I didn't tell her I was a virgin
>tells me the sex was awful and that my dick was small
I have no idea if she's lying. She did lock me in at one point during sex. But now I'm incredibly self conscious. How do I not let it affect me?

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I saw your question last thread. I don't know what to tell you user. Idk what that manga is and I hope it isn't pedo shit..assuming that it isn't , I think your best chance to find a neet grill is to join nerdy hobby groups. Drawing/art clubs, gaming, or find the places in your city where there is some overlap. Or just do on line dating and advertise that you're into manga and see if one finds you.

I hope you succeed user and find your comfy neet gf.

Idk what to tell you about meeting women that doesn't already exist online. But I think the guy I'm dating now was a 27year old KV before me and I didn't know until he started dropping hints.
You'll find someone for you eventually. It's not too late. It's past my bed time so I won't answer the rest of your question. Just check the internet for ways to meet women. Have hobbies, work on yourself, become the person you like, etc. Those things are important too

Is it weird if I sleep with my Teddy at age 20 and a guy?
Would it be unreasonable to continue this while dating a Girl and if all goes well, sleep in the same bed?

What do you do on a date?