How do you cope with the fact that there are so many free women outside but you're too under-qualified to interact with any of them?
I just pretend that they don't exist. I avoid even looking at them at any cost because I don't want to be judged in their minds. They are completely different species to me and I don't want to get burned because of it.
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>I avoid even looking at them
same here, except i dont look at anyone at all lol, the floor is solace; when i already constantly feel eyes on me, regardless of any outward acknowledgement
>implying im underqualified
>implying I dont just browse Jow Forums for fun
>I just pretend that they don't exist.
That's great because even when you actually are in her dating range sending the message that she is undesired will destroy her self esteem.
If you're incel why would you ever want women to feel good?
>If you're incel why would you ever want women to feel good?
natural urges, what else? porn is the only way to relieve yourself
fuck off normoloid
As if I need qualifications for talking to bots without souls or character
I'm actually quite close to a point where I stop looking at cute 2D/3D girls on internet as well.
Why should I keep torture myself?
That's pretty much my strategy aswell.
It's both reasureing and somewhat erotic to think about the possibilty of some girl just strideing up to you anyway and bursting your bubble.
You and me both know it won't happen in most likelyhood and the inevitable down after we reach our home and descent into lonelyness again is there no matter what.
But this one moment, when you for example wait at the DMV, and a cute girls walks by.
You look her up, she looks at you, you both look away.
That moment you both sit their and neither of you does anything while the possibility of someone doing something is existent, is like bliss.
Schroedingers Cat I guess.
In the moment she sits there, she both ignores you and trys to burst your bubble at the same time, until you leave your box and it turns out you were dead all along.
Feels bad my man
Today I was out with in the city and there were so fucking many beautiful women I almost started crying
Im not underqualified, im relatively smart and attractive
I dont try because its not worth it. Nothing in life is worth the effort put in, except for art, knowledge, or god.
Who are you kidding you fucking virgin loser
Why did she put herself in front of a fucking minecraft bookshelf for this photo?
Im not a virgin but I can bet you are
Not like it matters
>It's both reasureing and somewhat erotic to think about the possibilty of some girl just strideing up to you anyway and bursting your bubble.
Try bars, i guarantee it will happen at some point no matter how ugly/NEET you are
My god you're one of the biggest tryhards I have ever encountered
You're not fooling anyone, loser
the better question is in what utopia she's living in which a bookstore isn't telling her to either buy the book or get the fuck out.
She's clearly not in a library or she wouldn't be allowed to coffee.
thats clearly barnes and nobles
they literally might as well be aliens from another planet for me. they are practically non entities. when the weather gets warmer and they start walking around in skimpy outfits I feel as if I am a starving, malnourished peasant invited to a grand gala by sadistic nobility, gazing at all of this out of this world exotic food that I am allowed to look at but not eat. it's horrible. what's worse is that many girls these days seem to have a sadistic streak to them, they know they are walking around half naked and they probably get great pleasure that so many men look at them with insatiable lust but only maybe one in a hundred men qualified as a sufficient suitor in their eyes. they are torturing us on purpose, and they know it.
>Tryhard
I dont try at all
I hope you get your inner turmoil sorted out
Goodbye
Never been, mydude.
Never been.
Is a sight like that a common occurence there?
Girls just flaunting about with coffees, pretending to read a book?
>stop looking at cute 2d girls
Senpai. You need some help. 2D smiles are the only thing that keeps me going.
Find one whose company you enjoy, and who you can grow as a person with, and it doesn't matter who else is out there.
I'd rather eat bugs and carve up an elk with mine than chase after some Cali whore who can't seem to put her phone down.
Da fuq? What shitass town do you live in where any bookstore wouldn't let you lounge around and read all fucking day? Also, libraries will basically let you eat/drink anything you want in them as long you are not some obviously messy brat.
Thank god in 30 or so years every single one of them will have to wear a fucking burka here in good old europe.
>Believing you can't stare at someone because you're under qualified as a human being somehow.
We all end up in the ground or in a jar. Don't take people so seriously.
>Believing you can't stare at someone
you can't, she will call you rapist if you do
How do i know if i'm qualified or not?
Youre trying real hard
The fact that you say you don't makes you all the more pathetic
same ma mane
be self aware
Same, man! I don't know about god though.
>tfw no more urges
This made my day! Who knew dystopia could be this exciting!
>It's both reasureing and somewhat erotic to think about the possibilty of some girl just strideing up to you anyway and bursting your bubble.
It happened to me once. After 20+ years my aloof routine finally worked and a girl made a move on me. It was pretty awesome, I got a chubby once I realized what was going on, and she was only like a 4.5/10.
>you're too under-qualified to interact with any of them?
I don't even know if this is the case anymore, I gave up on the rat's race so long ago, by using the same method as OP, that I don't even know if after all these years I have any desirable traits assuming I bothered taking care of my appearance.
>local Fnac sets up a bar lounge since there are always people end up reading a bunch of their selection in the store anyways
Coping with the fact I'm not?
But having a relationship with another human that most likely will only want it for money or to exploit you, or to waste your time with useless bullshit anyways really looks like a waste of time/life - opportunity suicide
Proud virgin, couldn't care less, refused everything, fuck your "you have to live this way, edgy moron"
so many free women? Literally every qt I see or know of has a bf. I can't settle for an uggo, cause I'm not one
>cause I'm not one
how do you know?
Just compensating, DUH
maybe he gets compliments unlike you.
>projecting this hard, woahwew
Why is she sitting on the floor in a Barnes & Noble when they have seats? Who took this picture? I've seen this image posted here multiple times but I still don't understand it. What if someone wants to get a book from the shelf she's sitting in front of or wants to walk through that aisle? This picture makes me so uncomfortable fuck you OP
Ganja, without it I'm stabbing myself in the neck.
The kind of women I am physically attracted to often display behaviors which are incompatible with my desires. It has become easier over time to disregard their allure because of this.
This wouldn't matter much if I had a desire for one night stands and casual sex, but I would only want to do such things with somebody who'd stick around.
Keep telling myself that I'll improve myself but have yet to actually change anything
i'm a girl who always approaches guys because they don't approach me and they immediately try to escape as soon as i talk to them. like they immediately look away and say they need to go or something. what do you think could be wrong.
If a qt girl tries to ask me out at this point i'm just going to tell them to fuck off out of spite
The solution is just not to think about it. Sadly the need for a female companion is a biological one, but it can be somewhat surpressed. You just have to indulge in activities which don't involve women. Video games are effective in this as one of the few forms of medium still not infested with "love stories" and other such shitty things. Older games are even better since most of them don't even have female characters.
it's funny because I live in a country full of pretty girls.
The first times I was falling in love every 30 seconds pretty much.
Now I have just mentally dehumanized them, I just glance at them, appreciate their beauty in a very abstract way.
>I live in a country full of pretty girls.
Wow, congratulations, you live on planet earth
>i'm a girl
just install tinder or whatever the fuck and you'll get dozen of orbiters
what if i don't have a phone
I have been called good looking. With a little more work I could be 7.5/10 easy
why not? even biggest poorfags have it. you can use an emulator
i'm poorer than poor. wait does tinder let you use make a profile without pictures? i can't take any because no camera
fuck off retard, it's not like this in the other countries where I have lived
hoodie up, head down
don't make eye contact with any women, there's no point
Well that's problem then, I don't understand how anyone would not be able to afford a crappy ass phone tho, they are very cheap. Are you underage, your parents don't want you to buy one? You have internet and computer, you can't be poorer than poor.
tinder has an internet version
>internet version
say what?
you the only one who looks pathetic in that exchange though. Just saying as a third party
I often feel this feel. Thanks for putting it into words for me senpai
aren't phones like at least $100? i'm a neet so that's a lot. i don't have anyone to contact. my parents only pay for internet sometimes
i looked it up, tinder.com right? it doesn't allow you to register without a phone or a facebook.
i only heard about it recently, looks like it just came out
blog.gotinder.com
Yes, you meant desktop version. Because even on the phone, you need internet -_-
Nah idgaf bro, I'm the smartest guy on this entire website, I just dont gaf
See now I'm the cool one and you're the pathetic one. Fucking brainlets I swear.
mfw i am not the smartest anymore