Is a family and children worth it?

Sometimes I fantasize about having a loving wife with a couple of kids and it bringing me happiness. Is this a delusion or is something actually worth pursuing for the average guy?

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There is no such thing as family in 2019.

No

I think it’s a good thing but in today’s world it comes with major problems.

Don’t seek validation from a woman or child, you are only seeking acceptance. If you force it 99% of the time she’ll eventually leave you for chad or bbc if she sees any sort of weakness. Go foreign, do not try to get with Americanized women

Stop thinking about yourself. Proceation is your duty

Depends. Got two kids and wifey. It's breddy comfy but yeah there's times when I think about living a life of sin and playing video games all day. DESU it's worked out pretty well and there will be someone to take care of me when I'm older. You instill this in your lads.

No, this is a very rare thing in the modern age.

hot dog.

Think you might need a break from the internet user. You sound like a spineless incel faggot.

You tell them all how to think. If you're a poltard you have enough force of will for children and women you faggot

>t.yellowfeverfaggot

God, she's beautiful

You can have a normal, loving family but the methods it requires will make your family a social outcast. You can't live in the city and you will need to homeschool your kids. And in order to not be absolute hermits you'll need to find quasi-like-minded comminutes to join like a church so you can keep toxic people away from your family without living in a bunker.

Yes, until you send them to a government school. Then they will hate you and you will hate them

Why have that when you can have this?

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Implying you're weak minded and you let your kids get indoctrinated. My children know I'm the end all of truth and that society is a scam

Your fantasized version may have existed at one point but nowadays the reality is having a family is fucked. The Gov't does their hardest to destroy the family and they largely succeed. Just keep fantasizing and eventually get a daki with you're waifu on it

> Is this a delusion or is something actually worth pursuing for the average guy?

Perhaps both?

So basically you are trying to redpill them with Alex Jones bullshit?

There is no such thing like "society is a scam". Elaborate what you mean.

Blue-pilled jaded faggot. Show her who is boss and she will bed to your will. You don’t pull “Americanized” women because you lack confidence and the knowledge to best a woman at her own tricks.

Let me know how you’re doing in 5 years

fuck out of here

I don’t want kids being born into this degenerate society and be bombarded with faggot and nigger propaganda. I don’t want them staring at a computer screen for the rest of their existence either.

Depends on the family. Be product and a good patriarch, get a good wife and you get good kids and a good family, and it's worth it. Don't and its shit.

She fucks her dog

Been with my wife 12 years. Got two kids. Planning more.

Short answer is yes, it's worth it.

American women fucking suck who would want to be stuck next to this trash scum for 40+ years? Think of that you cucked faggot

That there are literal traps everywhere especially for the young man. The system is rigged against you. The only thing you have is intelligence and mental resiliency I'm clown world. Fight. Video unrelated

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It's not worth it to try.

Murica women are fat pigs with skin problems, who want bitch like that, when you can have a slavic beauty or beautiful with nice body Asian? Go and fuck you fat american pig with hole big like volcano dumb twat.

It's absolutely worth pursuing but few achieve it these days. Work on improving yourself and you'll attract a wife. Don't latch onto the first girl to show interest in you but don't wait for the perfect woman to show up because she doesn't exist.

You must have a high opinion of yourself if you believe you can ward off the follies of public school. Doubtful.

And your children will probably resent you on some level for exposing them to this conflict of value to begin with.

What's painful is having public schooling all the while craving something you imagine to be superior. Though I suppose we may see in due time.

60% of American marriages end in the woman getting bored and leaving for another man while robbing her cuck husband in divorce court. I made a vow that I will NEVER get robbed by a roastie. I think girls get turned off when you make it clear that they can never extort you. Fuck roasties.

Yes.

Don't have a rigid idea of a mate. Be flexible. Be careful. Find someone who is mentally good. Otherwise you're fucked.

But if you dont' have kids you're fucked too.

Why did you post a Finnish women? Are you daring me?

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A hole is a hole, user. My ass wants it when you hit my prostate, I don’t have to pretend I like it once a year on your birthday.

Also it's kinda hard to have a family when a man can no longer keep one up on his income alone. Always has to be two incomes while the child gets mind fucked by TV and public school. The system is literally built to destroy the family unit.

You fags are as bad as the blacked shit.

Ok Schlomo. What’s next? I should bride a migrant woman? You’re a sad faggot because you can’t get pussy. Boo fucking hoo for you. I am happy to be in my position for the next 40+ years because I will be doing my part for cultural preservation. And I still get head when I come home from a long day of work. My white, committed wife will do anything for me, and I will do anything to her.

There is nothing more worth pursuing. Nothing else matters.

No, going for bad end too

Good luck staying married to the same cunt whore for the next 40 years. You’re the real cuck bro.

Luckily I chose to live in a rural area that doesn't give two shits about the tranny agenda or whatever. That's a huge part. Location. The open internet on the other hand is problematic but if these are the modern man's struggle so be it lol

Yeah screw women! I'm just going to go find me some boi pussy.

Ok memeflag cocksucker.The only time my wife is fat is when she’s ready to pop out a blonde and blue god/dess. Must suck knowing the closest you been to pussy is when you came out of it

Why is Jow Forums obsessed with Asian qts?

Why not have both?

No, you will end up being a fucking cuck, because your bitch will find out somebody new to fuck with behind your back xD But keep lying to yourself nigga.

Someone call the burn unit kek

MOVE TO ASIA

It is over.

The only time your wife is a fat pig is like 24 hours per her whole sad pathetic life. Murica women are fucking disguisting, I puke everytime I see some disguisting fucking murica pig in McDonald.

Seek some real woman instead spending your life with some fat murica pig on a leash.

it's totally not a carrot on a stick, like every other goal mainstream culture dangles in front of you

im sure THATS the real thing that will fulfill you, and certainly not entrap you in a life with no passion for decades as you become a nice reliable tax payer

Exactly. Finnish women aren't even that hot

It’s work just like anything else. Having kids shows you what love really is. It took me a while to find a proper wife. Worse thing you can do is marry a women who can not cook Don’t do it less she can cook !!! Looks fade but you will be hungry till you die. Marry a skinny girl too less you like fat girls Cause we all get bigger as we age might as well get one that’s gonna stay lean All decent girls dream of marriage and satisfying a man. Can beat nature mate

I'm doing the lords work by being in a stable, 2-parent heterosexual household with two white male children.

Preserving the white race is based.

Being married makes me a cuck...that’s some sound logic. Maybe when you come of age you’ll have a different worldview. Maybe when you stop buying into the tired IDF memes on a Mongolian cartoon making site you will go outside and be scared by all the pretty little girls

She looks like a chink

A family is worth it. Nothing brings me more contentment than when my son can't wait to share his good report card with me or when we finish a project in the shop. I never feel more fulfilled than when I'm laying in bed with my wife after sex and she looks me in the eye and tells me she loves me and can't imagine life without me. Yes, it's worth it, user.

That's not the average of Finns. Not even Sami.

Hahaha you broke ass sad faggots are a hoot. Tell me, when was the last time you had a sexual/physical interaction that didn’t involve a boipussy?

not with the current state of things, no

You seem to have issues with women user. Many such cases here. You don't have a force of will. Sadly this is all it comes down to. Without getting deep into psychology you're simply not dominant which leads to trouble in a male female relationship.

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That's the "Volgid" phenotype. The volga river is the longest river in Europe and is where the Finns originated from

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I’m not scared of girls. I’m blackpilled. I know that people in marriages are miserable. I’ve seen male members of my family get raped in divorce court. The true nature of modern women is on public display for all to see. How can I marry a creature that has zero agency

My wife loves the smell or my armpits. It soothes her and she falls asleep almost instantly

It`s so pathetic that in the name of defending your fat whore pig name, you are pulling the worst insult you can think of. Pathetic desu. Try better next time.

And tell that fat pig of yours that see need do some jogging to get a little bit closer to real woman instead the pig that she is now.

Disguisting murica women, bleh.

Those people are not Finns as in people of Finland. There is a large genetic difference. There's a reason why you post their averages instead of the average of actual Finns.

I might as well post some Indians and call them German

We live on for an eternity through our genes and our teachings.
Yes it is worth it.

You are so wrong mate, but like I said - keep lying to yourself. Just don`t be surprised when your bitch will cheat on you and you will end up being a cuck, if you are not already.

Marriage should only be between the man, the woman, and God. Letting the state meddle in affairs such as marriage is how everything got fucked up in the first place.

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What a sad faggot this one is. Get help user

It's great.
t. married with one child and another arriving in two weeks.

It is. There are lots of ups and downs but in the end you have your legacy and your deep down purpose in life will be fulfilled.

I have 2 boys and I'm on my 2nd wife. I'm only 39 but you could call me a boomer because of my 55 acres of property, house, boats, 4 wheelers, camp, etc. I would give it all up for those 2 boys of mine.

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The sad thing is that you bang a fucking pig. Bleh.

>No Finnish gf

Do your boys like nigger music yet? Just a matter of time

See your worldview proves you are inferior. A “beta” to use Jow Forums terms since that’s all you understand. You can project your hatred onto others for your lack of relationship. It’s ok though, I’ll watch for you in the papers when you get popped for rape. Life is as sad as you make it, no one cares about your fucking pity party. Show your real flag so we can all laugh at your pathetic existence.

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Ugh, another murica fuckboy fucking a pig. You are both disguisting underhumans, Hitler should burn "people" like you.

Bleh.

So the Mokshan, Mordvin, Mari, Erzya, Udmurt, Komi people aren't Finns? What are they then

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Well said

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If user is a virtuous man and marries a virtuous woman, that is the best chance for a great marriage. To the extent either fail to maintain personal virtue and fidelity, the chance of great and heinous suffering exists for both partners and their children. To forgo marriage to avoid the possibility of such suffering is a choice that entails its own cost/benefit framework. Choose wisely. It is better to not marry than marry badly.

Yep that's right faggot kek

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Why would a straight boy want boipussy, and why would a faggot want pussy?

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No.
>Today is 17 years I've been married
>I've been in court for two years trying to divorce my wife
>After two years seperated, I realize how miserable the last 15 years were and how much happier I can be
I thought I had a good girl
>Our first date was to mass and ice cream
>She lived with parents until church marriage
>But about 3 years ago feminism found her at our kids school
>She was a stay at home wife, made great fresh salsas
>She stopped cooking and cleaning because it was oppressive
>Said I needed to do half because the moms at school convinced her being a mother was too much work, never mind 60 hrs a week in office so she can stay at home + weekends spent maintaining home and cars
>When I pushed her to do her half, she claimed I was abusing and harassing her
>she also claimed I was a white supremacist
>I need clean clothes for work, children need clothes for school, I start doing laundry
>I start doing shopping, cooking & cleaning so house doesn't come apart
>house is cleaner and better stocked than its been in years
>She filled a false domestic abuse report
>Took 10 months for court to examine and find no abuse
>That didn't work so she had her best friend file a report that I killed her cat and was stalking friend with intent to rape and kill
>Wife testified against me for friend
>That didn't work so she claimed I had child porn and that I was sexually abusing our daughters
At this point just tell me what I owe and let me get on with MGTOW
My life has been happier with out the constant drag of a women who will never be satisfied and will only bring mess & drama to your life.

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Bleeeh what a big fucking ass xDDD What a disguisting pig, bleeeeh.

Get the fuck out from pictures like that, it`s fucking disguisting. Fat pig

Various people belonging to the Uralic linguistic group. Those people aren't even Finnic. Nobody calls them Finns, except some 80 IQ memeflag mutts I guess.

You can start looking in the right places. I’ve seen male members of my family have 5 kids, preserve an ironclad marriage and still make 6 figures a year. Just because you see experience in others doesn’t dictate your own. It’s a gay cliche but every aspect in life is what you make of it...and you’re being duped by the kikes to not enter into a relationship. Do you want to let them win blackpill user?
My suggestion: find woman, act normie, then slowly over the course of 6 mo to 1 year you drop breadcrumbs. Subconsciously it latches into their brain and eventually they’re ready for the full red pill. You have to observe and learn how they operate to best them and make them a seed depository.

It's pretty strange how it's mostly white and black marriages that end in divorce. The hispanics don't have this problem and i always seem family together as a whole. Their kids aren't as rebellious as white and black kids are towards their parents. The Hispanic women aren't passive aggressive as white American women.

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NO. Actually they like Styx and Michael Jackson, and the 80s easy listening music that I play a lot like Bruce Hornsby and Don Henly and shit. I will put the radio on in the morning to listen to the local news and when they play pop my oldest son actually said that some random rap song that was on was 'the worst song he's ever heard'. It gave me a hearty kek.

>Various people belonging to the Uralic linguistic group. Those people aren't even Finnic
Yes they are. They are your brothers.

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>tfw Dad unironically tells me he wouldn't blame me for not getting married in today's climate

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Same one. Just engaging you because eventually you’ll realize how sad and pathetic your subhuman life is. The end is as close as you make it too. Just do it faggot

Blonde haired chink lel

me too
but then the problems start
>not attractive
>broke
>not young anymore
>don't care about the things other people care about
giving up is bittersweet and if other people can have it, good for them. i'm never going to know

But hispanics and blacks cheat more than whites or Asians. Maybe being able to cheat keeps marriages together.

surely these nightmare scenarios are unusual or have important warning signs