>girl at uni and I have become friends
>last weekend we we're alone studying together at my place
>spent 6 hours straight together holding hands and having fun together
>she told me she liked me and she thought I was super cool
>feel really happy
>decided I want to ask her to be my gf
>earlier this week walking to class together
>friend of hers comes up and they start talking
>she asks her if there's something going on between us
>she says "of course not, user isn't my type!" and laughs
>feel immensely hurt
>friend leaves
>I ask what that was about
>she says she just blurted that out and it was a mistake
>don't buy it for a second
>I tell her I realized she's not my type either and went to go home
>she follows me and keeps saying sorry and she didn't mean it
>ignore her and go home
>drown my sorrows with booze
She's been bothering me for days saying sorry. Am I overreacting? I feel like she's ashamed of me, why would she say that otherwise? Just when I thought I finally had a girlfriend..
Girl at uni and I have become friends
Why are you such an autist OP? Stop taking life so seriously, that's not even that bad. Just get over it.
cut all contact. don't be a cuck.
You did well.
Just ignore the bitch as if she doesn't exist.
Completely block her OP! Teach her a lesson.
Yeah that is 100% not a question for us
of course she's ashamed of you, you're a fat piece of shit, crawl back to her, kiss her feet and be thankful that someone will take you
It could have been worse. She could have said she hated you or you were ugly or undateable, instead she said the two of your weren't compatible. She told you she just said that to keep $friend off your backs, so what exactly is the problem with that? The least you could do is listen.
Cut the crap bitch
budddddyy
I would have sex with her anyway. Technically its better for you if she doesn't acknowledge your relationship because that lets you pursue other girls.
>"of course not, user isn't my type!"
I've had it all before but It got a bit worse for me since I told my friends that we fucked she started spreading a claim that I raped her. In my experience it's probably just best to toast her, she'll come back and it's up to you whether you let her back in.
No. You stood up for yourself. Yes it feels bad but at least it won't happen again.
OP, I understand it was hurtful but try to step back and appreciate the woman's anti-slut defense mechanism. She doesn't want her friends thinking she's some slut that bangs any random guy friend of hers, so her insticts kicked in and she said that about you. It really wasn't personal, it's a defense mechanism. You could probably still hook up with her.
you do realize that she could have said that because she thought the her friend had a crush on you, right? she could have just been unsure of her motivations and so she decided to act against her will just to give her friend some space. so like, do you think that she is self-conscious ? because that could be the case
im the same dude btw
but, could it be that she is the type of person really shy about things like that?
>Am I overreacting?
Nope, that was a Chad move user. Good for you!
>She could have said she hated you
In my experience having someone hate you isnt too bad if its a female. It means she wants you badly still. Its apathy and disinterest that hurt, desu
OP, now you have the strong hand in this deal. You can probably fuck her the next time she apologizes.
>2 girls have a crush on a robot
Lol what. That would make OP a Chad and not a robot.
i mean. that's nice :^)
Fembot here to offer you an alternative explanation: I've been rejected so much I say things like this in situations like this before my friend can answer and say something that breaks my heart.
If she wasn't sincere she wouldn't be trying still. Call her back and just ask her on a date as like a last ditch effort sort of thing. You can't lose your friendship anymore than you have so you have nothing to lose.
Tell that whore to go fuck herself.
>Call her back and just ask her on a date as like a last ditch effort sort of thing. You can't lose your friendship anymore than you have so you have nothing to lose.
guy(goy) here, this so much look its already over as friends, your choices are abandon her or ask her out so you might aswell try getting a gf before abandoning her, the friendship is already lost so you have nothing to lose
paint her face black and call the kkk to her house
Just forgive her, you know you want to.
just fuck her then friendzone her
You did the right thing in my opinion. If she's too embarrassed to admit that you're a couple then she doesn't actually like you. I guarantee if you go back to her, she'll end up cheating on you.
Your choice though. I'm just saying something like that is a sign that a relationship with her won't end well.
THIS. If she was just like every other girl then she would have moved on by now. Why would she stick around when she literally could have any other guy. Because she doesnt want any other guy, she wants YOU. It's why she's been messaging you for the past few days trying to apologize. Forgive her. But if she does it again, DUMP HER.
>I tell her I realized she's not my type either and went to go home
Absolute chad. Nice one op
>Why would she stick around when she literally could have any other guy.
Cos she doesn't want to be in the wrong. She wouldn't have said that in the first place if she truly liked him.
I think what happened is she saw you as a beta male to take advantage of. However, you didn't put up with her shit and told her to fuck off so she ended up respecting you. Now she wants you to cum on her face.
ignore these cucks whose into femdom fetish op
anyway you did good if shes ashamed of you with her/your friends then what about her family? seriously op YOU DID GOOD that bitch was probably using you as an emotion tampoon and fooling with chads.
>I tell her I realized she's not my type either
that was a good line I am gonna use it when I am ever in such a situation
You should ask her why she said it. Just make sure to not give in before she's given you a good answer. "Oh it was a mistake" means that she has another reason.
>drown my sorrow with booze
nice
What a baby. Maybe she just didn't want to tell people her business? You didn't have to throw a hissy fit over nothing.
Good move OP you neglected her emotionally and nurtured dependence. Now you just accept her apology and she is all yours. Women don't like easy men and you played hard to get now she is really longing for you.
she might have been to afraid to say she likes you fucking take a chance normie
You unironically pulled out a Chad move. Now she's either you for good or she truly doesn't like you at all and you never had a chance anyway.
>either yours*
She's a slut and doesn't want to take herself off the market, fucking dirty bitch.
this is actually make sense
why would you want to be around someone that was ashamed of you?
don't concern yourself with her false apology
>that fucking embarassing to even consider you are her bf in front of a "friend"
I bet they are not even that close either, just move on OP, dodged a bullet there
She spaghetti'd in the same way that you would when someone asks you a question like that. You should forgive her since she's clearly into you. She just didn't know exactly how to interpret your relationship probably. Don't do something you're going to regret forever just because she made a minor fuck-up, especially since she's probably willing to say that ya'll are a thing now.
Stop being autistic, nobody else needs to know what goes on between you two.
When you were studying alone together she was begging you to fuck her, but you have to take action to do that.
You didn't overreact, but don't completely throw away the relationship for it. You lucked out enough to get a gf, don't ruin it now for something so minimal. Unless she cheats, starts taunting you a shit ton, or nags too much, hold onto it.
You're a retard. Could have least gotten some guilt sex out of her before dropping. She's probably just insecure as fuck which means you're well suited.
tell her youre sorry, that you were hurt because you like her a lot
i think she was being genuine
This. This part in particular was Chad as fuck:
>I tell her I realized she's not my type either and went to home
>she follows me and keeps saying sorry and she didn't mean it
>ignore her and go home
Congratulations. You got a gf, user.
it was a shit test you pussy. just man up and bang her and leave you faggot
>normalfag non virgin gets his due
Feels good.
>Doing anything for a woman before getting in her pants
This is where you fucked up OP.
Cum inside her and abandon her and her baby.
>Congratulations. You got a gf, user
what did (You) mean by this