Why aren't you married yet, Jow Forums?

I turned 30 recently and I'm both single and childfree.
Is the married life that good/bad?

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I havent found anyone I like yet. I havent looked either. I haven't liked myself enough to see myself as someone who could be liked since forever.

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>I turned 30 recently
Which makes you a leftover.
> Is the married life that good/bad?
Doesn't matter any more. It's unlikely you'll ever experience it now.

>says the man literally being cucked out of existence

if you get the wrong woman its life crushing problem is you can think you have a great woman and then find out thats not the case i've seen almost all my friends go down in flames with life crushing debts fuck that shit what for to feed my ego no thanks

>Which makes you a leftover.

But I am a man? How can I be a leftover. Explain, Muhammed Cuckmüller.

Idk user, same boat. I always hear to keep afloat. Eh, maybe someday.

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43 year old never kissed forever alone virgin who still with his mom, suffers anxiety and I have a fear of relationships and sex if only sorta kinda. I mean I do want sex but talking to women who i'm not related to or have become friends with causes my brain to go numb. A girl tried to kiss me and another tried to have sex with me and I ran away out of fear. So I've spent the last twenty two years shit posting online and not watching porn while jacking myself to sleep every night and wallowing in tears after I've nutted over how depraved I've become (jacking it to ever more extreme pornographic material to get off to)and of how lonely I am.

I've asked out a few women my age and all of them claimed to have a bf already. The only woman who is clearly interested in me is a single coworker who is about a decade older than me and has two (white) kids.
I'm fucking terrified that she'll make a move and I won't have the willpower to say "no," since it has been about 5-6 years since the last time I had a gf/had sex in college.

I will never actually get with this woman seriously, since I made a promise to myself to not raise anyone's kids until I have my own (unless my brother's kid needed a home or something). The issue is entirely how she and the workplace will react if I pumped-and-dumped her like I will have to do if she makes a move.

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Because my girlfriend is only 21 and hasn't finished her studies.

Hopefully she'll be done next year and in a couple of years we both will have enough stability for it. By then we would have been together for six years and I'll be a 35yo boomer, so hopefully things will work out that way.

5-6 years without any action?
Here I'm freaking out after 5 weeks since the last time I got laid.

So you are 8 years older? Alpha.

I'm 32, she's 21.

That's hot. I think my next girlfriend will be around that age. I'm no longer going to date girls around my age. It's just asking for trouble.

May I ask how you two met?

Marriage is perfect always. The choice to get married I mean. Marry the wrong one and you're screwed. Friend of mine married a gorgeous black girl. Her and i graduated 26 years ago. Friend was older than us by almost ten years. He married her and within 12 years bitch was tripping. It was so bad she had him living out of his car. Turns out she was a cold hearted monster.
He had a nervous break down. Have another friend. His wife cheated on him repeatedly and eventual he moved out for a time. They have five kids. Eventually she stops and he takes her back. I love her too damn much to give up on us, he said of their relationship. Years later and they're still going strong, I'm proud of him.

We were 10 years together. We've separated last year. We love each other but sometimes I guess thats not enough. Underpayed jobs, no chance for house or apartment so that's that. So I have to make choice now. Should I get into camping, air simulator with hell of a PC or ww2 aircraft scale modeling. You know, men got to do something not to lose his mind. I think it's to late for me to look for another woman. Ones that I've met recently are fucking insane egotistcal narcissistic drunktards and over 30 y.o. Maybe if some traditional, conservative, family/child loving girl not older than 28 come along, I will try. But for now thats it.

A woman decides if she has a boyfriend one moment before it crosses her lips. She also won't give the same answer to every guy who asks.

So how out of shape are you?

>I'm proud of him.

Proud of him being a cuck?

We met during an internship back in late 2016 when we were finishing our basic IT technician studies (I was a cook and then a soldier in the past and I decided to change career again). At first we didn't even talk, but a month later we had to work together on a project and immediately hit it off.

I was very careful every single step in case she was the usual thot, but turns out she's from a conservative Galician family and even back then she already talked about how she'd like to be a mother someday. And I knew she could be a keeper the day she got drunk and started openly insulting every nigger and landwhale she saw on the street.

She's very hard-working both in her studies and when she started going to the gym early last year (becoming Jow Forums made her even hotter) and she's a good motivation to keep doing light exercise daily myself and work hard at my job, which landed me a promotion to team lead a couple of months ago. Turns out I also motivate her the same way, so yeah.

Things are good so far and if they keep like this we both definitely would like to get married in a few years.

Because I'm 21, soon 22 and want to make some money before I start a family

Sounds awesome, man. Congrats on landing what seems to be a good prospect.

What about her previous dating history? If you met her at 20-21 she was most likely not a virgin, I suppose?

She was 18 when we met and according to her and her friends she only had a couple of the usual teenager relationships that last a few months.

She was definitely a virgin. And I still cannot fathom how a girl who had been practicing Taekwondo for 13 years hadn't broken her hymen.

So she still had her hymen? Damn, you won the lottery.

Not giving up on love is a beautiful thing because Ultimately Love is more sacrifice than anything else. And she was repentant. I would have done the same.

>I would have done the same.

Cuck.

there is no deeper sadness and regret than a 41st birthday without children

Because I'm divorced.

I'm not married yet because I haven't been able to find a women is not total garbage

I'm a chad so pussy is so easy it's boring, but finding a based qt is very difficult these days

It’s not worth it. Married with 4 kids. Almost every day is full of regret

because women are dirty whores

Met my wife when I was 18, she was 16, both virgins.
Been together for 12 years and we have two kids. Careers as Anesthesiologist/Architect. I love my life.

If we ever broke up I'd probably just bone prostitutes and focus on myself and the kids. I'll never form a bond like this in my lifetime again so I wont even waste my time.

The funniest thing is watching my female friends hit the wall, wondering why they cant find a nice guy. These bitches went thru about 10 decent lads on their way to age 30 but never settled and now they are buying cats.

Also, you're 30. That's prime dating age for men. Your stock is rising and the girls aproaching 30's are plummeting fast.

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>Almost every day is full of regret

Care to elaborate?

>Your stock is rising and the girls aproaching 30's are plummeting fast
if you're 30 and considering dating women your age you're retarded

Had it grilled into me from a young age that unless the girl I was dating was seriously interested in an LTR don't get involved because I come from a lower upper class family and my parents didn't want some dumb thot tarnishing the family name and getting me on a sex offender registry. As such I just stayed home and worked on my studies, cars and guns. I now have as many material possessions as I could want; but I'm still alone and using my $1200 usd rig that i built one weekend because i was bored to talk to strangers on the Internet on a sunday morning.

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Men can have kids up until mid 50's.

Well it kills all charm, that's for sure. You tend to let yourself go, both of you eventually get fat.

Your entire life revolves around kids, getting them to school, getting them back from school, checking if they eat, dress, sleep, play properly, if they make their homework, etc etc. That's actually the easier part. It's a long road til you get there. You first have to have them, go through the hellish phase of seeing them grow from newborns to teens, when they suddenly become dicks to you, as if your whole life effort was in vain.

And then once they become teens, you become invisible, you become their enemy. You only exist to provide them with whatever they need, until they completely get rid of you.

When you get to this stage, you're already aged, wrinkled like a dried prune and you feel abandoned. If you're still lucky and you haven't divorced, that is. Once a year, you might get a phonecall from them, if you're lucky, again.

Why do you think it's stupid people who have most kids? Because they don't think much about it. And then if you don't have them, you start feeling guilty once you hit a certain age. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Pick your poison.

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Obviously.
Notice the word approaching my new macedonian friend

Bruh why wait? Marriage will contribute to the stability. Then you can start having those sweet early-20s babies in her prime fertility years.

going for any woman approaching the wall is equally retarded mate
date 18 year olds like a normal human bean

I would not consider myself in shape, but everyone around me talks about how "skinny" I am since I used to be in worse shape. If all the matters is positive attention from others, then I'm fit; but I look at myself in a mirror naked each day and I know I have more work to do.

The only reason I asked them out was because they were constantly talking to me about what they liked to do, and what I liked to do, and never once mentioned a bf until I tried to cut through the bullshit and ask them out. As I said, they "claimed" to have a bf at that precise moment so I'm fairly sure they were lying. Either way, I did what you were supposed to do and told them I found them attractive and that I wanted to be with them. I learned my lessons in high school about how horrible it can be if you obsess over a woman for a long time only to be rejected, so now I don't waste time.

I met a girl online and married her, I'm six years older than her. We just had our first child. Yes, it's wonderful. Being in a relationship is a lot of work, a lot more than I expected. Turns out we're both idiots, I knew my wife was dumb but you really don't know all the stupid shit you do until someone is chained to you forever and they bring it up.