I feel like ghosting my only best friend because he's starting to have better friends...

I feel like ghosting my only best friend because he's starting to have better friends. Seeing them being happy seems to be making me depressed even though he is my friend. Should I do it?

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No you double nigger
Make plans with him and hang out more

He's going to go on a road trip with his better friends soon.

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Real friends will always stick by you user. If your mate slowly starts drifting away. He never was truly your friend. Sorry to say but that's the cold hard truth.

This. I technically have like 3 friends, but I'd be lucky if one of them were to text me directly once a month. Haven't even spoke to them in weeks at all.

It's happened to me before. Mate, i don't know anything about you, but if I were you I'd start making new friends. Don't get rid of your current ones, never. Let them leave. In the meantime find new people to talk to, even if you use those stupid apps (not the dating ones, the ones where you talk to random strangers)

I've swallowed that pill a long time ago. He sometimes text me once in a few months and we went out a few months ago. It was slightly awkward since it was the first time we saw each other in a year.

Don't let him go, even if its less than once a month its still better than nothing, you both have lives to go on with, in your life its time to open the doors to new people user.

> grow up with a bunch of kids in the neighborhood
> move way because divorce
> see best friend like three years later
> like nothing happened, back to usual
>12 years later
> still consider him my best friend even though we live 75 miles apart and just play vidya together online

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I'm going to start college soon, I'll try to not fuck it up. As for him I still undecided yet, he's a nice guy but sometimes I make myself sad when I compare my life to him.

Never compare your life to others. We can't be ourselves if we try to be like others. In college, just don't be a retard and you'll do fine and meet a heap of new people. I hope it all works out best for you user

That sounds comfy user. I can't relate to that since my neighbors also found better friends and has moved on.

Its just I'm getting a little bit sad since I've logged into my normiebook for a long time and saw him taking photos with our ex-classmates.
How should I approach people though... its been quite a while since I tried to make friends.

I ghosted all my friends.

Hadnt seen them in years.

user dont do it man, try go out with them like hang out...dont ghost them bro.
theres stuill hope for you

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I deleted all my social media accounts, but some of my 'friends' still have my phone number
It's been about a year since I did that
I've yet to hear from any of them
Really gets tha ol noggin joggin

Why did you ghosted them?
I've only stayed in contact with him. The others have already long moved on.

I deactivated and deleted my normiebook account as soon as in finished school, (i have a new one now for uni) so i don't see my old "friends" and what they're doing now. I don't think about it so it doesn't depress me

Me too user, I saw one of them when I was in the train. Exchanged a few words and all nothing much. Was kinda surprised he wanted my phone number. And of course he didn't text me or anything, why did he wanted my number in the first place?

Purely a social gesture.
I've learned this, especially with people I work with.
They leave, ask for about 10 people's phone numbers, probably only maybe text 1/10.
People are flakes, especially in their 20's.

I logged in because I was feeling a bit nostalgic and curious. And I totally regretted it haha..
Maybe I should make a new account but generally I don't use normiebook that much so I don't care about it since all I browse is this mongolian basket knitting forum.

As to approaching people, in college just casually talk to class mates about work and stuff and just let it flow into normal conversation, as long as you don't make it awkward by saying stupid shit normies don't understand or try to make jokes during those silent moments. If there is a silent moment, i know it may feel extremely awkward but don't let it show

Yeap, and I've had no more high hopes since. Plus their messaging me to like their facebook pages didn't help much.

Thanks mate, maybe I try and fake a smile or nod my head when I'm talking to them. I've had not much topic to talk about since I don't really keep up with the latest trends. Its gon be hard but I'll try blending in with the normies.

I did this with the last of my buds from high school because I couldn't keep the act up anymore. I was unemployed a lot and felt like a loser and mentally getting worse. I felt boring and it didn't feel the same. Also, my parents divorce and selling the house shortly after graduation fucked me up. Don't get married and give multiple kids to a woman from a dysfunctional family only to keep her around for validation and sex, you'll be stuck with her suffering, robot children past 18 years. I want to fucking die every day but I can't because I was raised into a religion that is supposed to give my life purpose but also takes away my right to suicide.

I know that feel man, feels shit when everyone around you is thousand years away from you especially when they're talented and socially outgoing. You don't feel like you fit in anymore, plus even if they're meet with any obstacles it'd just be a bump in their live.