So can anyone at all explain how to have an orgasm?
I wasted money on a vibrator and everything and no magic and fireworks is happening.
So can anyone at all explain how to have an orgasm?
I wasted money on a vibrator and everything and no magic and fireworks is happening.
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You stick it in a hole and pretend it's part of the dirtiest fantasy you have. Orgasms are a mental game.
What vibrator is it? Are you a wimmen?
It’s a bullet vibrator. I can push it in there but it only feels unpleasant.
About the size of my thumb. And yes.
Fine, pedant, stick it in or around a hole. That was hardly the most important part of my reply.
Atmosphere is important even if you think its not. Turn off the lights, get some scented candles and put on some nice music. You should also be aware that very few women ever orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. Clit is more important. Rub it while you use the vibrator. Take it slow and don't stop until you get there.
As a wimmen, I recommend clitoral stimulation over fingers in holes. Put a towel down, go to town on your clitoris with the vibrator, et cetera. If that one doesn't work you may need extra help, if you don't have any extra vibrator you can use a vibrating toothbrush
If you're that sheltered from pleasure...find yourself a good porn to watch, something that makes you feel aroused. Something that makes you go "I wish that was me". Volume up, because you'll likely be caring less about the video and more about the audio as you get into it.
Once you've got that, watch for a bit, and start playing with yourself. Feel for your clit, do not use the vibrator. Rub with lots of spit or lotion, small circular, up and down.
Once you start getting going, pop out the bullet, turn it on low and replace your finger rubbing with it....and just let it happen.
I don’t even listen to music regularly, I get self-conscious that someone might hear it.
I tried pressing it really hard on the clit, but that only felt like anything for a few seconds and then it stopped feeling like anything.
Watching porn makes me feel like I’m in a bad zoo. I can try to look at it and try to find something I like, but all I can think about is hoe unhappy they look and how they’d probably want to be somewhere else instead.