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Your comment was unnecessarily rude.
Because men don't pursue women who are virgins because most just have sex on their mind. I know sex can lead to a relationship but most guys aren't looking for a relationship.

I lost my virginity at 18 to a fat heffer slag because of social stigma. I was so upset about being an 18 year old virgin...i used to tell everyone I wasn't (god it makes me cringe to hard)

anyway don't rush it. do the right thing. enjoy sex with someone you love.

engaged and with a baby girl now. it all worked out in the end.

male.

Don't throw your virginity out to a stranger but don't be too passive about looking for a partner or you might end up as a crazy old catlady.

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>I know sex can lead to a relationship but most guys aren't looking for a relationship.

You should stop dating in clubs then. There's millions of men complaining they can't find a girl to get serious with.

If you tell them. People are interested in if you are in a relationship or not and past dating history. I usually derail the conversation or lie.

Actually roasties might use that to make fun of you but the point still stands. If you allow yourself to get hurt or swayed by this kind of behavior then might as well become an hermit.

This is probably bait but stop waiting for a guy to pursue you for sex and start pursuing a decent guy looking for a relationship. If you're not going to lift a single finger then don't whine about it. There are more than you think and the ones only looking for sex aren't worth your time anyway. Best way to go imo is start as friends

I've never been to a club. I don't even know where to find people that's not a bar or a lounge. I want to go to conventions but everyday places? Idk. Should I start a interest focused instagram and connect with people? I'm lost.

>Should I start a interest focused instagram and connect with people?

Sounds like you'd end up with a bunch of pathetic stalkers.

Just meet more people in general. Expand your circle of friends, attend opportunities to meet people professionally, if an opportunity to get to know some random person presents itself, go for it.

Show an interest in guys you're interested in. Nothing kills an opportunity for friendship or more quicker than waiting for the other party to call first does.

If you dont have a social circle then your best choice is cofeeshops. Bring a book, relax, and have a good time, whether or not you are approached, just being in a social setting should be a good change of pace.
Other than that, conventions might work, the internet might work, picking up a social hobby/sport might work.
You basically have to introduce yourself in situations where you are around lots of people.

Most common places to start relationships are school and workplace. If you're a NEET then it might be more difficult, just go to places where there are people enjoying the same hobbies as you do.
But honestly don't expect a guy to pursue you as a serious life partner if you have no prospects for your future.

Thank you!
I'm not a NEET but I don't study something worth going to clubs and events for...

Don't feel bad OP
Your marriage gold right now
You're at the right age
The teens would be too young to start a family with
Just don't wait until after 25 to find your husband

What about school then? If you have some friends then ask them to introduce you to new people you might be comfortable with

Who's that on the picture?
Sangwoo?

It's Corazon from One Piece.

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>What would you tell your 20 year old self?

BRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP

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I'd tell myself to focus more on my education and spend less time going out.

Well it depends on why you're waiting. I lost mines at 19 with environmental pressure to lose it since I was about 13. I was uncomfortable with the idea of having sex, and I started dating a guy, fell in love and fucked about 6 months in.

Jsut do it when you're comfortabe adn when you want to. Don't thinkk of the opinion of anyone but your own and your partners.

Corazon is Best Boy

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Although I am not a female I too am 20 years old and a virgin. While yes the opportunity to have sex has come I have rejected it all 4 times by not "pursuing" the signs women gave off. Let me tell you something, I have not an ounce of regret.
Keep looking for that right one user, just know you're not alone in all the frustration and temptation :)

Virginity in men is not attractive, though. And as you get older, every year that passes makes you more repulsive to women.

20yo virgin > 25 yo virgin > 30 yo virgin > 35 yo virgin > etc

Be my girlfriend please.
Be my girlfriend please.
Be my girlfriend please.
Be my girlfriend please.
Be my girlfriend please.

Fuck off, faggot. They want to be MY girfriend!

> (OP)
>Be my girlfriend please.
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>Be my girlfriend please.
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>Be my girlfriend please.
> (You)
>Be my girlfriend please.
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>Be my girlfriend please.
I'm a BOY

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nobody ever has or will ever get a gf from r9k
This is a place for virgin men to discuss virgin men thing
Such as crossdressing, anime girls, tfw no gf,r9k made me gay...
you know manly things

Why the fuck would you want a man to stick his penis in you? Men are filthy diseased creatures.

I dont, but i would definitely get the winning lotto numbers and tell them to my past self for a much more comfortable neet life.

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I'm clean, I shave and wash myself. And have a twink body with a baby face.

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The filth of a male cannot be washed away with any earthly substance

well turn lesbian
we don't give a fuck

I'm a nice guy that's scared of girls. I'm also afraid that I'm too nice, it could be a problem.

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virgin guys are pretty clean
You can't get dirty from your computer screen

I did. I just come here because I have been here so long leaving Jow Forums behind would legit be strange to me. That and my life didn't change when we met. It turns out to insecure neet hooking up won't fix each other's problems magically and if anything bad habbits are encouraged more from both parties. We are just two stinky shitposters who barely pay the bills on time and have severe autism.

Yes you can, you just don't even notice your stink anymore because you sit in it all day.

If you're actually capable of getting to know a woman without freaking out then there's no difference between you and a guy who fucks. Just don't make a big deal of the fact you're a virgin. Don't mention it. It's like if you were about to play a competitive sport and feel the need to mention that you were always picked last in school for sports. Why would you do that? Who would want you on their team?

Now, i'm a 27 year old woman and since I was 17 have had a RAGING fetish for virgin men. I mean that's not a good thing, I like to be more dominant and am attracted to insecurity and it's a good feeling to know you'll mold their sexual experience and be remembered. My friends know this, so will point out to me/set me up with virgin men they know.

The older a man is while still being a virgin, the stronger the reason is, it's not just bad luck/looks. When I was younger and they were 18-23 range, they were alright. I mean they would game too much, spend too much on magic cards or be way too shy or anxious in a way that made them far from normal, fat, too skinny, mom bought their clothes, shit hair etc but they were mentally all there.

Since I hit 25 and started looking for men in the 25-30 range who were virgins/sexually inexperienced I have not met ONE that doesn't make me uncomfortable. This is with me meeting them, LIKING them, like I WANT to fuck, instigating the conversation, trying to flirt, like I do 80% of the work and they fuck it up and it's all in their attitude. I've had men spout redpill shit, say "you can piss on me if you like", ones that told me my breasts look comfortable, asking how long I'd be staying and if I wanted kids, they'd talk shit about women, themselves, their mother, ask me how many sexual partners I've had and make the conversation impossible to save. They get so intense, too intense when I give them sexual attention.
Oh, and it doesn't get better if I smile through it and fuck them anyway. Just so you know.

Just get into a practice relationship with a normal guy for 2-3 years first.

Having sex isn't going to change your life. Why do you want it so badly?

It really doesn't change anything.

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Losing your v-card usually comes with life and relationship experience that will be useful for when you meet somebody you really want to be with, without messing things up.

noooOOOO NOOOOO. STAY A VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIAGE YOU'RE ON THE RIGHT PATH. ALL REGRET YOU THINK YOU FEEL NOW WILL BE TEN TIMES WORSE WHEN YOU WASTE YOUR CHERRY ON SOME FORGETTABLE NOBODY WHO JUST WANTED TO SHOOT CUM INTO SOMETHING

>tfw HHKV and approaching 27
w-woops

What characteristics does a man have that turn you on?
Also whats your preferred foreplay?

We should go spartan gay.
You know like going gay to improve morale and comradeship.

Where do you find men that want to wait until marriage in the current year if you're not religious?

Hardly any decent guy would want to wait for more than a couple of weeks or months tops.

Jesus christ seriously? What the fuck is men's obsession with chastity if the "decent" ones can't even be chaste themselves and wait longer than two fucking months?

The same question pains me. I'm not very religious but I still don't want to have sex before marriage. At the very least I would have sex before marriage but do it with a girl who I know I will marry. Not sure how many guys are out there like this but the number is probably close to the amount of women out there like this. Zero. Fuck this thread time to die

Throwing your v-card away hastily does not provide any of those things.

He's just making stuff up I am Id love if I could be with a girlfriend who didn't mind waiting until marriage.
Then again I would only date someone one if knew they were marriage material and I would marry them privately (between the two families and maybe a couple friends) a year or so later. That's my dream

It all depends on what you want out of a relationship. I once met an awesome girl who was in her early twenties and wanted with sex until marriage. But that's not what I wanted out of a relationship. I'm a very physical person and need intimacy when I'm with someone. So I just continued looking for somebody else. Just try finding somebody who's similar to you in this regard.

What would answering that add to the discussion at all?

Why would any decent guy or girl refuse to have sex with their partner? You sound really entitled. There is no reason to make your relationship miserable. If you seriously will not have sex until marriage, you will either die a virgin or be married at 40 to an ugly beta cuck who is impotent.

I'm a 24 year old loser who wants to break out of his shell, entertain me

I'm 25, 26 later this year.
Still a virgin. Only concern is I'm approaching 30 and should offspring be a thing, I should get a move on it...

But in terms of sex itself, no, I don't really care. I would rather be a 30 year old virgin who finally gets married to a good guy for life, than jump through multiple boyfriends that end up leaving me.

Decent people have done this for generations. You are the anomaly growing up in this age of waste and degeneracy. How many times do you watch porn a week? Need a third hand to count?

You're still in the 15 year old mentality, hopefully you will grow up one day and get a sex drive. Just because you are asexual doesn't mean every man is. And think about it, why would any girl even want to date you when there are lots of far better men out there who will be happy to have sex with them instead of keeping them unhappy?

You are wasting your lives. 18-28 is the hottest and most attractive you'll ever be and you are not taking advantage of it

No they haven't. This "dating without sex" thing is a new creation. In the old days people got married after meeting once or twice, so it was no big deal to wait until that for sex. Nowadays people date for a long time before getting married. Some people just misunderstood that it was marriage itself you had to wait for, and not simply getting together, because back then it was the one and the same.

So in short, I am 100% correct. Thanks for proving me right. The fact that people wait longer to marry nowadays is true but they still wait to get married to have sex, like I said

Sex is insanely important for pair bonding. Also, had I married my ex without having sex first, I probably would have killed myself by now. Just because you like each other doesn't mean you'll be happy with each other in bed. Sexual chemistry is really important for a relationship.

>wasting their lives
>filling their holes with a different dick each day is somehow fulfilling

How's the weather in retardville

Only a tiny percentage wait for marriage. The religious or those with mental issues, mainly.

How you came to the conclusion that I am asexual is beyond me

I'm surprised there are still men who think like that. I'm a woman and think the same way, that's why I'm still a virgin at 23. Also probably why it doesn't bother me one bit unlike OP

It's funny how posters on Jow Forums always think that if they wait until marriage to have sex, then they will have passionate sex every day until the end and never get divorced or cheated on.

Not wanting to have sex means you are asexual or have a low sex drive.

Sexual chemistry is something that can be figured out without actually having to have sex. Just like you know sticking your hand in boiling water would hurt without actually doing it. 99% of the time "sexual chemistry" is just "I want to A to you, I want you to want me to do A to you. I want you to do B to me, I want you to want to do B to me."

Each and every one of your kinks and turn ons don't need to be 1 to 1 with your partner for things to work. And again, you don't need to have sex to know what you already know you are into.

Sounds like you were both too afraid to explore her own sexual desires and you got an egg on your face as a result for being a nitwit about women and sex.

And look how long marriages last for those who wait compared to those who've fucked in the double digits

And they are the ones who stay together in this era of disloyalty and divorce. Wew.

I just said that I would marry the right women within a year of dating her.
Premarital sex has disastrous effects on society at large, why would I want to contribute to such a reckoning?

Why would you wait? Having sex is not wrong, and waiting until marriage is stupid and a waste of time.

>not filling their holes with a different dick each day is somehow fulfilling
>How's the weather in retardville
You tell me, neighbor

All my guy friends expect for one feel the same way as me. It sucks that it isn't more common. But it is extremely refreshing to hear that there are women out there who still think this way too. I thought I was losing my mind over here. 22 male virgin here and I don't feel shame for it at all

Can't wait to wife up the nearest skank with a partner count in the triple digits so our marriage can fail within a year. "Oh well you don't have to marry these women user" yeah but someone will. Now 2 people get fucked up. Add kids and congrats you create a shitty broken society. Exhibit A is all around you

>20 yo virgin is old for women
WOMEN CAN'T BE ROBOTS REEEEEEEE

>literal virgins and people with zero (0) relationship experience trying to talk all high and mighty from their high horse

It's not as simple as you think it is. You can talk with your partner a lot, you can try to compromize. It won't always work out the way you imagine. People and relationships don't work like that. Sometimes, fantasy often is very different from actually doing something as well. So just because your partner is telling you how much they would like to try doing x or y with you doesn't mean that they will still like it when you're doing it in real life. There also might be differnces in libido, body and self-consciousness issues etc.

It's funny how roasties think this is what Jow Forums thinks.

All of which can be worked out and talked about pre sex. Odds are you won't just swap on everything you thought you knew. Relationships don't work like this. I know this because the "A" that I would want my past girlfriends to do to me is not an "A" they would want to do. Most women like being the submissive while the guy takes charge. It's really that simple. But I'm the opposite so I know without even having sex when sex between me and the other would work and when it would not

You should find a good looking practice bf as long as you're still young and desirable, desu.

>All of which can be worked out and talked about pre sex.

This is flat out wrong. Sorry, and I explained to you why.

Women don't need to know how to have sex

And I explained to you how it wasn't. I've been through the steps several times. It sounds to me like you haven't even tried it once. And no, sexting does not count.

Oh boy, post those meme graphs again, nobody has seen them before.

There are no reliable statistics on this, and they are the most likely to stay married despite cheating and being unhappy.

>Most women like being the submissive while the guy takes charge

This is just a lie men tell themselves because they can't separate "doesn't have a penis to fuck me with" from "submissive".

So she is either a virgin or has fucked hundreds of guys? No in between?

If you have sex before marriage should be gassed

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If you're aware of them why do you advocate doing the one thing the graphs shows you should not do

If everything could be worked out and talked about, divorces would not exist.

>I know without even having sex

You don't know shit because you don't know the very first thing about sex and how people figure out what they like and what they don't like. Fantasy or watching porn isn't the same thing as actually having sex. Just look at how many people online are looking for advice because they struggle sexually in their otherwise happy relationships. Sometimes people just don't harmonize sexually. In some cases, proper communication and willingness to compromize can help, in others there is nothing you can do about it.

You actually believe those unsourced, debunked graphs?