Siscon user here, I guess I never really explained just how I felt. This isn't just a random crush or anything, I've spent every day thinking about her for the last half of my life. We've never been separated before, except for one time that I was gone for half a year and she was really upset that she couldn't go with me. We're already not just normal siblings, we've spent more than 70% of our waking time around each other, whether just hanging out, eating, or doing mundane tasks in the same room. We're not just best friends, we have a symbiotic relationship. When we're around strangers they tend to mistake us for either twins or a very close couple, depending on their perspective. She's not just any random girl that I might have a crush on, she's the other 50% to my existence. Like I said, we never had any other friends, and when we tried we just found that we both ended up getting in fights with them and taking each others side in it.
So my question isn't really "should I" but "how to go about it".
What do you even want from us? Go tell her you want to fuck her or you know, don't be a degenerate idiot. No one here has some magical fix to make incest normal.
Hunter Davis
It can't be that simple. As for incest being normal, that doesn't really matter since 1. we DON'T have friends 2. we DON'T have outside social lives, although we tried and failed 3. we spend the majority of our time around each other anyway so the only people we'd need to hide it from are our parents and siblings, and that would be easy since when we have free time we spend it alone together anyway
Daniel Diaz
You are too close together to be taking that kind of risk. Imagine just how bad this would get if she rejected your advances. user, just be happy you have someone you love around, if you want to cum just fap.
I wish I could have a relationship that close. I wish I could have another half who cares about me that deeply. Don't ruin this for yourself OP.
I don't even really want to fuck her as much as I want her to know how I feel about her.
Alexander Young
Then tell her you love her in a non-sexual way. That is a lot less likely to backfire and gives you a lot more wiggle room if it does. Just don't lose your other half because of spaghetti and raging hormones.
Jonathan Harris
Sounds more like a fantasy to me. Stop daydreaming.
James Stewart
>Then tell her you love her in a non-sexual way Well, yes, that's basically the point of all this. Now that someone finally gets it; how the fuck do I go about this without the spaghetti?
Brody Hernandez
I guess I am unusually lucky, but this really is how our life goes. I never really realized this might be someone elses fantasy until very recent;y.
Carter Parker
most realistic option, stick with that user. if you dont want to fugg whats even the problem, she clearly loves you back >in a non sexual way I get a feeling you are not very honest with yourself
Owen Gray
Ok then, I would advise avoiding the word love if you can, and if you can't make sure you don't add any connotations to it that you don't intend.
Basically make sure you word this carefully and think through what you are going to say before you say it. If you both care about eachother this much then I doubt you admitting that you love her in this way would surprise her, but if you feel it needs to be said then say it.
Just remember user, you cannot unsay any of the things you might say to her, be careful.
Kevin Johnson
I didn't say I don't want to fuck her, but that's just a small part of it. I really just want to feel open about it around her.
Justin Walker
Be very careful about that user. even if she is into it every one else wont. Do not even try it, if you guys are already getting people to think you are in a close relationship then hiding that shit would be near impossible.
Keep sexual shit out of any talks you have about this subject, there is no good way for that kind of thing to end.
>Do not even try it, if you guys are already getting people to think you are in a close relationship then hiding that shit would be near impossible. Thing is we really don't have a social "circle", and in a couple years we might move into an apartment a long ways away just to save costs. The only people who might find out would be our family, our limited contact with other people means that few people in our town even realize we are related.
Sebastian Martinez
If you are okay with how things are now in terms of your relationship don't say a thing, you won't get to fuck her but who cares if you want an emotional relationship anyway. If you really are as close as you tell us you are you should be able to talk about your feelings with her without weirding her out
t. have a younger sister and we get along really well, if for whatever reason we ever talked about incest I don't think that would make things awkward between us. Have to say though I don't fully relate, I find the thought of sexualizing her rather repulsive even though I usually dig incest porn and whatnot. Imo this kind of relationship is best left a fantasy and requires a fictional character
Joseph Richardson
Yeah I guess I should clarify, I don't give a shit what other people might think, they can all go to hell. I just care what she might think. i guess. If I told her she would probably not be too surprised about it but then we both have aspergers so not only is it possible that she is oblivious, I also can't tell whether or not she knows. Most things we just talk about anyway so we don't ever worry about misunderstandings, but on this particular subject I'm at a loss.
Julian Adams
All I am saying OP is think this through, you could make your life hell or slightly improve it based on the outcome of what she sais.
You are risking everything for very little.
OP if you decide to go through with this then I look foreword to the greentext about what happened, I am willing to bet it will have a sad ending but if you continue despite all my warnings then I cannot take responsibility for that.
I'm going to wait at least a couple months. I'm 20, she's turning 18 in may.
Mason Perez
You dont want to end up like that scooby doo guy user
Adam Barnes
Oh as for the drinking suggestion , we're both tee-totallers and have a strong distaste for people who drink alcohol, specifically my older sister who became a drunken slut when she went to college.
Nathaniel Jenkins
Start off by asking your sister if she has a boyfriend or has any guys shes eyeing. Regardless of the answer follow up by asking what she likes in a guy. If she basically describes you ask her if shes ever thought of you as more than just a brother. This will get the gears turning in her head letting her know youre into her. After that just start flirting slowly ratcheting it up and building sexual tension until neither of you can stand it anymore and jump eachothers bones. Youre welcome faggot dont fuck it up
Gavin Sanders
Tell her about your feelings. One of two things will happen. She will reject you and it will hurt like a bitch but will with time break you of your obsession with her or she returns your feelings and you live a wonderful life together. There is a third outcome. She could reject you but admit she cant live without you so she finds people to have relationships with but you are a pair and they have to love and be with both of you or neither of you. Thus you live your life together and even get lewd together but you must always accept that there will be a third wheel trying to split you up because they probably only want her and want to get you out of the picture.
Zachary Green
Third outcome sounds fucking awful.
Eli Brooks
I only know about that set up from my boss. She had a case of twins that were hopelessly attached. Were talking they would have panic attacks if they were separated for longer than a day that only got worse as time went on. That said one of them wanted more and wanted to date out while the other didn't. They came by at least once a month because of course it never worked out. The person they always brought in was never interested in taking both of them just one or the other.
Anthony Reyes
I don't want to share my sister with some other guy, that's disgusting. I certainly hope my sister isn't the kind of slut that would bang two guys at once.
Nolan Campbell
Only way to find out is to ask. Like I said. Just come clean about you feelings. Don't make it about her much just you. Tell her how you feel and the thoughts going through your mind. Then let her say her piece. The unknown will hurt you a lot more than the known in the long run.
Jack Collins
But when, where? Do i tell her I need to have a serious talk somewhere private? Do i just bring it up casually? I realize I know my sister better than anyone here so there's not much you can do to help me on this bit, but still it bothers me. I;m somewhat of an overthinker.
Asher Gray
Its best done at a time where you know there really wont be much happening for the rest of the day. Don't be coy. Tell her from the start its something serious that you have been dealing with for a while so she doesn't accidentally think its a joke or something. Any miscommunication at this point will be deadly even if she does have feelings for you back. She may be struggling with her own feelings and thinks that you could never love her like she loves you so her first reaction if you don't make it clear it is serious could be that you are making fun of her or its a joke.
Also bare your feelings in whole. Don't make it be more serious than it needs to be or try to down play it. If you've cried over it say so. If you feel like crying as you poor your heart out do so. If you've punched a wall because of your frustration say so. Since she is already so close to you you need to show everything. Don't hide anything don't lie about anything don't try to change the facts to try and get one outcome over another. Just be clear and truthful. It will be completely up to her what happens.
Thomas Johnson
That sounds kind of scary, but I guess I'd have to.
Owen Rodriguez
It always is. The hardest step is always the first. You have psychological mechanisms to try and convince you not to do it. To keep the status quo. But I assure you that no mater the outcome it will be better than it will be.
Nathan Scott
Are you really this retarded? Holy fuck. You two are literally two sides of the same coin, and you're afraid that if you ask her to bang, she'll say no? Stop doubting yourself. Million bucks says she wants to bang you just as bad as you want to bang her, but is too afraid to ask you for the same reason that you're too afraid to ask her. Either that, or she knows you want to bang and is cool with it, but is waiting for you to ask. How can you have so little faith in your sister as to think that she would a. Not pick up on the fact that you want to fuck her b. burn your relationship to the ground over you being honest with her ? I'm sure all the media you've been fed dramatizes how horrific and taboo even bringing up incest is, but you need to understand that none of the 'people' who wrote those shows, movies, or comics ever had a sibling relationship as rock-solid as your own. Now stop doubting yourself, stop doubting your sister, and just ask. If nothing else, she'll respect you for willing to be honest with her.
Ryan Barnes
Yeah, I guess you're right man. I only feel that she might see it as a betrayal of her trust if she found out that I'd been seeing her that way, although I guess she probably knows already, since as I mentioned previousky that we DID have some intimate skinship in oir pubescent years.
