Tell me one of your 1 month, 1 year, and 5 year goals right now.
Also what you've done recently to meet any of them.
Tell me one of your 1 month, 1 year, and 5 year goals right now.
Also what you've done recently to meet any of them.
Nothing. Now stop making me feel worse than I already do...
>1 month
Plan for the vacation I bought a ticket for
>1 year
I'd like to move to Texas
>5 year
Be happy
Just do something tomorrow! You have time to think about it now, get busy!
1 month: get out of this job that hasn't given my any work the past year
1 year: keep working at whatever job I find
5 years: buy rural property with acreage here in Oregon, move there with my wife, and live off the land
>1 month
Attempt suicide.
>1 year
Attempt suicide.
5 years
Successfully suicide.
You don't need five years to do that! I believe in you user, I'm sure you could get it done in five minutes if you really put your mind to it!
>1 month
find Misaki gf
>1 year
find Misaki gf
>5 years
find Misaki gf
Get a gf
Get a gf
Get a gf
I have tried to join 3 clubs that weren't cancernormalfag shit. One I couldn't find any meeting information for so I sleuthed about for a week only to find out the last available information dated back to 2015. Still checked the place at the date and time specified and there was nobody.
Another had an actual closure notice, it stopped existing last year.
The last one was a sausagefest and basically has 0% chance of ever having girls showing up. Moreover, it's very far away to go there and thus not worth it.
I also tried to approach girls in class. One it turns out had recently had a kid - she's been happily married for a while.
Another's boyfriend met up with her soon after I started talking to her.
The others rarely show up so it's hard to even find them to be able to talk to them. It's very likely they are already married or engaged.
I have everything else already under control. I'm fairly strong, have borderline too-low body fat, a car, a house, great education and a job.
All I could possibly hope to accomplish in future is almost 100% reliant on luck and cannot be improved by personal means at all, so long as I stay in this profession.
So, will you teach me how to reach my objectives?
Well the two most important things are to just be yourself and never give up!
1 month : make one friend
1 year: have a girlfriend
5 years: still be with that same girl, maybe get married
1month: have my qt ldr gf finally moving in
1 year: become independent of parents financially
5 years: have my own place and good paying job from home while my qt gf is doing chores
>1 month
Take a shower
>1 year
Hit the weights
>5 years
Get a clue
I hope I finally die of cancer this year, I can't take it anymore.
I wish I could hold my e-crush's hand while I die but she's already ghosting me so that's just a silly pipe dream.
>1 month
Register for EMT basic classes (again)
>1 year
Be working as an EMT and well on my way to saving toward Paramedic cert
>5 year
Be a flight paramedic
getting a job
getting a girlfriend
starting a family
studying like a lil bitch, and will start sending out resumes june 1st
>1 month
Get a job, currently working at Home Depot.
>1 year
Go to college for Business. Got accepted months ago.
>5 years
Get a trailer and live on the road with my oneitis whose previously rejected me
2/3 ain't bad, desu.
>1 month
Pass my exams, especially my Exam P.
>1 year
Finish college and start looking for job
>5 year
Get job and move out. Maybe start self-improvement stuff.
>1 month
The the director promotion
>1 year
Buy the super car I've always wanted
>5 years
Buy a house with at least 40 acres.
>1 month
I'd like to gain some muscle, even if it's just by a small amount.
>1 year
I'd like to get decent with a guitar. I'm just starting out mind you, so it could take a bit more than one year.
>5 years
Be fitter.
Be more productive.
Be interesting.
Be interested in others.
Know how to keep a conversation going.
Learn how to not be afraid to get emotionally intimate with others.
Be a better person.
Be happy.
I've done nothing significant to reach these "goals."
>1 month
Get this shy qt I've been getting to know's number and quit my shitty $8/hr job that I haven't gotten a raise at in the entire year I've worked there to go work at one of the fast food places in my town that pay starting $10
>1 year
Get Jow Forums, finish a fully fleshed out fantasy setting (conlanging and all), hopefully proceed with shy qt
>5 year
Graduate uni, get a career, keep getting Jow Forums
>1 month
Do drugs, survive.
>1 year
Find a job.
>5 year
???? Maybe my crypo investments will finally make me something, go to Japan or some shit. If I found a job I'll just go to Japan with that money though.
1 month you will not have any visible gains, but 6 months you will have a Ryan Gosling tier body, in 5 years you could be a powerlifter.
>1 month
get a job
>1 year
make a friend
>5 year
own a business