>girl I met once, half a year ago, suddenly messages me complimenting my new profile picture >besides the initial meeting we had not spoken or exchanged a single message until now >she lives four hours away, seemed really keen about meeting up halfway, mentioned it multiple times/hinted in our chats >after chatting for a few days conversation flows well, but she's set off some red flags for me >so I turned down the idea of meeting her halfway, citing cost >she says "I can come to you then!"
Is this chick really this into me from a profile picture? Or is she just REALLY interested in being friends/seeing my area? She'd be paying $160 round trip for this. What is the advisable course of action here?
Sounds like a BPD in the making, and you're the next target.
I'd would remove them and not speak to them again if I were you
Dominic Mitchell
I can't believe someone is willing to pay near $200 for really mediocre sex. Nice.
Yeah the red flags were >friends with exes >has panic attacks
Not red flags but HMMM: >does stand-up >into Wiccan/astrology shit
Tyler Barnes
Maybe her parents are just loaded. Is she cute?
Christian Long
Most likely is. And I remember her being pretty cute when I met her, but the recent pictures she's sent me makes me wonder if I just remembered wrongly, or that she's very un-photogenic
Jacob Russell
that bitch is crazy or a man trying to kill you, DO NOT ENGAGE
Zachary Price
>friends with exes don't worry, she's probably not borderline if that's the case. maybe bipolar.
Carter Flores
Might trying to get pregnant. Be careful.
Carson James
PUTA
Julian Cooper
>but she's set off some red flags for me What were they?
probably already pregnant and looking for a beta provider
Liam James
I don't know why I attract these kinds of women. All three of my long-term exes had mental issues.
Juan Howard
SHE SAW RAMONA FLOWERS AND FELT SO EMPOWERED
Ryder Anderson
BPD women are known to prey on vulnerable autistic loners
Alexander Wilson
none of these are the red none of these are the red flags and if you think so you are really really a toxic sociopath
Eli Carter
All women are like that. All women have mental problems
Andrew Torres
Yeah, all normal people have panic attacks
Isaiah Jenkins
$160 for a round trip but only four hours away? What? Do y'all live overseas or some shit?
Cameron Butler
She's nuts. Fuck her once and run away. Make sure she never finds you again.
Camden Sanders
this
You can give her a try but just keep an 'exit' nearby. She's probably pretty crazy and will ump on you for a while before gtfo'ing and finding the next guy she hasn't spoken to in a year and a half.
That or she is trying to get revenge on an ex or cheat. Either way you're probably being used.
Yeah, I do. It's about 180 miles or 300km. Most people don't drive here so $160 is by train/bullet train
Also update from OP: Since saying no to meeting halfway she said she could just come all the way to me. I've told her I'll check my calendar but it's just up to me telling her a date and she'll probably come down. What I've found out so far is >broke up with her ex about 7 months ago >just started online dating about 3 months ago >red flag #3: describes herself as polyamorous "but still capable of being in a monogamous relationship" >red flag #4: unironically uses terms like mansplaining but also complained about a date where a guy didn't pay for her
My penis says yes, but my brain says no. But my body doesn't have to go anywhere because she's coming all the way to my city.
Caleb Jackson
Cum and dump if you have nothing better to do, be sure to use protection. Clearly not gf material.
