Worst stories of unrequited love

What is the biggest heartbreak YOU have ever gone through? How did you grow out of it and how do you feel now?

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knew each other as kids. she became popular. i didnt. i thought about her then and i still ocassionally think about her now. ive moved on but i will probably always wonder

How long has it been?

Origi

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Friends, almost cuck her bf, but i cucked myself. Later she dump bf, goes for someone else, i get cucked. This happens like 4 times. I suffered for over a year.
I forever regret my actions, when ever i try to fap to normal straight white porn im reminded of the past and it kills me from the inside.

well i turn 28 at the end of the month so its been a decade since last i saw her

>I forever regret my actions, when ever i try to fap to normal straight white porn im reminded of the past and it kills me from the inside.

Sorry user. It must really hurt. Never fall head over heels for some thot. It's not worth it. She will cheat on you and leave you broken.

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>well i turn 28 at the end of the month so its been a decade since last i saw her
Holy shit user. It's been so long? Do you ever get really sad though when you remember that you fell in love with a young girl but she's no longer young, nor innocent, and that girl exists only in your head? It really does make me sad to know that girls never recover their youth.

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your near me.says (you) but i didnt type it.

no. i dont really have any idea of her in my head. i just miss my friend. i dont have very many obviously.

oh wait they just quoted the wrong person.

The quoting thing is because I'm using a fucking Jow Forums app right now (inb4 phoneposter) as I can't use a PC this moment.

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I had a bf for 2 months and two yrs
>he kmsd
Guess im fucked?
Im actually doing pretty good (compared to other whomst been through the same as me)
'He has a lil brother (15) im 19, so i can just go to him when we're older
>pic not related

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>I had a bf for 2 months and two yrs
>>he kmsd
Did he kill himself?

Yes, he sure as heck did :^) most likley

>most likely
riiiggghht.

>finally a robot thread and not x b8
>barely any replies
This makes me sad, desu

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:^) yeah, but some people in his senpai do/did deny it alot h

I have had only one to this day, the second may be in the making. She was a popular girl in high school, I had one lesson with her (45 minutes) during which we didn't even directly speak to each other and at the end I concluded I'm in love with her. I changed groups (even though that required much studying and passing exams, since hers concentrated on different subjects than mine) and for a full school year I tried to be less autistic, I performed, I conned, I did everything I could to get close to her. At the end of the year she's told me to fuck off (albeit in a very polite way) because I was a piece of trash (she didn't say it but that was the truth). Then I started drinking, I barely graduated high school and then went completely NEET.

The other one I made had a lot of replies. One even made me really sad desu.

> (OP) (You)
>Then I started drinking, I barely graduated high school and then went completely NEET.
Holy shit. You did all this all because of this oneitis?

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Yep. I took these events as a confirmation my father has always been right and I'm a worthless genetic trash that won't ever achieve anything and is destined for a life of frustration and failure. I tried to kill myself three times but I failed even in this endeavor, so I kind of just withdrew from life to my room, vodka and internet.

> (You)
>Yep. I took these events as a confirmation my father has always been right and I'm a worthless genetic trash that won't ever achieve anything and is destined for a life of frustration and failure. I tried to kill myself three times but I failed even in this endeavor, so I kind of just withdrew from life to my room, vodka and internet.
Damn user. Sorry for ya. Hope things get better.

Meet girl in college and talk to her a lot. Think that I actually have a chance to ascend. Creep on her social media and see that she has been in a great relationship with her high school sweetheart for years. Time to drop out boys

Got cucked by my brother. Made me cynical towards life and is the root cause for my woman hate. Ive fully detached myself from caring about anyone apart from my mother who was the only one ever there for me. Ive fully relinquished myself to escapism and plan to move away to a secluded location in a different state where I can live alone and do what I want.

Thank you owo
Litteraly life sucks cause i aint got nobody to whine to when im sad *shrug* but thats how life is and i need to get over it someday, its only been 2 mnts max (i havent kept track of the days).
:^) i dont wanna kms dude im so scared ill commit h

They actually got better. I lived like that for two and a half years and then started to lift myself from rock bottom. That's why I mentioned a possible second rejection as there's a new woman in my life and this time it's actually real. Thanks for kind words and ignore the guy fagging as me.

I don't know who to respond to.

Compare the writing style, it's me.

Long story short.

I had a best friend once. I never knew how much we would click, and eventually fell in love with him. We played vidya together, called when he had time, etc. Grew attached to him. He cut me off shortly, telling me he only hung out with girls until he got old of them. He cut contact with me. I've had trust issues ever since.

When my ex gf broke up with me 6 weeks ago. Still heartbroken but getting better

Never being loved by anyone if that count.

Basically I was in love with this girl since Primary school and we started dating. After two years I read messages on her phone. Paragraphs upon paragraphs about how they miss eachother, want to get married, miss their aborted child etc.

Haven't dated since.

Got in love with this girl starting when we were 16, ended when we were 17. she was perfect in my eyes. loved her with all my soul, very different from other girls Id tried to date before. she said no. now she studies in england and I will likely never see her ever again because she has no online presence

i still thik about cuddling her in my bed

while shes getting nailed

>After two years I read messages on her phone. Paragraphs upon paragraphs about how they miss eachother, want to get married, miss their aborted child etc.
>Haven't dated since.

We're you cucked user? Are you still heartbroken?

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this is wrong she was pure, in part because she never went with other men
in fact if shes getting nailed shes probably being nailed by a lesbian

Linked the wrong user

Origi

>Got in love with this girl starting when we were 16, ended when we were 17. she was perfect in my eyes. loved her with all my soul, very different from other girls Id tried to date before. she said no.

How did you deal with your heartbreak user? Greentext it please.

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>for a full school year I tried to be less autistic, I performed, I conned, I did everything I could to get close to her
>At the end of the year she's told me to fuck off (albeit in a very polite way)
>I started drinking, I barely graduated high school and then went completely NEET
same. replace drinking by being a pessimistic and agressive fuck

How old were you?

Origi no

full greentext then dont mind the typos, tired as fuck

>be me
>be transferred to high-end high school when 16
>spazzy and spergy as fuck
>got bullied in childhood and asocial, seen a shrink
>but decided to make things right by working out in high school
>actually charismatic and unafraid
>i dress like a chad and do chaddy things like shouting lewd jokes in class
>people find me funny but no frens
>actually not muscular or good looking but i try
>try to date some blonde stacy
>get rejected
>be sad for a month then feel nothing else
>during all that time i made no friends, just eating with other people before the night since its a boarding school
>actually take breakfast with a group of intelligent girls in morning because no other frens
>one of these girls is in my class
>she's cute beautiful and all
>i realize i like her because of what she does, how she speaks, im completely subjugated by love
>being the cocky sperg i am i ask her out out of the blue and she says no
>heartbroken but i tell myself: its ok im a sperg why would she love me?
>decide to try next year and wait the summer holidays

>fast forward when i'm 17
>new school year
>decide to be less spergy so I become more quiet
>study hard, read books, try to be intelligent in class so she likes me
>she's a quiet and very cultured girl
>we get along nice and talk/eat together often
>but i still dont feel like im her friend
>doesnt matter i keep improving myself, while i keep working out etc
>i ask her out to the theater
>she says she cant
>the next day by text she tells me she knows im still in love
>she says she doesn't love me
>stays polite
>next day im completely destroyed
>next few months are utter hell
>i still talk to her and we have long talks about how "its simply not meant to happen"
>still in same class
>still in same after-school activities (school blog)
>get heartbroken each day more
>now she's gone
>spend end of the school year as antisocial, completely autistic fuck

CONT.

>give up completely on all the sports i took
>give up working out
>give up trying to be like chad
>becomes insecure and bitter
>still remember her

it's been two years...maybe uit goes away soon huh?

>be friends with girl in high school
>same friends group
>start to like her so I try and figure out a way to ask her out
>she always misses the bus (we rode the same one)
>I bet her a cake that she can't make the bus for one week straight
>She accepts then proceeds to make the bus
>show up to her house with cake and ask her out
>she says yes
>start dating
>she becomes my best friend
>date for two and half years
>I am head over heals for her
>she's stubborn, cute, smart, artistic
>absolutely perfect
>always told me that I should be careful about loving her
>tells me that she isn't sure she'll be able to love me as much
>go to college
>try to stay together
>she meets a boy she thinks is cute who has a semi successful youtube channel
>breaks up with me eventually but we still try to be friends
>depression starts as I am beside myself without her
>I black out one time visiting her and completely embarrass myself
>Never had that much to drink before and don't know my limits
>depression becomes magnified from shame and longing
>Soon after she starts talking to me about how much she likes this boy
>says that they have messed around but he doesn't kiss her because he only kisses people he likes
>we still try and hang out but it just doesn't work
>I want her too much and she wants me too little
>text her incessantly to talk things over for weeks
>tell her I want to kill myself
>she calls my campus security to make sure I don't
>things were never the same again
>last thing she ever really sent me was an article about why people who break up should never be friends
>never really trust another person again and have never felt that spark that we had

There's more that happened, mostly me doing something stupid or passive aggressive. I made her fed up with me. I know she'll never talk to me again and I know she'll never forgive me. I did so many things you should never do in a relationship. I still feel so much shame and its made me do so many stupid things. I'm still so broken.

How long has it been user?

Origi

Stopped talking when I was eighteen and a half, i'm 23 now.

Do you still feel regret? If you could come back, what would you have done differently (or not have fallen for her at all)

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>started dating a girl a year under me in high school
>stay with me when I get sent to boot
>got orders overseas, shes hesitant
>go to Japan, she goes to work with special needs kids on buses
>on again off again the whole time
>take leave in the fall of 2016, we spend every moment together
>"I promise we'll be together forever user"
>2 months later breaks up with me on Skype on Christmas.
>within the next month shes already with another dude, cut off all contact with me.
>become alcoholic

Honestly I wish they'd send me to go fight the sand monkeys for Israel if It means I can die quicker

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Living it right now. I work with her and we're both married. I know she knows I love her because i alluded to as much on the phone once, in a moment of voulnerability, but stopped short. We have the same look in our eyes when we have conversations alone. She touches herself a lot when I'm around, laughs at my jokes and softens her voice when she is speaking directly to me. Her husband is a douche but they have kids and I refuse to wreck a family. She's literally the woman I have waited my entire life for but I am dedicated to my marriage and I love my wife as well. Hurts all the time and I was super depressed for about 6 months. If you know what I am going through you can understand.

Why tho?

>OP asks for greentext
>OP doesnt bother to respond

Of course I still feel regret. I did everything wrong. I would never have not been with her, but she taught me that I need to actually listen for what someone I care about is looking for. She didn't love me as much as I needed her too and I was too idealistic about how I could make her feel.

Girl in high school I was obsessed with said she wanted to go on a date with me but then flaked out. later got back with her ex boyfriend.

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>>OP asks for greentext
>>OP doesnt bother to respond
I'm sorry m8. I'm at class right now and can't read long texts m8. I will read it once I can, promise.

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Do you wish you could just fall out of love and not have to suffer anymore?

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It's been about 15 years since I got rejected, and I still think of him every day.

Don't do this with me please I don't want to remember

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Do you wish you could just fall out of love and not have to suffer anymore?
>Don't do this with me please I don't want to remember

Why user? Is it really that bad?

Actually that's pretty sad. Godspeed user. Thanks for sharing your story!

Like a month ago I started dating a girl that I liked since 2016 and everything was going perfect, she told me that I was perfect for her and she wanted to kiss me and that kind of shit... a week ago she told me that she doesn't want me anymore because she likes other dude

thats not unrequited love you fucking retard

She's the first girl I ever fell in love with. Shes quiet so I couldn't tell if she was into me or not. To make a long story short I got a message which was meant for someone else. After that I felt like she was avoiding me. I think about her alot but the thing is she confuses me. I feel like she might be into me. I still see her every now and then. Could use some motivation if you have any.

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have you seen the movie (500) days of summer? it kind of relates what you been thru

That's brutal user. I hope you learned something from this.

I went through something similar to what happened to you, but I learned to stand up for myself and not to limit myself to any girl to whom I'm secondary

>Be me
>Like a friend from high school.
>Still see him on occasion.
>Message him most days. To keep in touch.
>Keep my feelings to myself cause I don't want to ruin our friendship.
Truly an unbearable feeling.

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When my ex broke up with me, I didn't feel sad that I lost her; I felt sad that the few beautiful moments I had with her meant nothing by the time we parted ways. I wanted a relationship with someone who would be as committed as I would be, but I haven't ever found something like that

I've felt bitterness about love and women ever since. I don't remember what it feels like to love a woman. I recently met a girl who I have a shit ton in common with, so maybe something will work out soon.

I always tell myself Im not capable of love but then I rediscover NIN and remember that Trent Reznor somehow managed to not get fat like Marilyn Manson did, which is really pretty impressive
See what I did there?

The whole story is really elaborate and a greentext that covers everything would exceed the word count for a single post.

But the cliff's is I met two girls in high school, started hitting it off with both of them, and felt chemistry with both of them. One of them I was not so hot on, but I knew I could get; she made it super obvious and in fact, actually asked me out in the end. The other one--the one I really wanted--also kinda liked me, but I wasn't quite as sure in her case, and I knew she liked another guy even more than me. So I just went with the easy option instead of the one I wanted.

So anyway, when I was dating the one girl I did make it with, she reveals that the other girl had a crush on me too. D'oh. Then by the time me and easy girl break up, dream girl is with another guy.

But then years later dream girl is single again, I confess my love to her and it turns out it's not requited. I could have had her but I was about 3 years too late, I did the easy thing instead of the right thing and it permanently screwed me out of a GF I really wanted.

Last girlfriend I dated crushed me. She was my first fuck too, but I was so fucking crazy about this girl. Great taste in music, smart as fuck, funny, great sex, made me feel like a million bucks. I remember one time i was whistling "Take Five" but I had this one part wrong, and she corrected me and that was so fucking amazing for me to meet a girl that I had so much in common with, since music is such a big passion for me. She was so supportive of what I wanted to do with my life as well. I feel like if we stayed together, I would have been such a different person.

And instead, she cheated on me and left me for the guy. Somebody cooler and less of a dork than I probably was. I was devestated because we were just talking about hanging out, but I had to call off because I had some school shit going on. Honestly, that really just poisoned me. I was still in my "Women can't be like that, trust me" phase, but ever since then it's just been me tumbling down further and further. I don't think I've been able to be into somebody as much as I was her ever since. Only girls who have given me the time of day just wanted me because I was "le cute emo boy xDD" in HS, and didn't return my feelings in the slightest.

Now I'm bitter, sexist, and have no female contact. I'm over her, but I think getting stomped over like that permanently damaged me. I haven't been the same since. Really took the rose-tinted glasses off for me.

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Knew her for four years. Asked her out, she said yes. Stuck together for around six months, happiest days of my life because she was the first girl I ever dated that made me feel like I meant something.

Left me for someone else, said she couldn't handle a relationship right now and stopped opening up to me and closing herself off little by little. I watched the woman I love get taken away before my eyes and I couldn't do shit about it.

I still have the little heart next to her name in my contacts, I don't really think I'll ever be able to love anyone like I did her again. I don't think anyone will be able to make me feel like I matter, like I'm worth something again.

Love is fucked up.

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>Really took the rose-tinted glasses off for me.

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honestly don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing. But boy, does it suck to never be the same again.

>2009-2010ish
>Play runescape a lot when I get home from school after classmates had shown it to me
>end up meeting an actual girl on rs that is actually interested in me and we become friends and talk off rs and messenger/skype
>end up forming a stupid LDR
>once in my life actually feel like someone cares about me whilst having to deal with abusive parents and bullying at school
>end up becoming obsessive and defensive over girl having so many guy friends and eventually the relationship ends around the end of 2011
>I realize not too long after that I had been a piece of shit the entire time and that I actually loved this girl I had never met in person before
>try and get back together again but there's nothing I can possibly do
>contact between the two of us ends up being on and off constantly for years leading up to now with me almost never contacting her because I'm afraid to talk to her because it never goes how I expect
>find out from her she ended up dating a shithead pedophile and lost her virginity to him in alleged rape
>hear many thing I don't want to
>she's living with someone else now she's apparently happy with
I just want to forget she exists at this point but it's impossible.
I feel like I wasted 7 years having feeling for someone and held some bit of hope that the expectation that I was not going to always be alone was true and I was consistently let down
I don't know what to do at this point because she was the only person I ever truly liked or could talk to about anything serious at times but I would constantly have extremely bad anxiety when talking to her.

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I keep thinking back on this.

The memories we had were phenomenal. I was the first dude she fucked too, the first guy she introduced to her parents. The first guy she ever said she loved, and I loved her back all the same.

I'm more just starting to realize I miss her, though that could just be this drunken state I'm in.

Man, it fucks me up. Maybe I should call her, what do you think Jow Forums?

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This kind of bitterness functions as a shield to protect you from future heartbreak. It has its obvious downsides, though; you're not so starry-eyed about love anymore.

At this point I'm not convinced that I'll ever be able to completely trust another woman in the way lovers should be able to trust each other. And marriage nowadays is a death-sentence is you fall for the wrong woman, and it's easy to do that. Seems like the only rational option now is to keep your distanced enough from any girlfriend so as to not fall to hard

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I don't know about that.

Finding someone you love is probably one of the best experiences there is, don't rush into it but I believe in you, user!

You'll find someone perfect for you again out there, one you can fully open up to and trust like before.

Thanks user. Maybe I will find a woman who'll change my mind about all this stuff, but as of now I'm not too optimistic.

Shut the fuck up loser. No one cares about your shitty larp.

She doesn't even know I exist but I love her from afar.

I probably don't need to see a movie that makes me think more about what I went through. I know what I did wrong, I learned my lessons, and I don't have any desire to relive it.

I have done the same thing. I just still struggle with trusting women because of how she went back on so much she said to me. That and I have been mistreated by women ever since.

Here's the short version

Together 11 yrs, high school sweet hearts , married 6 weeks. At that point she wants to open the marriage , moved out a week later after saying we could work it out the night before , even made love that morning. She find out she started fucking this guy she said was just a friend two weeks later or sooner.

Happened 5 months ago

This hits so close to home for me, also met a girl off of runescape that ended up breaking my heart.

shoutout to OP who abandoned the thread after saying they wouldn't. as always, OP is a faggot

*going through

>finally confess to a qt girl last month after year getting to know each other.
>same interests, likings, personalities
>I was really serious about this thing, was my first and real.
>made it a point to tell her how much I love her and be nice to her.
>stay up with her through all kind of shit.

>yesterday
>she writes to me, "what I felt was infatuation because I was lonely, I never had romantic feelings for you. Let's go back to how we were before."
>haven't looked back at her conversation again.
>she occasionally drops messages like, "take your time to think," "I'll be here if you need to talk. "

>all those nights of sitting up till daybreak listening to her rants, comforting her it will be all right, amounting to nothing.
>comfortably numb.mp3