Would you let your girlfriend wear bikinis? I don't think I'd like my girl showing off so much of her body in public

i would never date a girl who would want to wear one in the first place. desu i don't even really feel comfortable wearing only swim shorts at the beach and i'm fit. i don't get how roasties can just run around almost naked, its degenerate

One pieces are acceptable, and much more modest than what is normally worn.

So you own your girlfriend?

yo cuck, give your wife my number phone number.

is her choice whom to fuck, dont be a pig

So, would something like this be up your alley? I could understand this being more modest, but I never understood finding the usual one piece to be modest.

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That would be fine, although some straps might be necessary depending on the activity.

>t. biter virgin incel

The biggest reason for going strapless with a one piece is to avoid the bottom part riding up the butt with movement of the shoulder area. That's very common with your traditional one piece bathing suit.

And since we can assume who you're replying to is not a beta fag, his wife will choose to fuck him.

Jesus Christ you people are insecure, who fuckin cares if she fucks someone else anyway if that happens drop her ass and find a new girl.

Sure. I don't like other men ogling her goodies, but we have a committed relationship and I know she'd never cheat. So who cares? I'm sexy too and get checked out by girls sometimes.

The point of a relationship is to give up your personal freedom for the other person.

I'm too self conscious anyways and can't swim for crap, so...

The point of a relationship is to trust another to respect you. There's a difference between cuckoldry and trusting her. If you assume she's going to sleep with other guys then that's your own failure.

Wait, what? No. That's not the point of a relationship? Who taught you this? Whether you are a man or a woman, you shouldn't be giving up your personal freedom for the other person. Were you in an abusive relationship at one time with a very controlling woman? Wherever you learned this was an extremely unhealthy situation.

yup
just no tini bikini shit.

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I assume my girl isn't going to parade around almost naked in front of men, and if she does, then we'd have a problem.

I think he's just a virgin desu. These are lessons you learn through experience. Clearly he has unhealthy and unrealistic assumptions about relationships and women

That's just how relationships go, user. You guys love each other, so you give up certain freedoms and liberties to make the other happy. It's not much of a relationship if you don't.

Sure, only if she didn't shave her legs, pits, pussy, and everything else though.

Then don't date her if that's so much of a dealbreaker. Plenty of other girls out there who'd be happy to wear something more conservative. But if she wants to wear it, that's her choice.

surprisingly, women do desire a man to lead them, and to a certain extent make decisions for them.
but I take it having been fucked makes you an expert on women and relationships so what do I know.

Yeah, I know what a relationship is seeing that I've been in a very long-term relationship. It's not giving up personal freedom for the other person. I have seen this type of relationship through other people, and it is an abusive relationship. That's why I asked if you were, or are, currently in a relationship with an abusive, controlling woman.
He could have a unhealthy, unrealistic assumption, but he may also be stuck in an abusive relationship with a crazy power dynamic.

Hey man it would be awfully sexist for me to say that my wife cannot fuck a dozen Tyrones at once.

No bikinis are literally nudity. The bible is very clear that to not be nude you must cover from your loins to your thigh

>And thou shalt make them linen breeches to cover their nakedness; from the loins even unto the thighs they shall reach:
>Exodus 28:42

Swimsuit dresses are the only acceptable thing women should wear for such activities, like pic related. Also women who wear pants are cross dressing, hence why the 'dress' part is necessary.

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>surprisingly, women do desire a man to lead them, and to a certain extent make decisions for them
They do, and I'm happy to oblige in certain situations. But if they genuinely are uncomfortable with your decision, even after discussion, then you stop and respect her choice.
>but I take it having been fucked makes you an expert on women and relationships so what do I know.
We were all inexperienced at one point. It takes a lot of effort to learn and gain experience, but it becomes far easier the more you understand women and how they interact with men.

I make my gf wear a one piece in public.

It's not out of the ordinary to wear one and I'd always be afraid of her cucking me anyway so yeah, I'd let her wear one if it wasn't a slutty microbikini or something.

It *is* giving up personal freedoms. You make sacrifices in favour of the other person. That's what you're supposed to do with your SO. That's what you're expected to do.

Yeah OP, since you have known so many of them and you totally didnt develop a bias because of your lonelyness and an anonimate image board

>I don't think I'd like my girl showing off so much of her body in public.
>my girl
Fun fact: You don't have a girl.

It isn't suppose to be giving up your personal freedom. That's barbaric. You should only do something because you want to do that something. You don't have sex with other people because you only want to have sex with that one person. You make the choice to try living with somebody because you made the choice that it would be best to live with somebody. You don't build a healthy relationship controlling each other, and that will eventually lead to misery. It isn't a healthy relationship if the woman is fussing at the man, "You can't do x, y, and z," while the man is fussing back, "Well, you can't do a, b, and c!" You don't take each other's freedom. That's the foundation of a failed relationship. Eventually, one side will end up hating the other if not both. You don't give your freedom to another person. If you really feel that you are giving up your personal freedom then you need to find a better relationship.

Any time a woman asserts herself in a relationship and dictates boundaries, people always assume she's abusive, and that the relationship has a bizarre power dynamic. Yet when a guy does the same, no one seems to notice, or pay it any mind.

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Yeah, I would, even though It'd make me hate her more. I've never had an immodest girlfriend who I didn't hate to a degree

>not controlling your woman

this is why shes fucking chad

you should have addressed the original comment you had an issue with, instead of piggy backing on some user to virgin shame.

so here here it is
>The point of a relationship is to give up your personal freedom for the other person.

do you have any original thoughts on this?
is it half true? what?

It is about giving up certain freedoms of yours. Relationships are about sacrifice and commitment. Which means having to do something you don't want, or don't like, or having to choose against your own interests, for your partner. You can't have a healthy, functioning relationship unless either of you give up some things.

this swimsuit is ideal

I've already responded to that. See . Respect for your partner != giving up your freedoms

What are you even talking about? I stated that it is wrong for the man to do the same thing. What does, "whether you are a man or a woman," mean?

what exactly is the point of that user...

Honestly, I'd much prefer if girls dressed like this at the pool.

holy fuck, i swear some of you people have never spoken to a woman in your lives

I wouldn't even let her leave her house without me or at least her dad as a guardian, and she would have to cover her face and all skin when leaving the house. I don't want any chads lusting after her. Also when were alone in a room toghetter she must be naked at all times

One piece > bikini
Girls have to have hips & a better figure to pull off a one piece

People like you always assume that when a woman actually makes her wants and needs clearly known, the relationship has an abusive power dynamic. Just one inkling, one instance, of her asserting herself, sticking up for herself, and suddenly the guy she's with must be being abused by her. Every fucking time.

Most misogynists are the way they are because of bad experiences with women. Often repeated, horrific experiences.

Ok fair enough I don't think all women are retarded children but most are

I'm going to get a drink because that last person was baiting to damn hard. I just do not understand seeing something to be giving up a personal freedom. You should do everything in a relationship because you want to because otherwise it is going to lead to argumentation, resentment, and confrontation. You shouldn't be dating a woman who has to be told that she cannot wear a two piece, but should instead date a woman who does not want to wear a two piece. Otherwise, you'd be upsetting equilibrium. You should not be dating someone you have to tell, "Don't have sex with other people." You should be dating someone who doesn't want to have sex with other people. You should not be dating someone you have to tell, "Don't buy a motorcycle, go hand gliding, or any other dangerous activity." You should be dating someone who would not chose to do such a thing because they aren't a daredevil. Again, if you're giving up personal freedom then you are incompatible with that person, and it might eventually lead to a divorce based on what they now call 'irreconcilable differences' in divorce court.

Once pieces are not okay, the women is still basically wearing her underwear. It is not any different than if a women walked around with panties and a shirt tucked into them.

She either has a phat pussy or a huge bush.

To put it simpler, you can't expect to change somebody into someone they are not. That will go for both men and women equally.

One pieces are far superior.

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I deleted what I said previously because it was a little mean since I don't know your situation, but there's instances where the woman is the instigator of abuse. There is the instance when people are being equally abusive to each other. There is the instance when the man is the instigator of abuse. When I say 'power dynamic', it can be a dynamic between two people. I explained it in (You). However, women often don't realize that taking somebody's personal freedom in that sense is abuse.

For some reason bikinis do nothing for me

In normal settings even exposure of just a woman's ankles or knees is hot, but at the beach it's like meh, almost naked girls, big deal, not even their feet turn me on. Only topless girls get me hard at the beach

>remembering topless girls from last summer
hhhhhhhnnnnnnggggggg

oh didn't know that was you.
I just don't see how you jump from the op not wanting his gf to wear a bikini to him being an insecure cuck.
I do however agree with you, on
>The point of a relationship is to trust another to respect you

I'm not fixing this a second time. I refuse.

Any time you're in a relationship with people, be they romantic, friendship, familial, etc., it means sometimes doing things you don't want in favour of them. That's basic sociability. Giving up a few things for the other person.

Most people are desu. Women tend to be more loud because of how we are raised (not my case tho) to act childish and tee hee through our lifes. Men are raised to become insecure and cover it with their egos while still being as dumb as normie women

>white knighting on an anonymous image board
holy shit what a cuck

>but there's instances where the woman is the instigator of abuse.
Yeah, any time she decides to be anything more than passive. Suddenly she's abusive and the instigator. And yet even when a man straight up hits his partner, people still don't register it half the time.

He's an insecure cuck not because he doesn't want his gf to wear bikinis. He's an insecure cuck because he wants to MAKE his girlfriend not wear bikinis instead of, you know, negotiating with her or just dating a girl who's okay with it.

>He's an insecure cuck because he wants to MAKE his girlfriend not wear bikinis instead of, you know, negotiating with her or just dating a girl who's okay with it.
does that mean
every single Muslim, more conservative/religious men now days,
and every single man before womens lib was an insecure cuck as well?

Dude... nobody said that. Are we really at the point in society that claiming women can be abusive means that we disregard the idea men can be abusive? So what if I was talking about abusive women? Here you come in fighting against the idea women can abusive. You just had to turn the tables to talk about abusive men. Most in U.S. society believe that only men can be abusive. The only domestic abuse victims people talk about are women. Sorry to steal the spotlight from you for a little bit, but people like you make abused men feel invisible. Really, that's all you're doing is disregarding the fact abusive women exist. You likely are abusive with the way you are talking.

Yes. Muslims have the worst female rights track record in history. Religion is shit.

Literally disgusting.

Be alpha enough have the two-way trust going for her to be looking hot in a bikini FOR YOU and let every other beta cuck be jealous.

Wouldnt touch a chick wearing that shit or a one piece in my life. They're unironically more likely to have serious mental health issues and cheat on you than a normie bitch.

-Dr. Chadwell Thunderkoch IX

What do you mean? I want her to look sexy for me.

I literally broke up witha qt 18yo that I thought was very religious because she wanted to sex me. She also posted 2 bikini pics by herself after we hung out all summer. Made me angry so I broke up with her. I thought women had a sense of decency. Why was I so naive?

They don't deserve rights. They aren't males and have the mental capacity of teenagers. The more rights males grant them due to appeasement, the shittier the world becomes. It's a linear relationship

>Yes, but if a person does things you don't like, knowing you don't like it, you wouldn't date that person.
>Would you let your girlfriend wear bikinis

So, in essence, you agree with the overall point

>Yes.
so let me get this shit straight
all Muslim men
all religious men
and every man before women's liberation
they were all insecure cucks? who thought there women would cheat on them?

yall sjw really need jesus.

>let
I like one piece swimsuits more anyway but ones like in pic related would look weird at a beach.

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no since one-piece suits are much cuter and would actually hide her massive bush I would force my hypothetical gf to grow

its a two-way street
if you didn't place limitations on each other based on what you were uncomfortable with and agree to stick to those as a sacrifice for the sake of better mutual mental healthy I imagine you would break up pretty fast
oh wait normies break up all the time