ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

>Is it too late to start dating?

>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros:

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>Be at work
>Be security at door
>Really cute girl comes in
>Seems to wait till I notice her and smiles and me
>We hold eye contact for a bit and I half smile back
>She goes into the store
>Kinda dumbfounded
>Few minutes later she's leaving
>Actually stops until I notice her and smiles at me again
>This time I full on smile and it makes me blush
>She walks away
Wh-what was that?

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Religious girls if any, more specifically Christians, would you willing to date a non-christian guy, what are your limits when it comes to that?

Why specifically Christians?

How do I ask a girl to hang out in a way that doesn't sound cringy or like I'm asking her on a date?

how do i know if you're single or not ladies

Ask them directly

How do I get over my oneitis?

I’ going to do this and that on sunday , you wanna come along?

hey I liked talking to you the other day, you wanna have a coffee and chat on saturday ?


Do you also have cooooming problems?

You ask me about it.

i get sad after i coom
but i do it the next day aniways

femfren let us stop coooming and enjoy this life

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I always fall for non-christian guys but I never go too far because I know it will never work if we have kids. If I didn't want kids I'd be willing to marry. If you are talking about limits as in sex a devout christian girl would remain a virgin until marriage.

i wish fren, one day, one day my fren

Guys, how should a woman walk? confidently with swinging arms or very light steps, slouching or shoulders very open? I get really self-conscious when I'm walking and standing because I slouch.

as long as you're not walking around like an autist nobody cares really

Ok, thanks, I overthink this a lot.

>she does the virgin walk


I don't pay attention to how others walk.

OH NO! I just looked it up and this is exactly how I walk, help

its a meme for a reason, nobody cares about how you walk.

correction: minus long strides and trying to speed up or pass people

Please respond lads

Guys, how do you feel about a woman with a foot fetish?

How do I break up nicely with my boyfriend of 2 years? He’s a great person, I just can’t see a future with him. I also don’t love him romantically. I’ve tried before, but he legit won’t accept it, and I get roped back into this painful relationship.

How do I make my crush break up with her boyfriend?
We do hang out and have fun, she's a really nice person but I fucking hate the fact that she has a bf.

just like how i feel about dudes with foot fetishes
no need to be nice to guys, it's more useful if you're just direct

Bit strange but I wouldn't have any qualms with obliging.

you a sociopath there bro

How do I attract general women?

Be a genuinely happy and warm person

How do I do that? How does one be more "warm"?

Yeah I've had mixed responses to this, only one guy was actually excited by it

It probably depends on how rough their feet are. The rougher the grosser. Personally I don't walk around a ton so my feet are pretty pristine, I wouldn't mind them being worshipped.

Are HIS toes in YOUR mouth, or are YOUR toes in HIS mouth?

HIS toes in MY mouth

>If this means she's ok with my fetish
Hell yeah
>If this means she's wants my feet
Hell no

Guy feet are fucking disgusting, especially mine.

That's just a chill situation of he's cool with it. I can sympathize bc I have a foot fetish as well so good luck snagging a good one :)

I actually am though.

What’s it like?

>Guy feet are fucking disgusting, especially mine.
Some totally are, but for the most part they ain't too bad. Maybe you should take better care of your feet dude.

Thanks! Only a few people I've met have flat out rejected the idea completely.

Ladies, what's your stance on asexual men?

Do girls really squirt?

It's like moaning. Some do, most don't.

>some don't
t. dicklet

I'd say you belong under my foot in terms of your worth, so don't even talk to me

Backwards, doing the moonwalk. I like mysterious women.
It's uncommon but it isn't a disgusting fetish like many others. I wouldn't have any problem with it.
When you are gonna break up wait a month or two before seeing other guys. Making him understand you are gonna break up because you are not happy with that situation is important if you wanna keep him as a friend. Breaking up and hanging out with other guys straight after make it looks like you don't like him and you was with him just because you had nobody else.

>get out of shitty ltr (we were both dicks)
>5 months later, start dating another dude
>tell him I need it to be slow as hell because I am wanting to be sure as things
>he agrees and we have a good couple weeks together
>find out the mutual friends he's told believe we're in relationship
>I breach the conversation with him and learn he wasn't aware dating =\= relationship
>fuck it, we've known each other a long time and he's never been anything but patient and awesome, sure we're in a relationship
>ffw to now, it's hit me how serious this whole thing is
>he's looking to move out early next year, has always planned to start a family within the next half decade
>my feelings for him haven't changed, if anything have intensified
>I'm starting to panic and get cold feet about everything whenever I think about these things
Tl;Dr: The hypothetical scenario of my bf and I spending our lives together is fine but when it comes to making that a reality it sends me into cold sweats.

What the fuck is wrong with me?? How do I fix this?

He's made no move to pressure me into joining him with the move out but everyone knows I'm desperate to leave my current living situation so I feel like I'm just going to get swept up in it

Be funny, good looking, and smile

be wealthy, tall, in good shape and not balding

Girls, what does a healthy guy's cock taste like? Assuming he's
1) just out of the shower
2) after a working day

Skin, his sweat / bo, a little bit of musk from his body wash. Just at the shower is going to be less skin / sweat, home from work is going to be almost entirely skin / sweat

Hey women

Say I was a service person getting you some sliced deli meat and I noticed you have beautiful eyes

Would you mind if I said, “you have really beautiful eyes” and of you responded positively I asked if you might like to go look at things sometimes or something, is that inappropriate?

So girls like it when you ignore them, and they also hate it when you ignore them. They also like it when you give them attention, but also don't like it when you don't give them attention.

Did I miss anything?

Don't like it when you give them attention*

Girls, what's your personal preferred tone when you have sex with someone new for the first time? Slow and relaxed? Fun and carefree? Romantic and passionate? Fast and wild?

Basically told her I wasn't interested. Was she trying to hurt me here? Felt kind of hostile.

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Since when does dating not equal being in a relationship with who you're dating?

if she does leave her bf to be with you, what guarantees that she won't do the same to you when something better comes along?

wait for her to be single if you wanna make a move on her, if not, just keep being a good friend.

They're totally fine.

Money>Education>SocialStatus>Sense of humor>Authority

Raise any of those attributes


Play to her necessities: Maslow pyramid approach

physiological needs>security>affection>Recognition>Self-achievement

Identify the most pressing need, and fulfill it like no1 ever has before.

For example: Single mom? she might be looking for a breadwinner to have sex with on a regular basis, with stable/disposable income, that owns a house, that will take care of her Larvae and tells her she's beautiful and that he loves her on a regular basis, that accepts her job or hobbies and gives her time to pursue what she wants.

What are you talking about? Girls love attention, they don't like it when a guy is clingy and overbearing with it, but definitely like attention.

Yeah she's backtracking making it seam like 'she like totally wasn't even interested' to hurt you cause she's hurt.

man here, if you tell her that you'll creep her out and place her in an akward position to respond since you ARE a client and she needs to be sociable for you to come back.

try some nonverbal cues to show that you like her: smile a lot, look at her, try doing some small talk, find an excuse to invite her to coffee or something like that, ask her name, etc. be creative.

Because he, being the mentally ill autist that he is, wants a virgin girl only (but wants nothing to do with the reasons why she's a virgin in the first place) classical case of a little bitch that wants his cake and eat it too

I think you got it wrong, he's not the client, he's the server.

I agree with it being an awkward situation though.

Is cofee really something you would ask a girl to as a friend? To me it sounds like the most date-y thing imgineable. Also, I've never really gone to "get coffee" as an event before. I've only ever made it at home or got it out of a vending machine. Do people actually do this or is it just a meme?

t. literal incel

>keep being a good friend
I think it's safe to say he's way past the stage of being a good friend, you retard

Damn, I don't how to feel. I only talked to her for like two days and she barely messaged me back when we did.

Do you think her response was justified? Or do you think if she responded like this she wasn't a good person to begin with? I'm having trouble deciding

>warn many other anons about oneitis
>contract oneitis myself

shit how do I even begin to want to cure myself

What do girls think about attractive but incompetent guys who coast through life on their looks and ability to act friendly?

I think you mean most do.

girls would you be okay with dating a guy who lives with his mom but has a job but also doesnt have to really pay bills so hes way richer than other people in his age group?

Well girls don't usually go through as much rejection as guys so some really can't handle it well.
I don't think she's a bad horrible person but she didn't handle the situation well, trying to put you down to make herself feel better is not justified.

Maybe they're good for a fling but not for a relationship.

Yeah haha. I was like "No worries I don't have much charisma, so I understand" and she replied "I hope I didnt embarrass you!" and immediately brought up that she missed a mutual male friend of ours.

Feels bad man. I would normally counterattack with full force, but she seems like a decent/naive person so I let her use me as a punching bag in this moment.

she just seems nice

ignore her and she will lose her shit

Is it common among girls to go back to guys they claim to have "missed"? I knew a girl from the Internet, whom I had completely forgotten until she decided to send me a message on Whatsapp. We were never in a relationship or anything, just acquaintances, but she said she was feeling down and missed me, and I don't want to risk becoming her emotional tampon. What do I do?

Break his heart. Better for both of you. But not by fucking another guy. Just tell him he got quite the faggot.

I always thought that was just some porn myth but its actually real. Its a great benefit if youre a complete autist because you can tell youre doing at least something right.

She's obviously coping and also seething.

meet and always try to escalate to sex
if you cant kiss her within two dates, cut contact

girls nowadays are shameless, using men for attention when these men want something else. its also the mens' fault for being so friendly and nice. if you want sex, push for sex and dont settle for a friendship.

Shit's hard bro. Feelings are feelings, you are not made out of stone. But just try not contact her or even see her, if possible and you will forget. Or just try to talk to other girls just casually. Their positive resonance will boost your confidence and also your test and you might perhaps even loose your betaness.

I can be confident socially, but perhaps I haven't talked to enough girls. Hm.

I would never date them.

>work security
>girl comes up all flustered asks for directions to toilet

>comes back later asking me if she can buy me a drink
>tell her I'm working but my mind is thinking holy fuck she's gonna put roofies in my drink or something

>at closing, she comes around and goes to shake my hand then holds it throwing compliments at me
>my autist brain is wondering what is going on and then just as I was coming up with a reply, her friend apologizes and drags her off

Just take it as a compliment and a sign you're doing things right.


I just ate TWO chicken biscuits, how jealous does this make you?

The fuck is a chicken biscuit? Sounds like a faggoty version of a chicken sandwich

I mean she didn't message me for like a month after our initial conversation...she's done the ignoring already

Man I'm not even a chad. I didn't know I could make girls cope

Is that like what British people call it or something

That is why she is coping even more.

Kek. We'll see what happens. Thanks to all the anons that participated.

Guys, why do you like comparing hand sizes with girls?

On literally every date I've went to, the guy has put his palm against mine to compare hand sizes. It's random. And kind of intimate so I'm confused why it happens so often, so soon.

Small hands on a women are cute. So you most likely have small hands. And you said it yourself, it's kind of intimate without beeing overtly sexual. Gives you women the chance to show interest in physical contact with plausible deniability for us.

women's hands are so small which is very cute

Yeah, I do have tiny hands.

>Gives you women the chance to show interest in physical contact with plausible deniability for us.
Never thought of it that way -- guess it makes sense! thanks user