Ok r9k, this is about the roastie issue. Because as much as I hate getting rejected, if you have a problem with rejection, this post is for you. First, admit you are beta and that you shot talk women just because you're salty about rejection. To that, let's begin.
I hated getting rejected over and over again, fucked over and fucked over again. So I have done my research and discovered why females like chads.
The reason why is because they like chads more is because we need to stop acting so desperate. Also, we need to have more confidence is ourself. Let me explain.
A woman will reject you because to her, you are not intresting enough and we all know that we are usually around our computer a ton as well as not having a social life as well.
Of course, this is not nearly done. So debate me or leave some other advice.
(Before you ask too, I can't get in a relationship either. )
Women do not like me because there is something slightly off with me, and it could be something in many categories about myself. but i have been out in alot of parties and social situations. i did let people make fun of me because thats how i learned. mostly everytime all the other guys would ask the girls what is wrong with me. and there was always like something some little think. and i could always tell that i was just always almost there but just one click away and thats all it took for women to categorize me as i am never getting sex. i still dont know what it is they all hate about me. i don't care what i look like or if i act desperate or whatever. all that stuff doesnt matter because i still know i can do what everyone else can do and maybe even better. so it doesn't bother me that they are rejecting me because of what i look like or act like or how my personality is. i refuse to change for them because then they win.
Jaxson Myers
Women aren't worth what a pig could shit. There is no reason to start a relationship with a woman when I can find images and videos of them for me to jack it to for free.
Parker Rivera
one of the gatherings i was at, it was me and about 6 guys and the ones guys cousin brought over his girlfriend with him and hes now married to her. we were just all drinking for about 5 hours. and it came out because this was a funny topic for my guy friends at the time that i was a virgin. so somehow it got out to the girl there. and the whole night the girl just kept saying i can't believe he is a virgin. basically every time she saw me so she said it like 10 times that night and it made that guy mad she was with at one point. now i don't know why she kept saying that about me maybe she thought i was cool or good looking. but it i couldn't play it off pretending that was the reason. "yea i am just this really cool guy that just never happend to get laid" that did not work out too well.
Jose Rogers
tldr women dont like you because you are a shitty person with a victim complex /thread
Josiah Robinson
I don't even need to read past the first paragraph to know that this is just a variant of the same exact "Okey Arcanine, hear ur problem" that gets posted twenty times a day. Neck yourself OP and do this board a favor. No one cares about your repetitive advice that we're all already aware of.
but i am not OP that wrote the stories. i feel like you are a women. because you are retarded.
Lincoln Campbell
>What started you thinking about women this way? Waking up.
Blake Wood
Hey, it was worth a shot. All I'm saying acceptance is key.
Brody Ward
are asian staceys the greatest abusers of the friendzone? just a casual observation, im not ready to go to bat for it tho.
Charles Russell
i think so. they actually think they are helping you. like she thinks someone if actually going to pick that guy up but no one will. if she found that was the truth. she would probably be depressed.
Asher Allen
I understand that, but I hope you know that this same advice gets posted multiple times a day. OC, original content, that's what this board is for. Everyone here has already heard your spiel and they either agree with it or disagree with it. Not everyone here hates womynz.
Zachary Powell
i thought it was much more of a fenemies girl power play. dissing the guy with praise to show how powerful and desirable she is.
Ryan Rodriguez
Everyone a shot human being. Wdym by waking up?
William Price
Oi bruv Ifunny watermark What do we do?
Ryan Hill
yea you are right she could be using the situation to make herself seem powerful to the guy she is sad over.
Parker Campbell
>dissing with the guy with praise Congratulations. You are so delusional that you think even when people are being nice it's just a secret ploy to make you feel bad.
Owen Williams
Realizing that I need to start looking out for me and realizing that I need stop caring about people who don't care about me as a person. Women are the bulk of these people who don't care, I don't think they should have to give a rat's ass but that makes them worthless to me. I won't put effort into people who are less than dirt to me.
James Flores
Two seemingly paradoxical truths you must accept about chads/alpha/other shit categories and being succesful with women.
>1. Women like men who make an effort
>2. Women like men who arent desperate
"B-b-but guys who try are beta, guys who are aloof and disinterested always get the girl!" Bullshit. Guys who try TOO HARD are beta.
Make an effort. This means you should make an effort to express to her that you are in fact interested. You should NOT make an effort to be something particular to win her over. Convey this interest and make an effort to show you are interested in little ways, like remembering something from conversations. Dont be creepy about it and obsess small details, but for example, the girl im interested in mentioned liking a certain type of french bread. The next time we hang out, im going to get that french bread. Its subtle, not clingy, and shows i was listening to her.
As far as being aloof/disinterested, this is where most people become tryhards and lose the plot real hard. Chad "i dont give a fuck mentality" is actually not very attractive to most girls. In case you havent noticed, chads rarely actually vocalize that specific mentality to the girl. They just seem not attached. So here is the tricky balance. You understand its important not to be too clingy, yes? Good. Now its time to distinguish between confidence and arrogance.
"ALPHA" ARROGANCE = NICE GUY ATTACHMENT
Both of these are major turn offs. The servile betafag is just as single as the guy trying too hard to be alpha and just comes off like a dick. Here is the difference between confidence and cockiness. Cockiness assumes "I will be direct in my approach to her because she will say yes". No, you mongoloid, she might not. And if she doesnt, you will sperg out and make a fool out of yourself like the cries of "nice guys finish last" from your beta cousin Confidence assumes "I will be direct in my approach to her because if she says no its okay". (Cont)
Charles Sanchez
(Cont) This is not the same thing as "if she says not its okay because i dont really care". While that might not be cocky in the most literal sense, its definitely a dick move. Girls, like guys, want to be wanted. If your approach to asking out a girl is to tell her you ARENT into her, ya played yourself. Instead, be confident in who YOU are as a person. If she says no, life goes on. Sure, you might be bummed, but its not as if you will melt down, and its not as if you are unaffected. You are affected a healthy amount. Not only does this signify confidence and balance between the two opposite ends of attachment, but it demonstrates that you are a mentally stable individual with more going on in your life than just this girl and her response. Being a grounded person mentally is a very, very, VERY important trait people look for in a potential date. Trust me. It transcends dick size, height, weight, hair line, or whatever else you care about. Not because mental stability is the absolute shit, but because mental INSTABILITY is almost always a deal breaker.
TL;DR being unassertive and weak=not much to gain, everything to lose, being overly assertive and/or feinging apathy=nothing to lose but nothing to gain, but a healthy balance of putting yourself out there assertively and accepting her response=nothing to lose, everything to gain
Keep it up robots, dont lose hope. I was once in your permavirgin situation, but i came out of it
