Be fembot

>be fembot
>fall in love with a guy with a gf and kid
>think we are soulmates
>give him my virginity
>he says he loves me but cant leave his gf for practical reason even though their relationship is terrible and he doesnt know what to do
>this was about a month ago
>been stressing about it ever since then
>today it hit me that he isnt going to leave her
>I will never be with him

Now what? On one hand I feel terrible because I have wanted him for a long time and I was so close and I thought it may get actually happen and now that dream is dead. But also I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Its over and I have nothing to worry about anymore.
I dont know what the point of this thread is, I just wanted to get this out.

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Congrats cunt, you got used for sex.

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I guess it sounds that way, but its not like that. He was one of my best friends for 3 years. I believe he was being sincere, both because I know him and because he told another mutual friend of ours that he had feelings for me well before this happened. Its just that life is complicated and sometimes it isnt enough to love each other.

he may have feelings for you, but they aren't strong enough to want to be with you. He likes you, he wants you to be happy, but you are also a side dish to him. his GF could leave him and you would still be on the sideline watching him move from another woman to another woman. he's just not that into you as you think. move on.

This is what you do
You can't break up their relationship from his side because he'll resent you
You gotta find a way to get his gf to cheat on him

OP are you still around? I'd like to help you out.

Yes. I dont think you can help me, but I am glad to hear you out.

I'm talking long term. I'm actually almost in the OPPOSITE situation of you. I'm the guy from your circumstance. Can we talk off of here? I'd rather not go into 100% of my life in detail. I know people.that browse here and I need this stuff to stay secret.

OMG, I bet you are a creepy fucker.
>talk off of here
what are the odds she lives near you user?

I'm talking about discord or something, you fuck nut. Literally just not on Jow Forums.

Alright. I see you're not interested.
>be me
>have gf that I own a house with
>I'm not particularly happy, but a mortgage is keeping me in it
>have a girl that I really want to try dating, but getting caught would fuck my life up unbelievably

That's a very basic summary. I would never lead her on like your guy did though. That's fucked up on his part.

Well im sorry for your situation. I hope it has a happy ending somehow.

I want you to know that just because it's not practical doesn't mean he doesn't care for you. Life, and especially love, is a very complicated thing that doesn't always make sense. He may care for you more than he does his girlfriend, but life doesn't care. You're not the problem. If he had no intentions of ever being with you, he should have kept his hands off of you.

On the other hand, he may just know that he could get whatever he wanted from you while keeping what he already has.

>not interested
don't feel bad, it's not you, it's me

Ah. If you're real OP, this was for you. I'm not blaming you or holding anything against you. I just thought we could mutually help each other from opposite sides of the spectrum.

> not a virgin
>asks relationship advice
Gtfo roastie

Good for ya user. You seem to be taking it the right way just be happy that you got a chance to see what it feels like, you'll find others out there

He cheated on his gf with you, you fucking moron! Holy shit you're so stupid, do you know what that means? That he'll cheat on you too!
>once a cheater always a cheater

>has a kid
>so you are interested in him

god I wish people would automatically give up when they realize their target is already taken.

Literally fucking thisssssss!!!!!!!
God people piss me off

What if she didn't know before she caught feelings?

then upon learning the truth she should give up but it sounds like she knew.

i also wish our brains were hard-wired against cheating though.

Thank you acknowledging that he is more at fault than her. Hes scum, shes dumb.

it doesn't sound like he manipulated her, just that he was willing to give her what she wanted even though he had a kid. and what she wanted sounded partially like it was because he was taken.

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Eh. I'm reading like he tried to have a second, side relationship with her. She definitely should have gotten out though. Fucking him only makes things worse.

YOU FUCKING IDIOT
Literally why get involved with a guy who has not only a girlfriend, but a child too. Leave while you can. Also even if your were together, what's the chance he'd be faithful to you anyways?

This or you're a larper