Women in tech: how do you deal with tech bros?

Women in tech: how do you deal with tech bros?
I'm someone who studied computer software development in college but I'm still pretty new to the industry. I've recently started a new job and I feel like I'm not really fitting in. This is a smaller tech company where most of the staff are guys and there is some real incel-ish behaviour going on. They talk a lot about how much they hate their spouses/exes and kids and telling what I consider to be sexist jokes (I.e. today someone brought a heavy box in and our male secretary told everyone it had dead hookers in it). I'm sharing an office with a guy who keeps telling me about his dating problems, and how much he hates "social justice warriors" and his ex-wife.

The only other woman in the office is away this week and as a new hire I'm getting weirded out. Aside from me and her there are two other women but one is an accountant who is here one day a week and the other works from home. I know enough about this industry to know I probably won't last here if I complain about the weird shit so that's not really an option.

What do other women in tech do about this kind of behavior? I know the answer is probably grin and bear it but wanted to know if other people deal with stuff like this.

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Another girl in tech here to tell you that you really just found a shitty place of employment. They have horrible lives and feed off each others horrible lives. Start looking elsewhere because this is more of a company culture being toxic rather than the tech industry. Fucking incel losers.

This. They really are the worst

That sucks to hear - I work in a small software company and the people and community here are a dream. There's only three women, including myself, and all the rest are guys. A lot of them are 30+ years old and they are all mature people who mainly just focus on their work. When talking to them they are opposite of what you're describing - they're polite and kind, and when asking about their families they're almost excited to share about it.

Maybe it's just the company or community you're with? I would suggest possibly looking for a new company if you're able - or like others say, unfortunately, suck it up even though you shouldn't have to :/

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>op obviously samefagging

All me. It was me barry MEEEE

IT can be a sexist environment. I currently do IT work for the government, and still deal with comments/remarks. The guys I work along side are wonderful (I'm the only woman). However, some of the users are ill-mannered.

Several months back, one of the doctors here called having an issue. I was trying to explain to him about restarting the workstation when he said, "put one of the men on the phone, cause I'm tired of this bullshit.". Yeah, no. I made him work with me to fix it. We can both be pissed off.

Ugh, what a bunch of turdshits.

IT can be pretty rough for women. Why can't boys just see our intelligence instead of as sex objects

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Stop being pathetic op