Did your parents fighting have a negative effect on you?
Probably.
I'm not half bad at coping at this point in my life tho.
Yes. It pretty much ruined me, my sister says it ruined her too.
They werentt violent or anything either. But fighting everyday for years and years made me a hollow shell, your parents are very important to how your psych devolpes.
The day after day, year after year thing is the people who dont experience it cant understand
my parents have literally never fought with one another, at least that i've ever seen. their arguments are the most tame and docile form of disagreement in the universe
why did i watch this video
this comment is really fucked up
I can't tell, but I always dreaded the days when my father was in a bad move and consequently yelled at my mother. It was always about money
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this is the most fucked up part of this whole thing
the same account posted this a year later. all the main cast of the first video return to present themselves as a totally normal family while the youngest kid is high out of his mind after a dental procedure
good lord
Probably, but maybe even more so all the fights I got into when I was a kid. I just can't stand fights anymore and always overreact to them. There's no healthy quarrelling for me.
>dental procedure
disregard he actually broke his entire leg somehow
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My parents have never fought, but I think that's because my mom rarely interacts with my dad
She treats him like he's some random guy she's sharing a bed with
She's fucked up my opinion of women that's for sure
The thought doesn't count
If you're not perfect you're not good enough
I'm 17, and my parents fighting has drove me to the brink of insanity. I have so siblings, or basically any friends because my parents have never been around so teach me. I really hope that no one else has to go through this. It really brings your life down to shit.
That was really hot. My dick was getting hard when I saw that woman was so angry.
>I'm 17
Enjoy your ban, idiot
jks
My dad wouldnt dare!!!!!!
Fuck off if you don't have anything to say here. We are actually talking about our problems.
I tried to be nice and play it off as a joke, but now its time for you to say bye-bye, mother fucker
yes, my mum would cry and scream for me to call the police but my dad said i couldnt. i knew she was doing it so she could get my dad in jail, he's from a bad family, but he's a good man.
but i have trouble believing this now, he used to hit her all the time. once he broke his knuckles doing it. she never broke any limbs or anything, she's just a chronic alcoholic and to stop her drinking he ties her to the bed and stuff.
the more i talk about this the worse it sounds. can't tell therapist because ongoing. looks like i've got issues from now to forever
Aw shit man wrong number xD. I'm just finishing up senior year.
these are some smooth legs on this boy
Nice try you fucking idiot. If you're dumb enough to reveal that you're underage you deserve to be banned, faggot
did you just fucking xD
reddit wanker
anyone notice the guy who was filming the video was roleplaying on imvu?
I do not know because I am not aware with what the norm is.
>shoes in the house
fucking hate americans so much
I'd say so, every single fucking night from as young as I can remember to probably 12-13 couldn't have done no damage.
the comments are full of actual children posting about their parents fighting
it's incredibly depressing
jesus christ if i didn't need another reason to kill myself
>kids sitting there pretending it's not happening
reminds me of home kek
They got divorced pretty fast when I was in the first grade. Remember them fighting a bit, but most of it was probably repressed. Fuck it.
Jesus christ is these the product of western education? Literally illiterate kids who cant even type properly their native language?
>bloody head injury at age 2
>parents fought constantly all throughout ages 2-5
>parents split up at age 5
Never stood a chance.
they are like 7 or 8 years old
>8 year old
>presumably 5 year worth of school
>cant even type decently one of the easiest languages in the world
Lol at u mutt
We are losers but thank god not as big as a loser than a drunk dad that cant control himself or his family
feels good
My mother was apparently strangled in front of me when I was an infant at the dinner table. Probably explains why I'm so fucked up now.
Yes, made me hate the certain parent more
>abusive dad
>powerless mother
>a story told a million time before
Yes, it makes me filled with hate and doubt from a very young age. I cant trust anyone anymore. The worst thing is that my older brother is showing signs of becoming the exact same thing that he despites so much
>is these the product of western education?
half of Detroit is functionally illiterate, public schools in poor areas are a complete wasteland and black hole for resources
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>roughly 47 percent of adults in Detroit, Michigan - 200,000 total - are "functionally illiterate," meaning they have trouble with reading, speaking, writing and computational skills
just imagine your typical retarded ebonics or the kid who could barely read out loud in school. They know enough to use a cell phone for texting, but something like an appliance instruction manual or online job training course would confuse them and they wouldn't be able to follow
My parents constantly fighting was one of the major factors in why I was fat as a child. They fought basically non-stop, and ended up divorcing when I was about six years old. My mother, a drug addict, was abusive and neglectful, so she often wouldn't even feed me. She'd either beat the shit out of me or not even notice that I existed, depending on what she was on at the time. My father, an angry narcissist, would come home from work, they'd fight and then he'd leave again.
But there were a couple of times when we had breakfast or dinner. Not even a lot of meals, maybe five or ten. There was no screaming. There was no violence. No terror. Just a calm, home-cooked meal. It wasn't until I was much older that I realized how much of an impact these few meals had on me. Overeating became my coping mechanism to deal with the sadness, the loneliness, the isolation, the powerlessness that I couldn't understand or process.
Now that I'm older I can understand those feelings a little better, and understand why I turned to food in an unhealthy manner. The feelings are still there, though. It still feels like it's my fault. I know it isn't my fault that they didn't love each other and they probably never did. And even when I know it isn't rational, it still feels like if I were a better person, were a better son, then maybe they might have at least loved me. Maybe then I wouldn't feel like I don't deserve to be loved.
Being disaffected drives people fucking insane. I've gotten some prime concern-pussy in my young age, just from not gaffing over this stupid shit. Literally, from you should seek help pussy, to I should seek help pussy. I'm a danger to society and there should be laws against dangerous people from having web-service. It's not like I can't go work at the misogyny clinic without a criminal record... they wouldn't take me without it!
My parents fought consistently as I grew up to the point where I would drown out my mom's cries by turing up my vidya volume. Eventually as I grew older I started getting ballsy.
As I grew at times I would try to fight my dad or try to have him stop hitting my mom and I got the shit beaten out of me.
Went through the teen phase and would just let them duke it out and not get involved. Then one day I realized I'm putting an end to it. I ended up getting somewhat Jow Forums and then the day came.
Parents fought again and this time I fought my dad and for once in his life, he actually got fucked up hard.Then mom slapped me for going apeshit. Since then my parents fight verbally only to me and each other.
I think in the end we came out okay. We're all still living together. 22 now.
During the days, i immersed myself in video games. During the nights, i desperately tried to think about fun things like the games i played or hanging with my friends at school. Mostly i ended up crying myself to sleep. They calmed down as i got older, but still go at it from time to time. They really should have divorced, more for their own sake.
I don't think it broke me, but it definitely created a happy place in video games for me when my anxiety picks up. I go there lots...
My parents never physically fought but verbally did all the time and would talk shit about each other to me, somehow not feeling that that was kind of inappropriate. At the very least I think that's the reason I don't trust people.
i dont understand why a man would beat his wife or his child
it's pure rottenness of the soul. alcohol plays a large part in many cases
my parents didn't fight because my dad wasn't around
he didn't leave btw my mom got a restraining order against him
my parents used to fight like this all the time, to the point of physical abuse. my mom siblings and i left to a woman's shelter when i was like 11.
the things i saw there were almost more damaging. lucky i was sent to a military school eventually so i did have plenty positive male influence. fast forward 10 years and im in the canadian army with a beautiful girl i plan on marring waiting for me back home.
the whole experience was very hard but i promised myself if i ever have kids i wont put myself in a position where they see me disrespect their mother the way my father did.
ultimately i think Im a better loving, more disciplined man because of the hardships of seeing a household collapse.
its really late and my spellings skewed
Yeah, I think so. I didn't really realize it until earlier this week when I heard a couple fighting very loudly in my apartment complex nearby. I got that same bad feeling in the pit of my stomach I used to get when I was a kid and tried to ignore my parents fighting. I didn't even know those feels existed anymore, it was awful.
In my case it was something my dad inherited from my grandpa. Dad claimed he beat her a lot. I'm thankful I grew up to be an introvert. Hurting people in any way or form eats my soul.
Let alone do it to my own wife or child. Well maybe I'll beat my kid actually if it's strongly deserved since that installs discipline.
i mean i been drunk before but i dont see how any can get physical violent
Alcohol brings out the shittiness of shitty people. People who get violent when they're drunk are usually assholes sober, just not violent assholes sober.
I think my parents being unstable drug addicts would affect me more than them fighting
non-PC opinion here but that is the result of both people being idiots. Young women go through a phase where they push and push their SOs to "test" him to his utter maximum limits, and many of those women never grow out of it. They continue getting under their SO's skin for no reason other than to "test" him and see how far he will go until he explodes. It's idiotic and immature, but since women are always victims and damsels nobody will ever call them out on it. "Excuuuuse me, but HE hit HER, there is 100% no way that she did ANYTHING wrong", etc.
The men are of course idiots because they allow their SOs to get under their skin. They're unable to brush it off and ignore them, or to recognize the "testing" for what it is. They take it seriously, let their emotions get to a critical mass. And because they're idiots, they have no other outlet other than physically hitting her.
I would want to hurt my dad in ways a son shouldn't, used to wish that he'd hit her so I could finally beat the shit out of him and call the cops. I was such a spiteful kid, all they really did was yell at each other, the worst it got was when he grabbed her phone and a hammer and smashed it into pieces all while she was taunting him to hit her. It wasn't until a couple years later when they finally divorced that I realized why they were fighting, why he was so frustrated. He loved her and wanted to stay as a family, my mother was cruel and nothing was ever enough for her.
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poor kid
Its so hot when she starts yelling that she isn't a whore
That is some silly ass accent. Hardly understood what they said