Beta blues

So the girl I have been hanging out with for the last 6 months just told me she fucked the guy she meet last week.

I want to be upset by this, but I am not really feeling anything.

Anyone else been this way? What do?

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You're maturing, soon you won't give time to women.

But I want female companionship and I love that we spend hours together talking, but hate that we do not do more.

Like should I put any further effort in if I know I am stuck in the friend zone? I really care about her, but she does not feel the same way.

A beautiful woman is something to be jealous over
A hot slut is nothing to be jealous over

I never understood how people got into this kinda situation. You tell her how you feel. She then either rejects you or accepts you.

In case she rejects you she'll say something along the lines of "i hope we can still be friends". Then it's up to you how to proceed. You can stop thinking about how nice it would be to fuck her since it's not gonna happen and if you arrive to the conclusion that you can never ONLY see her as a friend/pal you just fucking say "I'm sorry, but i don't think that'll work" and go your way.

And yes of course it'll hurt in the beginning but at least you wont have to live with retarded regrets until the rest of your pathetic life

Drop the cunt and find one that's interested. You're a fucking idiot wasting your time talking to someone who couldn't give a shit about you. Moron.

>Anyone else been this way?
Yes.
>What do?
Give up, stop entertaining silly notions like that you could ever be happy. It hurts less when you don't get your hopes up.

Maybe it is the bear goggles of familiarity, but I think she is gorgeous. She is pretty naive though, and told me the guy implicationed her into it. I know the guy as well and he always did not sit right with me from the get go.

I got into this from being work associates. Started as friendship since she was kind of already seeing someone (they just went to first base), but after they broke up we started spending hours together alone. She tells me I am not her type, but ex bf and latest fling are me.
I want to ask her directly to date date, but I feel I know the answer and this going sour will make work icky and alienate me from our mutual friends since they all like her more

>You tell her how you feel.
In which manner?

Cease contact with her, delete her number, dont respond to txts, dont respond if she says hi. She fucked you over, and then she purposely rubbed it in your face to see your reaction. Fuck her.

>But I want female companionship and I love that we spend hours together talking, but hate that we do not do more.
Well you're a pussy then and you deserve to be in this mess. You dont need women and she 100% does not need you. You were her emotional hand bag.

Work relations are always a problem, dunno if there's a 100% correct way to do things here. However i would still strongly advise you to tell her - contrary to what people here would have you believe, women do NOT find it icky and gross if a guy asks them out. Most will take it as a compliment. So the only "souring" of your relations will occur on your end, should it turn out that you absolutely can't remain "just a friend".

But your relationship is souring anyways right now, you're broiling on the inside and it's not gonna end well, that's for sure.

As for your mutual friends ... right now there's a huge price you're paying for that "friendship". If those guys would really ditch you the second you honestly start expressing yourself, i wouldn't call them friends ... maybe acquaintances at best. You'll have to find new ones, should they really all start avoiding you.

Seriously, keeping things for yourself cause you think it's "for the better" is a sure way of killing relationships (romantic or otherwise). Give the girl a chance to solve the situation together with you or it's gonna eat you up

I dunno, depends ... sometimes a "hey, do you have a boyfriend?" is already enough, sometimes you gotta go with "Hey, want to start dating?"

If stupid honesty isnt eloquent enough for you go to a pickup artist website and learn to "play the game" or whatever - i personally find brutal honesty to be pretty effective, especially if you actually want it to be more than just a one night stand.

If you want to be friends with her and have NO romantic feelings for her, then fine, continue to orbit around her. If you have feelings for her, never speak to her again. Rip off that bandaid now.

that's what you get for orbiting roasties you dumb faggot

>she purposely rubbed it in your face to see your reaction.
This would not be the first time she has done that I think. I tell her she looks great all the time, but she posts an Instagram picture and strangers tell her the same thing and she is considering meeting them for coffee. That made me madder in the moment than this.

Like I have other female friends that i would be attractive towards that have a bf and my lust for them is zero. My lust for this girl was dead as well when she had a bf, but it got relight over the months or so between then and now.

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Thanks a lot lot lot

Is the blond guy in the picture falling in love with the girl or the other guy?

He wants the girl; no homo

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>the girl I have been ""hanging out with"" for the last 6 months
Am I right in assuming you were just orbiting her and you weren't actually in a relationship with her?

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>She fucked you over, and then she purposely rubbed it in your face to see your reaction.
I don't know if it's even that sinister. Believe it or not girls tell their girl friends about who they fucked last night just like guys do. OP is just a girl friend, he's probably so beta and platonic that she really does see him as just a very good friend who would be okay with getting this information.

>- i personally find brutal honesty to be pretty effective, especially if you actually want it to be more than just a one night stand.
Yet here you are.

>She fucked you over, and then she purposely rubbed it in your face to see your reaction.
This. Don't pay her any mind now.

acquaintance then friend then gravitational force
I think I blew it the first date we had and did not try anything; just ended the night talking for 3 hours in my driveway

When she was telling me about the guy who took her verginity recently I said she treats me like a straight gay best friend and got a good laugh out of her

Before this year she only had sex with girls

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Use her to meet other girls
She may present you her friends or act as wingwoman when going out

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have you told her that you want to fuck her?

>told me she fucked the guy she meet last week.

and why I refuse to be a basedboy faggot that has female friends.

I have told her that I find her beautiful and I would date her... I am not chad enough to tell her we should fuck like the guy that actually fucked her did

It is not all bad; there is another girl I know that says she loves masterbaiting and I said that would be hot to see and then she sent me clips of her fingering and using toys.

well next time it comes up, tell her you wouldn't date her anymore because of her lack of propriety

Well, she really regrets the last hook up, but her getting fucked in a parking lot is very slutty

All in all her actual dick count is very low (3) which is something good in these times

she should regret it, that doesn't mean that you're the one to forgive her and subsidize it. You can do better than this girl

I am a nice guy and sympathetic in general to all my friends; it is just I have romantic intentions with this one

When she told me what happened and the aftermath (crying + plan b) I told her it was a regretful thing to do and there will be more in the future but she is strong etc and not to do such shit if she doesnt actually want it

I was shy about tell telling her my feelings before and hearing she got bent over isnt exactly a mood setter

My real feelings are still there I think

Maybe your just unbearably fucking boring and the only thing thats gets pussy wet is to not be so fucking boring

Now that I think about it she wanted to come over to my place but I canceled and she stopped talking to me for a few days then she fucked this guy

Coincidence?

I am pretty vanilla no lie, but I think I am interesting and funny... fuck me those traits dry pussy faster than Bounty

Youre doomed if you don't drop her soon.

You shouldn't be.

Just move on to the next

unless you enjoy being a cuck

But she would be so convenient as a gf

Only a cuck in the spirit of the word; not technically one

lmao you're a total fag
>organically original

>actual dick count is very low (3)
how old is she? try and calculate the trajectory user.

>20
Averages to one a year from Cali AoC

she probably thinks you are gay since you act like such a soiboy cuck

women arent attracted to a man who is soft and weak

>I am a nice guy and sympathetic in general to all my friends; it is just I have romantic intentions with this one

I have economic intentions of owning Warren Buffet, but I don't actually think that's going to happen.

Move the fuck on.

Here's a life tip robot: if you find yourself frequently doing emotional labor for a woman, talking about the other men in her life, you are firmly in the friend zone.

And no, even though you say "but but but -~muh friendships~-" you need to be honest with yourself and realize that you really are just there for the slim hope of getting to fucking.

Sever and move on.

Hang out with someone else.

I used to feel that way until I realized I am not good enough for anyone if I hate myself. It really is true, you have to like yourself before you can truly like anyone else. If you feel good about yourself, be glad that you can at least feel something for someone

she sounds trashy.

hmm, that isn't awful. 3 before high school graduation would raise a big red flag though.

I'm sayin' there's a chance.

>you find yourself frequently doing emotional labor for a woman, talking about the other men in her life, you are firmly in the friend zone
Fuck. Her telling me about their cocks were probably the final nails in the cuck coffin

I only know people from work; if I could make friends spontaneously I would not be here

Two different women. The one that showed me her vagina is kind of the company bicycle and the other, the one I like, is a pillow princess that has started dating men

>Her telling me about their cocks
jesus christ, you left that detail out. Yes OBVIOUSLY it is over for you.

>telling me about their cocks

dude that's the most obvious shit test I've ever seen. You gotta drop her immediately. She's just seeing how much shit you'll put up with. Drop her completely, not only do you have no chance with her, the longer you wait, the more time she'll have to tell her friends about how much of a pussy you are.

The first time she told the whole gang about the guy that she dumped had a small one and then when she talked about loosing her vCard the dude had like an 8 inch and it hurt bad and the last guy was smaller but it was still painful
I wanted to tell her to shut up about their dicks, but was trying to be supportive of her hurt

>Hey, want to start dating?
I really hope people dont do that

God, you people are completely out of touch.

You may not know this but most here are not smooth operators

Checked

>hang out for 6 months
>sad she didnt fuck you instead
no offense but its ur fault m8

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Oh, I will not deny that. Reality is made a hell by thou own hand