So I'm a merchandiser in a retail tech store. I spend most of my time in the back warehouse sorting product. Our merch team consists of 5 people at the moment with me being the only female.
Every weekend they go out for drinks but don't invite me. Maybe I'm a social cripple but I can't actually comprehend why I'm the only one that gets left out. I've expressed interest in drinking before but when the topic of their weekend plans come up it's like I become invisible.
Why?
Because females ruin the weekend.
I assume you aren't going to fuck any of them, they have realized this and aren't going to waste time with you. Dumb small brain femoid.
Because they don't want to be fired when you get too drunk and go home with one of them and accuse them all of rape.
They'd have to adjust their behavior if a girl was around.
Cuz then they will want to fuck you. And then they will fight and then one faggot will loose his job.
Not worth bringing you along. Plenty of other sluts to fuck.
They don't want to get #MeToo'd.
In today's day and age, four men hanging out with a single woman looks bad on the men.
ill drink with you UwU
This is the actually answer OP.
The introduction of even one female into a group of men changes the dynamic too much and makes it not as brotherly, and they probably agreed one day not to ever invite you in order to not ruin their time.
the entire fucking group dynamic changes, even if it's a single girl, even if the girl has a bf or all the dudes have gfs. I've personally witnessed this shit from DM'ing D&D campaigns, in high school it's kind of okay still but once you're older adding a chick to a group of dudes fucks everything up. Just chill out and go do something else
After all the #MeTooTimesUp bullshit maybe they dont want to risk their careers by having you around to accuse of raping you or just looking at you wrong
Just say "You guys drinking? I want to join in" , since you're a social cripple they may not actually think you're into going out and just drink at home.
Or just meet them by accident, give them a high and kind of ease in after a few drinks. Ignore these other retards unless you actually are trying to fuck one of your coworkers
Bring a woman into any equation of men and things change for the worse. There's that one guy who'll hate her being around, another who thinks he can fuck her, etc. It's not worth it.
I want to drink with you tomorrow. On Discord or something.
Because with one word you can destroy their lives pic related
because they will all want to fuck you and you will get between them, they're smart to not get you involved.
Because at some point you'll get offended over something retarded and promptly ruin their lives over it.
Cause youd bitch like you are right now.
>stock job
Fucking hell I've always wanted this job, I've applied to so many places to be a stocker, it seems like the perfect job for autists who can't communicate with people.
Girls ruin things 99% of the time, that's why.
>it seems like the perfect job for autists who can't communicate with people.
Can anyone confirm this? I've been applying for the same job and also haven't had luck. Been wondering if I should give up and just send in cashier apps instead.
Women are fucking annoying to be around for a group of guys since they get offended so easily, and can't contribute any humor whatsoever.
I just don't get this. They treat me like I'm one of them at work. We joke around. They know I play hearthstone / diablo. They know I drink. Being excluded just because of my gender? Lame. Women don't do that.
Co-workers does not equal real life friends. They have zero requirement to be friends with you.
>Women don't do that.
Yeah you're hilarious I'm really wondering why they don't want you around now
>Women don't do that.
Because men make good company.
Women change the dynamic too much.
Because you don't belong, and it's nothing personal. You're a woman, and like others have said, just having ONE woman will change a groups entire dynamic drastically if any of them at all want to fuck you. Couple this with the fact that they're getting drunk together, thus they make stupid decisions, they know it's safer for EVERYONE involved (themselves for not risking adding competition or awkward drunk hitting on you or offending you with their lad talk, and you for not putting you into a situation where you would probably feel uncomfortable or snitch on them or, even worse, actually respond positively to the drunken flirting)
It's only a good autistic robot job if it's after hours when there are no customers, otherwise you will constantly have people ask you for help or where things are, and if you sperg out on them your manager/company gets bitched out and you lose your job.
I've heard very good things about night security, or truck driving for autist robots. Truck driving though, you might run into situations where you have to unload your trailer and thus have to interact with the people wherever you're dropping.
>Women don't do that.
Who the fuck are you trying to convince?
>Women don't do that.
Confirmed b8
Sage.
They've probably thought about it but it is awkward for them too. Pretty much everyone has trouble breaking the ice, try to be forward about it
>You're a woman, and like others have said, just having ONE woman will change a groups entire dynamic drastically if any of them at all want to fuck you. Couple this with the fact that they're getting drunk together, thus they make stupid decisions, they know it's safer for EVERYONE involved (themselves for not risking adding competition or awkward drunk hitting on you or offending you with their lad talk, and you for not putting you into a situation where you would probably feel uncomfortable or snitch on them or, even worse, actually respond positively to the drunken flirting)
this. why take the risk?
Heuristics are a helluva drug. At no point do you say you are female. You could be a whiny faggot or a trap for all I know. In that case it is very obvious that they do not want to drink with some think that will try to grope them at a place they regularly go.
If you are a woman, then probably they do not want to mess up the dynamic, drinking with women is very different and not relaxing at all. There is so much constraint in appropriate jokes, opinions, discussion topics while trying to build sexual tension bc girls get bored if you arent perturbing their emotions.
>guys just wanna have a dude's night out
>chick ruins it by inviting herself over
OP, just accept that you will NEVER be one of the dudes. NEVER.
What should a female autistic that can't relate to most of her gender do?
I'm a nurse so it's usually the other way around, mostly women who go out drinking. Main difference is that I'm actually invited. Maybe you just have a shit unlikable personality. Not that I'm Mr. Charisma, they probably see me as a neuter since they say shit like I'm so sweet or quiet when talking about me. They must see me as one of the girls. Maybe you should try becoming one of the guys. not going to happen
They are dorks and shy of you
You are very unpleasant to be around
They are assholes
They all are in relationship
>Maybe you should try becoming one of the guys. not going to happen
Yeah, literally impossible with the gender politics climate and the bullshit #metoo trash going around.
Nobody cares about metoo except extreme feminists
idk maybe realize that your blatant entitlement complex for male attention is the entirely repulsive
Accept that you won't be able to fit into their weekend drinking out? You're a woman and they see you as a woman, and you can take that however you want, but it also comes with the fact that you cannot fit in properly while remaining single.
I have a group of friends online that all hang out and play vidya and shit together, and there's a girl in it. The way we the way I do, at least behave doesn't change around her though because she's happily married to one of the other guys for years. Even then, there was an awkward period for a couple of the guys where "it's a chick, look out" at the start.
And men who know they can be immediately fucked at the drop of a hat because some cunt got pissy.
you're boring
the only value you have is your vagina and none of them want it, so they're not gonna sit through your boring ass babbling shit to try get to it
And it happened to celebrities. If you're not married and not rich you've got nothing to fear from women.
>At no point do you say you are female.
>Our merch team consists of 5 people at the moment with me being the only female.
>If you're not married and not rich you've got nothing to fear from women.
>what is common law marriage
>what are rape accusations
>what are sexual harassment allegations
In other words, you are wrong.
The whole balance of male bonding relies on there being no females around. Women ruin everything tbqh.
I make them laugh and they are happy to see me at work and hug me. You're wrong.
Isn't the number one thing guys hate when one of the guys brings their girlfriend? If I dated one of them I wouldn't even be asking this question but we're all single so I don't see the issue. I'll I'm getting are because you're a girl answers which I can't believe.
>Why?
Look at it this way
Thanks to a bunch of batshit crazy third wave feminists on tumblr and social media claiming that even looking at them is rape, or even sitting too close to them is "raping their personal space" and PTSD inducing, there's no point in getting involved when there's such a vocal minority just about everywhere you look claiming that so much as touching a girl's arm is harassment.
There's just no fucking reason to risk that. Especially when it's so fucking easy for women to ruin someone's career and personal life based off of one accusation with no proof.
>Isn't the number one thing guys hate when one of the guys brings their girlfriend?
Depends on the girl.
A group of guys drinking talk about who they want to fuck and make rape jokes and stuff. They have to reel it in and be on alert with a girl around, which is made harder by being drunk
My real life friends have all been female and my internet friends have all been male. What does this mean?
They don't have to care about offending someone they'll never meet.
Usually yes, that is the number one thing guys hate. That part isn't always because it's a girl though, a lot of times a dude gets wrapped up with his new girl and never makes time to hang out with his bros, then when he finally does, he brings her too? Big no no. Fuck that.
>I can't believe
Then you'll never understand. That's literally the reason. It's ESPECIALLY bad for you because you're all single, too. You need to understand that, on a subconscious level, guys will start competing in the presence of a potential partner, a huge percent of us simply cannot help it. We aren't even trying, it just happens. They're all getting drunk too, which makes it much worse due to lower impulse control, lower inhibitions, etc. The only reason it works for my group is because there's literally no competition, number one because it's all online, number two because she's happily married and we're good friends with the husband (I met her through him, actually) and number three, because we're used to her being around and being one of the guys.
There's no competition if the girl is ugly or obese
There's also no reason to be around her.
Oh wow. An actual answer and not a troll. Rare in these parts. Treasure it OP. You have been blessed.
You underestimate the poor decision making of sufficiently drunk single dudes.
if they're all nerdy, as I assume anyone working in a tech store is, women have ruined them by attempting to groom them into the beta orbiter cucks they want to use as personal slaves. these men have simply woken up, and whether through truth or trial, have learned nothing good comes out of interacting with women when you're considered a low value disposable drone.
Damn now here is the real truth OP. Glad someone was brave enough to post it
Women don't do that with guys they have deemed unfuckable.
Fpbp. Women suck. Only purpose to bring you along is with the intent to fuck, despite being warehouse retards at least they know better than to shit where they eat. Or maybe op is ugly.
This, the atmosphere is different in a mixed-sex environment, and they may simply be bros going out for that atmosphere. Even if you are good friends with them and fit in, it's simply not the same, kind of hard to describe.
I told them you are my gf and have to spend weekends with me.
OP just let the dudes do their thing okay? they clearly don't want you to hang out with them so accept it and move on.
Because you should hang out with me on the weekends instead. Where are you from OP?
OP they're just gonna wanna fuck you once they get drunk alright? You know what I did with all my ex's? We would hang out with other couples and have a great time! Try that or find other guys to hang out with. And learn how to socialise okay? you want friends well you gotta work for it you understand? Your pussy be getting you by anymore now you have to actually work for what you want.
Saturdays are for the boys.
People are being ridiculous. What kind of guys are they?
Chances are they just want to have guy-time after work. They might talk about video games or nerdy shit they don't want girls to know about. They might just be shy if they're kinda nerdy. Hard to say unless I know more about them. From my personal experience I suspect 1 friend-of-a-friend in my friend-group of being a date-rapist and I won't invite a woman if he's going to be around. Could be a lot of things.
If they're guy-ish dudes and you're kinda nerdy, it's probably only because they don't want to "slam" you (cuz y'all work together).
1 truth is that nerds are treated pretty badly. Like, actual nerds. Since they're more likely to be around normie women, they assume all women are bad.
2nd truth is that they assume a lot about other people based on their limited experiences. A lot of it won't be true beyond their social circle but, they think it is because the exceptions are easily ignored/missed/invisible to them.
But I play games as well and they know that.They aren't shy because they hug me at work.
Honestly I really don't wanna be alone this weekend. I think I'll give asking to come along a try.
Go for it. They probably just assumed you didn't want to hang out with 4 guys.
Have you considered being my girlfriend so you don't have to be alone?
Because you are not entitled to be with them.
>Woman doesn't get special attention for once in her life
>She is befuddled at the prospect of not being worshiped
Do you live in Norcal?
Sorry, New Zealand.
How do they know that you're interested in going out with them?
Men should read the mind of a woman..
>they hug me
Because they want to fuck you OP are you really this retarted? Guys don't hug other guys because thats fucking gay but they hug girls because they're pretty and they want to fuck them
Where I live guys hug girls instead of a hand shake or fist bump. It's platonic.
>Honestly I really don't wanna be alone this weekend. I think I'll give asking to come along a try.
I would ask to come along, then.
Just, maybe don't do anything that could break the group apart like sleeping with one of the guys.
>you'll never go drinking with your bros after a hard week of work
The one thing females will never have. I almost feel bad for them.
Dont shit where you eat etc
testing what the numbrese wer
You nearly never hear about the guys who get fucked over by fake accusations but it happens all the time. Interact with your female coworkers as little as possible, and never 1:1 in a quiet area.
If i was one of them I would hate yoh automatically because youre a dumb whore female who has had other men cum in her and you and your niceness is all bc youre female and.you life is on easy mode. I only respect virgin females.