Femanon here. I just got a job offer at a very large tech company. The problem is... it's too good.
My boyfriend is also in tech and he's absolutely amazing, but he's severely underpaid. He could easily get a good job that pays lots more than his current role but he likes his job, and he likes his peers.
Last night he came home almost in tears because I'm about to make almost 3x his salary and he feels emasculated. I don't know what to do to make things better.
I love him very much and I'm tempted to not take the offer to save our relationship. I will do everything I can to stay with him because he's the best thing that ever happened to me.
What would you do?
Femanon here. I just got a job offer at a very large tech company. The problem is... it's too good
>I love him very much and I'm tempted to not take the offer to save our relationship.
Don't do that. Don't do things to mend men's egos, it's never reasonable.
your boyfriend is insecure, leave him
just take the job but be prepared to lose him
Find a guy whose more ambitious and not a pussy. He's not upset about the money, it's the realization you just hustled harder than him.
Just give him some of your paycheck
Just kidding, don't actually do that. Tell him to deal with it.
Doesn't it worry you that your boyfriend doesn't have your best interests in mind and wants to hold you back for the sake of his own ego?
This post reeks of permavirigin catlady.
>you just hustled harder than him
She's getting a cushy job in the tech industry because she had a cunt. Her boyfriend is most likely thrice as talented as she is but was born with the wrong set of genitals and wrong shade of skin for the current political climate.
everyone is insecure u fuckin retard
>permavirigin catlady.
exact opposite :)