>Match with some girl on Tinder
>She messages instantly, and we hit it off
>After a day, I get her phone number
>Talk for a bit, and ask if she wants to get some coffee
>"Is this a date?"
>I say, "Do you want it to be?"
>she replies with "hmm idk"
Is Tinder now Friendfinder 9000?
>>I say, "Do you want it to be?"
Beta as fuck. You messed up, no wonder she responded the way she did
She was leading you on you autist.
if there's still time, just say "its a date. let's go"
>asking permission to a roastie for a date
topkek, just get her address, show up a day later, fuck her and leave, is that hard?
>>I say, "Do you want it to be?"
Do you want a friend, wife or a fuck? Tinder is for finding a fuck.
The WAY she gives you her number and the WAY she text you the first time matters man.
You cant just "have game" that you have copy pasted and think that every step that happens after your texts has a 1 to 1 corrolation to whatever fucking pickup guide you ever read says.
If you are just being yourself and getting these results then you are just somewhat autistic for not knowing what is going on or what is meant between the lines/texts.
The way you get to a point in a relationship(as in a connection) with another person matters alot for normies specially.
The way the sentences are formed, the way she responds (not just the words themselves).
The timing, the precise emotes/feeling behind the responses.
That is what is leading you on if you have talked and "gotten" signals.
1. You are not reading them well or
2. You havent actully got them
Im half autistic and have schizoid personality disorder, but im intrerested in the fundamentals of how normies interact so I like to think about these things, while in practical real time life, I suck prob more than you at these things.
I can understand this just in theory in my dark room, in real life/internet relationships/conversation I just avoid everything to then rethink about what I saw or learned afterwards when I get home.
Nice pussydrying texting you beta fag
Hey, it's OP. I know I fucked up on this one, so what would you have said in this situation?
I can speak to women in a friendly way with absolutely no issue, especially irl; trying to flirt over text is impossible for me though
>of course it's a date! we met on tinder not friender...
If she says anything that's not affirmation, just get up and leave her with the tab
Girls dont want 2.49 cups of coffee on tinder. They wanna get fucked in the vegeta. You suck nigga.
what the fuck is it with you stupid normalfaggots and coffee
It's always coffee dates with you faggots. Fuck off and stop using Tinder, only sluts and desperate cucks use it.
It is when you're using it if you talk like that.
1) dont call things "Dates." its a stupid word and it has connotations that bring up and set a bunch of expectations that make it feel awkward and that you can't possibly meet. instead just say "hanging out"
2) you changed the dynamic of the relationship by making yourself look submissive. M should never be sub to F.
you didnt give him any advice as to what he did wrong tho. why is saying what he said wrong
>Match with some girl on Tinder
>She messages instantly, and we hit it off
This happens?
You should have said "of course it is what the fuck is wrong with you? You better not come wearing any underwear, slut".
But also you should block her now that she tipped her hand.
Coffee is a good way to talk and get to know each other without any expectation/dress code/monetary commitment. It's a sort of optimal first date (or really, pre-date).
Women don't know what they want. You have to be more confident brah. Assert dominance.
the formal rules are, there are no formal rules