Someone I k ow has been married for 7 years. This person was a homeschooled female. She met her husband when she was 16 and he was 26. They married. She has never ever been attracted to anyone but him. He walked into a bikini bar one night. He has been attracted to several other women. This crushed the female. What can be done in this political climate to fix their marriage. She believes that he is her one and only soulmate. There is no one else in the world for her. To love only one person and be betrayed thus. I cannot convey to you the depth of her despair.
Do married Anons think it's okay to be attracted to other women
Wow, I can only imagine what it's like to be the jealousy-inducing one
The one who induced jealousy is dead now. So I would imagine it feels like an eternal dirt nap.
Respect your wife and be honest with her, and faithful to her. The definition of faithful is whatever the two of you define together on equal terms. That is all.
It's ok to find others attractive, its natural.
Cheating on your husband or wife is not ok.
I agree.
She should leave him, he wont ever change.
Women should not date men who go to strip clubs, bikini bars any of that stuff.
If men want to live like frat boys, let them do that permanently, don't marry them
He shouldn't have been going a bikini bar
why wasn't he taking his wife out for dinner? What a total dick.
It's not as if you are losing a classy dude
He has no class.
Marry a rich accountant with good taste in music.
Good luck.
It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you go home to eat.
His wife was at work next door. She was a waitress and full time physics student. He was waiting to pick her up. And then went into the bar. Then lied about it and said he didn't know it was a bikini bar. Then he finally admitted he was going in on purpose 7 years later.
I don't think he is trustworthy.
Checked. Digits of truth.
I think you are right. This woman quit her job to be a homemaker and then he is attracted to a female doctor at his doctor's appointment just yesterday.
Have you seen the doctor?
No. But he says she looks like the wife.
Has he been smoking crack?
No. Never any drugs. The wife is beautiful an ex model in her early teens. But she quit because of the creepy photographers
Well maybe her self-esteem isn't so great.
just a head's up, OP.
i believe this fuckwit with the peace memeflag is attempting to manipulate you into because a divide between this husband and wife you speak of. be aware this is their problem and not yours. be supportive but DO NOT offer potentially damaging advice nor advocate any hasty decision that would undo their marriage. that is all.
Not after this nigger shit.
MGTOW is the future
Seen and acknowledged.
WGTOW
Emotional abuse is insidious and can erode the self-esteem over time, making the individual think this is all they deserve but no one deserves to be made to feel insecure all of the time and compared to others.
attracted to other women? where the f am I sometimes like the twilight zone?
adult white women / adult white men fantasize and such and are attracted to other types. they do in the bedroom and such to as well and/or fantasize for that matter.
human attraction is normal with two 18+ year old adults that is and/or to be attracted to others that is. It's only normal to me.
the only thing that's bad is cheating itself.
this seems like a major red flag if I understand the question correctly.
You deserve to be happy.
So true.
Buddha says you need to love yourself first and foremost because you deserve love as much as anyone else you extend kindness to
Checked
Learn to be assertive. Get some hobbies which build self-esteem, something which challenges your perception of what you are capable of.
Imagine Loving only one soul, and searching for Him for all of your eternity. Imagine Love was the end all be all. I'm not saying it's right, but it IS.
This.
This is the weirdest thread I've seen here.
Weirder than the blackmail power scheme child murder sex cult run by vampire neanderthals that secretly run the world by worshiping Saturn
I wish you the very best.
Always refer to God for guidance.
Thank you. May Love prevail. As cheesy as it sounds. I will always love him.
It was interesting to see play out, but it made me feel very uneasy. The first character too naive to be real, playing at lying about who she is. The second part the insidious manipulator, hiding behind a peace symbol and leading her astray. Twisting everything so it's just what she wants to hear. Beautiful. Surreal. Why did you make this thread? What do you get out of it? Why are you typing both these parts? What was your inspiration for this story?
Well God bless you Darling, take care of your own well being as you seem like someone who gives a lot of themselves to make others happy. Your happiness is vital. You deserve to feel good about yourself because you have so so much going on.
Confidence commands respect.
Peace girl.
Love yourself before you love another.
True love only happens when you yourself are completely independent of any dependence or shackles. The person who gives up said free thinking, free spirit and freedom voluntarily does it through love. They never lose the knowledge of freedom.
As for your friend OP, sounds to me like she was predated on.
I made this thread. All true. As to the reason for my thread; have you never been alone? Have you realized yet, that the kike media is against us? There is no place else to turn.
I am not the peace symbol person.
What is this lousy plebbit shit? Tits or gtfo.
>He walked into a bikini bar one night
Well that was a bad move. He should apologize profusely. He probably wasn't thinking about how it might hurt his wife at the time, so he should tell her that: it was a moment of thoughtlessness. If it's a pattern of behavior then that's another matter.
We probably all see people in movies or passing by in public who look physically attractive to us, but part of being in a relationship with another person is realizing that telling them this might hurt their feelings, make them feel insecure, and cause them to doubt your commitment. It's best kept to yourself and not acted upon. Husbands and wives feelings are each other's responsibility, to a large degree.
Some couples might be more relaxed about this sort of thing, and even discuss who they find attractive with each other (I don't recommend it, women who say they're fine with it nearly always aren't as comfortable as they say, and it will come back to bite you), but it sounds like this woman is definitely not the sort, and he should accept that rather than try to change her (she won't).
>This woman quit her job to be a homemaker
>The wife is beautiful an ex model in her early teens.
>This person was a homeschooled female. She met her husband when she was 16 and he was 26
She sounds like quite a catch, and it sounds like he's being a fool for taking it for granted. Still, we all make mistakes sometimes. Hopefully he can recognize it and make an effort to right it.
Not my problem
women tend to choose shitty men
I'm Jewish
:) but that's ok...
Peace
Whoa. Is this the power of schizo posting?
Are you shomer shabbat? Otherwise you may be Erev Rav
Being attracted to others is fine, cheating is not.
Keep Torah, Ben Yosef is already here. Keep Shabbat.
You are wrong.
I believe Plato bridges the tabernacle between Judaism and Christianity - it's more of a philosophical system.
colour me surprised
This is Jow Forums not /faggot/
Get out
It's spooky stuff. It had me feeling very uneasy while reading through it all.
Fascinating. I'm not Jewish but I really think it is time to make aliyah. We must maintain constant vigilance for Moshiach's arrival
Well he's gonna have to outline the House of David genetics, that's a tall order.
If I were him I'd be like
psst Alexander has a Pax6 quirk
schizoposting is BACK BAYBEEE
Tell her that love and attraction are not the same and that she is being stupid.
What's with the spam, faggots? Feels like a bot. Pointless posts and pointelss answeres.
this whole thread reads like sub par AI sorely mimicking human dialogue
Weak
>Alexander has a Pax6 quirk
What did he mean by this?
The genetic mutation of the eye that famously afflicted the viking king Sigurd Snake-in-the-Eye
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You are a faggot. I'm real
Ok there was obviously a breach of trust here and that's not good, but I would tell the wife that this is not a problem specific to her husband, this is a gender wide problem. All men do this.
That doesn't excuse the behavior, but if this revelation makes the wife reconsider things she should know that this problem would arise with any man she married.
while hurtful this breach of trust was relatively mild and hardly unforgivable. So long as things never got physical/emotional between the husband and any other women, then the wife should try and keep things in perspective.
It's worth pointing out that the husband has likely never considered having a relationship with any of the women he "observed" at the bikini bar. Being attracted to another person is involuntary, but creating a relationship with some one is entirely in a person's control.
This man has only ever pursued a relationship with one woman, his wife, and that should count for something.
shhhhhhhh, you talk too much
Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
I might occasionally think "huh, she's pretty hot." I can hardly not. I love my wife though and even if most hot women weren't so self-absorbed and incredibly fucking tedious to talk to I still wouldn't because cheating on her is unthinkable. It's on the same level as beating up my 90 year old grandmother or fellating farm animals. Not just something I would never do, but absolutely disgusting as well, and I find myself unable to even understand why someone else would.
Love is not simply attraction to each other. There are plenty of very attractive women in my city, yet my girl is the most beautiful woman in the world. Even if others are technically more physically attractive, this is still true. To quote from Heinlein; "It was a Higher Truth, not bound by mundane logic."
Good looking women get fucking nothing from me, try as they might, for I am in love with a woman who is in love with me. It sounds like this woman you speak of is insecure about whether her man is "only for her," and she should be reassured with the knowledge that attraction is not love.
Both spouses should avoid behavior which makes the other person jealous.
Exactly. Im "attracted" to gorgeous women but fucking them is a different story.
I usually just blow off the steam on pornhub or imagine their face when I have sex with my wife.
Don't judge me. Its hard to be faithful when you are a 6'3'' good looking white American thats in shape and has money...