I don't go to clubs or party because I'm anxious and don't enjoy the idea of it. Am I missing out?

I don't go to clubs or party because I'm anxious and don't enjoy the idea of it. Am I missing out?

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No
If you're already too anxious to go, you'll be too anxious to do anything once you're there

t. gets dragged to clubs often but never gets laid

Party and clubs?
It's just getting drunk lol,maybe you have some little fun but its an absolute waste of money and time.Well thats just my view.

You know how the got ladies get free drinks?
Who do you think ends up paying for that
Here's a tip:its not chad

i thought girls getting free drinks was just something that happens in the movies, not real life

>get invited to a party by a classmate
>say "nah dude im cool" because i have anxiety
>get depressed that maybe i missed my chance to fuck a girl

so is my whole life boys

how else are you supposed to get pussy if you're too cheap to buy a woman a drink

This. If you're not a social person to begin with it's just a waste of money.

Clubs and parties are designed for very specific physical features and personality types. If you're not a 5'8" or taller, fit, hot-headed talkative jokester type who women always want to hang around with, you're not missing out on anything other than awkardness and boredom.
If you genuinely don't enjoy the idea of it, then it would be like asking if pic related is missing out by not attending the Royal Ballet.

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>go to party
>girls handing me drinks
>trying to dance with me
>one outright says she wants to have sex with me
>freeze and do nothing
I look like Chad, but am completely empty inside. Can get tons of matches on dating sites, but always chicken out of meeting people. Zero idea how to escalate emotionally or physically. I barely even register feelings or desires aside from a vague sense of guilt and anxiety. My whole life has just been following the path of least resistance, doing what was expected because that's where the inertia took me. Now I'm expected to form meaningful relationships but there is honestly just some part of my humanity that's missing.

Kinda

Am Avoidant but sometimes some days i go out with friends
We drink at someones house. The anxiety and stress kinda fades away. Get into clubs. Pretty good dancer. chicks come, make out. Go home at 04:30 and then ghost my friends for another 3 weeks. repeat.

Not really parties are actually really fucking boring.

There is a reason they involve copious amounts of alcohol/drugs.

>go to a party
>full of chads and roasties
>nobodytotalk because friend is dancing
>thissucksobad.png
>start drinking
>hallucinate and chat for too long with a books character
>notice I'm hallucinating
>start vomiting and go to the hospital
>great party men, Wouldn't make a difference if I didn't remembered

I can't dance at all, I'm so stiff. I don't know how to fix that shit.

as long as you socialize in other ways, you're fine. clubs and parties for the most part are a big meme machine pushed by hollywood, the music industry, and alcohol companies

Thats the point. To get fucked up and forget the suffering called life.
But you're right parties are boring asf without alcohol and drugs. Just a bunch of people pretending that its fun just because its a party

Parties at houses can be okay.
Clubs are garbage. I don't understand why anyone likes them.

you must put some effort into your appearance/go to the gym.
if you really didn't care you would stop showering and going to gym and change your diet to mountain dew and chicken fingers

bars and clubs can be real comfy to hang out at on a quiet night when there isn't too many people around

pictured me and my waifu hanging out at a small out of the way bar on a quiet sunday night sharing a long island iced tea some guy we met bought us
(please ignore the roasty in the background)

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Start dancing by yourself where no one can see you. Watch other people dance. If you're like I was and never danced in your life, are embarrassed even by yourself, etc. it will take a long time. When I was 22 I committed myself to learning this normie skill, and I'm proud of myself for doing it. You will feel like killing yourself at first, but you'll learn eventually. Just takes time and practice.

I took a dance class once when I was a kid and performed on stage. Never danced since then and I'm 21 now. I wonder if there's anything stored in my brain that I can unlock. How long did it take you?

>ignore the roasty
I can't. It looks like she was laughing at you. Was she? Why did the man buy you iced tea?

I started at 22 and it took about 6 months for me to feel comfortable enough to dance in front of other human beings.

It's more so your nervousness and insecurity that makes people uncomfortable and look at you, not your moves. LITERALLY just bee yourself, it actually applies to dancing. It's all about becoming self-confident and being able to blend with the normalfags.

the roastie did actually get a bit creeped out by me. she over heard us talking and she asked me "are you talking to yourself?" and i simply responded no i'm talking to her and she looked at me like i was a spree shooter and said "oh... okay" and walked away
and im not exactly sure why the guy bought me a drink, he was a really nice guy though. loved talking about himself but w/e free drinks are free drinks

If you don't enjoy it, you are not missing out on anything.

>go to work party
>qt I've been eyeing is there
>got too drunk
>pissed myself and had to call mom to pick me up

How embarrassing

you should have punched her in the throat

Clubs are for dancing and socializing. If you don't dance then you should go to a bar. If you go to a dance club, don't got to hit on women. You should go to dance. If you go to the club by yourself just dance alone on the floor. Just keep on dancing and getting water. If you keep doing this someone will talk to you but, let them know you are just there to dance. The trick to attracting people in the club is to be elusive. If you go in their thirsty, you'll be labeled as a creep.

roasties gonna roast
i was happy chilling with my waifu and enjoying my free drink and having a chat with this other bloke to care what that diseased orifice thought

>go to work party
>get drunk
>run around slapping girls' asses and flirting (I have never done anything like this before)
>faggot betamale gets angry at me
>wake up the next day thinking everyone will hate me for acting like an ass
>thinking I might be fired if they all complain
>all the girls are much more friendly than usual, only betamale cuck hates me
>one of those girls became my gf a while later
>mfw

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no normies are very boring people. i tried losing my virginity at a party but you have to be very sociable and confident. I just want to lose it and never bother with women ever again.

Just get an escort then. It's not different to the one night stand you're looking for and will probably actually be better

No, going to clubs is not a must. Depends where you live. Some people like it others dosent.

don't listen to the other posters in this thread, i'm a virgin 5'4 and i go often to parties, clubs and even raves, you have to let go the idea of fucking some stacy roastie and just get intoxicated with wathever you can get and go dancing, you will have a nice time and you don't have to actually interact with anyone

fuck maybe you are right because I don't see the difference between a prostitute and modern women. both have the same number of sexual partners nowadays. I am still scare because my teacher was arrested for that shit and is now the laughing stock of society. he made it to the news for soliciting prostitutes.

Dancing by myself with no gf in an excruciatingly loud environment with normalfags sounds like pure fucking hell. Literally the only reason I would ever dance would be to court a female. Why are you even there if you're alone and not looking for a female? Just dance at home, dipshit.

man you don't know what you're missing, probably dancing in a crowd it's the best thing to do in life

NO. Pic is very related

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