Wew lad

mind your business is a pretty basic platitude my man, with the info we have it sounds like op was a testy cunt who just flew off the handle for no reason

>if im coming home with 3 chads at 4 am it aint NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IT AINT MY FAULT U GOT LATE FOR WORK

the absolute state of retards in 2018

if you're moving into the same place as someone, "mind your business" needs to have specific context. if you cant understand this, you need to kys.

He asks a question, then when she flips out he says "lol bye".
Where did he fly off the handle?

You handled the situation perfectly. If she can't even get through a basic conversation without acting like a cunt then she must be a total nightmare to live with.

"Mind your business" without any extra qualifiers is a rude thing to say to someone who is about to move in to your place. Her snapping at you because you asked for clarification confirms that she isn't just blunt.

I understand the idea of not wanting to be "friends" with a roommate, I've got my life, you've got yours, no reason to force ourselves to do group activities or some shit just because you needed to fill a room.

>Someone says a simple statement... mind your own business.
>LOL CAN'T COMPREHEND THAT SO LOL BYE.

That tells me this person can't respect rules laid out by someone who owns the fucking place, and chooses to get childish as soon as they disagree with a rule and just literally says "LOL BYE"...
That's childish.

Adults talk shit out.

Are you literally autistic? He asked for clarification so he can be sure that he doesn't do anything which violates her house rules.

Bro wtf
You asked a question why she gotta act like a bitch?

>someone is incredibly disrespectful towards me
>still expecting me to be courteous

found the cuck

This is why you're always gonna live with your parents.

Apparently you can't read. He didn't peace out because she said "mind your own business", he peaced out because she acted like a bitch when he asked her for clarification. People usually say "mind your own business" AFTER someone has committed some sort of faux pas.

absolute state of mentally challenged r9k memers.

the fact that you can't use your intuition to have a wordless understanding of what someone means by saying mind your business, (it means you're just living there, she's not trying to be your best bud, and to have your fucking boundaries straight, which is common sense too, boundaries shouldn't need to be explained unless new territory arises). you wouldn't guess that not being able to understand that is a symptom of autism. who would have thought

both of you seem immature as fuck, mind your business isn't particularly offensive either, sounds fine to me and you're a little bitch for being so pissed off you're gonna have to find an entire new room in a new apartment

t. Guy who has never lived outside of his parents basement and thus does not understand that discussing the rules and regulations of a living space in depth is standard procedure before moving in

Why would you ever consider moving in with a roastie to begin with? Some deluded hope you may get to bang her? Did Jow Forums teach you nothing about women?

They really need to specify the mind your own business part. Because I consider it my damn business if the roommate is bringing strangers into the place after midnight on a weekday.

you shouldn't need to "use your intuition" when figuring out the logistics of your living situation with your potential roommate. it all needs to be laid out on the table, so there are no problems in the future

how can someone be this retarted to not see this? lmfao

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She said mind you business, not mind your own business

It's an ambiguous statement that doesn't really mean anything without context. He asked for clarification and she didn't explain so he changed his mind.

>>Someone says a simple statement... mind your own business.
>>LOL CAN'T COMPREHEND THAT SO LOL BYE.
Did your eyes just skip over the entire middle part of that conversation where he asked for some basic clarity and she fucking snapped at him for no reason?

>"lol bye"
>YOU GOT SO PISSED OFF!!!!!!!!

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Tfw people are actually siding eith some roastie whore who couldnt answer a fucking question because muh white knight
This is sad

>mind your business? what's that mean
A simple and clear question. Within the context of a sharehouse it seems essential to make this explicit.

>What does it sound like?
Rather than a polite clarification, she hits back with this passive aggressive nonsense.

>Your an adult so I'm not going to engage in this.
Refusing so answer a simple question in the most bitch tone possible, indicative of her personality and what she'll be like to live with.

I'd rather move back in with my parents than live with people like that.

it's not about being offensive, it just sounds shady

My first intuition when she said that is that she is either a prostitute or involved in drugs so warning signs

Vauge does not equal simple

if your first intuition whenever someone says 'mind your own business' is them being a criminal then that's your problem

both of your faults, you obviously wouldn't get along so be happy she said it

intuition doesn't actually need to be used really though, all it is is your brain subconsciously processing information for you because you're not a fucktard who needs to think about everything with all his might to understand basic ideas and realities

Am I a normie if I find nothing wrong with this, she just means mind your business like do not ask about sex sounds and shit coming from other peoples room ?

Op seems like a bitch desu, I think the girl dodged the bullet

The issue is that she goes full retard when he asks what she means.

I mean yeah desu. I was hoping id end up fucking her and saw it as a very viable possibility, but she was just too much of a bitch for me to even see if I could end up pulling it off.

YOUR SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT IT MEANS
Youre an adult so Im not going to talk about it more
Are you an adult user? Are you smart enough? So sign the papers of roastie license agreement goddamit

Literally and proverbially a contract with the devil

we didn't get a look at this girl or her home, OP did, the only person who will really know if he's retarded is him. what shit content

>boundaries shouldn't need to be explained unless new territory arises
What the fuck do you think moving in with a stranger is if not "new territory?" It would have been nothing for her to provide a one sentence explanation of what she meant by "mind your business." The fact that she chose to lose her shit instead indicates that she is a psychotic bitch who would have been terrible roommate.
Notice how you have a completely different interpretation as to what she meant by "mind your business" than this guy? That's why OP asked for some clarification, because everyone has their own idea of what "minding your business" entails. Instead of providing that clarification, she acted like an enormous cunt.

Idk if youre a normie but that wasnt the problem in the text.
He didnt ask what mind your own business meant because he was offended, he just wanted clarification and she snapped for no reason

>spits out word salad because he has no actual point to make

I don't understand. Is telling someone to mind there business a bad thing? Reminder that you are on r9k, around people who are alone most of their lives.

>mind your business
>sure

How hard was that? If you don't like roasties then it shouldn't be that hard anyways.

Everyone with an IQ above 80 knows what "mind your own business" means. You're not retarded are you?

>Is telling someone to mind there business a bad thing?
No. That's not even the issue. Have you read the thread at all?

Should have moved in anyway OP. Maybe she wants one of those roommates that holes themselves up in their room all the time and doesn't talk to anyone I assume that's what she meant. I dunno some people want roommates that they interact with regularly and do activities with each other

this is a simple case of you being unable to concede a point. as soon as he wrote this , you should've said "yeah, you're right." but you're an immature toddler who needs to always be right.

Do you really think thats the issue you fucking retard. The issue is the way she responded in such a bitchy manner on something so simple.image dealing with her on something that matters.

I don't need to read a entire thread to understand what basic privacy means.

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OP you need to understand girlspeak, when a girl makes a vague statement you have to infer the real meaning, girls speak in riddles.

When she said mind your own business what she really meant is don't judge me if I am a mentally ill slut who has nothing going on in my life. You should have just said sure whatever and paid no notice to it.

ah, yes master, the trips of truth!!! you're right lads, i'm a flaming homo, i offer up my boy pussy in hopes that my shame can be forgotten!

>play games with women

simple answer: no

>"basic privacy" is enough information when planning on literally living with someone

lmfao

You type like a dumbass
>basic ideas and realities
Your not trying to reach word count here son, its ok
And what exactly is wrong with making sure its outlined clearly? That someone didnt think of something the exact same way you did? Am i not allowed to make any complaints about anything since thatd mean im not minding my own business?

It is a vague idiom you pathetic faggot.
Youre an adult right? Everyone knows, so Im not going to explain. She fucking washed up DJ at 4am screeching loud is not her business you roastie apologist.

playing games with women is picking arguments with them then posting the conversation on Jow Forums

if you want to have successful relationships with girls you need to understand how they communicate, it isn't hard unless you are autistic

>play games with women trust me I'm an alpha male

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How do I know that she's a mudshark?

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It could mean don't be in certain places at certain times, don't talk about neighbors, etc.

It's really not that clear.

the point is, she meant nothing by what she said, and not understand that means you're retarded. farewell friends, it seems i've angered you all somehow by lending you my reasonings but alas, no one listened, but it would make sense. you shouldn't have had to read my response anyways, unless you were retarded enough to not understand the answer in the first place

you don't need to be an alpha to deal with girls, you've spent too long on this website and it's rotted your brain, you no longer have the ability to think coherently

>I'm right because I said so and you're wrong for the same reason

make actual points or shut up. I'm not playing games with women. period. I'm going to be straight forward and honest with women. period. stop crying no one is taking your PUA advice.

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I've lived with multiple people, multiple women, multiple men.
It sound like you're speculating... I'm talking through 100% experience.

You obviously are LARPing that you're more than you are, and that you know what you're talking about.

>lay out rules please
>rules
>clarify x rule?
>thay rule didnt mean anything how dare you ask me a question
Kk buddy its not your fault
Keep typing like a fag too man dont let anyone stop you

If you were genuinely straight forward and honest with how you feel towards women you'd probably be in jail or a mental asylum

Do you know which rooms you are and are not allowed to enter in this person's house? Do you know if this person wants you to be chatting with her or trying to be friendly? Do you know if this person would be cool with you asking her to keep it down if she's making a ton of noise at odd hours? Do you know if this person is planning on bringing all types of people in and out of the house that she doesn't want you to interact with?

That's why you ask for basic clarity, because moving in with someone (especially a stranger) is kind of a big fucking deal and you don't want to be blindsided with some bizzare rule or situation that you weren't expecting. The same shit would happen if you rented a regular apartment. At some point before signing the lease, the landlord will sit you down and have a thorough discussion which breaks down the exact rules of the building and then make you sign a bunch of detailed legal documents making it clear that you fully understand those rules. You don't just get told "lol mind your buisiness" and get handed keys.

Wtf. Asking for clarification on "mind your own business" is perfectly reasonable. Do you smoke pot? Do you sell meth and have people coming in and out all night?

You definitely dodged a bullet there. You don't want to live with a woman anyway. Especially if you're already on here. You'll be put off even more than you are.

no one is saying you should rape women when you feel the urge, retard. all I'm saying is dont play the little games. shits for cucked ass betas with low value, so they have to play by the girls rules.

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again, you seemed to have ignored what i just said and called me a name for no reason, way out of line my friend! how can she lay out the rules if she didn't have one to lay out yet? alright, i apologize for angering you, i'll be leaving now i have better things to do than read your reply to this ; ^)

I can smoke pot and sell meth while "minding my own business" you dumb fuck.

She dosent know how to spell their
Fucking idiot no wonder she let a nigger knock her up

Sell meth while paying your own rent in full then.

Socialisation aren't little games it is a basic survival skill, act tough all you want but you won't be going far in life until you learn the lessons

> i have better things to do than read your reply to this
You sure do user ;^)
Otherwise, you would be stuck on this end-stage mental cancer board.

>I'm a wise grandfather with tons of life experience

quit while you're behind, bud. no one is taking you seriously right now

and by the way you can still be socialized and be a direct, straightforward person. betas need to stop giving advice. jesus fuck.

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Try being a boss of a 10+ women herd then tell me.
The minute you start compromising on a single rule its ogre.
Same as with children. It starts with buying one lollipop when it starts crying, then next thing you know your kid is spoiled snowflake.
Wymyn subconsciously test out for a future father material.

Actual adult here with experience renting from both rental companies and private parties.

If you are going to have house rules, it behooves you to have them defined. The other party in this event is being unreasonable by refusing to define vague statements. What does "mind your business"[sic] actually mean? Does it mean don't complain if she leaves plates in the sink overnight? Does it mean don't complain if she has people over? Does it mean don't do anything if she appears to be choking on food?

In the real world, if you expect people to ignore things you do, they too are entitled to do the same activity. Don't clean your dishes? Other people can also leave their dirty dishes around then, as it is a de facto house rule under the precedent of "mind your business."

If I lived with somebody who was this confrontational over asking a simple question, and I absolutely had to live with them, I would immediately not give a single flippant god damn about how they felt about anything not explicitly defined in the rental agreement. If they are going to leave dirty dishes in the sink, I'm going to leave oil stains in the sink. I am going to loudly start my motorcycle in the morning, not use headphones when playing the bass, dick down roasties at all hours of the night so that she can hear me through the paper thin walls.

If you don't want to live like this, and prefer having nice and respectful housemates that you have to live with, it once again behooves you to be courteous and understanding. They live with you. They sleep mere feet from you. What if you angered them? What is going to stop them from holding a grudge against you, finally exacting their revenge by stabbing you in the chest with a screwdriver after having a few drinks and seeing your dirty dishes in the sink, the injustices seemingly endless?

Just be kind to those you have to live with. No need to make waves.

mind your business can mean anything from
>don't try and offer me life advice or try to invite yourself to events I go to
to
>don't use my stuff without asking but I'll say yes anyway but it's the respect that matters
to
>don't talk to me or make any interaction, i don't even want to know you live here and I will make myself invisible as well
to
>don't talk about sex noises/drug smells from my room
to
>don't change the channel on the TV when it's on since its mine and i pay for the cable
to
>dont cum inside my wife until I tell you to

it can mean fucking anything, and if you are going to be LIVING with this stupid fucking cunt then you want to know what she is all about. based on her response, she is a self absorbed whore who probably wants you to cow to her disastrous lifestyle and to not complain when her tinderella eats your leftovers

seems pretty rude desu, it would be like if someone said "don't go through my belongings" before you even agree to move in. it's a red flag that they might be paranoid and accuse you of shit later on.

asking OP to mind his own business wasn't the rude part. it was her snapping at him after he asked clarification.

if, after he had asked what she meant, she replied, "oh it just means don't go into my room" or some such he would have been like okay that's fine and things would be dandy. but going fuckin nuclear at him like she did shows what kind of temperament she has, and THAT was the bullet that he dodged. I'm appalled at all the autists I see ITT who think this has ANYTHING to do with her asking OP to mind his business.

wew lad bumpity bump

one more bumparoo
oeoinfally

>Doesn't know what mind your business means
I think she dodged the bullet my dude

>white knighting bat shit roasties

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>ITT: nobody minding their own business

This had been addressed like a million fucking times in the thread already. Everyone has their own subjective opinion of what constitutes minding ones business. Moving into someones property is a major commitment on both ends, so it makes sense that OP would want to understand exactly what she meant.

>LIKE OMG STACY there was this creep who wanted to like know the house rules and I'm like "mind your own business" like doesn't that sound pretty cool and like adult stuff? Anyways, that creep like asked what it like means minding your own business and I'm like "I won't go into like detail b'cuz I'm an adult and like super serious" and he was acting like a bitch so I'm like "better take ur medicine u freak" and he like raped me over text. Sometimes I like cannot even. What a loser. Anyways, Chad like called me right after...

t. can't mind his own business

You're an adult so I won't go into this. You're smart enough to figure it out by yourself.

This was exactly my first thought, this roastie is going to turn that place into caligulas palace and doesn't want OP to say a word about it.

Well said user, I think most of the people jumping on OPs throath have never even been in a position when they had to imagine sharing a living place with a complete stranger, most of the sensible advice in this situations comes from personal experience.

I would have never expecter r9k of all places to side with this confrontational cunt, guess the colective desire to call op is faggot is just that mych stronger these days.

The absolute state of the eternal summer.

>it isn't hard unless you are autistic
This is a lie. Guys have always complained about bitches being crazy. Trying to understand women is a question that stretches back pretty much forever. Leaning to achieve results within a system and actually understanding it are two very different things.

seconded. i'm actually looking to fill a room right now, and if some bitch spoke to me like this, she would definitely not be getting the room.

I really need a new roommate though. I can't afford internet by myself, so I'm using the xfinity wifi hotspot by my apartment by using my ex roommates account info without their knowledge.

t. the leetest of hackers

>I think you know what it means
lol. It's like she's barfing up shitty movie writing.

That said, she's essentially accusing him of fucking with her just for asking that. tbhfam I wouldn't want to move in with someone that paranoid, insecure or just plain spicy either.

EXPLAINING THINGS? IMPOSSIBLE. BANNED

>SOME DUMB BITCH