Did losing your virginity make you happier?

Sex with condom is horrible, I burned my dick last time I did it with condom on

Nope. Made me feel like a man for maybe a week and then I just went back to chronic masturbation again.

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How does it feel being a man?

Yes, if only because it removed the virgin stigma from my brain. Sex itself is surprisingly underwhelming and only marginally better than doing it yourself. After losing my virginity I do not think about sex anywhere near as much as I did before, it's like a massive burden was lifted from my mind.

>After losing my virginity I do not think about sex anywhere near as much as I did before, it's like a massive burden was lifted from my mind.
I need this badly, but I feel that fucking a prostitute won't give the same effect

A little bit yes. Yes indeedy renee

I don't know, the girl I slept with was not a difficult lay and it worked for me. You might just need to know what it feels like but if you feel like you need to "earn it" then maybe your brain needs you to.

Ultra thin condoms are legit I would not use anything else.

>Anteater posting

I think you need to have sex more than just once. But even the first time caused me to grow up a bit more.
(Just dropping by, not an Jow Forums regular)

what did user mean by that anons

No. People who think losing their virginity will fix anything significant are imbeciles.

I honestly wish I could take it back

Yeah, I was 21 and the thought of becoming a wizard was starting to weigh heavily on my mind. The sex wasn't very good but I didn't give a shit.

i am 22 and very scared of becoming a wizard as well

Been a wizard for a year now. It isn't so bad.

Can't argue with Satan

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I'm just more confident than before when it come to talk with women and make the correct things to amuse the girl until she is on the right mood to fuck.
Honestly, sex only worth the trouble when you want have a family and children.

It made me realize I was gay halfway through so I just got up put my pants on and walked out

>lost virginity
>Internal self hating monologue still uses virgin among its many insults

Hmmmmm. Sex feels like a dream though, I can't believe it actually happened to me. My penis going into a vagina for the first time felt so good. Like primally, it felt made just for me.

no, i wasted it on a whore and now my current girl won't talk to me about it. It happened a year before i even met her, but i can't make it up to her

lmao imagine the reverse, a guy being pissed that his gf lost her virginity to someone else. Feminists would mock him everywhere. Fuck women are hypocritical scum.

Why the fuck would you let her know?

but youll probably never ever know how sex feels like

Anyone who says no doesn't remember how horrible feeling like a virgin was.
Every day I'd go to sleep feeling like I had an 800 pound gorilla on my back.
I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy and I've come across many shitty people.
The fact that this allowed to go on is a crime against humanity.

It didn't turn me into Chad, but it did give me a certain peace of mind.

Even before having sex, I knew that normies were lying about how important it was, but now I know 100% that I was right.

Sure I should have trusted myself, but I didn't. Which I feel a bit embarassed about but when it's literally one man vs. a whole society, my doubt is understandable.

It's just part of the societal monkey tribal groupthink and is utterly meaningless when you step out and think about it

I guess. Lost my virginity at 16 (23 now) and have fucked 5 women in my life, but all I want is a gf :(

>the state of user
kek, she's probably some 4/10 and yet she got user by the balls.

why did you even tell her you fucking dunce

Because they are desperate and stupid and bluepilled as fuck like this entire board.

"Waaah waah the jew told me all my life that sex=success, but I can't get sex so that means I'm not successful so I'm gonna construct this whole image of myself as a loser reject based 100% on what others think of me, making me a superficial normalfag with no self-worth who talk shit on imageboards to perserve what little ego remains inside of me!"
-robots

"Waaah waaaah I can have sex pretty easily, but I'm still not successful and happier! What is the meaning of this? I keep fucking bitches every weekend, but none of them is my one true love who will save me from misery! That must mean that I am a loser and despite being socially well-adjusted, having a pretty nice job, friends and a straight life, I base my entire happiness on whether I can be loved by a woman or not so I'll construct this whole image of myself as being depressed even though it just means that I'm a thirsty ass motherfucker with no standarts at all who take any girl as long as she's available!"
-All normalfags

Basically, everyone is the same horny monkey regardless of whether they label themselves a robot, a normie, a winner, a loser or whatever the fuck egocentric people paint themselves as. The actual redpill is to realise that, in terms of perspective of what success is, robots and normals are the exact same. Vain, egocentric people who base all of their self-worth based on fucking memes that they were force fed since birth by a predatory society that wants you to consume and spend money.

If we're talking just about the act of having sex, then yes. I'm no longer a pornography addict and only jerk off like once a week if that, and I no longer hold sex on a pedestal.

So fucking what? You die when you get no sex? Stop with your pathetic bullshit and have some fucking dignity.
One thing losing my virginity made me understand, though, and I speak as a former legit robot who thought no woman would ever want me, is that sex is not actually hard to get. As a matter of fact, it's so painfully easy to get in our society that you can fucking PURCHASE it. And here you have fags like you with their dick in their hand not realising this and just wasting time being scared of trying because little babby couldn't possibly face rejection and a couple of minutes of feeling humiliated.
If you want sex, get it. it's as simple as that and you'll get rejected a lot. If you're horny enough to want to bang a girl, you can get sex. If you're desperate enough to get sex, you can get sex. Just join the army of thirsty ass niggas out there with no shame at all who text 100 girls a day on dating apps and, eventually, you'll get a booty call. I thought it was a joke because I used to use dating apps like a fucking beta being submissive even in chat, but when you drop all standarts, all dignity and you focus SOLELY on fucking, suddenly, you realize fucking isn't that hard. It's a number game made for the people with no dignity. So there's that. If you want to know what sex feels like, get it either by dropping all pride as a man and play the thirsty nigga game or fucking buy it, but shut the fuck up once and for all about your self-pity party.

Getting a decent woman to form a meaningful relationship with, now that's an entirely different story that involves a shitload of sacrifice and also luck.
You fucking beta robots need to figure out what you actually want first.

No. I didn't cum, though I jerk off about it sometimes. She was 16, I was 21. She was SIGNIFICANTLY more experienced than me. So proud...It was just another thing to cross off the list of things to do before 30.

Yes
This will never be original

Sadder, if anything. I also barely felt it and barely remember it.

sounds exciting. details pls

I never did, so I would not know

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no....
She died a year afterward

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sex is easy to get, yeah. but not love

>sex is easy to get

Oh go fuck yourself how can someone say such a stupid fucking narrow-minded retarded thing like this and still know how to breathe?

You were never a robot and its clear by this post you fucking piece of shit. You honestly think sex is easy to get? For prostitutes, you literally need to break the law to even have a chance to pay and the government is making it harder and harder. So paying is off the table. I've tried dating apps, if we talk the popular one now I've never gotten a single match so no chance to even message any of the women on there. Pre-rejected completely. You are so narrow minded on your own life you can't even fathom how sex can be 100% completely impossible for some men to ever find it. "Wanting sex" and "getting it" It's not that fucking simple you fucking waste of oxygen.

I used to think I could never hate anyone more than myself, then I read this fucking shit stain of a post you threw out onto here.

Well if you have sex constantly after you lose your virginity, it would be better , but I've had sex twice, and I constantly want it more, which makes me depressed.

>t. scarred for the jew

The only reason why you think sex is hard to get is because you never care to actually fucking try. You passively try to do it at best and then you give up when your passive attempts bear no fruit. Also, where did I even say that sex being easy to get actually meant that it wasn't disgusting in any regard? I said in the same post that, apparently, you didn't read in its entirety, that the majority of normies who get laid are desperate as fuck to do so and willing to do anything to get it and that's why they get it. Because they have no standarts and dignity. Well, if getting laid is ALL that you want, be like those fucking pathetic normies and pretend to be someone that you're not.
It's impossible to tell what you robots want. You cry that sex is hard to get, then we give you the very easy solution of fucking a prostitue and you either say "but there's no love" or you use the pathetic excuse that it's illegal, indicating that you're not willing to take any risks for sex anyways, which is why you don't get it.

Well what do you actually want? Sex or love? If what you want is genuine companionship, drop chasing sex altogether and focus on developing a relationship with someone you could see as the mother of your child, which is considerably harder than just getting laid.

Made me feel good for like a week and that was it.

Same with anytime I end up getting lucky.

The real question is what the point of getting sex is. Dating is misery now in the MeToo age, marriage is a trap. Prostitution is illegal, and roasties also passed AoC laws to keep the freshest goods off the table.

Basically society is giving you goods you know not just taste shit but are poisoned and telling you to chow down if you want to eat anything. I'm going hungry.

Depends on the circumstances.
Losing it by chance and having sex sparesely
>makes it seem like it is random luck that defines whether you get sex
>makes you resort to dirty tricks and manipulation tactics to get sex
>one night stands hurt when if the girl doesnt like you in the morning

Sex in a fling or relationship
>expression of love and intimacy
>made me feel that i am inherently sexually attractive
>felt wanted and desired

You fucked up
Sex with feels (when womenadmires you) is great. As long as her loyalty lasts, which is short lived, but Its worth it.
Fucking slut and paying for sex is doing it wrong.
Youre still in the betabux provider role.

You answered your own fucking question. Getting sex is meaningless and if you don't actually want it, don't get it and stop feeling insecure about your lack of it. There, I fixed your virgin insecurities forever as a man who got sex and understood getting sex means fucknothing.

Fuckboys don't end up with decent women anyways, dude. That's what you got to realise. Develop self-respect and dignity before you start dating and be extremely picky in the girls you choose to give time to, but do take chances. Maybe you'll be lucky enough to meet a decent woman who will be the mother of your children.
That being said, if all of this is too much of a hassle for you and you have no hopes anyways, then give up and stop feeling so down about it. You're getting angry at factors that are out of your control so focus on yourself instead and stop watching this absolutely pathetic masquerade the normies are playing.

No, I've had numerous partners and a girlfriend currently and I'm not a happy person it's just nice to fuck.

Where exactly am I suppose to get prostitutes now that the government has taken down the pages and I live thousands of miles from anywhere its legal huh? I don't have that kind of money to eat and get prostitutes.
I want SEX, but unlike those normies even though I'm desperate as all hell no women would ever want to sleep with me and that's the reason I cannot get laid. I am completely 100% always ignored and pre-rejected on any kind of dating site and in real life I'm just regularly rejected. I don't get how you can think sex is obtainable to anyone. Just cause finding a mother for your children is very hard doesn't mean getting regular sex is that much easier to do, only comparatively does it seem easy, but in reality for quite a few men getting any amount of sexual attention is an insurmountable goal.

>be 28 years old KV
>hire an escort
>get HIV
>mfw

BTW Sex is a meme.

>make the correct things to amuse the girl until she is on the right mood to fuck.
Gib some pointers plz

Yes, helped a lot with confidence.

But physically, without condoms should only count as real sex as it feels so much better.

Yes, because it was with a girl I loved when I was 15 on a warm summer night and we were both inexperienced and awkward but in love. Losing your virginity means nothing if its just to have sex, sex is a stupid meme and virginity is something to be cherished not thrown away on some slut who means nothing to you and whom you mean nothing to.

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A little bit, but I'm still a loser. The only redeeming thing about sex is shaking off the shyness about your sexuality with normies when they ask if you are a virgin.

Yes, I started having sex with a FWB which lasted for a month and I remember being much happier in general and had a great time, after like a year and a half of being very depressed. It was as simple as nutting raw in a thot several times every few days or something.

Hearing about it a lot in high school made me think if I did lose my virginity then I would change to be a better person. Boy, was I wrong.
>19
>stay over at friends house for a week
>the friend(girl) and I get close
>start holding hands and cheeks only
one day I go for a kiss on her cheek and she turns her head a bit and we end up kissing on the lips instead. We both blush and just keep kissing but her Gma comes home and we gotta keep it low.
>after dinner we head up to her room
>watch a movie and half way I pass out
>I wake up to her on top of me putting my cock in her
>I last about 15 minutes until I bust
>I felt awesome after that but the next day
>I felt the same and nothing changed
I was disappointed because everyone talked about how awesome it is and it will make you a "man" but I felt like I didn't change at all. Oh well had sex

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>sex is easy to get
Doesn't look easy on the slightest from my perspective.
Just getting a girl's attention for a few minutes feels REALLY hard

Did you use this condom device people originally talk about?

It felt good while I was doing it but it didn't solve any of the problems or issues in my life. I'm assuming the girl was all "eww no I can't believe I had sex with him" and people were asking her about it so she regretted it afterward.

I lost my virginity pretty young. I should have stayed with one of those partners but a few of them didn't want to commit. I really should have stayed with one of them.

try threatening her at gunpoint

No but getting my dick wet did

Kokuma kunny bagel

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Yeah happier in the sense I'm not completely obsessed with sex and no longer "depressed" about being a virgin or unwanted. It gave me some self worth and I was able to focus my energy and time on getting a better job and life instead of self pity.

If someone has a solution that kills the sex drive I'd highly appreciate it.
I turned 30 this year and I'm still a horny fuck, probably because I'm a virgin. I'd like to just forget about it but it doesn't seem to be possible through sheer will alone.

Not really. I didn't care about it as much as the person I lost it to, waking up to kiss her in the morning, fetching us both free breakfast so I could playfully feed her in bed.

I'm happier because losing my virginity was so much more than just having sex.

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Condoms are not 100% protection.

But did you use one?

Yes and no

It made me happy knowing there was someone who found me attractive enough, and who I could be that close to. Also I was never attracted to anyone before my bf came along so I thought I was asexual, feels good to know I'm at least somewhat normal heh

No because now I'm sad that once my bf inevitably gives up on me and leaves, I'll be used goods. And I feel less pure

Losing it? No.

Getting in shape and having sex with attractive people? Yes.

Being heathy, and finding someone you care about to have a healthy emotional and sexual relationship with? Priceless.

TLDR Get in shape and find someone to be happy with.
I'll show myself out

Yes, I did.

It probably was a fake. I don't know.

>fapping with a death grip and desensitizing his penis

This, I managed to do this. Although, most women might like that you last long enough to please her, some will probably be a bit dissapointed in their lack of pleasing you.

no, i'm still a loser

never lost it and I will welcome wizard powers in a few months

good to know ty

>t.14 y.o.

no, i lost it before having it was something i was conscious of, and i don't think i'm actually any better at acquiring female partners than i ever was. The last girl I had sex with told me I talk the way she sees incels talking online IRL.

Koakuma kunny
jibabokab

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fuck the fuck offff, normie trash

Only because it was with my wife. I can't imagine why these godless idiots think just sex with some random person would make their lives better.

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This would easily be grape if the roles were reversed in the mind of idiots.

Yes. By a lot actully.

literal fucking dicklets

No. The first girl I did it with was kind of chubby so I still felt like a virgin. I didn't count the experience even though arguably it was a great one.

The second girl I did it was when I could definitely say I felt like I lost it. It was a normie style pickup from the bar and back to the hotel room to fuck.

The third girl was a FWB that I banged multiple times.

Losing it doesn't make you happier. But it does take something off your shoulders.

I know I couldn't get it up if I ever got the chance to try real sex, actually I've known that since I was 17 (22 now). Since then I've actively avoid situations where there is even a theoretical chance of meeting a willing female because of the embarrassment.

t. 10 years of death grip also diagnosed autism so I'm not good with people anyway

i dont speak for other robots but i just want sex daily with different girls

Like nothing has changed.
If anything, I just feel gross because I let a stranger do that to me.

Might as well buy a fleshlight at this point, tbqh.

So there's this girl I like, if we start dating is it a good idea to tell her I'm a 22 yo virgin? Or should I just lie?

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No because I couldn't care less. Anyone who makes fun of a virgin is usually an underage faggot like 9 times out of 10.