My "soulmate" gf of 4 months told me that she used to have someone so supportive of her and anazing and listened to everything she had to say and was so supportive of her chronic weed addiction and she'll never have that again to my face like everything we had was useless and i'm just a sack of fucking shit. She cheated on him 3 times and she's been dreaming about and talking about this fucking guy a month after we got together she never used to do that. I was willing to look past that so She broke up with him nearly 7 months ago. Now she's crying and telling me i'm the asshole and that i'm amazing and she needs me and how is she going to find someone amazing like me and telling me she didn't mean it
What in the fuck do i do? We have our whole families involved in this shit and were planning on getting married down the line
Are you a perma virgin incel like i used to be or have you actually been in relationships before
>her chronic weed addiction
You really didn't notice the red flag?
If you break up with her you will realize later how retarded your brain is right now. All because of love
So what the fuck do i do then dude what are you saying i leave her or stay
He is telling you to run dude, an i concur you dont want none of that business
what the fuck is this thread holy shit
Bipolar with 100% possibility to progress to borderline personality disorder. Only hyper dominant men can handle them, doing shit like slapping them, calling them a worthless unlovable whore, telling them to stfu and bend over. You, are most likely not like that. So run.
FUCKING RUN AWAY
you're gonna get killed dude, murder her first
>serial cheater >impulsive >emotionally manipulative >switches mood every 14 minutes >idealises you >"soulmates" after 4 months, but already pulling this shit
She has BPD and you're a moron if you stay with her. Leave.
I am BPD and I will second this. This is the exact thing I have done to my partners that I am in extensive behavioral therapy to correct.
If she is not seeing a psychiatrist, leave, because it will only get worse until either she kills herself, she kills herself accidentally, traps you in a life of misery, or just randomly up and leaves you after everything you do making you miserable. It ends in failure for you buddy
Anyone staying with this whore is retarded
Behavioural therapy does wonders for BPD. My best friend went from being the kind of person who hits on my boyfriend because she's jealous of how much time I spend with him and she wants to break us up, to a pretty fine girl who is about to get married. I'm very proud of her. It is tiring but don't give up on yourself. You're doing a great job.
>We have our whole families involved after only 4 months >My "soulmate" after only 4 months >getting married after only 4 months
What is wrong with you OP? Seriously.
She is guilty of two things. Moving on too quickly before resolving her feelings for her ex and choosing a foolish man as her rebound.
A lot of very smart and kind people are working very hard to fix me. I will continue to try.
Dude get some side pussy and this will work itself out
>Is everything on this board just a post by a falseflagger designed to make people mad so the overall narrative of the board is generally derisive? I'm starting to wonder something like this myself.
RUN. DO NOT WALK. RUN.
You see all these red flags, and you’re still asking what to do? You know you have to break up, I don’t think she can be a girlfriend.