I feel broken. I can't hold a job(due to paranoia and depression and anxiety). I can't socialize. I haven't left my house in months. I live with my parents. I'm a bad alcoholic and a pot head. I totally lack the will power to quit.
How do I manage to turn my life around? I cannot even motivate myself to leave my bed.
I want to be in good shape and able to socialize and confident and keep a job, a good one too! I want to be able to be awake without being very wasted. I guess I don't want it badly enough...
how havent your parents kicked you in the head already
Easton Cooper
Get a job working with your hands. No job is beneath you. Right now, they are all above you. Work with your hands. Produce. Provide value.
Dylan Johnson
understand this world is satans and everyone (especially people on Jow Forums) are under very sophisticated satanic mind control how to overcome it? that is THE question
Prayer definitely works. I put a cross up over my bed and pray a lot. I've managed to control a lot of things that I felt powerless to control before.
Asher Morgan
Make small goals. One thing at a time. Start by cleaning your room/surroundings. Work on drinking only 5 days a week. Then make it 4 and so on
Justin Stewart
I had the same problem. You are in a nihilistic position. Go to church and pray with a life group. Tell them exactly what you said here and you will have about a dozen people invested in you getting better. I was in the same position after a horrific breakup and in the last 6 months have been able to shift my whole world view and situation through christ. Yes it feels silly at first but it will make things better.
Camden Rogers
Alcohol is a neurotoxin, so is THC (pot). If you just quite these two the rest will fix itself.
Isaiah Cooper
The enemy does have a presence here especially in making so many young men hopeless.
Colton Kelly
>How do I manage to turn my life around? Buy an AK
This usually goes one or both of two treatments: Internal reform or medication. Psychological counseling will work with you to find out how you can begin fixing your situation via your own willpower. Things like, establishing a regular sleep schedule, cutting down on psychoactive substances, planning for the day ahead. Once you get a feedback loop of positive progress going, you'll fix yourself. Medication aims to skip that process of deliberating what you're currently willing to do, by flooding your brain with chemicals. You'll hopefuly just start putting things back together automatically.
Regardless, you know how to fix yourself, you just need to get the ball rolling somehow. Know that you're not a special subject. You can, and will turn around, like many others.
Owen Watson
Well OP what do you think about the advice you've been given?
Carson Harris
I went to one of those groups. I was surrounded by fat people, gays, and liberals that kept bitching that Trump was president. The women there were attention whores and would usually discuss their abusive relationships every time.
Hunter Moore
So you were with normalfags? So what? get out of this hugbox every now and then. OP needs to at least try.
Luis Reyes
I know I need to do better, but I have no motivation to do so. Therefore everything any of you have said is one ear and out the other, unfortunately. Was hoping I'd read something profound, but that would have happened already if it was going to happen. I think I need to leave Jow Forums.
Grayson Wright
Yeah taking a break from fb insta reddit and Jow Forums for 21 days brought some clarity and forced me to interact more. Also masturbating makes me autistic
Brayden Moore
Just take everything in small steps. Start with whatever time you need. like 10 minutes or 30 minutes away from any one activity. set a timer on your phone. Good luck user.
Landon Hughes
Just start taking some walks from point A to point B. Make sure that point B is a pleasant place with no niggers, mudsharks, or any other forms of black pills.
Dominic Parker
I'm kind of in your same position but things started to improve dramatically when I joined a gym and started going everyday. The hardest part is getting your shoes on but once you're out there your outlook starts to improve. my therapist said it's because physical exercise releases dopamine in the brain and bunch of other chemical gobbledygook I didn't understand. Also start reading. Surely there are things you always wanted to learn about. If you're not doing anything else go to the gym and read about your interests.
Charles Jones
>Surely there are things you always wanted to learn about. LEARN 2 CODE. Programmers are crazily sought after.
Colton Rogers
Maybe try a job that doesn't require to much social interaction. Have you looked into working at an Amazon warehouse, or sort station?
Leo Peterson
How to go to into church when you can't believe in God ? I can't believe even if I want to...
Carter Flores
What does going into church, and believing in god have to do with each other. It's not like you're a vampire who will start sizzling when you touch holly ground.
Camden Collins
I was an atheist for about 28 years it's a matter of going and praying even if they feel empty and pointless. Grab a Bible read the new testament one chapter a day. Pray for God to allow you to see and hear the things he wants you to do. It's a journey man but life has never been better. It's nice to be around sincere people also.
Jacob Diaz
I was surprised how welcoming they are to people who are openly non believers. Made me realize that Hollywood had been feeding me a characiture of what a Christian was my whole life. These are mostly balanced family people with savings and their shit together. With well mannered kids.
Ryder Reyes
1. stop all drugs and alcohol 2. start going for a 1 hour walk everyday 3. after 1 month buy a bike and start going for a 1 hour bike ride everyday 4. start reading history
