When a woman gets fat how difficult is it for her to lose that weight?
There's a girl I'm interested in who's decently cute and I think I've got a chance with but she's definitely a few steps away from becoming a landwhale and after facebook stalking her it appears that the weight she gained was pretty much all in the last year and a half.
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fatties usually get loose skin from losing weight
How fat? o
Entirely possible, depends on her mindset. No different than with fat guys.
If she got fat, but she's posting/saying things like "I don't know how this happened, got to go to the gym every day now," that's a green flag.
If she got fat and is still stuffing her face with McDonalds while saying "I'm beautiful just the way I am," that's a red flag.
Hard enough for you to reconsider.
Women who let themselves go like that are often plagued by not being able to cope with suble hormonal changes their body has gone through since youth. Couple that together that they have poor impulse control and can't deal with stress other than stuffing their face - it makes it almost impossible to get rid of the weight. Yes all of this is also in big part genetic. Also women tend to get fatter if they're in a happy relationship...
The only option that would somewhat assuredly promise success would be if you completely took over her life and removed any semblance from self agency. You would essentially become a second parent and take care of her because she obviously can't do it herself.
The problem with such relationships however often lies in the childish state of mind of the girl. If you actually manage to pull it off and save her from self destructing she'll most likely be too immature to realize anything that's been going on and start to look for an upgrade in terms of relationship. They break up to date up and often times get fat again. Then they come crawling back.
The only way you could escape this was if you yourself looked like a goddamn god. But if you did why the fuck would you try to settle for a semi-landwhale?
holy hell what is the story with this pic?
that's straight out of my fetish fiction
Literally impossible. They absolutely choose not to lose weight. They won't do it no matter what you say. You can tell them to exercise but it'll burn off 200 calories while they're not on a deficit and they'll do it 2 times a week and complain they're not seeing results.
>perfect punctuation and spelling, reddit spacing
so its come to this
A young slim high schooler gets old and gains weight
It's quite a tale
it depends, large weight gain is a red flag for mental health. antipsychotics make you pack on weight.
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>how difficult is it
Not at all, just takes willpower. Unfortunately most fatties would rather wallow in self-pity then actually change the way they eat. As far as your situation goes it's a dangerous game. If weight's really a turn off for you then I say it's not worth it
Probably at about the same stage as pic on the right.
t. never been fat and thinks fat people are lazy and that extra weight is a character flaw
their comment contributed more to the thread than yours, retard
i NEED thos millkies NOW!
That's almost landwhale?
Keep fat bullying it's motivating
yeah but she gained most of it in her tits
thats the kind of genetics I wanna breed with
You posted pictures of her on Jow Forums. You know you don't deserve her, how awful of you to do this to her.
That's literally a pic I found in google images. Also I don't find the girl in that picture attractive at all.
loving the reverse progress pics, keep it up
obviously thats not her you dingus,h e was just using it as comparison
Its really difficult for women to lose weight.
Never said fat people are lazy, they just eat too much. Never said it was a character flaw, either, but if OP doesn't find fat people attractive and is expecting her to change then he's gonna have a bad time
I don't get it. Don't these women look in the mirror, see that they're nearly 2x the size they used to be and think "I better start going on a diet." Is it because their days of fucking Chad are over and they already got some sucker locked into marriage?
This is your body on being American.
cmon i'm just trying to make it easier to read my baseless meaningless opinions on an anonymous image board for losers
She's cute. Lower your standards. The real prize is something inside.
i wish i got fat simply from eating too much. then it would be easy to lose weight.
It's hard for women to lose weight and the process is much slower than it is for men. It's not worth dating a fattie. You won't even like her anymore by the time she's thin.
If you ate absolutely nothing, do you think you would lose weight? It doesn't matter what you think because the answer is yes, you would. What if you ate only 100 calories a day? 1000? Losing weight is as simple as eating below your daily maintenance. You literally don't have to do anything else.
I guess it is easy to lose weight then. Since over eating the the only way to get fat. I guess people are justified in calling you lazy
my daily maintenance is extremely low, I have lost and gained weight. right now i am on 1200 calories a day and maintaining. i lost weight eating 500 calories a day but i was so lethargic i had to stop
i got fat from antipsychotics, they slow your metabolism to a crawl so you have to eat way less than normal people to maintain your weight.
Exactly. Everyone has a different calorie maintenance level. Things like medical conditions and medications can lower you're maintenance level to dismal levels. Doesn't change the fact that if you eat below your maintenance level you lose weight. Maybe you'll feel lethargic and shitty, shit sucks. No one is forcing you to lose weight
Jow Forums sends their regards
god i fucking hate women who go out drinking
this is what i have for dinner every night user, i cannot function and eat less
What else do you eat?
exactly, this is key
why would they need to? their husbands are already their providers, and if he's fed up enough to divorce her then she gets 50% of his assets
also you can still get a quick tinder fuck even while being obese
>breakfast: 3 bananas, 1 cup of frozen strawberries and 3 cups of milk in the blender
>lunch: cucumber sandwich (1) (cucumber, italian dressing, light cream cheese on vegetable bread)
>dinner: chicken and vegetables
for snack, which I eat at 2pm is unsalted and unbuttered air-popped popcorn.
keep in mind, this isn't to lose weight, this is to avoid gaining weight. i follow a really strict food schedule due to autism.
I would say change your breakfast. I'm not Jow Forums or anything so take that with a grain of salt.
okay, what is a good breakfast idea?
i am thinking eggs. i keep chickens so i have a lot of eggs.
>moral fags
You have to go back
Yeah eggs are really great for you. Milk will generally make you fatter, that's why Jow Forumsfags will drink it when """"bulking""""
rip milk
the only think getting me up in the morning was that proto-milkshake
I'd say you're doing really good, user. Eating healthy is always good no matter who you are. As far as losing/gaining weight goes it really does come down to calories in/calories out, but I also want to say that losing weight =/= looking good. If you're goal really is to look good nothing beats going to the gym and working out. I would take a thicc muscle girl over a skinnyfat hungry skeleton girl any day
>Milk will generally make you fatter
Thats not necessarily true. There are no magic "gain weight" or "lose weight" foods. Article related:
www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/11/08/twinkie.diet.professor/index.html
Jow Forumsfags drink milk to bulk because whole milk is calorie dense and has lots of protein and good fat
I just like skinny women.
i am a thicc muscle girl but i always really thought sticc girls looked cuter in clothes and can wear pretty things like skirts and cardigans where i am sort of trapped in the shorts area.
You need to completely change your breakfast, alot of sugar+milk, few eggs way better or omlette, also remove the italian dressing unless you make it yourself, that stuff is loaded with junk
I love how the guy didn't age at all. Same hairline, no wrinkles or weight gain. Pretty good genes.
egg whites only if ur tryna get cut nerd.
Out of curiosity, would you guys consider it better or worse if they have always been fat? I've been obese since I was a kid, but I can still fit into my clothes from high school (27 now). So while I'm still a landwhale, it seems i haven't gotten any bigger. I've recently started trying to eat less/better, but it's slow going trying to change bad habits you've had your whole life.
Young fat people are fucking disgusting.
It's just long term calorie counting and exercise. The bigger they are the harder it is and I think by a certain point it's a waste of time even trying as they will almost always just gain it all back, plus more. If she gains it mostly in her breasts like OP's pic it's pretty fortunate.
i like how you screenshot a photo viewer because you don't know how to crop. lmao
Looks great. Kind of low on the calories though, even for someone who wants to lose weight.
eat your recommended amount of calories. it is literally that simple
Breakfast is shit, way too much sugar from milk and fruit. Eat eggs and bacon/sausage. Your breakfast is around 700 calories or more, which is pretty high (especially since the majority are from sugar.)
go to bed pierce brosnan