Improvement thread #11

This is the eleventh edition of a thread that I'm gonna repost on a daily basis.

In this thread, we gather to share our most recent feels, talk about our predicament, and try to help each others to find, probably not solutions, but at least ways to improve our lives, no matter how tiny they may appear.

What's on your mind today, user?

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Bump op
I'm going to bed but I don't like your thread dying with no replys

Stuck in silver I

i'm with this guyi got wagecuck business to attend to in the morning, but i hope to catch a thread like this tomorrow evening. I've got a lot of problems to share and hopefully a lot of advice to receive. god bless

It won't stop me from reposting it over and over, but thanks user.

Quit this game, you don't need the constant frustration and toxicity it brings in your life. There are much better hobbies, like watching movies or listening to new albums, self development and improvements from new experiences.

Stay strong user, I'm trying to keep them up as much as I can but people often spam shitposting threads to get everything else out of the catalog. Still trying to find out good timings to refresh them.

I spent 2 hours repeating the same race in gran turismo sport in order to hit every corner perfectly for the fastest time. I still failed to do it perfectly. But i got better. Even though it frustrated me to the point of punching my own head.

People still play lol in 2018? Ew.
Listen to this guy:
he speaks the truth, I wasted my crucial teenage years (15,16) in that fucking game.

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I'm not liking my current job. I'm one of two people in my department and the other guy is a shitty teenager with no work ethic, leaving me to do most of the work, and even the supervisors/managers know it, but they insist on putting everything on my shoulders. I don't want to be the go-to guy, which is translation for "You have to do this because this other guy is not a good worker" and the higher ups insist one person works the department I'm in. I'm undergoing stress and I can't take it anymore, I have to go back tomorrow and I already know what I'm going to be coming in to. It's making me crazy and I tried to up and leave Friday but couldn't muster the courage to do it. Worse, the other guy is leaving soon and I doubt a replacement will come in.

tl;dr this job is going to kill me.

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Start studying for my A+ cert, I already know half this shit already I dunno why I kept putting it off. My friends and my gf all have been pushing me to do this, I managed to get everything else in my life set except my career and I'll be damned if I don't do this now.

I'm set to fail my second semester in a row, i'm a 5th year in college. the worst part is, I can't get myself to care about it.

i just need to gain some kind of work ethic
i have all this freetime when i should be doing all this work and yet i sit here and do this shit.

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Try to look for another job before dropping this one to avoid ending up burnt out with no option left.
Is the pay at least decent?

Almost $14 an hour which isn't anything to brag about.

Im literally on the brink of just not giving a fuck

Im ready to leave my church and stop trying at school and not care about having real friends and just go fucking a wall

Like i wanna fucking have my wage cuck job and get fucking drunk and or high everynight and and tell my parents to fuck off when I sleep in my car on a random street everynight hopefully with a hot lady

Trying to keep up my grades (which needs to be Bs for my parents to let me have any fun) and having my job at the animal shelter(only thing I like) and being on the lacrosse team and trying to have a friend circle of people who constinusily get disinterested in me by the day and and trying to impress the girl of my dreams even though she has a crush on my clostest thing to a best friend and is driving me insane and and Im about to let it all go

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>tfw want to get into reading but years of using the internet 12+ hours a day has destroyed my attention span

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Joined bumble with no success
Going to try tinder again also
I am so lonely

good pic user. just remember that the world is so much bigger than what you see around you and what you read on the internet you sound young so I can't imagine you've spent much time out of the city you were raised in. give life some time to show what it can offer you, even if you feel like nothing is worth it right now.

Trying to get laid Im so bad with women

I think I falling for the meme
I just need one night so I can think straight


Its killing me that all my friends arent virgins anymore

Im like a Elliot roger

Nah Ive seen shit

Ive been in fights gang kinda stuff

I know how hard my dad had to work to get his 80k salary

I also know how much he hates himself

Feel exactly the same no savin us

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You done that test out certification yet

5th year
Plz tell me youre in a community

You try tinder yet
Easy hookups my ass
Even fat chicks want a relationship

Is it a one night stand you really need though? Think about all the feels you have, I can assure you they will not go away after one, probably horrible fuck. Instead, I believe you will feel better if you start working on yourself, going to the gym, reading, trying group activities and find an actual relationship.

If youre not Chad get off of those sites, its a lose lose.

Start with something like a light novel or novella. I suggest 7chan.org/lit/src/Tatsuhiko_Takimoto_-_Welcome_to_the_NHK_novel.pdf
Its not really literary genius but its entertaining and easy enough to get you started. Then try reading more.

Sounds like youre in a rough patch but you have a lot going for you. Id say put in alot of effort starting this week with the goal being a completely free weekend. I think two straight days of no worry outside should reinvigorate you.

Get the fuck off your computer. This is serious, youre going to fuck your life up at this rate. Your whole life. Think about if whatever dumbshit excuses you have not to put in effort are worth the neet life youre setting yourself up for.

Seeing some results at the gym now that I switched up my routine, and my semester is actually going way better than I thought, but it still feels empty. Ever since I fucked up with her even the good things that happen feel that way. I really thought I had done it. She was perfect in every way, but shes just not interested. I passed by her last week and I felt like running. I just want to walk around with her and be a couple.

No real use dwelling on it though. Better to finish school and get fit. Id really like a relationship soon though.I dont care about looks as long as she actually trys present herself well, I just want someone who cares.

Hi Jow Forums

I'm taking kind of a gap year (still in bachelor abroad but only need to write thesis) to figure out wtf should i do with my life.
So far this year i learned portuguese, nofapped for 144 days, took some cold showers and watched loads of PUA videos, but still being ignored like an incel.
Thinking about going to the swimming pool these days as i can't stand going to the gym for more than a month.
What are some good books to read for any robots that wants to self improve? I'm currently reading "7 habits of successful people" or something and it's pretty neat.

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I find self improvement books to be pretty bullshit but I think Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life is up your alley.

>Jordan Peterson
Can't get enough of his lectures.
The way he talks and expresses himself like a flow truly portraits a master in communications, i'll give his book a look.

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I am doing all of that
Slowly losing weight
Reading the New Yorker weekly and a book monthly
Joined a school program where Im close to peers
Actively trying find a connection

I need a fuck I havent been with a chick for too long

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One of the golden rules,
You'll complete other people when you'll first complete yourself.
Hang in there and as soon as you won't give a fuck anymore, and focus on yourself, things will start getting easier.
I don't fuck either, don't get me wrong, but people are genuinely becoming more attracted to me... too bad i fuck it up at the first date

>saw a feels thread for the first time in a long time a few weeks ago
>read all the stories of childhood sweethearts lost
>realized I never had anything like that
>realized that I'm still 18 and in HS
>remembered that a girl had been interested in me and only really talked to me a while ago
>start talking to her more, things are going well
I don't know how I haven't fucked it up yet, she looks at me like a Chad
I'm gonna fuckin make it if it kills me

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Only four times have I ever been close enough to a girl to think of them as a potential girlfriend. 3 of them have been in relationships for years, and the other one seemed to have shown no interest, and thus so did I. I live in a super small town so it's not like I can just go meet new people. Even my close friend group is slowly eroding and I'm left with fewer and fewer people I can actually call friends and not just guys I get along with and spend time with now and then. I'm doomed until I leave this cursed town but I also love everything about living here. The nature is fucking fantastic and the climate is usually really good.
TLDR My life is getting worse every day and it will never be as good as it is now. I have no gf goodnight.

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