Nobody owns no one.
A good relationship is about freedom.
Nobody owns no one
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>y'all
Why does every social media whore use this word?
It's a perfectly good contraction. The only reason it's fallen out of favor is because it's associated with a Southern accent. But that's a dumb reason to abandon a useful linguistic tool.
>he doesn't like second person plural pronouns
fag
sorry op but you are very, very
>WRONG
>Translation: OMG my boyfriend won't let me hang out with my ex or some other random ass guy who's clearly trying to fuck me
Wrong. A relationship means you love someone enough to sacrifice to make them happy.
I've noticed it's only women who deny this. Nobody will criticize a woman for freaking about about her man texting some girl. But if a guy gets mad a girl is texting a guy or going to a club he's "UGGGH SUCH A CONTROLLING PSYCHO STACY YOU NEED TO GET RID OF HIM YOU'RE YOUR OWN PERSON".
That actually sounds pretty nice. What's wrong with having mutual ownership of each other? Ohhhh I think she's just triggered that she isn't allowed to cheat. Yeah that makes sense.
Wrong, love is literally a form of possessiveness.
You don't own them, but in a relationship, you do have to compromise and be considerate of your partner in a lot of things. Being single is about freedom, you've got it backwards.
hhooowwwwwwdddyyyyyy yyyyaaallllllllllllll
>let me be alone so i can be a whore and cheat on you.
>its natural because i can't love you.
It's so you come off as modest and world-wise while giving pompous advice
#Blackgirlmagic you wouldnt understand
because it shows you stand by blacks and that's trendy.
>You don't own them
Why not?
still less cringey than whomst
Fuckin' this.
So many times I've had the argument,
"what, I can't have friends?"
I explained it to my gf very directly when we started dating.
I said, "Listen, if a guy just wanted a friend, he'd hang out with another dude. No offense, that's just how it is. If a guy wants to hang out with you, or text you, just be around you in general, he wants to fuck you. So if that's what you want, go do it, but this relationship is over, because I'm not going to tolerate you behaving like that. So either date me and follow these basic rules showing a certain level of commitment or leave."
You've just got to have this talk early on, so you don't waste each other's time.
What if I want to own and be owned? It is a voluntary contract
>he actually has to literally tell his girlfriend not to fuck other men
the absolute state of "men" in 2018
>so used to it being normalized
I'm pretty sure her ideal is much more normalized and popular. People just date and fuck for fun and should be allowed to do whatever and whoever they like whenever they like. Romantic ideas about faithfulness and loyalty are not popular. She's not going to change my mind by calling it unhealthy, but it's right that it's not normal and that most people aren't willing to play along with a relationship where you actually tell the truth and take it seriously.
I hate normie women, as if this fucking bitch hasn't been doing this same exact thing in her life and now just realizes how fucked up it is. I wouldn't be surprised if she's still doing it right now.
You mean the state of women right? Because women are the only ones you think like the OP image.
They wanna act black.
>he thinks having to tell your girl not to fuck other dudes isnt beta as fuck
if you have to tell your girl that, just fucking lol.
>separate life
There is no separate life when you're in a relationship. When you enter a union, you sell some of your freedom in exchange for the benefits of being in union with someone else. Extreme possessiveness isn't right, but you can't have it any way you want.
Not an argument, also coming across as a roastie.
in other words, she's an unfaithful tramp.
>dito 100%
Tuck your flaps in slut.
>your girlfriend doesnt already know not to fuck other dudes
>you have to tell her
>you think this isn't beta
kek
Did you even read my post or? I said you need to get your expectations for the relationship out in the open at the state so that she doesn't waste your time down the road with bullshit like the OP image.
>tell her she has to follow your rules or leave
>lol beta XD
either female or underage
Uh, no. It's the opposite of that. It's about being willing to set aside meaningless bullshit to build a family and life together. If you actually believe this, you'll enjoy being single dads that never see their kids.
never take advice from a woman especially not a thot that says y'all unironically
You also have to tell a children not to touch fire.
>espinoza
she should fuck off back to mexico
>when you get into a relationship, the fact that one shouldn't fuck other people isn't an obvious unspoken rule
kek
if you literally have to tell your gf not to fuck other dudes, and its not obvious that you have an open relationship, just kys. she doesnt respect you and youre a beta
It isn't normalized at all. Everywhere you go casual relationships that lack emotional depth are encouraged and closeness is shat on and relabeled as codependency.
The issue:
user 1 dates low quality women
user 1's solution: tell her to not act low quality or he will leave
user 2's solution: don't date low quality women, instead date high quality women
Con to user 1: no guarantee she will stop being a roastie whore; no guarantee she won't agree and just lie
Con to user 2: no guarantee you can find someone good enough; no guarantee you won't be tricked by a roastie
>Y'all
Stopped reading there, lost my attention immediately
>tell her at the start of the relationship you wont put up with roastie bullshit like "he's just a friend"
>tell her if she doesn't like it then leave
>she obeys and respects your authority
This is alpha as fuck. Sounds like you're just too beta to confront your girlfriend like an alpha male.
>high quality women
>low quality women
virgin detected. all women are roasties by nature, just some less than others. if they smell weakness they will start looking for a backup man. this is true no matter what girl you date.
you need to make it clear from the start your expectations for her behavior.
nope.
if I got in a relationship with a girl, she'd know not to fuck other dudes without me telling her cuz I'm not some cucked ass faggot who has to tell a girl not to betray me. fucking kek @ you retarded ass betas
>if I got into a relationship with a girl
i think this says it all, you don't know what you're talking about
>if I got in a relationship with a girl
Which has clearly never happened.
>she'd know not to fuck other dudes without me telling her
If you don't tell a female how she needs to behave, she'll behave like other girls her age do. Girls go from obeying their fathers to obeying their boyfriends.
The exact kind of people who get cheated on are betas like you who don't tell her how she needs to behave and just think "she's a NICE girl she would never do that to me" then you walk in on her and Tyrone.
Just some tips for when you lose your virginity, sport.
>all women are roasties by nature
Just modern women. That's why the other guy's plan isn't perfect. You'd have to try really hard to find a non-roastie.
So many men actually listen to women, being told they owe the world to them but are owed nothing in return. What hell.
>he can't clearly see that i said that in terms of this arguments context
kek. brainlet. beta.
top kek
when you have higher social value than her, she wont dare ruin what she has.
its only low value beta cucks that have to tell their gf not to fuck other girls LMFAO
guys* I mean.
stop assuming all guys have lower value than all girls you dumb beta cuck
What if im a self destructive person who would just make terrible choices and get manipulated on my own
Some people are better off being owned
they're avoiding saying "you guys" for feminist reasons and "you people" because it sounds awkward
You're wrong as well. Its really all about who has the most power in a relationship. You can get away with anything as long as the other person loves you enough to tolerate it. If your wife won't let you fuck other bitches you're doing wrong. Hell, if you're married you're doing it very wrong.
Roastie is upset that Chad tells her to fuck off when she wants to grind on groids with her girlfriends over the weekend.
Lel get rekt you whore.
Lol dude you're such an obvious virgin. All women will cheat if you're not strict with them. Stop dreaming about your imaginary gf.
They need to be told the rules and you need to make it clear you'll dump their ass if they don't obey your rules.
>spic
>pic is her being as naked as Twitter ((((((guidelines)))))) will allow,showing her rather unimpressive ass
>>y'all
One of these is enough to discard her opinion completely.
Listen, nigger. I'm just dealing with the cards I've been dealt. If I didn't need to establish perimiters to keep from getting cucked, that would be a good thing, but that's not who I am and there's nothing I can do about it. The next best thing is establishing "he's just a friend," is unacceptable.
I'm not too unterested in getting cucked, being incel or blowing my brains out in my mother's house like Shaubi.
like i said lmfao, you only need to do this if youre a beta cuck with no options. if the chick knows you're desirable and have tons of options, she's never going to cheat.
just lmfao @ you being a delusional beta cuck
I can jive with that, I mean at least youre being honest. more power to ya. the dude above is just delusional as fuck.
>stop assuming all guys have lower value than all girls
#notall of course but most. I'll include myself and others in that category outside of extraordinary conditions.
setting rules for your girl to follow is the most alpha thing a man can do. it's the cucks who "trust her" to not be a roastie that get cucked hard.
If telling a girl not to cheat was all it took to not get cucked there would be no cucking.
>she's never going to cheat.
This is why you haven't ever gotten a girlfriend my man. You still holding onto the delusion that just certain girls are cheaters and sluts. Here's some advice, I'll help you get laid.
All women will cheat if given the opportunity. There is always someone richer, more famous, better looking etc. Women for all of history have been kept on a tight leash, first by their fathers, and then by their boyfriends/husbands. A woman's nature is chaotic and destructive, and they are only redeemed by being restricted and controlled by a powerful man.
A woman's nature is to always be keeping backup guys around, texting other men. She'll just tell herself she's not a cheater, they're just friends. But the minute you fuck up, all of a sudden she's got a whole bunch of guys waiting.
That's why you don't tolerate male friends, or her texting other guys. Even if she's not aware of what she's doing, you have to be. It's best to think of women as children, they don't really even know why they do what they do.
>muh higher social value
Everyone was riding this sparkly vampires dick and what happened?
Roasts are gonna roasts
Only a dumbass would assume everything's going to be a ok and put their trust in a roastie.
Set rules and if she starts breaking them then break her off.
the based chadposter
the angry incelposter
>you only need to do this if youre a beta cuck with no options.
Beta? Maybe. Not a lot one can do about that. You're either born with Chad genes or you're not.
Cuck? Definately not. I'm fine with liberal usuage of that world in political context, etc, but that doesn't apply here. You're going through great efforts not to be cucked. Cucks are okay with getting cucked, whether literally or figuratively. This is the exact opposite of a cuck.
From the makers of
>You can't OWN your signifigant other, man!
...comes the ultimate galaxy brain meme...
>Money is just a social construct dude!
>when a beta cuck tries too hard to appear stern and assertive and manly
kek.
like I said, only beta cucks need to tell their girlfriend not to fuck other dudes and that opinion isnt going to change no matter how condescending you are hahhahaha
who is this?
that's cute
one of the only honest dudes itt
True. This is why its ridiculous to feel bad because you can't "have" a gf. No one owns anyone, relationships are just arbitrary arrangements that are constantly in flux and can be ended at any time- unless you live in a religious dictatorship where both fornication and divorce are illegal, and the wife is required to open her holes for you.
This isn't directly telling her to cheat, it's telling her not to have male friends ,and I never said it was all you have to do. Women need to submit themselves to their men and give up great amounts of vaunted freedom for true assurance.
That's Kristen Stewart cheating.
Robert Pattinson was probably at home thinking about his "high social value"
>All women will cheat if given the opportunity. There is always someone richer, more famous, better looking etc.
This is God's honest truth. /ourguy/ Chris Brown tried to warn these white knights but they just won't listen. These hoes truly are not loyal.
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being famous isnt true high value. its artificial. high value dudes don't get cheated on 99% of the time. if anything they are doing the cheating
Why are you so obsessed with the thought of your girlfriend fucking other dudes. Nobody has brought it up but you. What we're talking about is the girl in the OP's mindset. Girls don't THINK consciously that by hanging out with other guys or texting them that it's wrong because they're not cheating. That's the point.
But the reason women do that is to get beta orbiters and backup guys for when you make a mistake. You're not telling her not to cheat on you, she obvious knows this. You make it clear to her that you're not like the other beta soyboys of this generation who will tolerate her having male friends or talking to other guys, because you know what that means. Nobody is saying that you should tell your gf not to cheat, but females don't see anything wrong with texting and being friends with guys. That's what you need to make clear to her, that you're not going to put up with that, before it even happens.
I know this is hard to understand, because you've never touch a girl in your life, but when you lose your virginity you will understand bud.
Doesn't everyone use that word?
>t.Texan
go ahead and objectively define high social value for us, little guy. guarantee you can't.
if you're good looking, a rich and famous guy can cuck you.
if you're rich and famous, a good looking chad can cuck you.
if you're the most popular guy at your school, you piss her off and she sucks off a guy from tindr as revenge.
every single man is cuckable and every single woman is a cheater. there is no such thing as a trustworthy "loyal" woman or a man that no girl would cheat on.
Its seems like a lot of work trying to remove any temptation of fucking other men from her life, especially as a busy man. Why would you even want a girl who can't be trusted? Though I would trust them anyway. I guess I'm just indifferent to it all, if she cheats whatever just dump her ass.
>tumblr pic
im gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and say it's from google but your post kinda tells me you actually browse tumblr
Notice how feminists started pushing this shitty agenda that women should be free in a relationship to hang out with guys? It's exactly like said if a guy wanted a friend he'd hang around a guy. Feminists started pushing this free bullshit just so they can find safenets while in a relationship, so they can have a replacement as soon as this relationship ends. i'll never let my gf hang around guys alone.
boi im laffin
if you're truly alpha you don't need to tell your gf to not do one of the most obvious things she shouldn't do in a relationship LMFAO how is this not clear.
you.
are.
a.
delusional.
beta.
cuck.
take the redpill buddyboi
>every single man is cuckable
Except for abusive men.
All girls are roasties who cannot be trusted. The only difference between one who cheats and one who doesn't is not making it possible for her to get away with it.
By letting her hang out with other guys, text other guys etc you're making it too fucking easy for her to get creampied while you're at work. You limit her social circle to you and females who are also obedient and a good influence.
If she wont comply, she's not the kind of girl you want to date.
>implying women value anything other than the trivial
>implying women are smart enough to know what's good for them long term
I don't know what kind of roastie apologist psyop angle your working here but im not buying it.
>being famous isnt true high value
>Patterson (rich, famous, gorgeous, successful, lusted after by millions of women etc) wasn't actually high status
Lel. You really believe this alpha/beta cope shit don't you? Being """chad""" won't save you when someone better comes along for your woman.
It's only cuck if you have no other choice, a high status male will just pick another bitch from the harem
You're still holding onto the delusion that all girls aren't whores. All of them will cheat, it's just a matter of how easy you make it for them. Sounds like you're the bluepilled one. Thinking he'll find the perfect unicorn girl who isn't a slut. Newsflash, doesn't exist.
If you ever get laid, remember these embarrassing posts you made after you get cucked because you were so "trusting" of your girlfriend. Soyboys like you who trust women not to be whores are the most cucked men in the world.
I browse tumblr for the sole purpose of viewing pornography
>let my gf
lol you can't control what she does, or even know unless you watch her every waking moment
Nah, even abusive men get cucked. All it takes is her to find the mysterious chad who in her head going to save her from her boyfriend. Then Chad pumps and dumps her and she goes back to the abusive boyfriend.
And that harem bitch is packing her bags the moment some guy higher up on the food chain comes along.
>trusting roasties
>doesn't mind being made a fool of
"Just dump her ass"
if someone better comes along, then break up you dumb cuck. no "rule" you set is going to stop her from leaving if a better dude comes along.
>hes still larping as if hes some military type alpha dude
BOI im laffin
no one is buying this larp except for silly robots who've never come in contact with actual alphas. you're trying way too fucking hard.
Well ofc at that point it would be trust based but if she goes against my request she will be dropped asap no matter what.
>It's only cuck if you have no other choice
lol no. even if you have other options if your girl cheats on you you're still a cuck. also still waiting for an objective definition of "high status" because like I said, there's no such thing because no matter what you're successful at there's always someone whose more successful or better looking etc.
Explain why you shouldn't?
enjoy watching this beta who says "just trust women bro giving her rules to follow isn't what a true alpha does" getting BTFO lmao
>youre a cuck for what happens to you, rather than because of how you react to a situation
Still waiting for you to objectively define high status little guy. What's the matter, you can't? Come on, we're all watching, don't make an even bigger fool of yourself now.
he's right tho, he is completely right
If your girlfriend fucks another guy while dating you, that's being cucked, yeah. By literal definition. Doesn't matter if you get a new girlfriend after, in the back of her head she'll be thinking "hmm I wonder what they guy had who his last girlfriend cheated on him with that he doesn't have". No girl wants a cucked man.
>fallen out of favor
it has only ever been used in the south
Then just abuse her more >:^)
My dad would beat my mom and they stayed together for quite some time so I'd say beat them but make it seem justified to the point where she blames herself for everything and becomes really apologetic
That's the whole point of these rules. You keep your girl on a leash so she's not at the club getting chatted up by Mr. Thurdercock. It's like how pimps will straight up batter their hoes if they even make eye contact with another pimp. Yeah they're in total control but they know they need to keep other men out if they want to maintain that control.