My ex-boyfriend just sent me a text asking why I stopped loving him. I have a response typed up: "Stop? I never started...

My ex-boyfriend just sent me a text asking why I stopped loving him. I have a response typed up: "Stop? I never started. You were nothing more than a passing fling to me. You're delusional if you think that I was ever in love with you, or that you ever had even the slightest chance of winning my heart. I'm sure that if you text me again a year from now, I won't even have the slightest idea who you are. Please try to move on, dear. I already have, not that doing so required any effort."

Should I soften up this reply, or send it unedited? I believe in honesty, even brutal honesty. He's a sweet guy. We were together for about three years. I was just never really in love with him, even though his love for me was transparent almost from day one, and basically just thought of him as a friend that I lived with, went on dates with, and had sex with.

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>Dear
Just say "It wasn't there to begin with, please stop texting me" and be done
If you need to wax dramatic this hard at him it's gonna be pretty obvious you're invested beyond 'forgetting him in a year', like...

>passing fling
>3 years

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Hit send.
He was asking for closure.
Slam the door.

>Just say "It wasn't there to begin with, please stop texting me" and be done
Jow Forums's idea of being humane and considerate lol

I guess just send it as is. I mean you're a horrible bitch with no capacity for love, but at least he'll know that.

This. Just be honest, but don't be mean, it'll crush him. Just be real and give him closure. It'll be good for both of you to be honest.

You're disgusting. You always have been, and make it more and more obvious with every post. Serious question: are you aware on any level of how awful of a person you are?

Whoa, basic human decency on Jow Forums.

OP is being mean though...?

Definitely soften up the reply. I thought it was a perfect reply.... for someone who cheated on you or treated you with absolute disrespect. But if this guy was nice and never did anything bad to you and was a friend, then dont be a fucking cruel bitch for literally no reason. Just say you guys just didnt have the chemistry and that youre sorry. Thats it.

Cant believe your immediate go-to is that cold ass reply. Im glad you guys didnt stay together. He deserves way better than you