Dating someone with kids

What's Jow Forums's opinion? I know someone my age (early 20's) who's gorgeous, seems really intelligent, is constantly positive and really seems like a good match for me. The only issue is: she has two kids. I've been wondering if I should go down this road, and I don't think I'd ever marry her, even if the relationship got really serious, because I refuse to raise a child that isn't my own. But as far as building relationship experience goes, is this fine as long as I'm not a constant caregiver for these little fuckers? I haven't been in a relationship since high school, and this seems like a match made in heaven, but I'm still hung up on her having another person's kid.

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no thanks
its the literal definition of cuckoldry, if the woman were a widow I would consider it briefly, then bounce.

Never. Never. Never raise another man's descendants. Unless you are a fucking cuck loser. Have some self respect.

She will try to mindfuck you into commitment in the most stealthy and insidious way possible. If you're not skilled in seeing through things like this, avoid like the plague.

This used to be an acceptable mating strategy, when women had no rights and you could force her to shit out another 12 of your kids. Especially if the father is dead.

But then again, I come from the land of arranged marriages and honor killings. So,
>poo in loo or whatever

>seems intelligent

Unless her husband is dead, she isn't intelligent.

In some cases the father bails, most cases with blacks.
Yeah, she has had bad taste in men, but maybe she's smarter now, who knows.
Still a gamble, but there are plenty of families with one kid out of wedlock and three by the new husband with a marriage going strong +25 years. So there is that.

go for it and raise the kids like they are your own. invest in it. you'll be happy, the rest of these faggots will be here and miserable
source: cuck of 2

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>poo in loo
>or whatever
I think you know which it is

(((But as far as building relationship experience goes)))

what the fuck are you talking about bro

that's a jewish trap to trick your little mouse brain into forming poor mating bonds

you either marry her or leave her alone retard

Some of you Indian bros are all right.

50% of marriages end in divorce. 70% of second marriages end in divorce. Enjoy your odds if you get with that. Ill enjoy not being divorce raped.

>What's Jow Forums's opinion?

You’re a beta male simp. You wanna raise someone else’s kids? Only simps do that.

Literal cuckoldry. Dont do it

Also, why would even consider dating a woman who let's just anyone nut in her?

Imagine considering a relationship with a nonvirgin. Sage.

If you are not willing to take on potentially being step-dad to her kids, don't torture her or yourself. A mom is naturally going to throw herself into the responsibility of raising her children. If you are not willing to throw yourself into that task as well, you don't deserve each other and it will only end in tears. I am a father of 12, 5 adopted and 7 biological. Being a dad brings great meaning, purpose, responsibility, and reward to my life. Being reaponsible for the raising of another human being made me think like a man instead of thinking like a big child. If you are willing to step forward and be a source of strength for the weak, you will be a better man for it, but if not, don't waste her time.

> wanting to load some other man's save instead of starting your own new game

I agree with this kike

>be woman who made bad choices
>had a decently exciting life with some Chad-like man
>spawn two kids with him
>he does his thing and runs away
>Life quality deteriorates substantially
>must find some replacement man STAT
>No self-respecting man wants to do anything with you besides just fucking you
>have to settle for the type of "man" you considered completely genderless - as appealing as a wooden box as far as sex appeal is concerned
>Dopey and naive, will stand dumbfounded if not manipulated to do the right thing
>You don't have other choices
>despise yourself every second you try to seduce the poor fucker - while acting an oscar-winning act of being the best femle mate ever too him
>make him commit
>finally can stop caring about what the dipshit thinks
>unleash the pent-up rage at the hapless puppy-man till the end of his days

Imagine considering not wanting to follow your biological imperative and continue your race by any means necessary. Some whites won't get a better shot than some desperate THOT with Chad's kid. Betas have always existed and in fact, are what make society work. The entire social contract was for betas to exchange their work-merit for a shot at getting pussy. This is the foundation and framework of civilization.

Oh wait, I guess continuing your race and maintaining western civilization is a non factor for you Chang, since you insects only seek to devour all like the fucking borg.

What is your source of income?

Go full lion mode on her. Have her kill her children Cassie Anthony style in order to be with you.

Single mothers are thinking about what is best for their kids, not about 'relationship building'. You will be put in the father role immediately whether you want it or not.

If you want to raise the kids of another man and deal with that guy inevitably when he comes back into the scene, go for it. Single mothers will do just about everything sexually so you won't have a boring time with her.

If you are someone who wants to do the family on your own terms with a chance of long term success, don't even consider it.

LOL at A Pollock roadkill scavenger/child pimp asking that.

>I don't think I'd ever marry her, even if the relationship got really serious, because I refuse to raise a child that isn't my own
You answered your own question.
Use her for sex at your place.

>roadkill scavenger/child pimp
Is that a thing where you live? Truly a dark place

I've "dated" a lot of girls with kids. There are a few types. The only one you can argue is worth your time are those with really good jobs. The one I was somewhat serious with made 6 figures and was very protective of her kids, very hesitant to introduce them to me. I only met her smallest daughter once and wouldn't have a clue who I was or even remember. She could buy her kids anything they needed, had her own home, new car, bla bla bla. She'd even pay for a lot of the dates we went on.

Then there's the ones that need money. These will want you to be a family guy, or play it as they really want a nice happy family. They're really after your money. You'll find out before you meet them or on the first date. I never go anywhere with these girls.

Then there's the psycho ones that'll be screaming the house down while she fucks you, while her kid is in the other room. and/or she introduces you to her kids the second time you met her, while your only goal was to fuck her which she knows. These ones I feel so sorry for the kid.

A man's gotta make a living somehow. I thought Poland was diverse and multicultural, though?

Kill the mother, date her kids

>>finally can stop caring about what the dipshit thinks
>>unleash the pent-up rage at the hapless puppy-man till the end of his days
if you think about it logically that shit dosn 't makes sense. What is gonna happen she does that? She just makes him miserable, then she becomes miserable, then her kids become miserable. Everyone becomes miserable

She has to be a widow, child is very young to see me as the father and the father was a good person not a bum

That Mongol ancestry is coming out, I see. Must be the close proximity to Attila's old raping grounds of Finland.

It's like a playing game on someone else's saves.

>"don't think I'll ever marry her"
OP as an older guy let me give you a bit of advice. Date for keeps. Time is too precious to waste trifling with this, that and the other ones.
Look for the keepers and don't screw around.

I like you

She is either A. a bad mother whom you shouldn't be with because she's putting her you before her kids or B. is trying to get you to take care of her kids because her first man left her.

Never take care of another mans child. If you beta faggots actually grasped this idea then there would be far less roasties in the word.

Fuck that, reroll and find a girl who doesn't have them.

kek, this
make sure you know what you want in life opie

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Are you this buttblasted because your wife got bruced.com when she was young? When I was 15 one of your whorish girls prepositioned me for sex 40 minutes after meeting. Don't worry, I didn't take her virginity, her shitskin stepdad. 0/1 would rather come in my hand. But at least she's married to a nice Indian boy now probably. Or a nigger, not that there's a difference.

Yes you should, jew, so kid jewesses could have new generation of blacks fucking them in the future.

you might be projecting a little bit

I'm just at a point of desperation; My town is so jam-packed with vapid whores that the dating scene is fucked for someone who isn't a mega-chad and I refuse to date a fat bitch. I haven't gotten laid in a year, I haven't had a girlfriend in 4 years and it's starting to get to my head. We don't have tradthots that are willing to settle down in their early 20's here, so getting married to a virgin isn't really an option. What the fuck am I supposed to do? The loneliness is becoming crippling

I'm currently on the opposite side. I've had to take in my little sister, and women throw themselves at me wanted to help take care of her. It's nice.

Poo poo!!!

>fucking some rancid westernized dalit slag
And you call me a subhuman.
Our society has separate castes for a reason. You wouldn't understand because in the west, everyone is a slave to the jew.

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>You wouldn't understand because in the west, everyone is a slave to the jew
That's the smartest thing I've ever heard come from a street shitting rapist.

woman and logical hmmmm

>if you think about it logically
This is women we're talking about here.

If she had two daughters I'd consider it, not for illicit reasons but because they will probably accept you as man of the house, dealing with some angsty territorial teenage boy would be a nightmare

I married a woman with 2 kids, the son was a nightmare. Drugs, threaten to slit open our throats in our sleeps, ect. But her/ our daughter calls me Dad, she doesn’t speak to her much to her biological Father, he’s very manipulative and will make the son cause shit if she doesn’t reply to his messages. But he’s moved out as has she, the only time she flips her shit is if anyone refers to her with the Fathers surname instead of mine. She helped raise my 3 sons I had with my wife when we were going through hard times and not one complaint from her.

She was basically their second Mum, I miss her in the house because she was a good daughter. The only time I came down hard on her was when she had an eating disorder and basically nearly starved herself to death. It can go either way, really good or really bad, or like mine one bad and one good.

based and redpilled

cucked and bluepilled

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If her husband died it's okay, if he abandoned her, don't even bother

There's almost always baggage and drama, user -- be very careful. Legally you're on the hook for the kiddies if you enter a serious relationship.

Also, there's a huge possibility that she's just fucking crazy, but you won't see that side of her for a while. Good luck whatever you decide.

Based poo

There’s other women. Delete her number tonight

I tried twice and it was a massive mistake twice. #1 was a woman who wanted to climb a ladder in financial wealth and importance. She last I checked had married again but was on kid 4. #2 Fucked an old Iranian who I think is married. She would do anything to leech off people, scam or steal then move on. I knew both from High School. I figured out #2s game after two or three weeks.

Op, dont fall into the father role, but why not just go round for a slam once every two weeks when she's lonely?

I don't think she'd be cool with just hooking up, although that'd be certainly ideal for me.

I have to agree with this one, only acceptable time to raise another mans children is when your brother dies and lives a widow behind. Also, if you are a good human being and genuinely can afford to help orphans.

>seems really intelligent, is constantly positive and really seems like a good match for me
Lmao what a naive retard. Of course she trryharding to be perfecr to lure you to provide for her children. All single mothers do. The fact that you even considering it means youre a low value beta. Go for it. Being a cuck is natural for you. Just dont be surprised when she becomes a completely different person.

If she's willing to give you kids of your own, then maybe. If she just wants your betabux, fuck no.

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Just have to keep trying. I'm in the same boat, except it's only been a month since my GF left me.

> I'm just at a point of desperation; My town is so jam-packed with vapid whores that the dating scene is fucked
> so jam-packed with vapid whores
> vapid whores
What do you think single mothers are?
It’s no different, dude.
Date her fine just don’t do any day trips with the kid (don’t bother investing time/money) and for the love of god don’t get this mom pregnant.

I dated a single mom in my 20’s, four years together. On the whole wasn’t worth it.

20 years later I’m still dating but currently single and not having any luck finding an LTR.

It’s the age we’re living in dude, it’s fucked.

God I would buy you so many google play cards to fix my computer.