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I love you user don't give up!
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I love you user don't give up!
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i have a crush on one of those emo type girls im worried if i talk to her she will hurt my feelings
what makes you qualified to give me advice?
i am incredibly self-destructive, nothing i ever do works out, and i will never seem my dreams actualized
He has a PhD in shut yo bitch ass up
If you don't talk to her you will never know if she likes you back and you will live with a missed opportunity
You have nothing to lose, if she doesn't like you theres nothing you can do anyway, you just have to accept it you can't force people to like you
So go and try
The only thing you can do to increase your chances is work on yourself and self improve
I'm not qualified to do anything I just want to help
I don't really know, maybe you can try with small steps first?
Things you can easy achieve
trips of truth. i will shut my bitch ass up now
Hey OP so over the last few years I realized Im a pedophile. Before that I never really was romantically interested in anyone (although I had the chance) and I finally dont feel like an empty shell of human anymore. I feel real passion and romantic love for the first time in my life and it honestly feels great knowing that Im not broken. However I do realize the situation Im in now, never being able to experience mutual love or fulfill my desires and it makes me more depressed then when I had (seemingly) no interest in girls.
OP, what can I do?
Pls no hate thx
my dad is psychologically abusing my brother, my mom and me. he threats us telling that he is suicidal because he can't get his dreams come true. A father is supposed to be caring about the son's dream, isn't? mine not. well im pretty fucked up cause i don't have money to pay school and probably i'm gonna end in a shit job here in Spain. there is a probability to go to USA?
1. I still have a crush on a girl from high school, we were talking nicely and all, but I had cold feet during the bachelor party and didn't dance with her, she didn't talk to me since then. Would it be wrong to write a love letter in which I confess my feels and regrets and try to get over it one way or another?
2. Will get a job promotion soon, problem is, there's 2 districts of the workplace. Where would it be more convenient to go, considering the workmates are more genuine there but the boss is a hack, and in the actual context boss = chill and workmates = brats, thanks bros
I want to make new friends, but I have crippling social anxiety and freak out every time I try. What do
I finally found out why I am a ruined messed up human. Start vid at 4:00 youtube.com
I remember my first memories of elementary where me with no one else around. I'm pretty sure I was always that "slow kid" socially. And once you're branded by the normalfags, you're stuck that way since it feeds a downward spiral and people keep treating you that way. Treat the social freak like a freak even when they can't help it by being under 7 years old. Is there any hope for a social outcast who NEVER got in the peer group from a early age? PS don't say join my discord, normalfag.
I have a big ass test in chemestry tomorow and a even bigger test i pschology after that i am pissdrunk too
A chick i was lowkey after for months now just started to thickle my forearm and do cute shit every class and I have to fight a boner over it whats her angle?
I won't judge you if you don't act on it, I don't know what you can do, what's the cause? Do you have a normal social life?
I would say get professional help, maybe ask a psychologist online if you fear doing it in real life but get help and never act on it
Parents job is to love their children no matter what
Work hard and try to build your own life
1.you mean literally a letter on paper by mail? It's okay to tell her how you feel maybe send her a long message
2. Don't know
I don't have any problem in particular, I'd just like to thank you for doing this user. People on this board should help each other more often.
Easy way: make one friend on discord or something and talk to him about your life
What's your age? Do you go to school, work, sports, other?
You don't have to be popular and be liked by everyone you just need one friend
I for example have social anxiety where there are too many people but feel more comforable when there are few
Can't watch the video now
Why you want to be a disgusting popular normie? What's good about it? Be like me and take pride in being a social outcast
Make your own circle of outcast friends, be a good person and find your own happiness
Love you user
I dont really think its a bad thing to be honest as long as I dont go to far, so I dont believe that there is a cause. It just feels natural and right to me. As for my social life you could call it lacking. Im a NEET who doesnt have any friends and only occasional social interactions. But theres been times when I saw a cute girl irl and I had the urge to touch her.
I cant talk to anyone about this in real life and Im scared of talking to even professionals.
I dont want anyone to take this away from me even though I know how fucked up those kinds of thoughts and fantasies are in the eyes of normal people. I dont want to be the empty, cynical and unmotivated asshole I was before
I may try to make an online friend. But I'd really like to make irl friends.
I'm 19 in uni right now. It's not that I want to be liked by everyone, just want a few people to be friends with. I actually have the exact opposite anxiety as you. When there's crowds, I'm totally chill. But when there's few, that's when I break down. I feel like I'm expected to be interesting. And I don't want to let them down.
Mostly because I have higher goals that has the prerequisite of being socially acceptable in conversation but those are more long term. How would I find social outcast friends? I'm someone who's been a friendless, kissless, socially awkward virgin all my life. So that makes it difficult. I would try discord but Jow Forums is getting doxxed and blackmailed by trapposters.
I'm 26 years old and I'm having a existential crisis. I fear the music i'm listening to is gonna send me to hell. I deleted all the satanic black/death metal from my ipod and even downloaded some christian metal bands but the fear is still there. I even prayed and accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior but i'm still afraid. I'm afraid I didn't mean it and God knows it and i'll go to hell.
This will cleanse your soul.
>christian metal bands
Please do share names
Demon Hunter
Grave Declaration
Antestor
Vials of Wrath
Crimson Moonlight
Slechtvalk
It's all really heavy shit, mostly christian black metal. But hopefully you like it.
Thanks for the song user. I'm in tears right now. I'm so scared, it doesn't help i'm a paranoid schizo with OCD. So i'm obsessing bad over this.
Well user just keep it toghether ok
Do do anything stupid he would like you do
Shit dont do anything he wouldnt like you to do
Jow Forums, Plz respond. Make my day.
Yes, on paper, would it be a mistake? I want my feelings and regret to be taken more seriously than an email that would easily be forgotten
>Just find an online friend as pathetic as you
>It's easy I don't even have to tell you how
>Just BEE youself
Literal fucking normalnigger tier advice. Too vague and lacking in detail/effort to help anyone. Fuck you.
free help aint help nigga
I crave a girlfriend yet have no idea where to even start finding one. I have no life outside of school and little social skills or irl friends.
I want to commit seppuku. I have everything else ready, I just need to find someone willing and capable of beheading me. What do?
Feel the urge to cheat on my loving, devoted partner.
>never being able ho experience mutual love
>I don't really think its a bad thing
Read what you wrote
It's your responsability to get help and don't be a danger to others
You're unmotivated it's another thing they can help you with
Do the online help thing, maybe just text you don't have to put your face or voice
How to find irl friends:
1. Online, search groups based on cities and activities/interests
2. Workplace, school, sports, other niche activities that you actually like
How to make discord friends right now:
1. Post your discord id here
2. Wait
Should I transition? I'm too scared to make the step.
Where to find gf:
Internet apps or friends or internet groups
How to date:
Basic look: cut your hair, shave your beard, dress ok, shower, deodorant
Profile pic: just one good photo taken outside (in the day but not in direct sunlight) from distance with zoom, it makes the face flatter and sexier
Mentality: there are infinite girls you can date, if she doesn't like you it's ok just go to the next one, and you made experience + 1
Conversation: you don't have to impress her, just have fun, talk to her about whatever you like but always be positive and happy in doing so, listen to her let her talk
You can talk meta to her, what does she think about dates, relationships, what's her idea of happiness, her goals in dates
You can tell her you're a virgin but don't be ashamed, first talk her about your life everybody has different times, but don't be negative always positive
I'm sorry user, care to tell why?
Be stronger, there's no limit how strong one can be
Be the strongest man on earth
Either leave her or don't cheat, I want to know to what to do in these situations anyone can help?
Ask /tttt/ they will help you
I have recently started work as an Application Technician in a german plastic molding company.
Pay is good and all but it's draining for me since I have meetings every day and have to deal with alot of socializing.
I also have big anxiety about my work and about how others feel about me.
Do you have any advice for this kind of social anxiety?
I want to add that when I talk to 1 (one) person at a time I get relaxed after a time.
Thanks Anons, you guys rock