Why are men so terrible at handling breakups?

Why are men so terrible at handling breakups?

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Because if guys talk about their feelings they're gay and sensitive.

Most are unattractive, will not get laid for a long time. Women will get laid within a week.

Men are actually capable of love according to acience unlike women. Research says it takes a man three years to fully recover over losing a woman he deeply loved. It takes six days for women according to same study of 70k men and women.

They buy into the myth that women can love and are devastated when they learn the truth

Its easy for a women to get another guy and most women when they break up with a guy already have another guy lined up for a ride or have already taken some other guy for a spin before the break up.
Unless the guy is a total chad in which case he can go out that day and find a pretty hot gitl with ease.
all my friends are chads and they go through women like they are tissues and at most maybe bummed out for a day at the most over a break up.

Shut up gay

Because women get laid within a day of breaking up, whilst guys would be lucky to find a new GF within a year.

post the study or else its bullshit

it's true i read it myself

...then fucking post a link dipshit

what are you a newfag?
look it up ya cunt

Post the fucking link you turbo bitch.

Women drown in opportunities, Men wander the deserts for them... Unless the men are extremely attractive to begin with.

Wow look at this fag.

Why would he just come here and lie about such a thing? Ofc it's true, don't need a study for common sense.

Im telling you it doesnt exist asshole
you have the burden of proof

Your penis is nonexistent.

ok, so its totally made up

here is a study that says otherwise

binghamton.edu/inside/index.php/inside/story/12326/study-women-hurt-more-by-breakups-but-recover-more-fully/

I've seen it, too. I can confirm is says what he says it says.

because whores have no souls

>binghamton
Yeah, nice try.

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this this guy just pretend to be someone else and agree with himself

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fembots detected
lol like why are you even here

are you disabled enough to believe bullshit?

I'm not a femanon, I just like to insult Australians.

You're not getting the link, fembot.

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Men have empathy and loyalty, they are able to form bonds, all things women lack. Additionally women can get another man in seconds while men have to work for it.

you can't prove me wrong though
binghamton.edu/inside/index.php/inside/story/12326/study-women-hurt-more-by-breakups-but-recover-more-fully/

this is from the uk
the uk is worse then the u.s. so i'd say it's accurate if not worse

That pic is accurate portrait of woman. She does not understand love, loyalty or any other virtue. Just look at it. She gets sobby while in relationship but will not communicate with her partner and instead will just prepare for her iniciated break up. Then she feels free from another "abosuve bf". And of course man feels devastated because unlike woman a man understands love. It is purely mans concept. It was said over and over again by philosophers and wise men but a lot of cucks do not listen. Woman are not capable of love, they only attach to a man.

IT FUCKING SAYS NEW YORK IN THE BANNER YOU RETARD

cause women can jump from dick to dick
and most men are lucky to even have one woman

It's not about love, it's about the work you put into it.
For a man it's like building a house with your bare hands, it's that hard to find a woman that wants to be with you. For a woman, it's like spilling a few cups of coffee on the ground and having to go wait in line to reorder. Neither the man or the woman cry about losing the other person. They cry about losing the personal time they invested in the other person, from meeting them to being with them.

>you can't prove me wrong though
You don't have a respectable source. You might as well have disproved your own argument by having to resort to terrible sources.

no it says uk

1. Women have it easier in finding new partners in the modern dating market.
2. Most women have a back up man in place if they end their current relationship.
3. Women evolved to get over losing a partner. When One tribe conquered the other and killed the men, the loyal women refused to go along were murdered. So women who gave it up easily for the new tribe were allowed to live. Multiply this out over a hundred thousand years, and women have evolved to get over a relationship and move on to someone new much quicker.

>Morris said that breakups are important because most of us will experience an average of three by age 30
J U S T

its says it in the banner my dude

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I don't know why you're chasing this like it's a serious discussion.

I'd say your autistic but there's no such thing as fembot autism.

this isn't an argument
girls having no soul is one of the laws of the universe

>mfw 18 and experienced six
>haven't dated since the LDR that ended in 2016

/thread

oriololo

Because men are pressured by society into suppressing their feelings and letting them build up until they become overwhelmed and it crushes them
Honestly the standards of masculinity are so unhealthy and cruel I just gave up and became a girl , its really unfair
Males are literally not allowed to have feelings

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this was waaaaay before humans
look at lions and gorillas. im pretty sure there's more species before them.

was about to call bullshit but its kinda true based on personal experience.

So THAT'S why my gf ghosted me for an entire week before she broke up with me!
Literally making herself fall out of love in that short timespan ;_;

Basically sums it up. Women can not "love". The second you are gone she has another guy.

I don't know but this image is accurate as fuck, even for dudes who've only had oneitis like me. When she left to another college and we stopped talking I was broken for over a year. She was my last actual friend so it hurt doubly so even though she did nothing wrong.

Mate recently went though a breakup, the next day I saw her sucking another guys dick.

He's fucking broke.

So it's true then that male-male relationships are the purest form of love?

There's no such thing as a fembot either so...

Because men can actually love.

Yes they are! Just don't go for traps or femboys, they're too close to the female mindset.

Why are women so bad at handling breakups?

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Cause men depend on women to be their mommies in relationships.

I'm not partial to men but unironically: Yes.

What's she eating? Is it a fucked-up egg, or some kind of steak, or a weird cake with a gooey centre?

lost it on scoob

Why are women always doing that pose like "IM FREEE CHAD COOOOCK OH YEEE"?

It's a cake you fucking downie.

looks like roast beef to me

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G-guys I just got married for real. What am I in for? Am I gonna be scarred for life if she decides to leave me?

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Why the fuck would you get married in 2018 you goddamn retard? You deserve what's coming next.

>tfw I want this more than anything but I'm not attracted to men and traps are insane

You got married without being totally confident about it? That reveals exactly how things are going to turn out.

She's the only girl I can be myself around, and the only one who could possibly love the real me. She used to come to Jow Forums a lot until a few years ago, so she understands my shitty humor and is compatible with my autistic way of thinking. It's just really fun to be around her and make fun of normals together.

Women have no shortage of attention from people whether they are ugly or attractive. An average man will get nothing unless he repeatedly puts himself out there. Attention from the opposite sex is few and far between for anyone that is less than a chad.

>Neither the man or the woman cry about losing the other person.
What a sad, fabricated world you live in if you think this is the case.

Why are women so terrible at everything?

/thread.

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I cope with intrusive paranoid thoughts by pretending to be really concerned on the internet, so I can argue with the reactions anons have to my concerns and calm myself down that way.

>I have an idea, I will ask Jow Forums if it is a good idea that I got married, they will give me a balanced and healthy answer because nobody has any negative bias against women on that website

What I see here completely disagrees with your point.
Man:
>tries to bulk up after relationship to attract other women and feel good about himself
>realizes he is nothing and kills himself

Woman
>gets in another relationship
>gets married, has kids, and enjoys a similar type of relationship to the shit she would have had with almost any male

Someone lived the 2.5 kids and a picket fence dream and someone had a death vision about becoming Goku.

Only virgins get upset at break ups. Once you've fucked a few people, you could watch their heads get blown open by a .357 and not even give a shit.

>implying this is remotely true
>implying that if it were true, it wouldn't prove that monogamy should be mandated

That's a pretty insightful method. Unless, of course, someone comes up with a powerful argument in favor of the undesired outcome, and it strikes chord with you, and your anxiety worsens.

How about this: think of all your flaws; think of all the other people your wife interacts with. Aren't the odds good that one day your wife might meet someone with the traits she likes in you but without your flaws? Even if she doesn't leave you, she could grow distant.

god you're so fucking cool dude!

It always hurts men to be reminded women don't value what men do and the woman you desire doesn't exist. Nothing reinforces this like a breakup.

not him, but he's not completely wrong
monogamy is not natural, and people who can have sex more easily, than for example robots, dont care that much after breakups

where do I find the video

>I believe the video has been lost forever
If you really were so interested, why not first read the image?

gay men have the most sex. lesbians have the least with the most violence. make of it what you will

Two reasons.

1) Men get far more attached to women than women do to men.

2) Women have tons of options even if they're fat and ugly. Only Chads have lots of options.

Because never trust what 4chab has to say

Dont cut yourself on that edge, kid.

>all the people she interacts with
Literally just her parents and a few autists on steam. But even if this wasn't the case I wouldn't be scared.
Let's say you wanted to build a house. It's going to take years of effort and hard work to do so, so you'd better find a really good place to lay down the foundation. This part is crucial because once you've started it's going to become increasingly difficult to let go of your progress and just start over. So you gotta find a good spot, but you also can't fuck around and spend your life looking for the perfect one. So you start looking, and you stop when you think you've found one that's so good that there's no point in spending more time looking. Then you start building and really commit to it, but in a few years you spot a place that would have been even better. You won't just leave everything behind and start from scratch, because you already knew there were probably better places out there, but you still chose to start building where you did.
Now if your house ended up being shit and your foundation turned out to be quicksand you might be desperate enough to leave everything behind, but that mostly happens if you didn't do your homework well enough, or if you're generally shit at maintaining a house.
It's like that with relationships as well, you settle down once you feel that even if someone better came along it would make that big of a difference. My wife and I communicate well enough that I know she feels this way about me.
We're both screwy enough that we couldn't open up to normal people, but we understand each other in a way that I never even thought was possible before, and I know she feels the same way.
And if you know anything about normie couples you know that most of them legit meet at bars, at work, on dating sites, etc. and they interact on a very superficial level as if through a proxy. It's my firm belief that it's mostly lust and infatuation that makes these relationships work for a few years.

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because men actually love women and women don't.

>>realizes he is nothing and kills himself
>not knowing that zyzz died for our sins

I guess 2011 was a while ago

>thinking with your penis

you are royally fucked and are getting even more greedy with their rights. the laws are only getting worse for men.

Because they're actually human, unlike females.

cuz its a lot of work with somebody you wanted to marry

Threads like these bring back my faith in Jow Forums

Won't even question your sources. Spent three years with a girl, I still think about it while she found a new guy two weeks later.
Meanwhile I'm told to man the fuck up and move on, like it meant nothing. What's the point of love then.

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>grandpa an hiroed fifty years ago
>grandma refused to remarry
>raised three fucking kids and worked a bank teller job by herself
>cut all contacts with a neighbor who tried to hit on her
>is still waiting on death
Did she do it for a laugh?

Because have a stronger sense of loyalty and value bonds more than females. A strong friendship will never end for men , but 1 bad text and 2 life long female best friend hate eachother.

>6 breakups
>relation in the last 5 years

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
FUCKING NORMIES IT JUST NEVER ENDS
GET THE FUCK OUT MY BOARD

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hahahaha good luck faggot your gonna need it

Stop thinking about what that person who left you is doing and start thinking about what you want to do, you little bitch

Start loving yourself and treat yourself like you would somebody that you love dearest.

And go lift some weights and excercise

because men actually love the girl, the girl just loves what he can do for her

Thanks for the advice, been trying to do that. Thing is, that relationship clearly broke something, call it a reality check or a redpill, whatever.
Every time I encounter a girl now I have zero interest in going for the long term, I have learned how they work and I despise it. It's not even a conscious decision.

Dropping womanpills

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Coping is a very person-to-person thing you twats, there are women and men who get over shit quickly, just like there's women and men who never get over shit. Stereotypes are cancer.

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