Robots, what was the worst fucking case of oneitis and heartbreak you've had and how did you fucking deal with it? Have you completely cured yourself and how?
Worst case of oneitis
Gavin Morris
Anthony Morgan
I still think about her everyday and we haven't spoken in over a year, woke up from a dream this morning where we reconnected and started dating.
If I wasn't a shut-in and somewhat sane I would have stalked her in real life a long time ago and made her mine forever.
Isaiah Phillips
It's been 9 years nigga, It still hurts.
I've just been waiting for somebody that wants to fill the void.
I've had other relationships since then.
They were even prettier than she was but the heart mang.
Bentley Rogers
god i met this girl over discord and i really liked her and she really liked me but i was really socially awkward and didn't know it and ghosted her, but it's too late to go back because i'm awful in relationships and i think about her every day when i lie in bed at night and just feel empty, but that ship has already sailed
Aaron Morris
>9 years
Dude you should see a doctor. That's stupid.
Liam Sullivan
probably the time when i had the hots for a milf from texas...
we met in some chat room, i got her to play everquest 2 as that's the only game she seemed interested in; i hated the game but i would stay up past midnight to play in a group with her and even do shit raids i didn't care about with a shit guild.
i was in the UK, so the time difference sucked.
anyway long story short, after years of playing together she invited me to visit and i made plans to visit for a whole month (i had set aside 2000 pounds to spend with her, on whatever (this was back in like 2005)
the week before i am supposed to fly out there, she is off the radar, i leave several voice mails when there is only 2 days remaining to go up to the last night.
suddenly just as i was about to give up on, she comes online the night before due to fly out.
i was asking what happened and i was so worried and i was about to cancel all plans.
she admits that she had JUST been to see some 'canadian' filipino gook (ugly as fuck monster), i considered myself average looking back then, but this guy was so fucking ugly, like some kind of dark monkey that there was no basis for comparison between us.
i got angry, told her how could she do this to me? etc. and right after that she said basically:
YOU DON'T OWN ME
AND BY THE WAY; WE HAD SEX
WE ARE TOGETHER NOW
YOU ARE NOT REAL TO ME AFTER ALL, YOU'RE JUST SOMEONE FROM THE INTERNET
>to this day i don't know what the fuck happened, and i haven't ever made contact with a roastie online or in real life ever again
Jace Martin
broke up with her about 3 months ago, I wanted to commit suicide and simply didn't wanted her to have to deal with the pile of shit I am. She's also dealing with depression (because of child abuse and other stuff, extremely similar to the shit I've lived through) and in the end I couldn't do it, I don't wanna do this to her. I was probably simply too much of a pussy to do it but let me keep telling myself that I didn't do it for her. I wanted to cut of contact after she found out what I was going to do, about a month ago we talked again and I told her that I miss her and I found out that she misses me too but she's not sure if she wants contact with me anymore(which was pretty understandable actually).
I'm not seeing her that often anymore but I really hope that she's going to have a better life than she could have had with me.
(excuse my broken English and the probably fucked up structure of what I wrote but I'm too lazy to read it again and correct it)
Colton Ward
i forgot, she met this gook on fucking EQ2 also, he was in the same guild as us; this piece of shit somehow romanced her right under my nose
Ian Barnes
>women get off on playing with people like that
>gook was closer
>she had no standards
She did you a favour dude, I would hate myself if I blew 2k on a slut from overseas, you're lucky you didn't.
Oliver Sullivan
this but for 11years
i know;
>where she lives
>her fb/ig/tumblr/myspace/skype
Anthony Rodriguez
yeah it just made me realize how fucked up and evil roasties are, it was a massive wake up call for me.
in my world before that, i suffered from my solopsism; i just couldn't understand that there are people out there that will fuck you over for no reason and for no material gain
Caleb Reed
She decided to go from cute, quiet and celibate with me to fucking anything that moves, becoming a stoner, losing her job, shaving all her hair off and putting on a bunch of weight - definitely helped me get over it.
Took me a year to get over it though. First love I guess.
Daniel Jackson
You truly love someone once.
Chase Hernandez
Although Ive had a few girls crush on me, Ive soon 21 and I've never had a crush.Am I just doomed to be alone? I dont like people, let alone women.
Carter Martinez
>It's been 9 years nigga, It still hurts.
>I've just been waiting for somebody that wants to fill the void.
>I've had other relationships since then.
>They were even prettier than she was but the heart mang.
Holy shit m8. How was your love with her and how fucking intense was it? We're you completely head over heels for her and madly in love with her? If you could go back time and have never fallen in love with her, would you?
Cooper Diaz
>Although Ive had a few girls crush on me, Ive soon 21 and I've never had a crush.Am I just doomed to be alone? I dont like people, let alone women.
Fuck user. Never? You never had a crush? Not even in high school or middle school?
Jeremiah Sullivan
Not that I can remember. There have been girls that Ive had a sexual interest in, but never pursued them because I always thought it would be in vain. That I wasnt good enough, and that they would just betray me in the end. Porn is the only "interaction" Ive pretty much had with women. I'm very asocial, and I only have a few male friends (who are definitely autistic).
Luis Rivera
who else here /never had a oneitis/?
why are all of you so pathetic?
Hunter Watson
>t.tripfag
I wouldn't call it a oneitis but about 4 or 5 years ago I met a girl, I only saw her twice and talked to her once, she wasn't even that pretty, just average, but something about her drove me wild, after 5 years I still think about her from time to time, even dream about her, maybe if I wasn't such a pathetic disgusting retard I would've tried to ask her out or something, but fuck it, the past is the past, she's probably getting fucked on daily basis by chad
Michael Brooks
>she sat next to me in grade 5
>I loved her all through middle and high school, took every class with her I could
>dreamed I would go to college, then be successful and marry her
>she married a soldier
>he is tall, deep voiced, handsome, now owns his own business
>they are expecting their fifth child
>I am on Facebook just so I can see her posts everyday and pretend we are married and the messages are to me
Ian Martin
the frog, user
the frog did this to me
Jose Bennett
>get over oneitis
>she sends me a message on discord
>get hooked back in
>start ignoring her discord messages
>see her on my way to class
>get hooked back in
Nathan Rodriguez
post a pic with blurred out faces i'm curious
Wyatt Ward
I've already posted this a lot of times, so i'll make it short.
I meet a girl, said girl was the encarnation of everything I ever wanted in a girl, literally the girl of my Dreams, even her flaws were things that I liked, it scared the shit out of me when I meet her because she was perfect for my standarts, it was as if a superior entity took one of my wildest fantasies and said "this one looks cool, let's make it real and see what happens".
I fell Hard for her and although Just being able to see her made me incredibly happy, i felt that i wasn't good enough for her, so i decided to keep my distance because even if by some miracle she accepted me, i wouldn't be able to make her happy.
So although i "gave up" on being with her, i never stopped loving her, she was the only one for me and i could no longer have romantic feelings for another girl, she was the first thing in my mind when i woke up, and the Last thing i thought about before going to sleep.
It's been 3 years, a month and 7 days since the Day i fell for her, and i still feel the same, i can no longer fall in love, she's on my mind 24/7 and not being able to be with her (or even see her) is the source of most of my despair/sorrow. However, i'm happy that i got to meet her.
Xavier Hughes
Two girls I want to mention
One of them I had group therapy with and she was really friendly at first but then we had bad interactions over social media and she took that online shit very seriously. She had been previously married and I could tell she really wanted her husband back. Also her kids she lost custody of were more important to her than I could be. I used to get butterflies thinking about her and I would try so hard to give her advice in group. We held hands once and then she blocked me and seldom spoke to me for months and months until I moved.
Second girl I had definitely heard of but didn't realize I would ever really get to meet her in real life. When I did I thought to myself "well I'll never get another opportunity like this" and subsequently threw myself at her and got rejected. I started crying like a bitch right there in public and she came back up to me and offered me what she called "pity pussy" and I took it. Best I ever had. I didn't get a commitment or anything and I grew obsessed with her afterward I would have and still would move her in if I could.
I do not see either of them regularly. I used to post about Emma Watson here and on /s4s/ and she appeared on the roof of my trailer once but I am not sure she was an oneitis. She gave me a big fake smile and it was mesmerizing even though I was on dextromethorphan when it happened.
I do not really desire women so much anymore but it would be nice to live with a pretty one. I don't have strong infatuation or feelings of affection anymore so I guess I am cured, they still occupy my mind a little bit.
Ryder Diaz
>It's been 3 years, a month and 7 days since the Day i fell for her
nigga
Daniel Hernandez
never had a close oneiti,just internet oneitis like boxxy
Levi Miller
Holy shit dude. I'm fucking sorry. If it's any consolation, let me fucking tell you, they must have problems and issues too and aren't as happy as you see them on Facebook.
William Gomez
From 2 years ago
Has it really been so long
Benjamin Smith
>It's been 3 years, a month and 7 days since the Day i fell for her, and i still feel the same, i can no longer fall in love, she's on my mind 24/7 and not being able to be with her (or even see her) is the source of most of my despair/sorrow. However, i'm happy that i got to meet her.
Holy shit dude. I fucking understand that you loved her and all, but don't you think that, due to the fact that the love was so strong and intense you never stopped loving her, ended up just making you miserable until this day? If you could go back to your past, and never have fallen in love with her, don't you think it would have been for the best, as your life would have then been able to move on?
Kayden Cox
fuuuug she looks really pretty, that haircut is literally my kryptonite. i bet she's a good mom
Levi Kelly
Holy shit dude. I'm sorry. I really am.
William Long
She stays at home, is starting to home school the kids
That is the tough part
...they are both nice to me. She sends pictures from high school and tags me. I get their Christmas card every year and she asks me to visit.
He friended me and is great. He does stuff like give free wheelchairs to veterans and work at homeless shelters.
I failed out of uni, do call center stuff from my room, and deliver pizzas
The hard part is knowing she is better off than I could ever make her
Xavier Rodriguez
Fuck m8. To hear this fucking hurts. I gotta get out of Jow Forums or I will fall into a really deep depression.
Jonathan Wilson
I am ok
I save a lot, think I will go to community college and get a book keeping certified
>his idea
And start over
I think I spent so much time in my head I got trapped there
Nathan Lewis
i can't imagine how bad that must hurt. makes me glad i've never loved anyone
Jayden Lopez
I am glad she is happy
Her kids are truly wonderful
I want what is best for
That is the problem
I think she already has it
Joshua Adams
user, let me ask you a question. Do you feel like it wasn't worth it have ever fallen in love with her? That whatever enjoyment you have had with imagining and fantasizing of her will never pay off the sorrow and pain you have knowing you can't have her? I'm sincerely curious. I had always though that being even in unrequited love was worth it, but I'm starting to have serious doubts.
Chase Murphy
If you ache for her, why you don't talk with her? I loved someone very special to me, and my belovd one left me, he was a total jerk, but god, I miss him so much, he hurt me, a lot, but what can a do, I just love him, I had the posibility of having sex and even love from other men, but I don't want to, is fucking pathetic isn't?
Lincoln Brown
>he was a total jerk, but god, I miss him so much, he hurt me, a lot, but what can a do, I just love him
dumb roastie, leave this thread
Hudson Lopez
Yeah it fucking hurts. If you want to greentext your story, I'd gladly read it all.
James Hall
I would never take it back
Ever
When I was at my lowest
>failed out of uni because I just stopped going to class, mom dying of cancer, dad a wreck
She invited me to her wedding
The day before she saw me and comforted me
She was obviously really concerned about me
At the wedding she was so happy
Truly radiant
I love her and that made mom and failure better
Not great, but better
Because the girl I live was happy
I wish I learned them what gets me through now
When her little boy was born she said
>when you love your heart grows. I am not dividing my love between my husband and my children. Each new member of my family adds to my ability to live so they all get more
I read that a lot these days
I am going to try to love another
I will have more love to give
Samuel Kelly
Online Gf broke up with me about a month ago. We did everything together for like two years. Watched videos/played games/talked etc. Was really upset about it at first. Don't really care anymore, just get lonely sometimes. Most times.
Ryan Cox
you are damn lucky in a sense, you cant be hurt that bad if you arent vulnerable
Juan Morgan
Yeah but you're miserable every single fucking day. There's no fucking way the happiness that knowing she's happy is worth being alone and despairful so much. I mean, the knowledge and wisdom you gained must have made you mature so much, but the feelings of despair and pain must have been too much to have beared for all these years. It must not have been worth it. You're in pain every single day.
>pic unrelated
Anthony Cruz
I met the boy I love when I was fourteen years old, best of all that our relationship was reciprocal, I liked him, and he liked me, yet we were never the definition of normal couple, but this was never bad for Me, normal bores me. But he always had problems with what he called "darkness," and he always deprived me of it, after a few months or years apart we came back as if we had never let our love die, because in reality, we never cease to love, but his love hurts me a lot, now it's been almost a year since we finished, and he was an asshole, told a friend to break up with me, or be a man to do it, but I do not know, he still has to mature a lot in life .
What makes me sad is that I have recently discovered that the plans he had for the future have gone wrong, and this breaks my heart, his idea unfortunate, if I could I would protect him forever, but he must have a reality shock , stop being a boy and become a man, he is already 21 for the love of God, he can not be like that, sabotaging himself all the time....
Jonathan Smith
I think it is like weightlifter sore
I hurt but it is worth it
Joshua Morris
>met a girl online on omegle Jow Forums tag
>she skips me every time
>one day she doesn't skip, says hi
>I say hi back but skip her to keep up tradition
>I become somewhat obsessed with the thought of her because she's really cute and mysterious
>people post her in omegle threads and I save the pictures and look at them often
>after awhile don't really see her anymore, stop going on omegle
>forward almost 3 years
>using omegle again
>see her on
>get her to talk to me
>confess that I have her pictures saved
>ask her if she thinks it's creepy
>she says no
>she doesn't remember me
>I know her name despite her never telling me, and I let her know this
>we talk for a minute about random shit
>she says "I was looking for someone on here..."
>i say oh ok well it was nice talking to you
>disconnect
That was like 6 months ago, haven't seen her since. Feels bad. I'm still obsessed with her. I don't even know what she's actually like. I just imagine what the facets of her personality are like and what her interests are. It's pretty obvious she's never been interested in talking to me either, but I just hold onto hope. I also have no way to contact her outside of omegle so if she never goes on, I'll never see her again
Sebastian Peterson
>haven't seen her in 10 years
>still remember the night she made out with my firends and old me to fuck off
>know that she's married and has children by now
It never gets better. You just learn to deal with the pain and stop holding the tears back at some point.
Ian King
>You truly love someone once.
this sentiment has broken me
it's been 13 years since I fell in love, and still I can't picture myself being content with anyone but her. We have no contact. She rejected me twice, seven years apart. All I talk about with my shrink is her, and all I look forward to is related to her in some way.
However, I'm not a sad sack of shit all the time, and the rest of my life is great. My biggest/only problem is that I still believe I can get her, eventhough she told me it's never happening. I still fucking believe, I just don't get it.
Elijah Edwards
Yeah, i know.
You're absolutely right, however, even if i could go back in time, i would still choose to love her, not because i enjoy the pain or anything like that, but because meeting her is still something precious to me, so precious that i don't mind being miserable for years because of it.
As i said, because i feel that i'm not good enough for her.
In fact, 5 months ago i saw her again, and the Rush of emotions was so intense that i could no longer resist it and i approached her, it ended up going way better than what i expected (i got her number) but i ended up doing nothing.
Because this time, i was not only afraid of her accepting me, but i was also afraid of she rejecting me, because unlike Last time now i know what it feels to live without her.
All in All, i guess that you can say that it's Just because i'm a fucking pussy.
Jonathan Bailey
Holy shit user. Falling in love is NOT fucking worth it, SPECIALLY if it's unrequited. There's no fucking way it can be worth it. Any pleasure you might have had those days in unrequited love CANNOT be worth it being 13 years (and the rest of your life not being able to love anyone else) in pain and distress of the past. Fucking hurts m8. UNREQUITED LOVE IS NOT WORTH IT.
Josiah Nelson
One year ahead of you, mate. No matter what Idid, I can't forget her.
A morning when she doesn't enter my mind is already a good start in the day. Otherwise I'l spend the next half an hour just laying in it not wanting to get up.
Xavier Cox
I've only had one. I feel incredibly guilty lately because I feel like I'm starting to have feelings for someone else. Which is incredibly dumb because there is zero chance for me and my oneitis.
Cooper Thomas
>My heart has been broken 2 times and I still feel like falling in love
You're fucking insane user. Can't you see what unreciprocated love has done to you?
Jaxon Scott
Wrong citation
>but because meeting her is still something precious to me, so precious that i don't mind being miserable for years because of it.
James Russell
>It never gets better. You just learn to deal with the pain and stop holding the tears back at some point.
Can you greentext your story please user? I'd love to hear it.
Henry White
>A morning when she doesn't enter my mind is already a good start in the day. Otherwise I'l spend the next half an hour just laying in it not wanting to get up.
For fucks sake. Do you literally stay lying in bed thinking about her EVERY SINGLE FUCKING DAY? What fucking happened in your breakup and why the fuck was it so strong?
Ian Martin
Worst part about it is when she gives you the old no contact ghost treatment and you don't see her for a year or more, you know? She's off having the time of her life with her cool friends, making new memories and tons of cash while I'm here drinking in front of a computer screen.
Fuck I wish we were attached at the hip and she was begging for cock all the time, like she wanted to move in with me and never see anyone else. Had I said and done the right things she would be, she would have dropped everything to be with me. When she is choosing other more handsome and more alpha men. If only I had been the one she had always dreamed of..
Landon Sanchez
How old are you and? Did you not have the courage to tell her you loved her?
Jose Sanchez
>You're fucking insane user.
Yeah, no shit, i've known that for a while now.
>Can't you see what unreciprocated love has done to you?
I can see it, yet there's nothing I could do to change my mind. I know that there's no logic in what i've been doing, but I still can't change how I feel.
Jeremiah Cox
>I can see it, yet there's nothing I could do to change my mind. I know that there's no logic in what i've been doing, but I still can't change how I feel.
Yeah, love is a fucjing madness. It's fucking insane. Even when it completely fucks up your life you still keep craving for it. There's a fucking reason why some recent neuroscientists have compared being in love to being addicted to a fucking drug. It is because it completely fucks up how your brain works and you can't see things with a straight worldview.
Isaac Miller
Love is a madness. It's a fucking disease of the mind. Don't fall in love with some random woman anons. It will fuck you up and scar you for life. If it is with someone that loves you back, then it might be worth it. But being in unreciprocated love is just a recipe for fucking pain and misery. Fucking take it from me.
Hunter Morales
I loved the same man for five years, and he broke my heart repeatedly, but he was his issues, a lot of ploblems, "darkness" he said, it's been a year since the last time we spoke, I just wanted to know if he's ok. I think about him when I awake until I sleep, I fucking love that stupid boy, but he's too confused about everything, I pray for him every day, I would do anything for him.
Lucas Roberts
take a look bots, this is what chad does to women. you will never make a woman feel this way, so don't even bother trying
Landon Johnson
You love someone? So much hate in you, love isn't bad, we need this experince to grow up.
Cooper Scott
Sorry, what is chad? English isn't my first language.
Juan Garcia
>You love someone? So much hate in you, love isn't bad, we need this experince to grow up.
Yeah. I understand that love can be good to making you grow the fuck up but in terms of the feelings and what you have to fucking go through it's just not fucking worth it. There are other ways to grow mature too without having to go through the pain.
You might end up getting some really nice memories of love but you might just as well have soul crushing memories that will scar you forever. There is even talk that some heartbreaks can be so bad they might develop into PTSD.
Adrian Hernandez
You're really new here aren't you?
Origi
Julian Torres
>tripfag
>reddit
>phoneposter
i'm REEEing internally so hard right now
Luis Reed
Nah m8. It's all just a coincidence right now.
Chase Young
It's hilarious how you took a lot more effort to blot out the husband's face
Anthony Brown
Yes, man. Fucking comical. My sides are in orbit, I literally can't stop laughing. Holy shit this is gold
Oliver Richardson
I'm not that guy.
Although I have the same: I dropped out too and with it chance of a normal life went from high to very low. Now I just need to make efforts not to think about my past. I'm so self aware of the mistakes I have made which made me the way I am, so I shudder violently when I perceive that I'm acting those ways, and I stare at the ground so that my grimace doesn't spoil other people's days.
Your pic makes me think what I want.
>Thanks for listening to my troubles pepe, you were always a true friend.
Thomas Thomas
Yes, still learning
Brody Jones
Oneitis is one of the best ways a virgin can cope with being alone. It gives you hope that she can come back and you can live happily after. When in fact, it gets you stuck in the forth stage of grief - bargaining. Acceptance isn't ideal, because your chance, of being loved by someone just as much, is null.
Aiden Sanders
This is true, but almost all things that made me grow up came through pain.
Jackson Wright
>never really interested in anybody before until her
>we're friends for a while and I don't really know what I'm feeling
>eventually realize a bit late that I do in fact love her
>it lasts for a few months but she pretty much tells me I waited too long and she didn't feel it anymore
>take it hard but manage to get through
>year or so later we're talking again
>ask her out and she says yes
>date for a few years
>some basic fights here and there but nothing major
>she gets busy with schooling and work
>Talk a bit less
>She finally confronts me
>says shes been thinking about it for a while
>Breaks up with me
This is relatively recent, I don't think I'm over reacting when I say I won't get over her. She was crying the whole time she did it, and that hurt more than anything, I just put on a brave face and told her it was okay. That I would be fine, I didn't want her to see my cry and hurt her anymore.
Owen Ramirez
>laughingneurochemists.png
Isaiah Robinson
>qt polish girl from school, probably likes me back
>haven't dealt with it yet
Anthony James
>breaks up with gf who loves him since he's gonna kill himself
>still hasn't done it
Oliver Gomez
Tell us your story, user. Your original story.
Mason Lee
I'm actually getting a pit in my stomach reading this.
Joshua Rodriguez
He was the first friend I had
he took care of me when nobody else would
he took me to try weed and see new things, he broke me out of my shell somewhat, he was always patient and kind over the fact hat I was afraid of people and social interactions
It's been 8 years, I ran away and haven't spoken to him after seeing got a woman and got happy
Luis Cook
I dont think she is a Oneitis but I recently fell for a girl who is nearly 8 years older than me. I feel like she is way out of my league but she makes me really happy. I already tried asking her out and she rejected me. It sucks and I want to die.
Chase Carter
>>when you love your heart grows. I am not dividing my love between my husband and my children. Each new member of my family adds to my ability to live so they all get more
That's just too much man, that's too much.
Aaron Richardson
Unreciprocated loving is painful and only leads to sorrow. Don't love someone who doesn't love you back. It's not worth it. End of story.
Nathan Cox
Do you miss him everyday femanon? How big was your love for him? If you can please greentext it :)
Origi
Angel King
Cute, mild-mannered girl I had a crush on while on summer camp when I was 12, 14 years ago, showed interest in me, but I was too scared to act on it so summer came to an end and we never met again but I've not been able to feel anything for anyone else since.
Ethan Thompson
We have fun together though. She told me she just got through a divorce which is why she said no to me, but I feel like thats not the whole truth. I dont know man...Ive only known her for about 4 months and shes quickly becoming the center of my life. Ive had other Oneitises before and I know how it ends. Misery and Lonliness
Alexander Phillips
>Ive only known her for about 4 months and shes quickly becoming the center of my life. Ive had other Oneitises before and I know how it ends. Misery and Lonliness
Yeah exactly. It always ends like this. Pain and sorrow and despair. God help us.
Jack Anderson
>but I've not been able to feel anything for anyone else since.
Yeah. One loves a girl truly just once in a lifetime.
Oliver Johnson
Chad is the archetype of the perfect guy, i.e. the opposite of a robot.
Hunter Rivera
Dude stop torturing yourself and get off that ride.
Gavin Kelly
>22 got a job
>she's 18
>hit on her for 2 years
>no successes
>???
>still trying
>workout to get muscles
>tfw I can post on Jow Forums & not get mocked.
Andrew Edwards
is that you? get a better haircut dude
Dominic Diaz
It is... My mom has cut my hair for many years now and I will take that seriously.
Carson Morris
Fag
Unoriginal insult
Christopher Cox
You don't even look ripped dude.
Andrew Jackson
I agree but it's better then to be fat.