Anyone else married and completely sexually frustrated? I do not want to pull a degenerate act, but I do not know how people live this way. We want to get pregnant but my wife does not seem to understand that you need to have sex. I get why the white population is dying.
Anyone else married and completely sexually frustrated? I do not want to pull a degenerate act...
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>get married to a woman who doesn't want kids
How in the shitting jesus to people do this.
She’s fucking someone else. Probably a niggers.
She wants kids, she just does not ever want to have sex. She is very traditional and thinks sex is sinful.
Let me guess, you haven't been to the gym in years?
I doubt it. I do not live near black people. They are about a 3 hour drive away to the closets city.
Nope. I lift 3 days a week and bike about 3 to 8 miles a day. 5'11", 155lbs.
>She is very traditional and thinks sex is sinful.
not having copious amounts of sex within your christian marriage is sinful
she is not filling her wifely christian duties. it's time to divorce
doesn't paul talk about this very topic? whip out your bible and be the spiritual leader your house needs.
I have mentioned this numerous times. I am just met with I am tried, I just do not feel good about myself, etc. Normal wife shit.
Oh I don't know, maybe become the type of man women WANT to fuck? Your wife doesn't want to fuck you because you're probably fat, play video games all day, watch shit like star wars and game of thrones and you wihne and beg for sex. No wonder her pussy is the drier than the Sahara desert. Lift you faggot.
Does she have low self-esteem? Has something happened where she has negative thoughts about sex (rape)? Did you guys ever talk about sex before you got married and how long have you been married for and together for?
consensual rape. ask if she's okay with you either drugging her or doing what it takes to have kids. Or get her a ball gag and discuss a safeword, which she can't say bc she has a ball gag on.
Or go back in time and not get married.
what does the bible say about concubines
Niggers would steal a car or run any distance just fuck a white women
I’m getting a divorce soon.. no alimony win win
Fun fact, we fuck more after game of thrones. I hut, farm, build shit, and provide for her. What more does she need?
Jow Forumsdeadbedrooms is that way cuck she’s fuckin around
i think it said King Solomon had like 300 of em.
>I am tired
jesus all she has to do is fucking lay there, "i am tired" is codeword for I'm not attracted to you
Extremely low self esteem. We talked a lot about sex before we got married. We have been married for 2 years.
>We want to get pregnant
Here's your problem, you should be getting her pregnant.
if she doesn't think she's hot she won't want to.
telling her to get fit is a trap.
ask her for help working out.
Honestly, this. If she just told me she was not attracted to me then I would just crank one out and be on my way rather than thinking something of value was going to happen in the bedroom.
hmm
OP maybe you should start with one
This has GOT to be a fucking joke! I'm VERY well-traveled, have met countless people and seen countless types of weird situations.....but have NEVER heard one like this.
If this is for real.......can you actually COUNT the times you've had sex?
Do you have some monstrous schlong that destroys her?-----THAT would make some girls not want to fuck
I have tried this and it makes it worse. I do not get tired by tough workouts and she can barely run a mile. She gets mad at how effortless it is for me.
I can count the actual times we have had sex in the last year on a single hand. I do not think it is monstrous but above average. 7.5 inch with 6.5 inch circumference.
>5'11 155
If you aren't literally 3% bodyfat, you need to eat more so that the gym time does anything wtf...
polygamy in general led to a lot of bad shit in the OT though. one David's sons raped his half sister. then his kids went to war against each other.
Josephs half brothers sell him into slavery.
Abraham's wives bicker and fight and cause a bunch of grief.
i can't think of anymore right now but i'm sure there is more.
>I'm VERY well-traveled,
>Never met a sexless marriage
Choose one, baitmaster.
I try man. I have been an ottermode swimmer all my life. I eat a lot of protein but I am just built that way i guess. I refuse to go supplements as they fuck up your liver/kindeys.
This is rough OP. You're going to have to lay it on the line with her- making love is an extension of love. She doesn't want you. She doesn't love you. Tell her you don't think you can make it work if she can't love you.
if she changes, good.
If she shrugs, oh well, you need to know NOW before you have kids with her, and you can move on to someone you can have children with.
But this is NOT going to get better and she is NOT going to change.
Your dick is huge. 6.5 inch circumference You need to get her really wet before you put it in her.
Do you think she's fucking somebody else.
I'd ask for a divorce if she doesn't want to fuck.
You must take what is yours.
Build up that self esteem.
Call her every lovely name there is, spend as much time as you can with her, say thank you for everything she does immediately when she does it. It may seem like a lot but it pays off.
Why is it so low btw?
Low self-esteem because of a horrendous childhood? She may feel this world is too evil to intentionally bring a child into it. That's how I feel.
6.5 circumference is not that big. We do use lubes to make things go easier though.
No. She is infatuated with me and wants children with me badly. She just never wants sex. I basically stopped asking due to constant rejection.
Lubes in a young marriage? How old is she? Maybe you need to grow a beard and get a little dominant.
I have no fucking clue. I shower her with love, compliments, and constant ass slaps. We flirt with each other constantly but when it comes to doing the deed she just never wants to.
that won't do anything
op should just suck it up, sit her down, and give her the fancy jewish no fault divorce papers to sign
>2 years in I realized I made a terrible mistake marrying someone who doesn't love me
>I can't cheat, but I can't keep doing this
you do realize your dick is like, in the top 10% of size right?
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I've been in the same situation however I took a sort of drastic direction and instead of asking I just grab her and throw her on the bed, she doesn't fight me so she must enjoy it I think my wife just wanted to be dominated.
I have a beard at her request. She is 30. We dated for 10 years and have been married for 2.
>you do realize your dick is like, in the top 10% of size right
Idk, everyone said shit on the internet and women tell every dude they fuck that they are the biggest. It just does not seem gargantuan, so I do not think it would deter her.
>No. She is infatuated with me and wants children with me badly. She just never wants sex. I basically stopped asking due to constant rejection.
>I have no fucking clue.
Sounds exactly like my relationship with my girlfriend. Probably going to turn her in for a younger model soon.
Tell her that the bible says that it is OK for a married man and woman to have sex
Does she every say anything about domination fantasies? I think about it, but it seems just like rape to me.
I once had a chick close her eyes during sex. I asked her what is going on and she said "I am pretending I am getting raped". I lost my boner and immediately walked out.
>She is 30
She should be a grandma by now then.
Same here user. It's the main reason I don't want to have kids, at least not for a long time.
Unless she's a petite little dwarf---she should have no problem with that
I was in the same situation, ended in divorce as it usually does. Now I tell women (including current gf of 18 months) , I have sexual needs and if were in a relationship and you're not giving it to me I'll get it from someone else. And doing things like this I've discovered the true Chad in me , never been happier
I have the opposite problem. Wife wants to bang all the time and I'm just not that interested. Most of the time it feels like it's not worth the trouble. Don't want the hassle and to go through the motions. If we could make it a 5 minute act every night, I'd go for it, but devoting 30 min or more just to have sex is tiresome. It's not for lack of libido, either. Think about sex all the time.
Anybody else have this feel?
Well, she is 5 foot flat...
I have a very big personality IRL.....;so perhaps it's possible I met people like this and they never made me aware of it. They were likely afraid I'd mock them or something like that. ----Since banter & calling everybody niggers, faggots, etc is part of my daily speech.
I want to fuck for an hour every night. I would kill to have that much sex. I only stay with my wife because I love her.
You're watching too much porn, stop now
She's had me wear a mask while we have sex 4 years ago, deep down I think most women have rape fantasies because women want to feel out of control and in the hands of a "strong" mate this tends to mean violence and brute force. My wofe was getting less interested in sex but when I stopped asking her to move and just started manhandling her it was like a breath of fresh air, instead of adking her to get on her knees or suck my dick I just threw her around and shoved my dick in her mouth and next thing I know she's having a grand old time and by extension so am I. I regret being raised by a single mom because I genuinely reslect women but I think you need to put that behind you sometimes and just fucking manhandle your spouse, they like to feel out of control because it shows you know where you're going I think.
Have you tried giving her a massage and grinding on her genitals? You may have to help her get horny.
Intel spotted
When was the last time you bought her flowers user? Sometimes wives just need a little token to show you still love them.
Wish we could trade mindsets, user. It's tough on both ends.
I don't watch porn, anymore. Maybe once a month I'll slip up, see something lewd on Jow Forums and have a shame-fap. The rest is noporn, unironically.
He buys her life, she shouldn't need flowers to fuck him
never? well now you know of 2 of us, and all you have to do is search on 'wife wont have sex with me' and you'll find thousands more.
I am no longer married to my own frigid spouse, but I kept hoping for FAR too long. It doesn't change. It wont ever change. OP needs to cut losses and go
Why does she have a say in the matter, pick her up and fuck her. What's wrong with you?
Unironically my advice is better than anything you can come up with.
>All these normalfags on Jow Forums
How often has she tried riding on top?
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You need to show her this. You have to have sex about 2-3 days from day 8 to day 19 of her cycle. I'm a femanon trying to get a second child, we realized that having sex around the standard ovulation time (around day 12) wasn't working because, when I checked my cervical mucus, the "fertile" type of mucus appeared to be coming in much earlier! You should also find resources that encourage her that sex in marriage is not sinful and is a celebration of God's life creating force. I don't know exactly what faith your wife is but Christian female friends of mine have posted articles to such a topic, I could try to search it for you but it exists. Sex= sin is a mental block for some women especially modest/chaste women, it's very real and they need a little help getting over it. If she has no sex drive or didn't enjoy sex it may be a hormonal issue. Something like Maca root or other herbal remedies can be looked at. This was an issue for me (for reference, I was fine with sex then I had a miscarriage which fucked up my hormones and sex was either painful or felt like nothing for a while). When the hormonal issue was fixed I enjoy my husband more than ever. However you should get used to a degree of sexual frustration because if she has severe morning sickness, you aren't gonna be having sex. After birth you are advised not to have sex for about 4-6 weeks I think but I think me and my husband went longer because a baby coming out of one's vagina makes you hesitate to put anything back in it. During these times either fap reasonably... Or do no fap! I really think not orgasming for a while has health benefits for men. God speed and I hope you get a cute baby soon.
She isn’t attracted to you at all. Top kek. Helluva situation to figure this out from a malaysian basket weaving forum after already marrying her.
I agree with you. I still buy her flowers and shit though.
Then you didnt read my replies , I actually fuck women. You need to act like a man not a pussy.... occasionally act like a pussy is ok. But if she cut him off, man up and lay down the law . I'm experienced in these areas fag
Yup good to do to show love, but not as a way to get sex. She owes you sex bro, it's her duty .
Very limited. I basically have to beg her to be on top. Sad because that is the best way I can just take it to her.
False. Sex is only for procreation.
Your advice is to get a divorce. My advice is to grind on her pussy. One will help OP, one won't.
jerk off in front of her, make it or break it
Dude have you even had sex? You dont think a married man is already trying to grind grab and get any way he can? No more advice please incel
Prank her with your dick while she's sleeping
Fuck off, you're gonna lecture me when your wife divorced you?
Based and redpilled poo
Rape her. She wants a man who takes what he wants
As someone who is married and has a lot of sex unless she's on her period I'm just going to say... What?
That's like a 26" waist. Eat something for chrissakes.
>5'11"
lol
There's your problem mate
I divorced her for being a shit wife, like a Chad. Now I have a awesome chick , and while I was looking for that awesome chick I fucked a ton of others.
Same fagging here but OP seriously if you can muster it start giving commands in bed and manhandling your spouse. Women like to feel out of control.
I’m the opposite. my wife wants to fuck me 24/7. She’s Latino. I guess you are right. White women hate sex for some reason. My ex gf who was a white girl treated it like it was a chore. My current gf literally begs to fuck me while I shit post here.
27". I wear a belt with everything.
I'm not too good with women so feel free to ignore me, but I've noticed it really turns them off when your attitude towards intimacy is very objective / matter-of-fact. they like to see passion
what I'm picking up is that the "sex is sinful" thing is bullshit and just an excuse.
don't just be like "ok here's your flowers bitch now bend over", do that romantic shit that they like. clean the house, tell her all the good things about her, touch her seductively, you know the game
You can be a prick all you want, but OP said he doesn't want to divorce his wife. So my advice is gonna be within those constraints. Shit will work too, you know it will. You're just being a little shithead about it.
>155lb
>cyclist
Two things you can fix quickly.
Had the same problem
>5'2" blonde wife
>only man she has ever been with
>wants shit loads of kids
>hardly ever wanted sex
>got tired of constant rejection
We worked it out extremely quickly though, just spoke to her about it and it was because she's tiny and I was getting her sore as fuck.
>9 inches long, 6.5 inches around
We sorted it out with a jar of Papaw Ointment (lubes and helps with soreness). Rub a bit of it on there and ready to go.
Been doing it every single night since using it (and some mornings). Hoping for a baby soon. In our very early twenties so should be fine.
Best of luck to you fren
welcome to most marriages in most places
im 6' and weigh 130, I bike 8k every weekday whilst going to the gym, I have 1% fat if that. my resting heartbeat is sometimes
It says they're based
Literally best advice here. Massage her pussy with some Papaw ointment, lubes and soothes, while getting her horny.
You need to gain about 20 more pounds and focus on your upper body. Your legs are probably great from the cycling.