I have been ghosting someone for 2 months. Should i feel ashamed of myself ?
I know its just somebody from the internet but i just can't feel okay with ghosting them
I have been ghosting someone for 2 months. Should i feel ashamed of myself ?
I know its just somebody from the internet but i just can't feel okay with ghosting them
Why not just talk to them?
>Ghost someone nice
>Hurts a lot for weeks after
Yes you should.
I've been ghosted a couple of times before, it hurts pretty bad. You should try getting back in contact with them and apologizing, I'm sure they'd understand.
I don't feel like i deserve to talk to them, they are way better than me in everyway and i couldn't change for them because i'm failure
Always have been and meant to be
Have you considered that they didn't care that you're a failure?
It's autistic to care about how much of a failure you are if they don't care.
It doesn't matter whether or not you deserve to talk to them. You said you ghosted them, and that means that they wanted to talk to you right? And if you feel guilty, then that means you'd like to talk to them too right?
I'm sure the other person would at least appreciate the closure you give them, and I'm sure it would be better for you too. Why not do something that's best for the both of you? If you can't do it for yourself, then atleast do it for the other person.
They probably deleted their account or stopped using it
Am i this pathetic ? I should man up but instead i act like a pussy just because its 'virtual"
I betrayed them, who wants to talk to boring dude that betray you seriously ? I wanted to become someone better but i couldn't, to become a better internet buddy
Maybe he deleted or stopped using it and maybe not. Guess there's only one way to find out eh?
You at least owe them a "goodbye." Ghosting is a subhuman act.
Its been too long since the last time i have talked to them
Its the internet. I should just forgot about them
Jesus, you sure are reluctant to do this aren't you? I can only really speak from my experience, but if anyone that had ghosted me decided a long time later that they'd like to talk to me again and apologize, then I'd be happy to see them.
Nah
It make the dude feels that you are only talking to them when you don't have anyone to talk to. Its rude and bad
I've been ghosting the only friend I have in real life for like four months now.
How do you ghost someone for two months isn't it more like a decision to stop talking to someone? In two years will you think about how you've been ghosting this person for two years?
For the last three years I have been ghosting someone I was real-life best friends with for eight years
>I don't feel like i deserve to talk to them
Ghosting people is an asshole move and from that line there if you're who I think you are go fuck yourself you massive cunt
what is your relationship with them?
how did you meet and what were you two to one another?
a lot of people who get into e-relationships are jaded and don't have any in real life, you can imagine how they'd feel aftet being abandoned even online
Its not a voluntary decision, i wanted to fix things in my life before talking to them again
Its life people come into our lives and leave
I'm not a good person i don't deserve talking with people, having relationship with them to be honest. I deserve it
i've been ghosted for the past two months
what are your first initials? or theirs?
bump j9hF0ffF03F
answer this could be a life or death situation
A. is that you?
how the heck was that not original
i am a
wtf
are you e?
I doubt they would be reading this thread
They probably would have recognized me through my syntax
>They probably would have recognized me through my syntax
that's why i posted here
was this you?
I miss them
I wish i could talk to them again.
Its been almost 6hours since i made this thread
i dunno why i'm still here but if you at least answer my questions at the off chance you could talk to them
just say your and their initials so if they are around they could see it and talk to you
Stop ghosting him. Then you might have a friend again
>I wish I could talk to them again.
You can talk to them you dumb fuck, that's what we've all been telling you but you're acting like you can't for some fucking reason.
reeeeee whoever this was come back
You sound like someone I know. Im on the other side myself and I can tell you they want to talk to you. Whatever though, reading this thread makes you look like you're running away from things and that makes shit worse
>all they do is ask lewd shit
>reply less and less over time
>delete and ghost completley after 2 months of waiting
No regret
5 months for me
Spring break is coming up and I will make sure hell is raised for my ghost
It's not your fault you don't want to talk to them.
>I have been ghosting someone for 2 months. Should i feel ashamed of myself ?
>I know its just somebody from the internet but i just can't feel okay with ghosting them
Nigga I ghosted my only two childhood friends and I'm fine.
are you from the female species?
I don't fully understand what ghosting is since I never talk to anyone. I had a friend email me months ago saying we should talk more and I never responded to it, I don't know if that counts as ghosting. But it was me who initiated that contact with an email first, that was his response.
You're misusing that word,it's not a continual effect, to ghost someone usually implies permanency and finality
I've been ghosting my best friend of 15 years, and all of my other friends for that matter, for the past 2.5 years. They are all establishing lives, careers, romances, etc. for themselves in their 20s and I'm here a 27 y/o NEET KV failure who hasn't worked in 5 years. After NEETing for a few years i started feel like a leech who never adds value to other people's lives and only causes them inconvenience, so i completely cut myself out of their lives for their own sake. The only people i regularly interact with anymore are my mom and my brother.
you can't ghost someone for a period of time, it means you leave and don't come back. dumbshit.