Seriously guys, how do you do it? I wish I could forget everything I learned about the truth. I wish I would still be as naive and full of hope as I was 4 years ago. All the stuff I learned about the world, about women, about history and what the future will look like, turned me into an nihilist. >Inb4 become a Christian I went to church since I was 6 years old, but stopped a few years ago, once my mum suddenly died. >Inb4 start a family I tried a shitload. I did a lot of things, travelled more than a dozen countries etc. I am not an Autist. I am studying Computer Science. But women here always go for the better looking guys. I did approach a shitload. As I said, I am redpilled on Western women as well. It seems I am on a point of no return and don't know how to move on, because no matter what: I don't see hope anymore. I also lost all my motivation to become a fucking office drone and get cucked by my employer and Boss, while they become rich on me.
How did you do it Jow Forums? How do you still keep on pushing?
>inb4 become a Christian Become a Catholic >inb4 start a family Get Jow Forums Stop watching porn, go on nofap Finish your degree and learn even more useful stuff on the side THEN start a family /thread
>THEN start a family But how should I find a wife? Let alone one in the west which isn't completly fucked up or used up? I haven't seen many men in their 30s which date girls around 25. I definetly won't take a Roastie
Connor Foster
That's just your body dying. We all went through it.
Ethan Moore
Leave this place Set goals Youre just not used to the change Many people live with a certain mindset and never thought anything of it For a time i was raised in a muslim family with an arab dad, in a middle class house In highschool i found this place and started indulging myself in it It never radicalized me though I simply saw these things as another way to make jokes and entertain myself Ive always been taught that something, somewhere, someone was doing everything they could for the devil Nothing is different now than it was way back when In this race someone is always doing something, wether for power, or revenge And people have always turned a blind eye, except on rare occasions The only solution is to just live a normal life Find hobbies If you dont see a reason to live, just live to live Youre more useful alive than dead To statistics
Adam Jones
Girls don't care about age. If you reach the top 10% of desirable men (nofap, fit and good job bring you at least to the top 20% if you are serious about that) YOU will be able to pick not them. If you join some traditional parish (perhaps even latin mass) there will always be well-raised girls. Calm down and wait while you work on yourself. Alternative scenario total collapse: girls will be throwing themselves at you even more.
Parallel to that you should learn more languages (for example Hungarian or Russian). In the case we surpass Weimar before the collapse you can get a good girl abroad.
And remember that your priorities are now different. You are searching for a wife and not aiming to become a pickup artist and have sex with thousands (tough you should definitely learn from their observations to weed our roasties). Thus you only need to find ONE girl that works for you. And remember that if you do above you have the choice.
The only difficulty I see is that CS is an extremely male and isolated field, but that will be balanced by hobbies, gym and parish.
Nicholas Evans
>Set goals My goal at this point would be just to live a happy life again. Somewhere in Eastern Europe, where things don't look that fucked up YET. (Been there, experienced it) And earning my money with Freelance work. This is the only thing I could imagine for myself at this point, if there is anything. But right now I'm still in university and my skillset is not nearly good enough to make a living off it
Kevin James
>Parallel to that you should learn more languages (for example Hungarian or Russian I actually started to learn some Russian already. Also wanted tondo an internship there, but didn't work out. Then I thought about taking 1 year off and going tona language school in Russia. It wouldn't even be that expensive. I don't know why, but this is what my intuition told me.
>and good job Only thing is, that at this point I can't imagine working for someone else anymore in an office. I also have only an average IQ, so I wouldn't even get that far
Ryder Thompson
Um das Reich wiederherzustellen musst du dich selbst wiederherstellen Und in dem du das tust, kommen wir dem Ziel näher. Denn unser Ideal ist mitunter die Exzellenz, und eine exzellente Regierung braucht ein exzellentes Volk.
Nothing has changed only your perception, you "move on" by moving forward. No mental gymnastics required. Also stop masturbating it's draining all your energy.
Jaxson Cox
>How do you still keep on pushing? Mind over matter. The material matrix has got a grip on you, free your spirit
Oliver Peterson
>Inb4 become a Christian Are you Orthodox yet? >no Try again then.
I have a very simple answer for you this is a mathematically correct answer it may seem rudimentary and stupid and base but it's not. I've calculated Your solution thought about it deeply. You need to go on a drug-fueled hooker binge and you need to procure a Somali or Ukrainian bride. Get her pregnant immediately invest in duplexes, rent one half to a hooker and your side is where u and your Somali wife live as you breed like rabbits. Go on welfare too.
>SET GOALS No it's obvious you're a failure at setting goals and most of the people on here giving you advice have been told they need to set goals but they can't set goals because they're in impotent and unable to set goals. That's why my original advice still holds true go on a drug-fueled hooker binge and procure a Somali or Ukrainian wife get her pregnant and life will make you set goals and you will be fine.
>I went to church since I was 6 years old, but stopped a few years ago, once my mum suddenly died. Okay? The answer is still become a Christian. Do you want to understand why the world is the way it is? Read the Bible. It will help you make sense out of this whole thing and give you hope because you can see the plan on a big map rather than dwell on where we currently are. Christianity is not going to church, it's submitting to King Jesus and standing strong against the world for His sake.
You're not going to find a le trad Lauren Southern girl in college. You're going to find normal girls who aren't whores but have been brainwashed to process information like whores, because women are the weaker vessel and fall for this shit. This is how my wife was. You need to find a girl like this, and not be a sperg long enough to get her out on a date and so on, then lead her onto righteousness like a good leader should.
As for wagecucking, if you're smart, you can at least have better leverage over your job. Live below your means while you're young and without children, and pay off a small house. Live there while you save money, and pay off a good house with it. That's what I'm doing, should pay off my small house at 28, and pay off a nice upper middle class house by 35. I'm also comp sci. While it doesn't mean early retirement, it means you're not necessarily stuck to a job you absolutely hate, because the much lower cost of living means you have more room to fail in the corporate world. You can retire early modestly, but realistically it's not till 50 or so, if you dump a ton of money into index funds over the years.
Finally: the best thing you can do to fight back against the powers and principalities that currently rule this world is to create a good, big family of righteous men and women who will nor succumb to them. Just outlive the sons of bitches until the end comes.
Julian Gutierrez
Learn more. Continue to study the Bible. We,'re all gonna make it
Christopher Edwards
StiLL OP Phoneposting now. Thanks for the heads up user. Sounds like solid advice. Only that I will finish University by the time I am 27. But at least debt free and will propaply inherit something one day. Biggest problem is still finding a girl, as I'm just an extremly avergae looking guy, who also has a weak chin.
Justin Long
I'm a balding fatty. My wife is an 8/10. Honestly women don't care too much about looks, at least not as much as men do. They care about how you make them feel. It's just a matter of getting your foot on the door, and then sealing the deal. i.e. just make her laugh, feel good enough to get her to initiate a romantic relationship with you through a first date or something, and go from there. Don't go for 10/10s because they're gonna have warped ass worldviews. Go for 7/10s - not super good looking, but good enough that you'd be proud to have her with you. From my experience, your best bet for a girl who's not damaged would be to look for a girl who doesn't wear or vary wears makeup (spend some time to learn how to tell this apart) and dresses nicely, dresses are usually a good indication. This is to separate turbo sluts who are too lazy to properly groom themselves from girls who aren't shallow and materialistic (no makeup, dressed well). It's not a perfect system, but it had worked fairly well for me.
And don't worry too much about 27 out of college user. Still young, and you have a longer window of fertility than a woman. Good luck, and read your Bible.
Levi Rogers
You're a man in your 20s, you still have plenty of time. As a starting point:
Understand the Pareto principle.
Women chase after Chad. They want to offer their pussy to snare as high status a male with the best quality genes available. In a different time, that would have ultimately led to marriage eventually. But we live in a time of widespread degeneracy. There are no expectations of marriage. This suits Chad to move on to his next pussy, this also suits women to continue to ride the cock carousel. This obviously doesn't suit a guy like you, who would be willing to strike some kind of deal with a women for exclusive access to her holes in exchange for you providing for a stable, good life for the children. This has worked well for thousands of years and that's why they work so hard to destroy it.
Understand compound Interest
Well, understand that you can't ever have an intuition for it. In the same way you have an intuition to catch a ball or drive a car. You have to crunch some numbers to really see the effects and work backwards. 2% gain a year seems pathetic until you actually graph it out over 10-20 years.
If you invest in yourself, looking for small %gains per year. Be that educating yourself about finance, running an extra distance, improving your social skills and so on. Whatever it is, don't set ridiculous expectations, just focus on constant, relative growth.
By the time you get into your 30s, you will have achieved more than your peers, got into that top 20% and women will throw themselves at you because you seem like the best option available to them.
When you do start to 'make it'. Don't fall into degeneracy. There lies opportunities for blackmail, lawsuits and sexually transmitted diseases. When you get into your 30s start to seek out a young woman in her 20s as a wife and breed the shit out of her. By that time you'll have stopped worrying what others think so much anyway.
t. 34yo CS grad who has a 26yo QT wife with 2 kids.
Lately handbags and torn jeans have been slightly bothering me with the women I’ve been on dates with. Some huge designer bag that needs to be on display because she spent $$$ on it then sets it right down on the table all fucking dirty. The ripped pants fad where they paid 80$ for it. Another one I could tell her friends had the crab mentality going on and our days were numbered because they either had no relationship or their guys were weak yes men
Joseph Myers
Thanks a lot anons! This really helped and actually gave me some hope!
