Is it bad I still want her back as a friend?

Logan Stewart
Logan Stewart

I seriously didn’t mean to expose her like that
I sent screenshots of our convos to group chats on social media asking advice on what to say to her, they were also cropped so they couldn’t see the username
The only reason they found her was because her name isn’t a common one

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Ayden Sanchez
Ayden Sanchez

Oh my god leave the poor girl alone, just stop.

Gavin Wright
Gavin Wright

I have, but I still want her back as a friend

Anthony Morales
Anthony Morales

Keep harassing her until the cops get involved and then you become a bad boy instead of a nice guy and then you’ll be swimming in her pussy

Adrian Murphy
Adrian Murphy

Stop bevor become a stalker.. Seriously...

Jack Cooper
Jack Cooper

I don’t harass her, I just come back every few months to ask her if she wants to be friends again, if she doesn’t, I leave her alone

Christian Ward
Christian Ward

Dude, stop. Please.

Brandon Ortiz
Brandon Ortiz

I said I DID stop, but how do I get her back as a friend

James Long
James Long

No, I mean leave her alone.
Never ever have any interactions with her again, you're obviously just going to end up being the worst thing in her life if you continue trying to force your way to her.

Jeremiah Phillips
Jeremiah Phillips

Stop talking to her, leave her the fuck alone.

Lincoln Sanchez
Lincoln Sanchez

Did you not read what I just typed?
I said I have left her alone, but I still want her back as a friend

Leo Mitchell
Leo Mitchell

Who said anything about forcing anyone?

David Long
David Long

You fucked up. A similar thing happened to me recently, had a breakup after a year and against my better judgement went to our shared friends for support and basically bitched to them about how selfish and narcissistic my Ex had been in the relationship causing me real anxiety and depression issues but I still wanted her as a friend because without the relationship I don't have to be affected by those issues she has and we can just have fun with eachother like how we were before the relationship.
Guess what parts got back to my Ex from my fucking traitorous friends? She refuses to speak to me ever again.
I'm giving it a month or so, normally no contact is a terrible idea since it causes the person to stew in negativity about you, but my ex is clearly so angry there is no point pushing it until it dies down. I'm giving it a month or so then I'll probably try bump into her out at a club or bar and just try have fun with her that night to put what happened in the past under the bed and try remind her why we were friends in the first place.

Adam Cox
Adam Cox

She doesn't want to be friends, you're still trying to be friends, that's forcing her.

Dylan Howard
Dylan Howard

It’s been a year and she still doesn’t want to talk to me, even after following me again

Oliver Taylor
Oliver Taylor

You are lying.
You are here still focusing on and talking about her, that's not leaving her alone.

Carter Morgan
Carter Morgan

How am I “forcing” her, all I do is ask

Evan Young
Evan Young

I’m not bothering her, am I? Haven’t tried to talk to her in a while
Just trying to find out how to get her back without being pushy

Jack Morris
Jack Morris

DON'T TRY TO GET HER BACK!

Grayson Diaz
Grayson Diaz

But she was my friend
This ain’t something you forget about like it’s nothing

Ethan Cox
Ethan Cox

If she was really you friend and you cared about her you would not have been a toxic presence in her life?
If you think you care about her at all the only thing you can do for her is never contact her again.

David Young
David Young

I didn’t even mean to be “toxic”, it was all an accident
Also, If you cared about someone you’d want them in your life

Andrew Hill
Andrew Hill

Not if you're bad and toxic (even accidentally) for them to be around, then you let them go.

Angel Ramirez
Angel Ramirez

I was NEVER toxic
I never TRIED to be toxic
I was NEVER a bad influence or a bad friend to her
It was just an accident
You don’t let go of a friend, after all those good times, you can’t just let it go like it was nothing

Jayden Walker
Jayden Walker

But she let go of you...

Benjamin Bell
Benjamin Bell

But I still care for her

Nicholas Cox
Nicholas Cox

So? Move on, you creep her out.

Christopher Harris
Christopher Harris

I’m trying to prove I’m NOT creepy

Angel White
Angel White

Keep messaging her when she’s made it clear she doesn’t want you to so she knows you’re not creepy

Kayden Hernandez
Kayden Hernandez

That ain’t gonna work
I tried everything, gifts, apologies, trying to talk things out

Elijah Clark
Elijah Clark

That is literally forceful, pushy and creepy stalker behavior.

Easton Murphy
Easton Murphy

I didn’t mean to be stalkery, I just tried to win back her friendship

Jonathan Stewart
Jonathan Stewart

you mean normal male behavior. oh but you left out men are braggarts and why they share everything related to any interaction with a female

Jack Russell
Jack Russell

You haven't tried giving her space

Nathan Bennett
Nathan Bennett

It's usually perfectly normal male behavior, but not when it's a toxic creep who can't let go like this guy.

Ryan Fisher
Ryan Fisher

Then again, that was all last year, I haven’t tried talking to her much this year

Sebastian Richardson
Sebastian Richardson

How am I toxic? It was an accident

Luis Jones
Luis Jones

Bump

Zachary Turner
Zachary Turner

To answer the OP question, yes it is bad, now fuck off you creep.

Anthony Price
Anthony Price

I’m NOT a creep
I don’t try to be a creep
I just want her back as a friend

Luke Miller
Luke Miller

Bump

Colton Scott
Colton Scott

She doesn't want you as a friend
Wanting her "back" as a friend means you can't respect that.
We have all lost friends before. It happens. Get a new friend.

Joseph White
Joseph White

What would you do if a close friend cut ties with you after making a mistake?

Cooper Young
Cooper Young

Leave them alone and cut ties with them too.

Blake Price
Blake Price

But they were your friend?
It wouldn’t be creepy to try and be their friend again, right?

Jonathan Edwards
Jonathan Edwards

If the friend wrote a message like the one in the first post about you, it would be very bad and creepy to try to be friends again.

Jayden Price
Jayden Price

Yes. I have done that many times. If they cut ties, it is up to them to reconnect.
I know it sucks but it is creepy to not understand that you should leave them alone when they ask you to.
It is a Chinese finger trap. The more you try, the less she wants to be your friend. Male friends work the same way. Calling whatever you did a mistake instead of saying what it was you did also means you want to distance yourself from your mistake and that makes you a creep too.

Gavin Campbell
Gavin Campbell

Understanding that I made a mistake makes me a creep?