How do I stop desiring women and wanting a relationship?

There are plenty of other things I'd rather care about but my mind always drifts towards finding a relationship somehow.

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Start watching anime

How would that help?

>How do I decondition my biggest biological function, Pol?
You can’t, retard. Learn to flirt

No.I don't want others like me in this world.

By securing a relationship so that you can stop worrying about it.

The human need to secure your genetic future will always be present, and rightly so. You're meant to reproduce, to pass on your seed. And you're meant to find solace in the touch of a woman, much like a woman is meant to find solace in the arms of a man. Our metaphysical natures are linked.

(Of course, this only applies if you're a mentally and physically healthy white male otherwise fuck off)

Just get after it. The most they can do is reject you. If you look like dogshit, stay in your lane. Don't be a pile of garbage and approach the most attractive broads in the club or bar.

Smoke Hemp Flower.

Degenerate.

Devote your life to piano

Or take the prison pill

Pussy

I don't have anything to offer when it comes to relationship and I doubt I would be a good parent.

>Yes, goy! Smoke the herbal Jew
>Support the cause so that we can build a kosher industry around the herbal Jew
>Placate your mind... forget all your problems
>It's an acceptable recreational hobby now, don't worry! Just smoke up!

Drug abusers need to be culled.

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after 30, you won't desire those things anymore

>what do
you'll probably have to lose one you actually care about. too bad, it's gonna hurt.

finding an anime waifu >>> having a relationship

You will realize 2D women are superior and stop desiring 3DPD

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This
If you find a steady girlfriend you don't need to look and if you don't pay attention to her she'll take it as some Chad stuff and love you more since she can use the time to do dishes and make dinner God damn it

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Same. My life doesn't have much of a purpose without a relationship. But whose life has purpose without relationships? I always hear cliches like, "You need to work on yourself because you enter into a relationship!" And, "If you're not comfortable by yourself, how can you be comfortable with another person?!" Such sayings, as meaningless as they are, attempt to rationalize loneliness and atomization which is so common among young generations.

Simply put, being by yourself at all times is lonely. Not having a feminine companion is lonely. I wake up by myself. I go to work for 10-11 hours a day. There, I maintain only superficial economic relationships, which disappear as soon as I leave. Once I leave work, I come home to a empty house. I cook for myself and by myself. I then practice my instrument, and soon thereafter fall asleep by myself.

What is the point? How did this come to be?

How did people like tesla and newton did it?

they don't exist though.

Why the fuck would you not want a woman in a relationship? Unless you're a woman yourself. Or mentally ill.

vaporization or ingestion would be better suggestions for newcomers, user

Are you at least of an average IQ? Do you attempt to push your life forward? Are you white?

Yes? Then you should be good. You don't need to be a 6'4" Adonis CEO to "have something to offer". You can easily get a decent woman while being UNDERQUALIFIED, even.

If you are facing insecurities because of rejection, I'd suggest you avoid Tinder and dating sites/apps. A word of advice, women have their guards up to ridiculous levels on apps and sites such as those. Women are much more responsive if you meet them in real life or websites that are not meant for dating.

>I doubt I would be a good parent
Why is that?

I just don't,it doesn't make sense to me rationally

Pray and spend time with God. Discover how evil women are.

Thanks I came here to post this but you've got it covered.

I meant I am not good at relationships in general with anyone.

You drink coffee or take aspirin faggot?
I dont

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>You don't need to be a 6'4" Adonis CEO to "have something to offer". You can easily get a decent woman while being UNDERQUALIFIED, even.
Ask me how I know you're still blue pilled

Mentally ill it is, then. Hope you get better, user.

we are literally slaves to our desires,free will only exist to a certain degree.

>How did this come to be?
It's always been. It's human nature.

This is also one of the major faults of male success when it comes to dating. Loneliness builds insecurity and feelings of desperation. Insecurity and desperation are unattractive.

Put up butt pic explains why

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Get married.

Go to the gym and workout, exercise will distract you. And you may get buff and find a girl as a side effect.

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You know what? I'll bite. Please enlighten me, friend.

>CBD is degenerate
Lamo

I already go to gym.

Marijuana addicted degenerates are always desperate to compare their addiction to mental highs to the consumption of shit like coffee. It's cope.

Got to Jow Forums for all your incel needs.

just become a faggot

Very well. Women are only attracted to the top 20% of men and find the bottom 80% undesirable. Women will only pursue the top 20 until the loose their beauty around 30. At which point they will settle for a bottom 80% and eventually divorce him.

Welp, you live by the phoneposte and die by the phoneposte.

How old are you?

Skipthegames.com bang a prosty

Not that easy

I am a voluntary celibate not involuntary.

Stay away from toxic western women, they've been schooled subconsciously to hate men. Even Chad dumps their asses because he knows after prince charming affect wears off, she is going to destroy his life some how

18

>Muh marijuana
Your mental high is absolutely degenerate.

castration

You dont stop desire, you grow a backbone and do what's right and good thing will happen in your life that make the promiscuity seem less appealing

True, but it will make you desire women less having one around all the time

This

kek. Fuck off kid, some of us have real problems.

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but it will stay with me all time.is there no way to control what I desire?

Keep telling yourself that.

>women
That's a man

don t you have a hobby or something ? that s what i do . im too ugly to get a girlfriend anyway, no woman ever showed intrest in me . i m not not fat and i have a job . just ugly

I mean you won't get one either way.

You probably think one gets totally fukt up on weed and can't do shit... Been snowboarding bmxing and car racing always "high" I'd say weed is like my coffee but it also helps me cope with traffic and laugh at clown world why so serious my dude mcfuckin chilllll

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Your 18 there is nothing you can do, but learn to live with it.

Sure you can hone your concentration and keep total control of your thoughts..but it’s in your genes.

I heard that doesn’t work. That you’ll still feel horny even though your dick don’t work.

you don't desire women anymore?

really?

I'm married to a woman I was never attracted to. she's bearing me sons . She's smart and has a good job. We started a life and a family and yes I still want to bang bitches but I have a business and a life and good things happening so I am able to deal with it . Maybe one day it will go away but the trade off is worth it. I have an alle and we are building an empire

Science was their GF .

women suck to be around. you’ll get to fuck sexbots in 10 years

i jerk off if i do . works for me . but usually i keep myself busy, studing or working ,reading , driving my car on mountains. if you keep your mind busy , women goes out your toughts

Starting a business and working long hours helps lol

why don’t you an hero

Do you honestly believe I haven't heard this before? There is SOME truth to that, but only loosely. And I'll let you know one thing... there are forces out there that benefit immensely from the defeatism provided from the proliferation of said statistics.

I, for example, estimate myself to be above average; no Adonis, no potato. Yet just the same, I've never had an issue with attracting women. Confidence and intelligence is everything. You can improve the way others perceive you just by taking care of your dress/body and developing a deep understanding of social cues. And I'm not talking about used up broads in their 30s, but girls freshly 18, 19. And specifically, because these are the only girls worth a damn; their minds are still developing so they're still prone to philosophical flexibility (easier to red-pill younger women, essentially), they're are less used up (and surprisingly, you can still find virgins at that age range... though infrequent, it's still plausible unlike with older women), and their birthing years will remain healthy for at least another decade, among other factors.

what's that?

yes that as well ofc

Basically , one day you will realize a girl has figured out how to trap you lol. Happened for me at 35

Yeah like when you casterate a full grown balls it will still hump everything bc it already developed that urged. I could be wrong though

good thing you can hold a relationship and you are good father with a good paying job,I can't really be those things.

He's an 18 year old newfag autist, he doesn't know the old memes.

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A full grown dog* ha

You don't if you're a man. Your DNA is literally designed to have children and become a father. Faking this for toys will leave you very very sad.

Then find ones that are not like you and make one that is better. Just don't make 2.

Then you have nothing to worry about. I had issues with relationships and angst as well at that age. It wasn't until I hit my 20s that things really started to click and I developed an appropriate sense of confidence.

Trust me. You feel like all your problems are leading to your demise, like your failures are building up rapidly and preventing you from improving your station in life. This is all a gross exaggeration. Your brain IS playing tricks on you.

You'll learn to break out of the mold, I'm sure.

Go to Tel Aviv and try to have a relationship with your psychotic BPD women, memeflag jew.

jerking off does work but just after ejaculating I feel really depressed and sad.

I lost my degree marketing manager job to a rogue fbi agent harassing me and destroying my career over a mistaken identity. I had to start a business from nothing with only college debt and credit card debt ... now I own 2 houses

>I am not good at relationships
You expect that anyone is?
Never compare yourself to others, just live your own. The desire to have a spouse is your better sign, your fear of not matching up is a vanity on your part.

Keep busy doing something that makes you happy and gives you purpose. The cunts will follow.

I'm 30 and I don't have a good job. Shit is tough all over cupcake. You are programmed by a billion years of evolution to seek out a mate and reproduce. Either kill yourself or get your shit together enough to fulfill your biological programming.

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Look you're not going to convince me and I'm not going to convince you. Good luck and I hope you avoid a divorce rape and dead bedroom

Until I started just following the path the universe gives me rather than trying to force my perfect scenario to happen m, my life sucked ...

Unfortunately, I've been a degenerate faggot and tried weed a few times when I was fresh out of high school. I understand the effects.
I've also had personal experience, in my interactions with others, and seen how much of a placating tool marijuana becomes in so many people's lives.

Sure, your functions are always crippled, but your mind is to an extent. And what a degenerate hobby... because it "feels good"? So does cocaine, heroine, etc.

But does it make you a better person? Arguably, it makes you worse. A waste of your money and time.

lol,I am asking how do I stop desiring to be in a relationship but you are telling me how to be in one.

That’s your procreation instinct kicking it. Go make stuff and that might help.

The problem is, people are looking for someone positive to share their lives with, someone that will bring positive energy and add it to theirs. They are attracted to people making their own way in life with ambition and goals. Therefore they shy away from someone depressed and lonely. It’s like choosing which bus to get on. Do you pick the one parked in the right place with a schedule and destination and eager to be on the road? Or do you pick the one hanging round the bus depot that doesn’t know know where it wants to go but was hoping to find a passenger who will tell him?

Sure thing, buddy.

>Muh divorce rape
>Muh dead bedroom
Imagine being this brainwashed into buying into and perpetuating the self-destruction of your society.

Make your start up business your relationship . Fucking marry it . Anything. Fake like your an expert at something . That how we all do it. 5 years later your in a different world than you are now. A whole new dimension

yes. because you're asking for something that destroys you, and I'm not interested in helping that lie you're following.
the concern you have "not being good in relationships" is based on your opinion of other's capability and exposes that you're suffering a case of vanity, you don't want to show to anyone that you're no perfect, so you refuse to work through being bad at relationships with someone else.
But working through being bad at relationships is literally what everyone does.

You can learn with the holocaust victims user. It was "real in their minds"

Jokes aside, once you realize how great a it would be to have someone to bring you joy, everyone else just feels horrible. But maybe it's just me. If you want to get your mind off the people around you, I say try anime. I would be skeptical of anyone trying to get be nice to me because I live in a country of criminals. I tell myself something's is off, but when I watch anime I can tell myself "it's possible for them to act this way because they aren't evil like real people". I know it's crazy but gives me something ease my mind when having trouble to sleep as everytime I tried to picture myself with things working out i could not believe my own delusions.

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Hemp is not Marijuana retard