are you jealous how close girls are, the way they cuddle and tell each other everything? while we men cant do that due to 'machismo'
Are you jealous how close girls are, the way they cuddle and tell each other everything...
You can still do that with guys but just behind closed doors so no one will think you're gay
Yes.
>All i want to do is cuddle and embrace a fellow female like they do to each other
I would not be comfortable doing it with a guy
If you're a guy and not gay you are going to have to pretend to be gay for any chance of that happening
>tfw maho guy and sit in my bed with my best friend reading unsolved mysteries eating burgers
>tfw play college football and bounce and noone ever questions it
stop falling for the need to stick to some label
I'm not homosexual, i would not be comfortable being intimate with another man.
Me and my friends do this and none of us are uncomfortable with it or gay. Anyone saying otherwise is broken and needs to work on their relationships.
OP makes an interesting point. men wont do it cuz gay, then why do women do it?
Cus women get away with doing gay stuff, its a culture thing.
No.
Men don't just have to prove themselves to women but to other men as well. You need to be prove your worth to the other men to be accepted into the hunting party. As a man you cannot show vulnerability to anyone. Women don't want to rely on weak men, and other men don't want to rely on weak men.
I want to cuddle with a girl
There's nothing cuddly about guys though
that shit is gay as fuck
Cuz women telling each other "everything" hardly amounts to much when you remember how vapid and shallow they are. From the time they're small children to when they're old ladies they probably talk about the same insipid bullshit.
Meanwhile I can have great conversations about a wide variety of topics with my friends and don't need to hug them while doing so.
...no, i have no desire to do that. i don't even really have any friends anymore. don't think it's a machismo thing, just kind of have a lot of hate for a lot of people.
Haha lol that's so gay, but not me. I'm not gay because I'm really straight. I'm a fucken testosterone machine. There just so much wrong with fuckin cuddling up with a friend and telling them your problems so they can comfort you. That shit's so gay. Go back to /lgbt/ you fucken gay.
men i think have a hard time talking in that way. you look at male bonding things and they involve activities usually, like drinking at the bar or playing pool or playing video games or watching TV or fishing or whatever, so you can talk about shit without it feeling like that's what you're there to do. i think the insecurity of it makes dudes need to have an excuse like "wanna come over and watch the game" when really what you want is just to hang out, talk shit, get shit off your chest, etc. but that sounds hella gay so you just say watch the game both of you fully knowing it's not just to watch baseball. it's just a social thing.
also never really felt the need to cuddle with another dude, it's actually somewhat stifling sometimes even when i do it with my gf. women are just nicer to hold
what was the point of this post user?
They did in the times of Greeks/Romans, and gay sex wasn't gay, it was manly as fuck. If only we could go back...
To show you how not-gay I am. Didn't you know how not-gay I am? I'm like the adolf hitler of being not-gay if killing people was being not-gay. When I was porn I didn't look at my Dad because my penis was out and it's gay to look at a man in the nude. All the fags in this thread saying they love being open and talking to friends are just so gay. Lol I'm really not gay.
I don't even know how I hit p instead of b but it was probably because my fingers are so fuckin big from all the testosterone I have, making me not-gay.
Sorry you have to project on others because you are insecure about having homosexual relations with another man.
HAHA LOL WHAT I'M NOT EVEN GAY DIDN'T YOU SEE HOW NOT-GAY I WAS I SAID IT SO MANY TIMES HOW NOT GAY I AM YOU MUST BE GAY! I bet that you are so fucken GAY that when you read if a guy says he sin't gay you read it as he is gay lol that's the gayest thing ever I bet you like men! I don't like men! I like boobies and other woman bits because I'm not gay! I'm the not-gayest man on earth! I live in the north pole because I want to be as far away from the nearest man as possible, their very presence in my vicinity iterates that they or I might be gay which is why I'm not gay.
Do you feel like we are getting anywhere with this exchange?
of COURSE we are you're learning how NOT GAY I am lol you didn't even know how not-gay I was until I just told you how not-gay I was probably because you're gay and you can't tell when people aren't gay I bet you like me, I bet you're gay for me which is super gay but i would never reciprocate because that's GAY that way too gay for a huge fucking hulk of a man like myself, who fucking hunts GAYS like yourself for fun you fucken GAY!
Women also backstab and sincerely shit talk each other constantly. I'll take camaraderie over that even if it means no snuggles.
fuck no
that's why they're so fucking catty, they have this culture of telling each other all this shit and then they cant help but backstab
I'll take my 'machismo' of talking about guns and cars and work and laying pipe and tits and then we both go fuck off back home or whatever instead of dumping all my deepest secrets on one snake another
I think you're onto something, but if I could expand, I don't think the action you're doing is totally secondary/an excuse, I mean I've invited a bunch of my buddies over just to chill out together and do different shit like we were at home, just in the same room so we could talk. Its just guys share less in general and want to be able to just blow off steam and talk about bullshit to forget stuff instead of trying to actually work through it/get emotional support.
That of course comes from the lack of emotional support men receive from all sources of social interaction, but that's a little broad so we'll just stick to how it influences the way the genders interact with themselves, men sharing less and focusing more on just having a fun time to compensate for a bad time earlier vs. women talking about how the bad time made them feel and feeling better that someone comforted them.
did you even read the post your vomit is replying to? They didn't say it's gay, just that they wouldn't be confortable doing it. I would love to live in a world where men were as close as females and there were no stigmas, but I've already been raised in this world and my personality is already built so I would not feel confortable doing such a thing, was that so difficult to understand brainlet?
I do that all the time with my girl friends
not really, because that's for literal children. women are essentially little girls with big responsibilities. and if you want close physical contact with guys, that's what bro hugs and bro handshakes are for. punch your bros on the shoulder or push them or something dude, it's completely acceptable.