Why is it so hard to get a girlfriend?

Why is it so hard to get a girlfriend?

Will any female reading this give me a chance?

Even if it's an e-relationship.

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the reason for me is that I'm a shut in who never meets new people. I can't relate to normal people anymore, and I don't know where to make friends online.

I can't blame women for not liking me if they literally don't even know I exist

It just isn't fair. Why did I have to be born male? Why can't I have society care about me because of my gender? Why can't I just sign up to a dating site and find a partner the moment I don't want to be lonely anymore? Why must I suffer like this for years because I couldn't be born a fucking female?

>Like girl
>Fall for her before anything
>Start to overthink everything
>Ask her out very awkwardly and very well-timedly
>She rejects me
>O-Ok

Whomst can relate?

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It's not hard to get a girlfriend. I don't understand you.

A good friend of mine is trapped in this cycle because he refuses to treat women he's fallen for as friends and becomes very obsessive

I've never asked out a girl so no

Every time I get close I start to see their flaws and I start avoiding them. I wish I wasn't so fucked up. This has caused me to become a 25 year old khv

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Women have been living their whole lives with multiple guys, all better looking than you, going after and giving them attention. Nowadays you have to be better than all of them combined and even then she'll still just cheat on you

to what kind of people can you relate then?

When I was in high school I was friends with outcasts like myself and never did things that someone might consider normal for that age.

The people I can't relate to are anyone who has a girlfriend or does shit like sports/parties. I just don't relate to them at all. These people make up 95% or more of the population.

>When I was in high school I was friends with outcasts like myself
same
I mean I talked to others but didn't meet up with them outside of school. what kind of things did you do?

could you related to someone who is kinda inbetween? like someone who goes to social events sometimes but spends most of the time alone at home?

I've got too many fuckin mental scars to even consider dating a woman.

The amount of trauma I've legit seen is something I could never put on another person.

Death, abuse, unspeakable violence just cooked my brain and I've got to take it all to the grave, doesn't mean I'm giving up on life, just life with a partner.

but there are woman like that too or at least ones that can take that. like at some point you are just so dead inside nothing can really shock you anymore.

I'm not continuing the cycle of abuse, I'm ending it by not putting that devil on anybody else.

maybe somebody would take that devil but well if you want to be alone I can't do anything.

>could you related to someone who is kinda inbetween?
Depends on whether or not they obsess on trying to become a normie like some people I know. I hate it when a person becomes a slave to pussy, I've seen it happen first hand

When I was in high school me and my friends used to chill in the less populated parts of the school at lunch and play video games/do outdoors stuff when not at school. One day one of them got a gf and the she fucked shit up. It's a shame because I haven't talked to some of them in years because of the trouble this guy's gf caused.

Let me tell you boy. I've been with a fair few women in these past years and I always end the relationship for your reason. I always end up becoming annoyed and disgusted and break it up. It sucks though, because I'd lie to believe there's someone out there for me. Maybe not who knows at this point.

Women just have so many options, like any woman could go on a dating site and get hundreds of messages. Naturally this makes them view most men as worthless as our attention is abundant.

It's got nothing to do with being alone, I've got my friends and all that.

Being intimate with a woman and sharing my life with her, it's just a matter of time before the scars show up and cause me to act not of my own action but as result of trauma.

I cannot live in a situation where I could put the hate I got onto anybody else.

I cannot hurt somebody.

When I see a girl I might be interested in (typically at work), it takes just a few days to learn that she's already married, or at least engaged. That's if I don't learn she's a disgusting, manipulative, backstabbing, conniving snake. In the end I never even passively encountered someone I could even consider approaching.

I do this with friends sometimes tbqh, one thing annoys me and it just builds and builds until I hate my old best friend for some stupid fucking reason. I always regret it a few months later.

This, but originally.
Specifically critical flaws that cannot be fixed and makes them downright impossible to consider.

My best friend makes funny of me for how easily I flip on people and I do do it with friends as well and always to my later regret.

>I hate it when a person becomes a slave to pussy, I've seen it happen first hand
yeah one of my two best friends is kinda like that. not really on his own though people often try to convince him to bullshit but my other best friend and me can usually convince him to not do it.

I did the kinda the same but we didn't play games just talk about them. after school I kept being friends with my two best friends and since years it's been like that. relationships came and went but it didn't change our friendship luckily. I can relate to normies on some level but I can't tell them about most of what's going on in my life.

I can be your gf (male) if you want to.

Clearly it's the woman's fault you're a chris-chan tier sperg

Yeah sure, do you have a discord?

d/a but where do you live?

yes
original reply please don't mute

Why spend your life chasing women when perfectly cute bois would chase you if you just took the slut pills already and became pretty?

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I'm your spooky dad tickling you in my spooky pants choo choo.

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mmm.....that's a trap?