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FAQ: >Do girls/guys like ? >What do girls/guys think about There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do? Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me? Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys? Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean? Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this? Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date? Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .
>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick Fuck off
>Is it too late to start dating? no
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Would you date someone who rides a motorbike or do you think it shows poor judgement?
I would be hesitant.
I just got out of a relationship with a guy who lived 1.5 hours away on a good day, and now I’m talking to a guy who lives 1.25 hours away. I can’t tell if it’s worth pursuing something with a great guy if he’s so far away, because it means we’d only get to see each other once a week at most, and gas is expensive here. It just seems... foolish.
Could use some advice from other femanons who can tell me if this is worth it or I should should just call it quits.
Would you ever consider chastity play (cage, teasing, etc) with a man or is it a hard no?
Why would it be a hard no? Like, do you think girls don’t enjoy domination or have kinks and fetishes?
I was actually having this conversation with a friend the other day, saying that anyone who lives ~1hr away is basically a long distance relationship. Unless you live on opposite sides of a city centre or something and can reliably meet in the middle then it's really pushing the limit for maintaining a meaningful relationship.
What exactly would I be doing?
>do you think girls don’t enjoy domination on the whole, yeah pretty much. Some do of course but it seems exceedingly rare.
wow you seriously are a little bitch, aren't you? hope both of those guys find better women than you.
put a cockcage on the guy so it would hurt him every time he's got an erection, he wouldn't be able to masturbate either. Also you'll have to fuck other guys in front of him just to show him how little of a man he really is.
I posted here a couple days back about a coworker who invited me to work out with her and her boyfriend. A few anons told me not to go because I'm kind of into the girl, but I went anyway. It was honestly a lot of fun, didn't really feel awkward at all. The dude was pretty chill, and my coworker seemed pretty interested in talking to me. The guy went off to do his workout to another area, and most of the time it was just her and me. She had a big smile while talking to me, kept touching my arm to point to things and seemed like she was genuinely enjoying my company. Now I'm just more confused as to how she views this, just a casual friendship outside of work or something more than that.
That’s exactly the problem. I’m in a small town, he’s in an even smaller town. My last boyfriend was in a town so small they didn’t even have cell service.
It was basically an LDR and one of the reasons he broke up with me— the inability to further a relationship meaningfully week by week. I was also unable to sleep over at his place for a number of reasons.
dude, just move on and fine your own woman. What are you trying to accomplish out of this?
things like keeping him in a chastity cage, making him eat you and while being unable to satisfy himself, tease him about it, that sort of thing.
probably not to this extreme, there's different levels of this stuff you know.
Sure, I’m a little bitch because I’m trying to be practical and realistic.
I'm a guy thinking about trying to get into a similar relationship, it's pretty normal around here since the dating pool is so small within short driving distance.
Since I constantly get accused of "not making good enough conversation", ladies, how do you propose I start one? What is there to introduce yourself or start a conversation with besides saying a bit about yourself or asking them about themselves? If, say, her account on a site offers literally nothing to go from, I'd assume trying to learn about them would be a pretty good way to delve into deeper conversation, wouldn't you?
I would consider the other stuff but not getting involved with other people.
Sounds like you already know the answer to your question.
Relationships have to have room to progress. Seeing each other once a week might be fine for the first month but it's hard to make it go anywhere without being able to increase the face time. Save yourself the stress and find someone closer.
>Hard R that's racist
Because I like her and she's been initiating plans to hang out with me quite a bit over the past month
I dated my last boyfriend for eight months.
I think part of the problem was that I couldn’t sleep over. If I could sleep over, it’d be easier to make an LDR work. My job is remote, so that would be easier to me. So in theory, we could increase face to face time.
I’ve tried finding people closer. I don’t think it’s likely to happen, though I certainly wouldn’t stop looking if this guy doesn’t work out.
do i ask out that girl she has a bf 99% chance
>she has a bf 99% chance If you don't know for sure, then just ask her out.
how old are you? there have been people that have meet over the internet that live in different continents all together and they have managed to meet up and build a life together. Compared with that 1.25 hours just sounds like just a petty excuse, you clearly don't like this guy that much since you are already looking into dumping him for dump reasons.
why not? wouldn't you do it if your partner really wanted it and got off from the idea=
again, what are you expecting out of this? she already has a boyfriend, do you think she will dumping for you? Do you think she wouldn't do the same to you if that was the case?
find another woman and stay away from this one, no matter how you see it, it can only end bad for you.
take the risk man. worst thing that can happen is that you confirm if she is single or not and move on if she rejects you.
We haven’t even gone on a first date. I’m trying to decide before we invest in anything.
Yes, and LDRs are hard. They’re not for everyone. Nothing wrong with that. Unless there’s something morally abhorrent to wanting a partner who’s close by?
1.5 hours in the Bay Area can easily turn into 2 hours at bad times— especially at the peak traffic hours that occur when people get off work, which is about the time my last boyfriend was actually able to either come see me or have me over.
would you dominate me also as a black boy if i was asking to become your slave ?
Hard pass. Gentle, casual domination is good though. Aren't there websites for you to find people into this?
they're dead when I've looked. I wish I wanted a normal relationship, that would be nice.
im black would you call me nigger if i asked you to and if so what would i need to give you to do so ?!
Been dating a girl for about a month, and she's met some of my friends, and today she asked if I wanted to get lunch with some of her friends. I couldn't actually make it, but that's a pretty good sign right? That she wants her friends to meet me?
I know it's pretty fucking cliche to say it, but she's absolutely perfect for me in every way. We have shitloads in common and my gut tells me there's something special about her, but fair enough.
may i please ask why its so fustrating there is no way to live with my sexuality other then in my thoughts ?!
This is even worse than putting your dick in a cage. No. I would never say those things or treat another person like that.
That's pretty sad. I hope you find someone who you're sexually compatible with. Wanting your presumably white girlfriend to be racist to you concerns me and I'd hate for you to find yourself in a relationship with an actual racist who doesn't really respect or care about you.
would you call me the n-word just in normal confersations here or whever if i had a fetish thing for girls using it maybe for $ even
>Wanting your presumably white girlfriend to be racist to you concerns me and I'd hate for you to find yourself in a relationship with an actual racist who doesn't really respect or care about you. haha that's another guy not me. Either way I doubt I'll find a girl into, seems very rare.
You will be a dick to the other guy tho. Let them have their relationship
Because I’m not comfortable with it. It’s that simple. It feels deeply wrong.
Any gender can answer but please do state yours. 1. Are you introverted, or extroverted? 2. In dating, which of the two have you meshed the best with?
Yes, live your life only doing what is comfortable. Never challenge yourself. Always keep your feet firmly planted in your bubble and never wander out of it. 100% recipe for success. Good on you, mate.
Because I need to love and trust someone a lot to have sex with them and I feel uncomfortable with non-monogamy.
21386600 aww thank you a however really like your answer even if i was hoping for some acception , really sweet thx . and thats the kind of girl like you not a real racist offcourse just a girl that roleplays it like in other bdsm fantasy i would not consider it being real its just like any other slave-misstress sessions where not every man would wanna remain that postion as slave 24/7 1 is sexuallty the other real life for me .
male introvert, extrovert but only because starting anything with other introverts has been pretty much impossible to pull off so far. Working on it right now since we've both finally gained the social experience to interact without it being horribly awkward.
1. Introverted I guess but I love socialising and attention, just not enough to do anything for it actively. 2. As long she doesn't hide from people in her basement or wants to go out every weekend with me, I couldn't care less. And I don't mesh with the extremes due other reasons.
male, heavily introverted, I've never dated a woman but I get along better with extroverted women generally
maybe i'd mesh well with an introvert but I lack the ability to get close enough to one in the first place. I require a lot a reassurance and support and extroverts tend to provide it, at least superficially. Too many barriers to dating a quiet woman.
male introvert, I'd say I match better with extrovert women because they push me to talk. I find introvert women interesting but they are really hard to approach and being an introvert myself that's extra difficult for me.
>I require a lot a reassurance and support and extroverts tend to provide it, at least superficially what's been helping with me finally pursuing an introverted girl as an introvert is that I've been able to recognize some of my own anxious introvert ticks in her, which avoids most of my internal mindgames I had to deal with from trying to figure out why extroverts do what they do.
There’s a difference between “challenge yourself” and “do stuff sexually that makes you nauseous and want to vomit and hate yourself”. There is nothing valuable in forcing myself to do that.
To both genders: do you use exfoliant? What brand is the best for people with acne/oily skin?
I use a pineapple papaya facial scrub, but I do not have super duper oily skin.bots pretty average and I only use the scrub once a week.
That's a good point but there's still going to be more barriers with her than with an extrovert. Personally it's too much to deal with.
1. even split 2. extroverts
I have oily and acne prone skin. I recently ordered a liquid exfoliate because my skin tears super easily and I cant use anything too abrasive. ill report back here to tell if it works or not
How young is too young to date if your 23? I'm 23 male, met this girl that's 19 almost 20, knew each other a bit growing up, but more through the grapevine. I'm debating on asking her out after I talk to her a little longer, seems really chill and cool though. Just got out of a 4 year ruff manipulative relationship about 4 months ago and ready to hop back in to dating a bit, just don't want to look like a creep who picks up younger girls
Wheres the best place to meet women at university
During sex do men prefer bouncing up and down or grinding back and forth?
male, no, never had. I've always had nice skin, also i've always been an active person.
Up and down. Back and forth has almost no actual motion.
Girls, Would you think it was weird if the guy you were dating frequently hung out with/texted his female friend who he briefly dated and has had sex with a few times before?
Yeah, I've been using a "brightening facial scrub with sea kelp and French green clay" from a brand called Acure, 1 to 3 times a week. My skin's fairly oily but I don't really get acne now that I'm an adult. I also use a foaming cleanser and toner everyday, and a face mask from Andalou once a week. They sell them in these little single use cup things and they make my skin look great for days. You don't have to use exactly what I use but if we have similar skin types, they might be good to try.
However, the best exfoliator I've ever used is a homemade honey and sugar mask. Makes my skin softer than a baby's bottom but it's messy and time consuming so I haven't done it in years. That was back when I was a teenager when my skin was more oily and I some acne.
Half your age plus 7.
male, never had bad acne but I had bad break outs, it was directly associated with my diet though, fixed that and it went away
Girls, how often do you play with your boobs? If I had them I don't think I would ever be able to stop.
Never. It doesn't feel like anything.
Not really the point, guys play with their dick constantly but not always for the purpose of feeling something.
have been in a class with this girl for like 3 months now and id like to approach her and ask her name. Is that weird? She looks at me in class sometimes but doesnt smile or anything, is it because im just staring to her too much? I dont smile at her when she looks at me either maybe i should do that first?
Next time she looks at you, smile at her and see her reaction
I just went to the gas station to get a snack and the girl at the check out randomly said she was off tomorrow due to a scheduling problem. Was she hinting that I should ask her out?
Girls who have experience with significantly girthy penises, any tips for improving sexual encounters? Other than obviously lube and lots of foreplay
Huh, and here I thought the up and down motion was just for porn since rocking back and forth isn't as flashy
I don't date men who are friends with people they fucked or that they want(ed) to fuck. Hard pass.
It'd be easier to say "I don't date men with female friends"
I feel like a girl is spaghetting with me >Asks me if I have any paper when she meant paper towels (we also have receipt paper which is what I tried giving her >Need a pen one day. She tells me she has one and accidentally drops it on the floor as she takes it out >Asks me a question and immediately brings up a hypothetical without letting me get a word in >Also always calls things by wrong/confusing names when talking to me
I use TLC Sukari Babyfacial by Drunk Elephant. Worth the money, my face looks so pretty when I'm done.
Back and forth isn't awful or anything, but you have to understand that pussy isn't exactly "tight" in the sense that every stroke is some orgasmic experience for guys. It takes some pretty consistent motion to get anywhere and the back and forth grinding thing doesn't achieve much, at least for me.
Forgot to add I'm only asking this because I barely interact with her, and the times we exchange more than one word it's always been weird.
How to stop being virgin
Female introvert. I absolutely prefer introverts. I resent extroverts so much for taking me out constantly and wanting me to hang out with their friends, it never works. I'm not shy at all, so that helps.
How can you tell if she's interested and not just being polite?
I've known guys who had female friends they weren't particularly sexually attracted to. I don't date guys who are bffs with their ex girlfriends or the girls they orbited.
Ask her out and see what she says.
Point is, a girl would have to be pretty ugly or unhinged for a guy to turn down casual sex with her. Especially if he likes her enough to be her friend.
Not every guy is a filthy degenerate like you
Every guy is a filthy degenerate, they just come in varying levels of being willing to admit it
I always assumed the back and forth motion was more for the girl's sake some say they can get off like that and only start doing the bouncing part when they've gotten a good feel of the guy's penis
Guys come in different shapes and sizes, including some who are borderline asexual, or extremely picky, or morally opposed to casual sex, or whatever. I'm not opposed to having female friends as a rule, I just don't want you to be close emotionally to people you had sexual/romantic feelings for. If that's the case for all women you've been friends with, then sure, no female friends for me.