Sorry for the blog post.
Here's the state of my marriage.
1. I predict something bad will happen.
2. Wife ignores my prediction.
3. The bad thing I predicted happens.
I finally had enough tonight and asked her point blank. When are you going to start obeying me?
She said I will NEVER obey you.
I'm fucking done. Should I go ahead and end this?
Congratulations on the upcoming divorce. Do it.
What was the 'bad thing'?
you should keep her, her stubborness and defiance is a strong personality. This is a good thing. Mine is same.
Nah. Beat her up, maybe that will bring her to her senses.
Kids?
>predict something bad is going to happen
>doesn't actively try and stop it from happening
Unless your wife is putting your kids in dangerous situations or is cheating on you it's literally a non-issue
>when are you going to obey me?
sounds like you're either autistic or have little-man syndrome
Coming here to ask a bunch of black pilled faggots this question may have been an error user...
If you cant manipulate her to want to obey you without being told to then you are a faggot.
Also if you ask this board for advice you are a retard
Divorce is for niggers
Crazy bitches are never worth it.
Don't get a divorce, just man the fuck up. Yell or smash some shit. Don't hit her though.
>What was the 'bad thing'?
It's something different every week.
I'm just sick and tired of being doubted.
Imagine knowing a person, and telling them.
>If you do X, then Y is going to happen.
And they doubt you.
And then Y happens.
And suddenly you're the asshole for saying I told you so.
Like at what point does a person come to the conclusion that maybe I know what the fuck I'm talking about.
>666
Good point satan.
how many yrs together?
You will also notice that men and women perceptions are completely different, this is the cause of many misunderstandings. This is normal in nature. You need to step back and appreciate the nature of your wife and understand that you both perceive things differently. You need acceptance and understanding and need to stop being controlling as she has a strong will, just like yourself. :)
OP, women are not rational and they lie. Keep telling her to obey you and continue shaming her until she breaks. Assume she agreed with you and act like she said that she would obey you. Even tell her "you said you would obey me" and if she says she didn't then call her a liar.
>I will NEVER obey you.
Looks like she doesn't want to obey. My advice: kys for asking your wife this stupid question.
This, but she still needs to learn to obey, been married to a “strong independent woman” for 12 years, it took about a year and she completely obeys, she got a lot of shit from her family because she admits allowing women the right to vote was our greatest mistake, they can all be red pilled, here’s the secret, you gotta dick her down like mind blowing sex focused on her and then in the after glow get her a drink and talk politics, anything you say here will be taken in and taken as fact. Try it, report back, thank me later.
Ilhan is in love with somebody else. Get over it, Muhammad.
That's just straight up gaslightning, user. You're not healthy at mind.
Quit tapdancing around the fucking question and tell us what she did/didn't do.
Thanks for the advice but I'm not into the gas lighting thing.
>how many yrs together?
10 years total.
Dated for 5 years and been married 5 years.
We have 2 kids. Ages 1 and 4.
I was atheist all my life but have recently come into the christian faith. I am trying to assert that the father is the leader of the household and she is resisting me all the way.
yeah dude just bounce, fuck playing that dumb game. let her cheat, do whatever, just give no fucks and alpha up in the other direction. guard your assets, don't let her plunder you, and if you do it right she'll come crawling back to her sentiments of marriage with the ring on asking to suck your dick and make you a sandwich
I think we should be asking you if you’re okay with being ass blasted in court and having to pay that bitch alimony for the rest of your life? You’re either a stupid red pill subreddit dumbass or she’s a cunt. Either way, you fucked up.
You have to dominate her with your cock
If you have kids, then no you faggot.
Be more of man and slap your dick down and let her know who the fucking boss is.
damn son, quit being such a fucking pessimist, holy fucking God dude
he has children to raise and love, if he shines on them he'll be okay, especially if he protects what is his from harpy behavior
>Quit tapdancing around the fucking question and tell us what she did/didn't do.
When some kids get over-tired, they have meltdowns. It's basically like a night terror, they just start screaming and dont stop.
I tell my wife its the kids bedtime, you need to quit fucking around and put them to bed before another meltdown happens.
She keeps fucking around.
A meltdown happens.
She spanks the kid like it's the kid's fault for getting over-tired.
I calmly tell her this is her fucking fault not the kids, and she needs to start obeying me because I know what the fuck I'm talking about.
>trying to assert
Nigger, that time has come and gone. You probably haven't slapped her yet either and it's too late for that as well. You better get your ass ready for the jewdicial system. I suggest learning how to build bombs.
Put the kids to bed yourself, retard. You're a parent. You're equally as responsible for your kids being fuckups as your wife is.
Yes, end it.
KYS.
Then put them to bed yourself, mock her poor ability to do the same, then slam her hard with your cock. Hopefully you've stuck it in her ass a time or two.
Let's see her body pics.
Oh wait 10 years? Yeah you dun goofed, you needed to so this the first year, when you are still special to her, when she still releases extra hormones just seeing you, 10 years in she is set in her ways I’m afraid, you can try my above suggestion it’s your best bet, but I doubt you can do it
Women are so fucking stupid and run completely by their emotions
Oh and FYI, divorcing her is just going to make your kids more fucked up because then she'll be raising them yourself because you will literally never get custody. So man the fuck up and don't be stupid.
>I finally had enough tonight and asked her point blank. When are you going to start obeying me?
Might as well get a divorce and eat a bullet, you're never going to be happy if that's what you want from a woman.
just remember, rabbi jesus says youre in it for life
>being mad that your wife doesn't obey
>being the kind of man who would consider a divorce
pick one and only one. divorce is unGodly and as such there is no truth in it. You'll only make a bad situation worse. instead of running from your wife, who is flesh of your flesh, hold to your wife and fix your shitty marriage.
Do you obey God? Clearly you have the same problem your wife does.
>just keep telling her to obey, it will work eventually!
Nah, she will just take the kids and half his shit and then she will be in charge. He is gonna have to put up with her stupidity for quite some time, yet. She has no real consequence for disobeying him. She fucks up, he cleans up the mess. Then she moves onto next braindead idea. Rinse, repeat.
>just remember, rabbi jesus says youre in it for life
>divorce is unGodly and as such there is no truth in it.
See, first of all I'm not baptized yet.
Second of all we didn't get married in the church in the presence of God. Like I said, atheist most of my life until very recently.
So technically I could get a divorce and THEN get baptized, and as far as the church is concerned, ALL my sin is wiped clean.
divorce
if you are not happy then whats the point?
>She said I will NEVER obey you.
You have your answer right there But she still has all the legal leverage, so enjoy your divorcerape.
Modern marriage. Not even once.
>, first of all I'm not baptized yet.
Where in the Bible does it say divorce is fine if you're not baptized?
>we didn't get married in the church
Where in the Bible does it say divorce is okay if the marriage is done in the wrong place?
You're fucking retarded because you gave her a choice. You know jack shit about women, so best of luck on the next one.
No joke, my wife brought me dinner while I typed this.
based as FUCK lad
this is the only way to go if you really are going to throw away the relationship anyway
youll either get what you want or she'll divorce anyway.
do it, OP
>Where in the Bible does it say divorce is fine if you're not baptized?
>Where in the Bible does it say divorce is okay if the marriage is done in the wrong place?
Biblical Marriage is a union between man and woman in the presence of God.
We were never married in the name of God, only the state.
Marriage is marriage. You may as well try to be a whole body after baptism after removing a leg. She is your flesh, stop being a sperg.
if your some nerdy nu-beard manlet id say kys
if not id say... divorce is evil
>Marriage is marriage.
Tell that to homosexuals.
Until she breaks in which case she cheats and divorces him or she obeys. When he tells his kids in the future why they were divorced he can honestly tell his kids it was his wife after cheating or deciding to leave. This is better than going for divorce now without any attempt.
As someone else said, fuck her senseless then tell her how it is . ...