My son is a shell of a man, shown here doing a grotesque facial expression. I swear he is gay and have tried many a time over the years to toughen him up. He is on the discord app all day long with his friends and plays some anime crap shooter thing. Did I fail in raising him? What can I do to fix my son anons! Serious answers only please!
My son is a shell of a man, shown here doing a grotesque facial expression...
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fuck his ass
Beat him
You made the same thread on /b/ faggot
I just want serious answers
Thought pol could help over b
I shouldve known b was a shitpost board
you and your wife are probably fucking psychos and he uses these things to escape you guys. He doesn't respect you guys at all because you probably flip out over the dumbest shit so why fucking bother giving a fuck what you think other than authoritative reasons?
Respect is the one thing that has to be earned. You can't force it. Stop being a shit father and control your fucking shit psycho wife. Seen it over and over again and you act like it's not your fucking fault. Fuck you.
This isn't your blog, faggot. Either get a late-term abortion or go to reddit to ask this.
Go to hell bud, I'm a great father and I give him support hes just fuckin lost is all
you and every other parents say the same fucking thing yet here you fucking are with a son that doesn't respect you as a human.
Self reflect you fucking failure. Parents are the biggest full of fucking shit group. Nothing is their fault.
Worthless cunts will be worthless cunts, regardless of how well you try to raise them. I knew plenty growing up. Parenting is honestly a crap shoot. Even if you do everything right, your prodigy could still end up a piece of shit, especially in modern society where respect for tradition and parental authority have been shit on since the 60s.
Yeah well whose fault is that, dipshit. He's lost because you couldn't reach him shit, because you don't know a fucking thing about anything.
LMAO it's always this shit. Parents are like "but we are PERFECT and our kids still turn out SHIT!" never ever ever do they take responsibility. Ever. Narcissistic people.
I mean, surely there's something which made hi that way. Trying to find what that is would probably be helpful. Not a convenient, comfortable reason why, the actual reason why.
no you see, it's not his fault AT ALL leaf. That is just not possible. The kid is "just lost is all"
That is the issue! Hes in support of shit like non binary genders and crap. I wish we could go back to simpler times like how I was raised.
Get him to the dentist he has a cavity.
-Make him pay rent
-Make him pay his bills
-Make him go to school or get full time job
-If he refuses, and is over 18, you can tell him to mature/man up/take responsibility or get out.
LMAO another full of shit parent comes in and immediately "YEA WHAT HE SAID!!!" lol. You want actual advice faggot or do you want to be told it's not your fucking fault some more?
you went on /b/ faggot
I don't know the dudes' backstory, but if someone's to blame it must have been someone with a lot of influence over his son.
If he just think it happened because his son used his "freely will" or whatever to become a piece of shit then I am not sure why he's looking for advice. Maybe he's not, who knows.
If you have poor quality genetics you will produce poor quality offspring.
t.boomer
Like I said I thought this would be a more serious and considerate board to get real answers on but apparently I was mistaken and my dipshit son being socially crippled is all my fault
That never worked. It's a comfortable solution, but it's not really a solution.
Kys in front of him, you stupid boomer.
The shock might upgrade him from soiboi gaymer to incel mass shooter.
>and my dipshit son being socially crippled is all my fault
That's not the consensus, but the fact that you avoided my own request for more info as to what could have caused your son's problem is bizarre. There's a lot of dipshits, there isn't a magic solution to fix them all, you need to give more details.
Anyone know of any better boards to post to? This is getting out of hand now
He never had real adversity and it's prob too late until something major happens and he either mans up or crumbles and turns into a full blown trannie.
You have to get him to do manly things and enjoy it.
we're all posting in a boomer thread
this is Jow Forums retard what did you expect
Its an image board isnt it? Its popular! Thought there would be at least a few level headed people
Get him drunk and ask his real opinions on redpills, kick him out if he lies to you like a weasel
needle in a haystack
>>>/reddit/
Over 18? Get the fuck out of my house!
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Still haven't my answered my question, so you don't really want advice, do you?
There isn't a whole lot to work with, regardless where he's trying to get help.
>My son is an asshole, help
Isn't very useful.
dont feed the trolls man. Beta males just happen no matter how good of a father you are. its not your fault.
Does he have a job? A girlfriend?
beta males are made by beta fathers
You have to just do more then say you love him for him to believe it. Make sacrifices in your own life and lead by example. My guess is your lazy and are just as happy to sit on the couch while he plays on his phone and then bitch about it when he isn't the success u think he should be. Make time to teach him shit. Expose him to things he might enjoy. If he's still living in your house you have to have some control over his time. If his discord faggot Minecraft shit pisses you off do something about it. Nobody on pol has anything for you.
Take him down to the local rifle range and then stop off at a country pub for a steak and a beer afterwards. Never too late.
Alright ill cooperate. This all started when he became really attached online and his friends there. I took away his computer when he acted up and he snuck out to his friends house and said he was gonna kill himself and crap. Fuckin childish! I know taking the computer away wont help now and I am at a loss
Hes never been in a relationship and has tried working before but kept getting fired. Now hes trying to make a video game to make money but I keep telling him its not realistic
You have coddled this manlet far too long. Time for him to get a job and get out.
Ban his mac address on your home network, confiscate his smartphone and give him a prepaid burner so he can't hotspot.
Force him to man up or chop his dick off. Either way it will be his problem. Also if you are not too old to do so have another kid so you can try again. Tell him you are doing that to hedge your bets. It may light a fire under his asshole.
how old is he
Send him to one of those bootcamps where they prey the faggot out of him.
stop giving him money and give him a reason to work
That's obviously not where it's started. I am starting to think you're trolling.
>has tried working before but kept getting fired
Why?
I would like to offer some good advice, but more info is needed. What exactly is wrong with this boy? I gather from your post that he lacks ambition and plays too much vidya, but can you be more specific?
How do I do that mac address thing? Sounds like a great idea
Don't take things away, just force him outside at least once a month at the minimum, do things for the day that don't involve electronics
Also what did he do to get fired? what jobs were they?
But honestly he looks already too far gone, his own mindset is nearly set in stone and will be alot of hard work from peers and yourself. and in the end may never work
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>shell of a (((man)))
And he has never had a girlfriend? he is a year older than me and I own three businesses. I hate video games and find them boring. I am sorry user some men just arent meant to be men.
I try to take him outside to play sports but he throws a huge fit every time and stomps around like a child and then goes to mommy to complain then she gets pissed at me. He did seem to enjoy camping once when he was a lot younger, I just want that boy back
Too late. You fucked up. You let the mother raise him and he didn't become a man.
Blame yourself for being too pussy to raise your boy.
Hes had two seasonal retail jobs and got fired because... Well what he said about one of them will say it all "they gave me too much work, fuck them"
Yeah gloating will help here faggot
your genetic line doesn't contain enough testosterone. There's nothing you can do.
>late term abortion
LARP thread. Fuck off.
Pffff stop hating you brit fag. I am a god compared to this man's beta male son
OP might be LARPing, but the Boomers aren't.
Gee and i thought i was a piece of shit, he sounds like he has given up completely
Probably best to just buy him headphones / a soundproof door & not speak about him unless someone in the family speaks about him first
Log into your router.
Find the page that shows identifying info for each computer. Write down his Mac address. Should look something like this a1:b2:ce:d4:55
Then go to the settings page that says mac filter. Add his bitch ass to the black list.
Save settings and exit. Make sure your router is locked down by changing the default login info. Typically can access the routers settings by typing 192.168.1.1 into your web browser.
You may have to Google your particular router to find out the log in address.
If you need more specifics just ask and I'll try my best to guide you.
"you see my son acted up so i just let him win after i let him get addicted to digital media"
You see why i always default to it's the parents fault? Because it's the parents fucking fault and you refuse to see it. You want to be told it's not your fault. It is. You let it get this bad, you let him show you who was boss when you tried to stop it. If my son tried that shit i would put a gun down in front of him and tell him to fucking do it because i know he fucking wont. You got scared and he bitched you.
Now you run to us for sympathy? Fuck you. The damage is done. You can try to be hard now but it wont work because he doesn't respect you again, BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T EARN THE RESPECT. You came on here doing nothing but insulting your son to strangers while painting yourself as the best father ever. You are the same as the rest of the failures of parents that refuse to take responsibility. It's societys fault. It's the games. It's the internet. It's the schools. NEVER YOU.
Hire another kid to beat him up. Then teach him to fight. Then, pay the bully even more to take a dive. Sounds crazy I know, but I think it would work. It would give him a small taste of what it feels like to be a man. Then you can get him into martial arts or boxing to cement the change and set him on a different path.
>Time for him to get a job and get out.
Boomer detected. A job he could get would never be enough to move out.
T. Disgruntled boomer larp bait is the best bait imo
LMAO called it. The son bitched you and doesn't respect you. Your wife doesn't either but that's a different thread lmao. Your wife won't even have your back in parenting. It's all starting to come together. Totally not your fault though.
I'll do this tonight when he goes to bed. Tomorrow I will take him out some place and pray to god he doesnt throw a damn hissy fit. Is there a good guide online for this?
You're just a retarded posturing faggot.
Regardless the only things that matter is how much money you had and how much money you made.
I wish I was Boomer. At least I would of been fucking my kids over instead of getting fucked over.
Just a dude who played too much Vidya and got pushed into the deep end.
Guess what? It fucking worked.
Yeah this
GUYS IS THERE A GOOD ONLINE GUIDE FOR THIS!?!?!?!? hahahahahhahahahahhahahahahhahahhahahha
God damn you are a failure of a parent.
Bullshit whiny post
>I have three t shirt kiosks in the mall
You really should not rush into things, think it over for a week and get a detailed plan together for turning his life around that you can both get behind, and offer to help him along
If you just cut his internet off and force him out without a plan he will just resent it and dig his feet in, also consider talking to your wife before you set things in motion to get her on the team
Good idea! Thank god someone can actually help me here
hey mall kiosks are expensive. If he can afford that then good on him. Can you afford a mall kiosk?
dude you're a fucking embarrassment.
1. throw him outta the house
2. if he says he'll kill himself, tell him to make a flip
3. Restrict any means of entertainment (internet, TV, media, etc) or STOP PAYING HIS SHARE
4. tell him to get a job until the end of the month or we can't pack things and leave
where did all go wrong with you? you probably had a lack of a father figure in your life
Just know i don't have any experience in this, just an armchair theory for you to change as fits
"hey son, you are shit and i think you are shit and im totally not shit at all so we are gonna force you to do things that will make you not shit JUST LIKE ME!"
I know 100% that is how you are going to approach it. Nobody knows you are shit better than your own son. You can be delusional with us here but your son is well aware of your delusions and clearly doesn't give a FUCK.
>I'm a great father
Says the stupid fucking faggot with a memeflag. Are you sure you are not fucking young men on the side, you fucking Boomer.
Yeah man just Google it. Find out what brand and model router you have. Should be pretty easy.
On some routers you can even set timers when his mac address is permitted to access the network and when it is not.
Just remember, he will still be able to use his phone as a hot spot or tethered to his comp to get on the net. Thus the reason I say to drop him off your plan and get a very basic prepaid phone for him.
Addicts like your son will get their fix anyway they can.
He will also use your wife against you so be ready for that shit storm.
Probably time to tell her to shit the fuck up and let you sort him out. (If you have the nuts to)
She is gonna be the lynch pin in this plan of action. Get her on board or get a new wife and start making replacements.
Taking shit away and pissing off your kids is a good way to get them to resent you. Even if they don't do show it on the surface. You fucked up, because the answer wasn't to take shit away, it was to build a trusting relationship further, and use that trust to do things together that would be beneficial to his upbringing. I can suggest things to do, but will he actually want to do them with you. Probably not if you've given him a reason to not like you.
so you honest to god think this isn't your fault at all?
Here are the mistakes you made as a father.
1. You didn't home school him. Now he is forever jewed and indoctrinated.
2. You didn't hit him. Taking away his video games for an hour is not punishment.
3. Your attempts to "toughen him up" were probably bullshit things he wasn't interested in and will never help him in life, like teaching him how to play niggerball.
>it's not the parents fault, it's the kids who are wrong
Get fucked, motherfucker. Go choke on Hadji's cock you fucking faggot pedophile.
Your fault. You failed.
>1. You didn't home school him
good job raising a outcast kid
>Thought there would be at least a few level headed people
Clearly you are not one of them, you fucking fag.
You do know that's actually a myth? Homeschooled kids typically aren't less socially adjusted than kids who attended government indoctrination centers.
? there are tons of outcast kids in schools. They like to shoot them up
Your son is smarter than you. He can see that none of the bullshit you and Jow Forums obsess over (manliness, sports, slaving your life away 60 hours a week to buy your boss another yacht) matters and that the only rational thing to do is enjoy the time you've got as much as you can.
He's found happiness. What you are trying to sell him is not happiness, but checking boxes on a list drawn up by economic elites 100 and 200 years ago. Your stupid slave-morality boomer ass has nothing to offer him or anyone of the millennial generation. We all earnestly want you to die so that we can enjoy our last couple of decades on this doomed planet before the Amazon rainforest burns down and we all fucking die horribly because of the politicians you voted for and the companies you gave 80% of your waking life to.
take a week off to go up in the mountains and survive
ask an OLD marine what he would do if his son was a faggot
I hate to break it to you, but your son is most likely a pot smoking, porn addicted cumbrain, with slight to moderate homosexual urges. Obviously you never taught him any discipline and you wonder why he lacks willpower. Let me guess you were too busy “working” to raise him properly and now you are reaping what you sowed all these years.
You should probably threaten to rape your son if he doesnt get his shit together. That will show him.
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